I dated this girl who had several pairs
Of white jeans and I slowly threw all of them away. Looking back, that was fucked up. However it may have been a necessary evil.
Getting what I want (within reason) will always make me happy. Mostly because there is never a valid reason to not give me what I want, unless you don’t want to.
If I’m paying $1300 for braids, I need my hair washed and blow dried, wine served, snacks with an optional meal, someone rubbing my feet, my favorite movie on and I need to be out the door in two hours.