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She/Her/Hers| West Coast Dominatrix| Goddess, Sadist, Sovereign 🔻Queer Domina ⛓️⛓️

Seattle, San Francisco
Joined July 2017
Don't wanna be here? Send us removal request.
@kinkybarbiedom
✨GoddessCharlotte.com✨
3 years
I can’t in good faith bring a non-vaxxed person into My dungeon space. It’s nearly August 2021. Get your shots.
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@kinkybarbiedom
✨GoddessCharlotte.com✨
5 years
@amandaoee_ There are not enough cool-toned eyeshadow palettes on the market.
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@kinkybarbiedom
✨GoddessCharlotte.com✨
2 years
On a more positive note: Where are My inclusive, lovely Dommes? Where are those who hold space for enby babes? Can you use “they” singular w/o tripping on it? Are you a safe person to talk to about gender? 💜💜💜
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@kinkybarbiedom
✨GoddessCharlotte.com✨
3 years
Stop using “pegging”. Use plain language. It’s called FUCKING MEN IN THE ASS. Thanks for coming to My Ted Talk.
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@kinkybarbiedom
✨GoddessCharlotte.com✨
4 years
Have I been shådowbânned? Can anyone see this?
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@kinkybarbiedom
✨GoddessCharlotte.com✨
5 years
@hollyhoodbackup I’ve seen girls do tricks that could literally break their necks and no one tipping. Like, she did a headstand with her feet on the ceiling and her head balanced on the bar, removing her top with her hands. That deserves some money! Come on!
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@kinkybarbiedom
✨GoddessCharlotte.com✨
6 years
"May be used by any intelligent person."
@WhoresofYore
Whores of Yore
6 years
Young’s Rectal Dilators (c.1905) #Science
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@kinkybarbiedom
✨GoddessCharlotte.com✨
4 years
The first silicone dildo was invented by a Black disabled man named Gosnel Duncan🖤
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@kinkybarbiedom
✨GoddessCharlotte.com✨
3 years
I could live in this mood forever. To Me, there is some strange magic about nightscapes like these that I dial into immediately when I see them.
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breezeh
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Can’t run forever
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@kinkybarbiedom
✨GoddessCharlotte.com✨
4 years
FemDom is about trusting your tastes and letting yourself take up space. It’s less about whips and more about wits. Skills can be acquired, but an unshakable self concept is the key to doing this well. Knowing our worth can be one of the most hard won battles in our lifetime.
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@kinkybarbiedom
✨GoddessCharlotte.com✨
6 years
@WhoresofYore shares the true meaning of Valentine’s Day is #thestrokeofthelash Feeling so seen! ⛓❤️⛓
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@kinkybarbiedom
✨GoddessCharlotte.com✨
3 years
Dark pet play as a sea turtle 🐢
@MeanMolly
💔Divorce Dominatrix💔
3 years
Whose slave is this?
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@kinkybarbiedom
✨GoddessCharlotte.com✨
4 years
FemDom is more than perfectly painted sneers and poses. It’s more than leather, latex, or any fetish fabric. FemDom comes from the radical belief that women are creative, powerful, and lead with grace no matter how different we all may look. FemDom is power, not possessions.
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@kinkybarbiedom
✨GoddessCharlotte.com✨
2 years
Today, I woke up thinking about kneeling as an act of devotion. Kneeling isn’t the easiest thing for submissives for many reasons. I would like to break down the simple act of kneeling into approachable parts for as many bodies as possible. /1
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@kinkybarbiedom
✨GoddessCharlotte.com✨
2 years
Take notes, submissives. If you like to give massage to tired Mistress’ feet after a long session, this is the kind of massage I would prefer.
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@kinkybarbiedom
✨GoddessCharlotte.com✨
3 years
Remember💭 When addressing a Domme (or anyone w/an honorific), you will capitalize their title. It is a proper noun & should be capitalized. Lowercase denotes an object; I am not an object. ❌Hello goddess; Hello mistress ✅Hello Goddess; Hello Mistress See the difference?🔎
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@kinkybarbiedom
✨GoddessCharlotte.com✨
2 years
The masochists and service submissives in our FemDom community that keep showing up and communicating so well are really a gift. If you have offered up your body to Me (past, present, or future) understand that I see your submission as the gift it is. I treasure it.
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@kinkybarbiedom
✨GoddessCharlotte.com✨
3 years
Let’s all collectively lose our minds over these hot stompers! 😍😍😍
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@kinkybarbiedom
✨GoddessCharlotte.com✨
3 years
I’m a sober player. That means I DO NOT combine substance and play. I am intentional with My kink and substance/drink does not align with showing up fully for My submissives. I enjoy a drink on occasion but never feel that it should be included w/play, especially in a dungeon.
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@kinkybarbiedom
✨GoddessCharlotte.com✨
2 years
Deposits are not simply for the Domme to take your money early. Deposits confirm your trust in the process of booking. Deposits convey a seriousness to the adventure of submission. Deposits show respect. What you gain from your session is worth the money you will have spent.
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@kinkybarbiedom
✨GoddessCharlotte.com✨
4 years
Hardest working model in fetish: The acclaimed @emilymarilyn Follow, subscribe, call! Yes, you can actually talk to this gorgeous woman on the phone! #niteflirt
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@kinkybarbiedom
✨GoddessCharlotte.com✨
3 years
Opened My email last night and saw that @DomConLA is going to be a fully vaxxed event. This gives Me so much more peace of mind to know Mistress Cyan puts the health and safety of her event antendees first. Thank you!!!❤️‍🔥
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@kinkybarbiedom
✨GoddessCharlotte.com✨
1 year
Discretion is a tradition within the BDSM scene. You never gloated about where you were going to a play party, you never dressed too revealingly to attract attention from the street. You certainly never talked about who you saw at the event. Please adopt this tradition, too.
