here’s a tip for all the subs who don’t make that much/have much money:
make sure your domme’s
•coffee/smoothie/drinks
•meals/groceries
•nails/pedicure
•little purchases she made
are covered. these are things that CAN be less than $100 that give you no excuse to not
red flags in subs🚩🚩🚩
•debt contract
•asking for paypal
•asking for verification
•not sending an intial tribute before speaking
•telling you they get paid later on & that they’ll send then
•asking to do a cash meet without even serving online
•saying “use me” without
here’s why initial tributes are so important:
•weeds out timewasters
•shows how dedicated a sub is/can get
•shows a domme that a sub know his place
•knows that a dommes time is valuable
i respect a sub who tells me they’re tapping out bc they ran out of $ during a session than just ghosting. communication is so important. the next time a sub does that & comes back- i get so turned off no matter how much he’s sent
a sub that sends thousands and a sub that sends ten are both important. i understand people’s money is different and it’s relative. as long as you’re sacrificing what you can.
if you’re expecting more than just me telling you to “send” “double it” etc then you also need to put in the same effort. dming me “hey” without a tribute just makes me want to reply with “send”. this is a two way street. make a good first impression. that will get you further
if youre not able to send big amounts, i think being useful is key. always being on the look out for some smaller reimbursements such as coffees, meals, nails, gas, etc. the amount you have/make should never hinder you from serving. be proactive.
i accept most subs.
the criteria for subs are: eager to serve, makes sacrifices, tries their best, & is consistent.
i don’t discriminate. i feel that regardless of the amount, being a sub who just tries & gives it his all makes the most impression
i respect a sub who tells me they’re tapping out bc they ran out of $ during a session than just ghosting. communication is so important. the next time a sub does that & comes back- i get so turned off no matter how much he’s sent
i’ve never locked up my bf, so this will be new for us. has any sub had a gf who locked them up? or any dommes who have explored that with them? im curious as to if i’m going to go easy on him bc im dating him too
the thought of turning a vanilla man into a submissive is so entertaining. i make it my life goal to turn every man into a sub and taking whatever they have to offer from them
i think both subs and dommes should remember as much as the fantasy is to have subs drain their entire account, that these are real life people. sometimes with families etc. and in this specific d/s relationship, subs will trust us with their finances and sometimes will try to go
i am not a ethical domme, i’m just realistic. i’m not nice, i just know how finances work. i’m not just “accepting” your little tributes for fun, im training you to send little consistently until i program you to start sending everything. if you see me “acting nice” it’s just
no findommes actually need your money, we WANT it. thats the huge difference. if you have any thoughts of us needing YOUR chump change, then you're in the wrong fetish. nexttttttt
here’s a tip for all the subs who don’t make that much/have much money:
make sure your domme’s
•coffee/smoothie/drinks
•meals/groceries
•nails/pedicure
•little purchases she made
are covered. these are things that CAN be less than $100 that give you no excuse to not
one thing about subs is they can tell who’s lazy with their sessions/tweets. i think dommes don’t realize that demanding money constantly or even just tweeting lazy things like “pay me etc.” is probably the reason why subs don’t even want to sacrifice anything but maybe $5 or
a lot of subs mix femdom and findom up. i know there are alot of subs who don’t have much money but asking me to humiliate you or wanting to be a IRL slave basically is something i am not into. now if money was added into the equation- im into it. but remember im a FINdomme.
the stupidest thing i’ve ever heard is a dommme refusing a sub bc of how little he can give them. i’ve been raised to find every use in every single man in my life. that sub some dommmes deny are the same subs who don’t have much money but makes sure i have my meals paid or
i’ve been super into making subs send me voice messages of them barking. & i like them barking in a specific way. i have two little 3-4lbs tea cup puppies that have such a cute soft bark that i makeeee sure subs bark like a small dog rather than a big loud one🤣 & it has to be
i’ve noticed smaller/newer dommes always get their panties in a bunch when they find out another domme “copied their tweets” (don’t get me wrong when i first started, i did too)
but, you quickly realize in this fetish there’s only so many ways to say the same everything time.
my vibe is more of a spoiled brat demanding what i deserve vs like a hard dominatrix. i’m more of a “i’ve been given everything i wanted in my life since i was born” so why aren’t you licking the ground i walk on and giving me everything i want
unpopular opinion: both d/s should be happy for the relationship to work. i dont want a bunch of community sluts who send once in a blue moon, i want subs who send me a portion of their paychecks bi-weekly/monthly or their bonuses they receive. i want to control your finances
if you’re expecting more than just me telling you to “send” “double it” etc then you also need to put in the same effort. dming me “hey” w/out a tribute just makes me want to reply with “send”. this is a 2 way street. make a good first impression. that will get you further w me
a sub that sends thousands and a sub that sends ten are both important. i understand people’s money is different and it’s relative. as long as you’re sacrificing what you can.