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๐Š๐ฅ๐š๐ฎ๐ฌ๐ž๐ง๐›๐ž๐ซ๐  (๐›๐š๐œ๐ค ๐ฎ๐ฉ)

@iamklausenberg

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๐…๐š๐ญ๐ก๐ž๐ซ. ๐‡๐ฎ๐ฌ๐›๐š๐ง๐. ๐•๐ข๐ฏ๐š๐ฆ๐ฎ๐ฌ, ๐ฆ๐จ๐ซ๐ข๐ž๐ง๐๐ฎ๐ฆ ๐ž๐ฌ๐ญ. ๐Œ๐จ๐ซ๐ฌ ๐œ๐ž๐ซ๐ญ๐š, ๐ก๐จ๐ซ๐š ๐ข๐ง๐œ๐ž๐ซ๐ญ๐š. ๐’๐ž๐ฆ๐ฉ๐ž๐ซ ๐ข๐ง๐ฏ๐ข๐œ๐ญ๐š

Selangor, Malaysia
Joined April 2022
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๐Š๐ฅ๐š๐ฎ๐ฌ๐ž๐ง๐›๐ž๐ซ๐  (๐›๐š๐œ๐ค ๐ฎ๐ฉ)
1 year
Social media helps to show you how people truly feel or think. It is a good thing. At least you have the choice on whether to rock with them or bounce. No hard feelings.
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7 months
Let me share a personal story. When I met my wife, I did all the chores and cooked and cleaned and took care of both of us. I wanted to ensure I was the kind of man who wouldn't hear how the woman contributed even a sweat for me.
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7 months
Alright, let's get back to class. Please read this DM from a 25 year old lady, dating a 34 year old man. Young lady, The reason I asked if your man is a follower is because I wanted to use your DM to teach him & caution him. Unfortunately, he isn't. But I'm proud of what
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8 months
Nothing validates the "Women don't love men" phrase like a woman who forgives her man of infidelity. I mean, if you loved him, you would be willing to break up and leave him... but you won't. Why? "Because society expects a woman to forgive?" Come on, tell another lie.
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If you are planning on getting married this year as a man. OPEN THIS THREAD
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๐Š๐ฅ๐š๐ฎ๐ฌ๐ž๐ง๐›๐ž๐ซ๐  (๐›๐š๐œ๐ค ๐ฎ๐ฉ)
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When you are advised to avoid fraudulent means of making money. Or to avoid women who have dated fraudulent men. As harsh as the approach Jon Doe uses, might sound, it's for your own good. You see, how you make money is very crucial to your development.
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@jon_d_doe A man has to be temporarily hated for the greater good of his family. Let her see you as a controlling, archaic, misogynist if it makes her feel better. But she will thank him for making her a good woman and wife. Protecting women is shielding them from themselves.
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8 months
A woman who's a good cook but sexually inexperienced. Would make a "good wife" to most men. A woman who's good in bed but a horrible chef. Would make a "good side chick" to most men. Now, why is that the case? I am glad you asked. Men love to teach. Women love to fix.
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If you know how ruthless women are with the men they don't like. You'd understand why you need to dump her for telling you that, "he is harmless and not someone you should worry about." She doesn't want to be "mean" by blocking him, but she didn't hesitate to block you.
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๐Š๐ฅ๐š๐ฎ๐ฌ๐ž๐ง๐›๐ž๐ซ๐  (๐›๐š๐œ๐ค ๐ฎ๐ฉ)
1 year
Nigerian movies are stepping up athe notch. However, they should reduce the rate at which they sell certain narratives. 1. Men don't forgive cheating. Stop making them in the movies. 2. When a husband and the wife quarrels, the husband doesn't leave his house or go to sofa.
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7 months
A man in love thinks he can see but he is blind. It's the genuine friends around that man that can tell him the truth that he isn't seeing. Take your mother's advice and act like things are good. Don't self-sabotage. Learn or learn the hard way.
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8 months
Slurs women use to let you know you are a dunce: 1. Real man 2. Secure man 3. Wholesome man 4. Intentional man 5. Understanding man 6. This man etc. A woman who uses these terms to describe you is doing things that'd hurt your feelings if you found out.
