@hysterekal00
this is the same person who argued with me about whether or not im male & told me im using "copegenders" and not actually bigender but a sad trans woman ๐ญ๐ญ๐ญ
@maribugss
so u agree that "non man" is a harmful label used to put nonbinary people into a neobinary but you dont fuck w lesbians who dont identify with the nmlnm definition of lesbianism??????????????
@maribugss
nmlnm is a very new and really enbyphobic definition of lesbianism. most older lesbians identify with "loving women queerly" which isnt exclusive to any gender.
@FUNHOU5E
exactly what ive been saying. trying to join para servers but they have a "no contact discourse" rule.. like no actually we should not curate safe spaces for offenders in para communities
@boyhostage
@revitandroll
this paired with how jason definitely cries during sex is driving me crazy. hes squirming and tears are rushing over his temples as hes laid on his back being rode to death. poor boy๐๐๐
nobody on twitter has any goddamn common sense cuz yall see 24h daycare and think people r dropping their kids off to stay for 24 hours. yall LIE every goddamn day about supporting struggling single parents
@cuentadobl29591
@SanduTiTa
no it's not actually. nobody is demanding that lesbianism include more genders, its the fact that it always HAS included more than just women and because of terfism, people are pushing for exclusionism.
@vixencxre
@FUNHOU5E
as a syshost, leave op alone and quit projecting your perception onto them even after theyve corrected you, its annoying and weird.
@DrewCas68
@AlexisAdcock5
i was 9 and very obviously intersex. born with male characteristics and features but started menstruating. people look at me now and call me a man. i definitely wasn't a woman.
can we cut the puritan take of "ur wasting your artistic talent by drawing things that arent clean and digestible"? talented nsfw artists are still talented artists
@cuentadobl29591
@SanduTiTa
butch is a role that you play within a relationship and doesnt always mean youre a woman actually. also bi lesbians predate the internet so erm
@cryztism
@IsabellaScar2
hi another intersex person here, i use the mspec lesbian label BECAUSE being intersex impacts my sexuality. dont be a big baby.
@Trans_Lykeia
rrright cuz growing up a boy, then socially and medically transitioning is a very cys experience. you are exorsexist and need to reevaluate.
@Sooty0909
@futharksys
@SanduTiTa
idk if a man who likes men says hes straight, telling him that hes gay could put him in danger or distress. i dont think other people's labels are your business!
@OctaviusGilmour
@vamps4idv
he can identify as straight or he can identify as gay/bi. its up to him and his boyfriend and what theyre both comfortable with.
@Nameles69420
@ammonyaa
they intersect. someone who wears diapers out of necessity could want to reclaim their sexual autonomy in the form of fetish and kink. theres nothing wrong with that.
@sytwt_
@libunitylover
literally nobody is invalidated in that situation. its a lesbian who PURPOSELY identifies as a lesbian and a gay who PURPOSELY identifies as gay and theyre BOTH very content with eachothers labels and theyre in love. whats invalidating is telling this couple they need to change.
the "boy look" has always been a popular thing, theres literally an attractive women genre chart and one of them is "women who have boyish charm"
like what is your deal
@maribugss
saying that all nonbinary people can be classified under "non man" is unhelpful and misgenders alot of us. im bigender, meaning im a man and a woman. bigender is a nonbinary identity but that doesnt make bigender people "non men" inherently.
@JoyMoone
@shitter56536736
@SanduTiTa
youre trying to psychoanalyze me based on my gender and youre failing. extremely hard. i really dont know what you expect to get out of this because all ur doing is making me uncomfortable
@choerrybian
@noodlestruck
i hope you have never claimed to be a good person, itd be shame if lying is what put you in hell instead of something cool like the rest of us
@lolicon600
i was proship as a youngin and then i was "recovering" because i wanted my friends to not tell me to kms and then i realized maybe im worth more than that and now im proship again. i assume a similar scenario for those people
@maribugss
yeah okay but nonbinary people can still be men. to say that lesbianism is only nmlnm (which denying other definitions is an issue within itself) and saying nonbinary people are inherently included is definitely transphobic.
@YakuShiiro
this isnt an anti vs proship situation, many other proshippers are upset with them because they draw a character in the likeness of a real child actor. thats not okay. that IS considered csem at that point.
just to clarify, if somebody says theyre anti-contact, that means they SHOULD be perfectly fine with being excluded from spaces that have "toasters". social contact is included in anti-contact.
@maribugss
nmlnm also removes alot of really important lesbians in our history, since lots of butches have been nonbinary men and lesbian trans men are such an important influence on sapphic history.
@cuentadobl29591
@SanduTiTa
if you feel like someone else's experience with queerness invalidates your own, thats something you should speak to a therapist about and not try to change someone else's labels about
@vexingtheatrics
@littleboypaws
paraphilias are usually caused by trauma. we have no control over attractions. thought crimes arent real, like 80% of sex offenders are sadists, not attracted to their victim. paraphiles arent evil
@JoyMoone
@shitter56536736
@SanduTiTa
regardless of sex and gender theory, i think if someone tells you u should stop trying to convince them theyre female because its making them uncomfortable, maybe you should stop
@cuentadobl29591
@SanduTiTa
plenty intersex cis people identify with queer labels, i dont know your experience with gender so who am i to tell you who you are
@S0phie_Salt
@lonerjunk
theres obviously more than one way to be queer but you cant like. "pretend" to be queer. queerness is built around the perception of being abormal.