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People literally do not understand how suicidality works from a hormonal/neuroscience perspective, but it’s almost like your brain having a car crash. Has very little to do with your conscious mind, which is why protective factors matter a LOT.
This is where “hard” is negligible. That’s exactly the devotion required. I meet people who rush to tell you how hard their marriage is. The people with the high degree of devotion & dedication that actually like each other never have the same tone.
Boris Kodjoe on his 17+ year marriage with Nicole Ari Parker: "It’s putting effort in every single day, it’s work, but I found my person. So there’s nothing that I wouldn’t do to share my life with her."
Your childhood/adolescent trauma? Resolve it. Your adult trauma? Resolve it.
Work at it before it’s a crisis. Time does not heal trauma. It’s active. And you will probably need someone to help you work. There’s no shame in that bc everyone gets knocked around in life.
Lmao, she’s a threat. Her attractiveness is an asset she should never allow to be weaponized against her. There comes a day, and I hope it happens in every woman’s life, where you have to drop anyone’s opinions/feelings beneath your own. In full.
This woman works selling luxury cars. She’s been at her job 10 days.
She just got pulled aside because her coworkers spouses are complaining about what she’s wearing to work.
They said because she’s curvier maybe she should wear polo and slacks instead.
I already know the ignant shit about to start but it’s threaded hair by hair. By hand. And blessed. And it’s not South Asian hair. This not AliExpress.
You go into physical and metaphorical foveal view and completely lose perspective. You cannot see a way out and your beliefs start to warp. This is why I am so serious about congruence. Please remember I started in the VA.
Get comfortable asking people what their intentions are. All people. And if they’re offended, ask yourself why that is. A person who genuinely means you no harm won’t be offended, they’ll just clarify. And you don’t want to be around those people who use “nice” as a shield either
The fact that most of the black rappers that were considered ‘radical’ and ‘for the people’ ended up being black conservatives in the 21 century is comical.
People with low self-esteem will do egregious shit and then get upset you didn’t want to have a roundtable with them about it. Once I noticed this pattern, I truly tightened up because it’s very easy to extend enablement disguised as compassion where there should be a boundary.
Trevor Noah is right, but I hate that positioning as “Black women as the oracle.” We have full lives to live, we’re not here to rescue you from yourselves because you don’t want to learn cause & effect.
Clean up the script before you’re in crisis because once you’re already there, it is VERY hard to pull someone back. If you are ideating and you say something, you are in way better shape than the average person who actually dies by suicide. It’s like a hostile brain takeover
You know what can actually intervene? Breathwork. It’s very bizarre. But it’s effective. In the moment. Until you can get to help. So take this seriously. This is an epidemic.
Don’t get me wrong, this should not be discouraging. But please, I’m begging you, tell a qualified person. Tell anybody but a qualified person preferably. Tell people I feel like I’m losing control. And get the intervention! Chemicals are great!
A lot of adults who were once high achieving children were essentially praised for how much neglect they could withstand and how prematurely they could be independent. After enough of this, your perceived value becomes inextricable from your capacity to “figure it out.”
Why breathwork as an intervention is effective? I suspect it has something to do with dopamine and hallucinogen release. When you’re dying, you get quite literally go on a trip. I’m telling you the truth from a clinical perspective so you can understand the mechanics.
Stop letting men “test” you to see if you’re worthy of more. You are not a jalopy. No coffee or walk dates. No staying when you notice they’re breadcrumbing. No bartering. Please.
If there’s any part of you that finds it difficult to put self-respect in action in love, heal it.
And I need y’all to stop messing around with hallucinogens for funsies without guidance. Random, but that’s it, that’s all. You do not always know what you are wading into.
It’s mysterious but it’s really not. You need to protect yourself. I use this frequently. The face of breathwork is currently white but my tribe knew this. Your people probably did, too.
You’re probably not getting what you want because you’re a liar.
You lie about what you want, you lie about the objective, you lie about what you’re willing to do for it, you lie about where you are, and you lie about what your intuition is telling you. Honest results ensue.
Crying @ the different interps of this tweet. Yes, I mean checking. Yes, I mean also living multiple places. Shopping when I get there has only happened once and it was enough, won’t be doing that again (as far as I know).
The Saturnian child experience (Capricorn, Aquarius, sometimes Libra) is not realizing other people, especially other kids, get help. You just kind of get on with it. There’s no one to complain to and rarely is anyone sympathetic. There’s a lot of raising yourself.
Some of the “spiritual leaders” are actively in psychosis, which is why you need discernment. You are your most effective leader and you can only recognize good leadership when you’ve discernment down.