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7 months
She's a master chef now and does everything else, effortlessly. Being the teachable kind, she's always open to learning and correction. Now, why I shared this is so you can realise that, I don't have a perfect marriage. And that, his friends are looking out for him.
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7 months
If a man's friend thinks you are a "whore" and they are still friends. Trust and believe that your man sees you as a whore. A man's friends are his inner voice and they loudly talk about whatever he feels too cowardly to talk about. So, when you think "My man doesn't complain"
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7 months
See, how I got to know that all the while I was cooking and she didn't offer to cook for me, it wasn't because she could cook and I didn't want to stress her. It was because she couldn't cook. Meanwhile, I was blindly in love but snapped back to reality with that feedback.
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7 months
Plus I don't like stressing the friends around me. But when I wanted to take things to the next level, I sent her home because we were abroad at the time. She spent time with my siblings and everyone gave their remarks.
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Fortunately, my sisters already loved her like I did and they just wanted her to be comfortable. My brother and she became best friends. She was interesting to be around. But she couldn't cook. She could clean but she would dodge, given the chance.
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7 months
As a married man, I've had to scrutinise some "good" girls for my guy friends and many times, those I signal are faking it, are. The ones I sanction, are solid. Courtesy of experience, no woman thinks she's a bad woman. None. All women are saints in their books or victims.
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๐Š๐ฅ๐š๐ฎ๐ฌ๐ž๐ง๐›๐ž๐ซ๐  (๐›๐š๐œ๐ค ๐ฎ๐ฉ)
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I mean, a doctor who isn't arrogant, especially in this feminism era... You cook, clean, respectful and is young and doesn't think it's "predatory." You are a gold mine. However, whatever the friends are regurgitating, it's because your man feels or felt that way.
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But courtesy of my family, I was able to figure out that she wasn't "too good to be true." That's the problem this lady is having. His friends believe that you are "too good to be true." And it's because your man feels that way. He thinks you are "unbelievable."
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7 months
Yes, the wrong thing being said about a man's woman might cause a fight. So, men need some kind of "permission" from another man before they can dive into addressing the issues of that man. They respect each other's boundaries and don't meddle except he asks them to.
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7 months
Ask his friends or check how his friends perceive you. You will have your answer. I digress. Don't blame them, they believe they are looking out for their guy. It's not entirely because they married wrong. Men hardly bring up their women in conversations to avoid bad blood.
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Dear mothers, There are actions you MUST shield your daughters from. Granted that you know they have "grown" and can have an opinion. Just ensure that "opinion" doesn't cost them their future. Many mothers feel "proud" when their children challenge their fathers.
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7 months
Amongst men, accountability is key. We can tell ourselves the truth. Men are self-aware and know their limitations. So, don't ever think those friends of your man, are counselling him from a place of their bias, or insecurities.
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7 months
They are counselling him from a place of PATTERN. The pattern is a modus operandi. It could be for a man or woman. So, women can typically present themselves to be okay with everything and anything, just to secure the ring. Your man is in love with you.
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Traditionally, a man pays the bride price. The woman kneels to serve him palm wine, in her hand. That is her proposing to submit to his leadership. He accepts the wine to signal that he accepts her proposal. That's how it should be. Learn or learn the hard way.
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@jon_d_doe @MartmagMS You and Jordan Peterson, who cry pass?๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿคฃ Many sweet DMs they always cause you to cry, ehen.
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๐Š๐ฅ๐š๐ฎ๐ฌ๐ž๐ง๐›๐ž๐ซ๐  (๐›๐š๐œ๐ค ๐ฎ๐ฉ)
8 months
Working hard for money will: 1. Teach you time management. 2. Teach you how to save money. 3. Teach you how to be frugal. 4. Save your life by putting you in the right circle. 5. Teach you how to plan. 6. Improve your confidence. 7. Ensure you don't panic at the sight of police.
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8 months
Never kneel to propose to a woman. Doing that hands authority over to her. You can't claim to be the "PRIZE" while kneeling. Kneeling is an act of surrender. Never kneel for someone who you'd take full responsibilities for. Learn or learn the hard way.
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fan of my countries movies than the foreign ones, that can't stop forcing me to accept two men kissing and having sex out of the blue.
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5. Your wife will praise herself for all the things she did right and blame you for all the things she did wrong. Ensure she's someone who "earned" that privilege.
