@dahliadutchess
@Jayy_xi
I relate to you so much! I’ve been deathly afraid to express myself or even say how I feel because it would either anger my mother or I would be judged. It started happening at a very young age & I became closed off & unable to tell people how they hurt me.😭
@notdanilu
I was working at Meijer (it’s like Walmart but it’s in the Midwest) & a lady asked me why her children don’t like her. She was buying a bunch of clothes & shoes for them. she asked me why was she buying them things when they hate her & I was just standing there like :
@notdanilu
I want to add that she spent quite a lot of money that day too. She wanted an answer for why her children hated her & all I did was awkwardly smile while telling her I didn’t know. how do you even answer a question like that? I was a cashier not a family therapist😭
FBA’s are truly some of the stupidest most miserable people I’ve ever encountered on this app. It’s not even funny it’s just concerning, they hate themselves so much and I find it to be so pathetic.
@Vishi_Divine
I didn’t know the exact number but I know it’s quite common. I think about the way people blame girls for being in relationships with grown men by calling them “fast”. Never once considering who initiated said relationship nor questioning why an adult is dating a child.
@relientkenny
@mxniquejade_
It’s very bothersome to me because I date women , when you meet girls who are just gay “for fun” it’s just aggravating & most of all disappointing. When me & so many other women take our sexuality & romance seriously…
@sleekjane02
@Jhus
That’s exactly what it is torture I’ve been through this & it hurts so bad. & then he would come back & act like nothing happened & would play the idiot when I became upset about it.
@_HoneeBee
@SheaButterBeaut
@Ca5per_15
@stacytthiru
Ah yes saying “someone else has had it harder” certainly is beneficial to people with trauma & not at all invalidating. Even though trauma changes the literal chemistry of peoples brains , y’all are wild.
@fiveonemami
@glo_bamba
I’ve never been told this in my therapy sessions. I have been told that may share their findings with other mental health professionals though. If you don’t feel comfortable with telling them the full story you may have to find a professional better suited for you.
@ggcmaC
@slayadidanca
@prettybaddie27
@pretty0riginal
no one should be allowed to dictate how another individual should behave regardless of gender. the only person you have control over is yourself , also those “recommendations” you’re speaking of are usually always demeaning or disrespectful.
@dahliadutchess
@Jayy_xi
I know exactly how you feel. I want you to know that you don’t need to apologize for how you feel. Even if you think it might make someone upset your feelings are valid. I’m learning that now trying to heal from the past & love myself. & re parent myself as well! You got this❤️
@_kiyyomi
@darealnique_
It is especially if every 5 minutes your hear “you’re not promoting my music enough” “do you even know the words to my song??” “Post my music on all your social media” i was OVER IT
@prettblkb
@faamousstyy
pleasuring yourself doesn’t mean you’ve had sex before it just means you’re capable of sexual arousal which is the case for a majority of the population.
@melanatedmomma
I was taught that my menstrual cycle was something I was suppose to keep hidden. I was told that the men of the house don’t want to see nor hear about it. I was chastised as a child every time my pads were visible in the trash can.
@MamiTsunami4
@diijahhhhhh
being fetishized is wrong & certainly a byproduct of colorism. Though from my understanding being fetishized is more of a social issue than a systematic one. Social prejudice & systematic discrimination aren’t the same.
@ace_darob
@YngSkwalk
@mefeater
@HI_imMARLO
It’s sad nobody is trying to dispute that Miss Universe is South African. We are just celebrating Black women as a whole but for some reason being associated with AA is disrespectful? It confuses me🥴
@JarrelGTV
@HoodSocialist
Oi I’ll just say this a women’s “value” has zero to do with what some men think of her. Your worth is determined by you & you alone ;)
@justjogleason
Actually no. Being a Cancer sun & rising didn’t bother me at all. Being a Capricorn moon is what threw me off because aren’t Capricorn & Cancer sister signs??
@o_keilani
I officially broke up with him for good last month! The cycle we were in together was so unhealthy. I had been trying to break it off with him for months now but never had the courage to do so until just recently🥺
@sleekjane02
@Jhus
Yes!! They make it seem like you’re overdoing it & it makes you feel even worse...because you don’t want to be nagging them or trying to pick fights but your feelings are hurt & you wanna talk about it. I believe there’s some unresolved issues in them they’ve not yet dealt with
@lazygorrl
@Shomicita
That’s not a boundary babe, someone having an already established relationship with another individual & you not liking it isn’t at all what boundaries entail. If anything it’d be more of a personal preference, he prefers to date women who don’t have close male friends.
@PeterTheLeo
@marfiveforty
Ah yes people who live in extreme poverty certainly do have the ability to save $2000 even though their living pay check to pay check right?