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@kinkybarbiedom
✨GoddessCharlotte.com✨
3 years
Who would be up for a meet-up of Queer Femmes at DomCon? I still have to check the schedule, but is there any interest?
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@kinkybarbiedom
✨GoddessCharlotte.com✨
2 years
I locked My account. Please leave a ❤️‍🔥 if you see this. Thank you 🙏
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@kinkybarbiedom
✨GoddessCharlotte.com✨
1 year
Fuck you, Tennessee republicans. It is YOU who will burn in your personal hells for all eternity for making drag shows a felony… This makes Me fucking ill.
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@kinkybarbiedom
✨GoddessCharlotte.com✨
2 years
I’ve always loved how rock climbing harnesses fit on the body. I’d love to put a butt slut in a hoist and fuck them in one of these harnesses. 🪨 🧗
@griph
pathological supply avoidance
2 years
on this lingerie site i’ve never seen before (“REI”?) and they really phoned it in with these garter belts
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@kinkybarbiedom
✨GoddessCharlotte.com✨
2 years
Just got off the phone with a new potential toilet! There’s nothing more sexy or glamorous than squatting over your bound frame in My new catsuit and platform boots and taking a shit into your open mouth. Good toilet 🚽
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@kinkybarbiedom
✨GoddessCharlotte.com✨
1 year
A word on negotiating for a session (ANY session); My preferred negotiation method centers you *choosing* activities, not vetoing My ideas. The onus is on *you* to set boundaries for yourself. If you need help, say so. Take an active role in planning your adventure with Me.
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@kinkybarbiedom
✨GoddessCharlotte.com✨
2 years
I have been quiet as I am in deep grief for the loss of My friend (who’s funeral I will miss) & the senseless shooting and deaths from Club Q. Yesterday was also Trans Day of Remembrance and My deceased Mother’s Birthday on the 19th. I’m still here, just in grief.
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@kinkybarbiedom
✨GoddessCharlotte.com✨
2 years
If you are trans exclusionary, leave and block Me. If you are Islamaphobic, go play on a busy highway. If you are antisemitic, kick rocks down a steep mountain. If you are hateful and bigoted, you’re done, and I will block you. Only joy is allowed, no hate allowed here.
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@kinkybarbiedom
✨GoddessCharlotte.com✨
2 years
If we have played together and I check in to make sure you’re still safe and happy it’s because I really enjoy hurting you. I love rough body play, but I value your health and safety, so that will come first. Always.
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@kinkybarbiedom
✨GoddessCharlotte.com✨
2 years
Please don't message Me if you are already a collared slave to someone else. I will immediately go to your Mistress and make sure they are aware of you stepping so deliberately out of line.
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@kinkybarbiedom
✨GoddessCharlotte.com✨
1 year
Never make a joke about a dead hooker or a dead Domme. I will hit that block button so fast it will make your head spin. Fuck off.
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@kinkybarbiedom
✨GoddessCharlotte.com✨
2 years
Greetings kinksters and curious readers! I thought I would do a little thread on the practice of vetting play partners, personal and professional. Kink has been around for a very long time, but it is only recently that vetting has become more common. /1
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@kinkybarbiedom
✨GoddessCharlotte.com✨
2 years
Looks like one of My sissies is doing a purge. That's too bad. I talk about this binge/purge cycle a lot in My cam shows because I get a lot of sissies. Trying to rid yourself of your sexual wiring is like slicing away a part of your heart. Good luck to you.
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@kinkybarbiedom
✨GoddessCharlotte.com✨
3 years
@kombuchastan @_benjvmins_ Toilet related fetishes don’t harm anyone. If it’s between consenting adults, it’s an intimate moment between one giving and the other receiving. It can be hot, dirty fun, but it’s not for everyone. Age regression isn’t always sexual. The rest I don’t play with.
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@kinkybarbiedom
✨GoddessCharlotte.com✨
1 year
Using gendered terms can be incredibly validating and euphoric for many! Always check in with your bottom/sub and ask what pronouns they use or wish to use in scene. Saying “she/her” when they are in boy headspace is a sure fire way to kill the mood or traumatize the bottom.
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@kinkybarbiedom
✨GoddessCharlotte.com✨
2 years
Goes to Fetlife looking for a worthy submissive, masochist, service bottom, etc. Finds only cishet, white, dick-in-hand dumdums who don't know a flogger from frottage. Gets discouraged, ignores Fetlife for another 6 months. Wash, rinse, repeat.
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@kinkybarbiedom
✨GoddessCharlotte.com✨
3 years
I saw this beauty shining for the first half of the weekend before she departed early and I have to say, she is even more beautiful in person🔥🖤🔥
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@kinkybarbiedom
✨GoddessCharlotte.com✨
2 years
@ludawinthesky As a larger chested babe, it is so nice to see these dresses on larger bosoms! I can never tell if they will fit when I order, the models are often too slender. Going to snatch a few of these beauties! You’re absolutely stunning in ALL OF THEM❤️‍🔥
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@kinkybarbiedom
✨GoddessCharlotte.com✨
3 years
I’ll admit, much of My marketing is to the male gaze, but I have even more experience playing with women and couples. Women can often take much more pain and look so pretty while they suffer🖤
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