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1 year
@jon_d_doe It's not a thing of joy when it seems like we are "mocking" people's poor choices by laughing or chuckling over it. It's rather a thing of disgust and regret. Someone now has to suffer for an avoidable decision. You put FEELINGS above everything else. Now, a child will suffer.
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8 months
Ever wondered why women who are raised by men tend to have better outcomes? It is because the men in their lives were ready to be temporarily hated for their greater good. Women are naturally designed to be chaotic and their emotions are always in disarray.
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1 year
3. Stop making being a single mother cute because it's not. 4. No, women aren't victims of men's lies and what not, they pick shitty men. 5. A man paying his wife's ex to leave her alone. So, un-Nigerian. Aside from these crippling narratives, I think I am becoming more of a
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Children are more loyal to their feelings than their parent's sacrifice. That's why women are compared to children. Children like women, think about themselves first. To hell with everyone else. Learn or learn the hard way.
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8 months
I want every man to be ruthless with these points because they will serve as a guide to aid your decision-making. Don't "Nobody is perfect" yourself into making a bad deal and settling for less. Know your worth and never apologise for that. Learn or learn the hard way.
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2 years
Quite very practical, it's during cohabiting you realise that "taking toothpaste from the middle, while he talks from the bottom" could bring a big issue between you both. It is also during that time you guys have series of mean conversations like body count, financial plan,
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ร€gbร  John Doe
2 years
Beyond marriage counseling, I'll strongly advise that you cohabit with your intended spouse for at least 6 months if possible. Yes I agree that humans can pretend to get what they want, but if both of you cohabit with all sincerity of purpose, you can then make up your minds
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2 years
Wish those men can come to terms with the fact that such gesture is a fool's errand. And should they wish to continue doing that, they should be ready to accept whatever the outcome of that decision. Very few men end up with a genuine woman after such acts.
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ร€gbร  John Doe
2 years
To all men who will continue to shoulder the responsibilities of a father to their girlfriends, with the hope of marrying them, think again. How many times have we read stories of how things have turned out? Allow her father do his job. If she doesn't have a father, let her
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1. Marriage is an achievement that is why, when you choose a wife, you've chosen your destiny.
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4. Be selfish in your relationship because you must be selfless in marriage and you will take the lion share of the blame when things go wrong.
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3. He who can do without cannot be done without. Never compromise your standards because you want to be accommodating.
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๐Š๐ฅ๐š๐ฎ๐ฌ๐ž๐ง๐›๐ž๐ซ๐  (๐›๐š๐œ๐ค ๐ฎ๐ฉ)
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But you won't tell the truth, would you? That is where I come in. Women forgive infidelity because: 1. Biological clock 2. Children 3. She cheated first 4. Investments/sacrifices 5. Selfish-interests 6. They want to 7. Societal expectations.
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๐Š๐ฅ๐š๐ฎ๐ฌ๐ž๐ง๐›๐ž๐ซ๐  (๐›๐š๐œ๐ค ๐ฎ๐ฉ)
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2. Ensure that you are a visionary and can project what 5 to 10 years of your marriage would look like. That projection must stem from reality not ideal.
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๐Š๐ฅ๐š๐ฎ๐ฌ๐ž๐ง๐›๐ž๐ซ๐  (๐›๐š๐œ๐ค ๐ฎ๐ฉ)
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Because you will spend money based on how you make it. The value of money is lost on you when all you need is to con someone else, who has worked hard for theirs, off their money. There are lessons you will learn when you work for your money.
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๐Š๐ฅ๐š๐ฎ๐ฌ๐ž๐ง๐›๐ž๐ซ๐  (๐›๐š๐œ๐ค ๐ฎ๐ฉ)
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6. Be emotionally, mentally, psychologically, physically, financially and socially prepared for your marriage because you will need all that preparation to survive each seasons as they come.
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๐Š๐ฅ๐š๐ฎ๐ฌ๐ž๐ง๐›๐ž๐ซ๐  (๐›๐š๐œ๐ค ๐ฎ๐ฉ)
2 years
She can also tell you she loves you based on how she FEELS right there and then. It could change the moment you leave her sight.