@JarrelGTV
@HoodSocialist
Lmao I already do you should take my advice & give that shit a try sis then maybe you wouldn’t be worried about the “value” of a woman. 🤣
@o_keilani
The way baby boy wouldn’t let me leave his apartment & stood behind the door asking me to calm down after hurting my feelings & I proceeded to date him for 2 years even after that🥴 He was so controlling & aggressive I didn’t even realize what I had gotten myself into
In order to stop “attracting” unavailable people, you have to become MORE available to yourself. This means, stop putting others needs above your own, stick to your boundaries and non negotiables, & stop chasing people that aren’t interested. Give energy where is reciprocated.
Y’all are truly terrible people. People loving their faces and bodies shouldn’t even concern you Allah made all of us unique and special. You need to get a life you miserable freak.
@ehimeora
@SoulFree__
@DeltaTail16
how do I get to know my ancestors & how do I find them? I’ve been drawn towards magic & spirits for quite some time but don’t know where to start or how..
@tomboy_friend
oh my gosh the amount of times I’ve experienced this is truly awful. Any time I expressed how traumatized I was they’d offer to “help” me & then a little while later they’d ask me to be their girlfriend.😭
All of y’all who feel this way need to educate yourself with UNBIASED OBJECTIVE information. Y’all listen to individuals with zero critical thinking skills and superiority complexes who desire to be just like the yt man. All of y’all who adhere to these ideals need serious help.
@Jeessie_00
@DemetriusHarmon
I was literally thinking the same especially when you add those shipping prices , i love him but he could’ve taken off 10 or 15 more dollars 😩
I didn’t really get any pics last night but I got sooo many videos. Last night was beautiful man, thank you so much
@heisrema
you really are amazing, we love you! Raver 4 life!🥺❤️🦇
You get a thrill out of watching children be abused. It's not all that surprising that you would spew more ignorance like shaming people for their financial status, it's pretty on brand.
For everyone offended by this tweet, I apologize, sincerely, that your parents raised a bunch of cry baby bitches who cry and complain on the internet and go to sleep thinking that they’ve done right in this world. I’m successful as fuck because of my parents and y’all broke. Bye
@empresskalani
it’s interesting that you would say this when most if not all of the pictures on her page is of her in natural hair styles. she’s worn maybe 1 or 2 wigs and the rest of the styles are her in locs or braids.😕
@beeasyjrizzy
@jvaughnmaxwell
@yungmandaa
So it’s easier for you to believe that men can go without sex but for women you circle back to “these bitches b lying” interesting. As if 6 months is a long period of time? not having sex for any period of time isn’t unrealistic regardless of gender.
I’ve dated men like this before and it’s aggravating. When you’re presenting new concepts, words, and ways of life outside of what they already understand and are familiar with, they try and argue you down instead of listening to you🤕
@moneyymaya
I’ve had an ex friend like this. they would never usually like my photos , they would do such big shout outs on other friends birthday’s but never mine , they would never compliment me on social media the way they did with other friends. I would feel jealous & sad about it
@melanatedmomma
After a while my mother got tired of me disposing of them “incorrectly” so she made me wrap my pads in newspaper , if we didn’t have any newspaper I had to wrap my pads in tissue. Anytime a pad unraveled in the trash I was treated like I did something wrong or disgusting.
@Hoemaker5
@dstnybaby
Just because you refuse to believe that humanity can be this cruel doesn’t mean that it’s a lie. Humans can be down right evil and that includes family, next time think before you speak. You don’t know her to claim she’s telling lies it’s her experience not YOURS.🙏🏾
@KittyCrossfire
@marcellorde
@NaeSimon
if someone feels like I’m being a burden I’d rather them just tell me , I can work out another way to get where I need to be. It’s all about communication , my feelings won’t be hurt if I’m told that i can’t be picked up.
@CarterCorleone
@CallHerApple
Not being self aware isn’t a bw trait there’s a good lot of people who aren’t self aware & can’t look at themselves objectively. It doesn’t have anything to do with gender in my opinion
@noduke_
@marria__renee
@sofiareumert
@HeyPariss
they can market themselves by hiring hair models. your clients shouldn’t be free advertisement for you unless they’d like to be. if they only want the service & no photos taken or posted that is their right.
@RasChris89
@bfromthesea
This is some really nasty stuff to be saying about a complete stranger. just because something doesn’t appeal to you doesn’t mean it needs to be “fixed”. Your spirit must be wicked
@y3m4l
@LoveOrchid12
@damilolaadenik7
@yekapilled
@OLODOIDE1
@koravi_uiux
You’re not making much sense I’m sorry. Anyone can be r*ped including you, you don’t know how it feels because it hasn’t happened to you but it very well could. Doesn’t mean you should lack empathy for other human beings. All this situation requires is critical thinking skills
@_Djonesss
@nhoodpublicist
you can’t even respond to valid criticism without degrading or insulting someone else and we’re suppose to believe you when you say you’re joking….? the language that you use towards other people is indicative of your character whether it’s a “joke” or not.