There’s no reason for you to know this if you’re not an Orthodox Jewish woman, so it’s ok to not know but not everything is jokes or your worldview. Sometimes listen and learn.
Platonic partnership is the future for a lot of people and before you wait for anyone to “normalize it,” you might consider if that’s actually what works for you. I think a lot of women are more willing to be good partners to other women than they are to men now.
You have that little period where you see the playground bullies either sink or dominate again, then the kids who didn’t know they had power spend the next ~20 years growing into it. Or they sometimes don’t.
If I truly care for you and you severely disrespect me, you don’t gain access to the same version of me again. Ever. We may occasionally have cause for proximity or even do things we used to, but it just simply will not go as deep and you will never “know” me.
@TheBrookeAsh
Where did she say that you can’t wear your Birkin? 😭 That’s the part I’m missing with all this controversy. If no one can tell people what to wear, why is she speaking?
empathy burnout is real
after all these years of understanding the people around you, trying to put yourself on their situation, putting others first before you, and now you're drained & have became indifferent. +
I used to be an “I don’t think it’s that serious” person with small acts of disrespect, but… it is that serious. Because it will escalate. And the energy of disdain is repellent to good things, so I don’t want that anywhere in my field. And apathy is gross, too. Very unalive.
A lot of people don’t fully realize how they’ve been traumatized by the last couple of years because we’ve been sold a myth of normality. Nothing is normal.
The longer it goes unaddressed is the longer certain parts of you atrophy. This kind of foggy vibe actually isn’t ok.
I’m recalling my frustration at all of the things I had to do by myself and thinking about how in university, which is a relief for some people, they cut the parents out in weird ways. You become the first line of defense dealing with shit you know nothing about.
Can I tell you something I’ve noticed? In most cases, when relationships break up it’s not exactly about what’s going on, it’s whether or not you choose to go through it together. That’s deceptively simple but it’s true.
@AunteeRik
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Gen X dealt with so much normalized predation. Hell, I’m a late millennial at best and in high school, some of us were “dating” 30 year olds
My parents fucked me up because they were fucked up. They’re not bad people.
They just had never experienced having enough love and they never had healthy relating modeled. I simply wasn’t loved enough and I was very loved. The sky won’t fall if you admit it. There’s more.
Rather than be embarrassed over what you used to accept, breathe through the grief and get excited for what you get to accept now. People waste so much time in the “I’m embarrassed.” It happened, what can you do? Live now.
@xoxo__luvv
@AlmondTiddies
So he’s underemployed, wants to “lead,” clearly does have a fetish, is attracted to Black women allegedly because he thinks they believe in God, submission, and paying bills, and thinks he’s out of her league. Yikes
If you’ve been lucky enough to never have been abused or groomed, you probably don’t know what a long shadow that can cast. When that happens to someone, let alone before their pre-frontal cortex develops, what do you think that does? 🤔
I just gotta say it: the general sense of “non-attachment” aka avoidance & tactlessness expressed as “maturity” is so sick. 😭 Like SO sick. That’s not non-attachment, it’s dysfunctional attachment.
Afro-Latinos are Black people, they’re just Black people from Latin America. It’s just geography. People try to make it out to be so exotic or like you’re generally more mixed with white, but the average Af-Am is 1/4 white genetically. We’re all Black.
One of the funniest things I’ve unlearned is making people feel better about mistreating me. I’m never going to be an “it’s ok” person again. Because it’s not. Come correct or face the consequences. 🤷🏽♀️
@kkambaby
Stay in their field of vision and start humming. If they’re receptive to it, hold them. Do not stop humming. If you can get close enough to stimulate the vagus nerve (massage the base of the skull down to the shoulders), do so. Encourage them to breathe. Exaggerate your breath
You are never going to be the first priority to someone with kids, and if you are, are they the type of person you’d want to partner with?
MY MAN MY MAN MY MAN. YO MAN LEFT HIS KIDS FO DEAD, HOE.
…what you think he gonna do to you?
Healing trauma is an active process. Time is not going to do shit for you. The only reason “time” gives the illusion of helping is that you get more things to think about/more experiences to refer to.
Women with bad partners are usually only able to sustain that partnership by using other women as supplements. I refuse to enable it.
There are other ways to cultivate community. We don’t have to do that to one another. That’s misogyny in action.
You get so free when you realize there’s actually nothing you can do to sour *your people* on you as long as you are being yourself. I’m not an easy woman. There are lots of people who love me anyway.
You will go into debt as femme (material, relational, or energetic) entertaining a man who does not show up to make your life easier through labor, money, and/or other forms of ease. Please spare yourselves. Go look in the mirror and remember who you are.