@jon_d_doe
ร€gbร  John Doe
2 years
Forget love. Women don't love men. They choose to be with men they can respect & can control them. A woman can tell you she "loves" you if you fuck her well or give her money.
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๐Š๐ฅ๐š๐ฎ๐ฌ๐ž๐ง๐›๐ž๐ซ๐  (๐›๐š๐œ๐ค ๐ฎ๐ฉ)
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@jon_d_doe "Your mama" creates more chaos than "Your papa." Back in school, we fought ourselves even seniors for insulting our mothers. Our mothers are perfect, oh. No go that side.
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๐Š๐ฅ๐š๐ฎ๐ฌ๐ž๐ง๐›๐ž๐ซ๐  (๐›๐š๐œ๐ค ๐ฎ๐ฉ)
8 months
These lessons are very crucial especially if you want to stand out. You might not know the effects that being fraudulent has on you, until you realise how poor you are. Yes, you'll have money to satisfy your immediate wants but you won't master delayed gratification.
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๐Š๐ฅ๐š๐ฎ๐ฌ๐ž๐ง๐›๐ž๐ซ๐  (๐›๐š๐œ๐ค ๐ฎ๐ฉ)
8 months
@UnkleAyo Speak on it. Everything is gynocentric or it won't get the necessary funding it needs. Throw men and boys under the bus and then, complain that the men aren't leveling up because they are intimidated by women. ๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿคฃ
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๐Š๐ฅ๐š๐ฎ๐ฌ๐ž๐ง๐›๐ž๐ซ๐  (๐›๐š๐œ๐ค ๐ฎ๐ฉ)
8 months
You would want to achieve things that men and women in their late 40s achieved by the time you are in your early to late 20s. That is you trying to cheat nature and nature will always fight back. Yes, you can have it all but not at once.
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๐Š๐ฅ๐š๐ฎ๐ฌ๐ž๐ง๐›๐ž๐ซ๐  (๐›๐š๐œ๐ค ๐ฎ๐ฉ)
8 months
They are not forgiving a man's infidelity solely because of societal pressure. Nope!! Women are manipulative and will always ensure that whatever narrative is out there portrays them as the victim. Their unaccountable nature ensures they are the victim in marital stories.
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๐Š๐ฅ๐š๐ฎ๐ฌ๐ž๐ง๐›๐ž๐ซ๐  (๐›๐š๐œ๐ค ๐ฎ๐ฉ)
8 months
9. Providing for the family isn't the reason men die, it's a lack of preparation because failure to plan is planning to fail.
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๐Š๐ฅ๐š๐ฎ๐ฌ๐ž๐ง๐›๐ž๐ซ๐  (๐›๐š๐œ๐ค ๐ฎ๐ฉ)
8 months
Don't make excuses like "We are taking back what was stolen from our ancestors." The excuse could fly but you must choose to do better. Repeat after me, "It ends with me." The best gift is a good mother to your children. Don't dally. Learn or learn the hard way.
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๐Š๐ฅ๐š๐ฎ๐ฌ๐ž๐ง๐›๐ž๐ซ๐  (๐›๐š๐œ๐ค ๐ฎ๐ฉ)
8 months
7. Don't carry on with the marriage, if she has cheated on you, before. Yes, I know, you know, that "Nobody is a saint" but don't mess up your lives because you want to gamble on the altar of you being an exception.
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๐Š๐ฅ๐š๐ฎ๐ฌ๐ž๐ง๐›๐ž๐ซ๐  (๐›๐š๐œ๐ค ๐ฎ๐ฉ)
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10. Don't propose to her on one knee because you, unintentionally, set the precedence for how the union will go.
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๐Š๐ฅ๐š๐ฎ๐ฌ๐ž๐ง๐›๐ž๐ซ๐  (๐›๐š๐œ๐ค ๐ฎ๐ฉ)
1 year
Bro, got smacked in the face and that's why he has a plaster on. ๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿคฃ He feels "blessed" and "graced." Why do men just sit and allow women to whine them like this?
@timothybayonne
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Marrying a virgin whoโ€™s almost 30โ€ผ๏ธ
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๐Š๐ฅ๐š๐ฎ๐ฌ๐ž๐ง๐›๐ž๐ซ๐  (๐›๐š๐œ๐ค ๐ฎ๐ฉ)
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๐Š๐ฅ๐š๐ฎ๐ฌ๐ž๐ง๐›๐ž๐ซ๐  (๐›๐š๐œ๐ค ๐ฎ๐ฉ)
8 months
Eventually, you will learn that you don't even need "ALL" and that all you want are just necessities of life. Working for your money will give you that. Stop scamming people and thinking that it has no consequence. The consequences are grave.
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๐Š๐ฅ๐š๐ฎ๐ฌ๐ž๐ง๐›๐ž๐ซ๐  (๐›๐š๐œ๐ค ๐ฎ๐ฉ)
2 years
I got married and the first thing my uncle shared with me was, "Kita ka แป‹ ga afแปฅ ife nna gแป‹ fแปฅrแปฅ n'aka nne gi" meaning, now you'd see what your father saw at the hands of your mother. Then it dawned on me, I've always seen things from my mother's lens.
@jon_d_doe
ร€gbร  John Doe
2 years
At this juncture, this quote from a man comes to mind. "you'll become a man when you start to see your mother the way your father sees her. Truth is, you've always seen your father the way your mother sees him". I need you all to understand that the power a mother has on her
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๐Š๐ฅ๐š๐ฎ๐ฌ๐ž๐ง๐›๐ž๐ซ๐  (๐›๐š๐œ๐ค ๐ฎ๐ฉ)
8 months
Women that would stay put with an abusive man, either because of his penis or his bank account. The same women are claiming that it's due to societal pressure, and that's why she's choosing to stay. Such narratives are vaguely appropriate. Let's dive in deeper.
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๐Š๐ฅ๐š๐ฎ๐ฌ๐ž๐ง๐›๐ž๐ซ๐  (๐›๐š๐œ๐ค ๐ฎ๐ฉ)
2 years
@jon_d_doe Basically, one should focus on a woman that is more uplifting and supportive than one eager to see you fail, so she can point out how much of a bad decision maker you are.
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๐Š๐ฅ๐š๐ฎ๐ฌ๐ž๐ง๐›๐ž๐ซ๐  (๐›๐š๐œ๐ค ๐ฎ๐ฉ)
8 months
SOCIETAL EXPECTATIONS: All other 6 factors are the key reasons while almighty society i.e., "what would people say" is the least reason why women forgive cheating. A woman forgives because she has weighed her options and has no choice. Learn or learn the hard way.
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๐Š๐ฅ๐š๐ฎ๐ฌ๐ž๐ง๐›๐ž๐ซ๐  (๐›๐š๐œ๐ค ๐ฎ๐ฉ)
8 months
11. Honour her parents by ensuring to seek their consent, first before "putting a ring on it."
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๐Š๐ฅ๐š๐ฎ๐ฌ๐ž๐ง๐›๐ž๐ซ๐  (๐›๐š๐œ๐ค ๐ฎ๐ฉ)
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8. If she's older, more educated, has more money, and is a single mother etc try to detach with love or be ready to level up and be who she looks up to. But you might suffer miserably.
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๐Š๐ฅ๐š๐ฎ๐ฌ๐ž๐ง๐›๐ž๐ซ๐  (๐›๐š๐œ๐ค ๐ฎ๐ฉ)
7 months
It's what men ALLOW that women will do. It took me getting married to figure out how an action or inaction can fuel a particular behaviour if it's left unchecked. Every tiny action you miss out on, counts. Employ discernment. Learn or learn the hard way.
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๐Š๐ฅ๐š๐ฎ๐ฌ๐ž๐ง๐›๐ž๐ซ๐  (๐›๐š๐œ๐ค ๐ฎ๐ฉ)
1 year
@jon_d_doe The thief steals and gives the king some of the spoils of his theft. The day he was caught, the king and cohort were disappointed and kept insisting he list those who've eaten the spoils with him. He pointed at the King first, and everywhere was silent.
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๐Š๐ฅ๐š๐ฎ๐ฌ๐ž๐ง๐›๐ž๐ซ๐  (๐›๐š๐œ๐ค ๐ฎ๐ฉ)
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12. Don't plan your union with your woman's money in mind. If she wishes to contribute half of the money, please detach with love. She's setting you up for failure.
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๐Š๐ฅ๐š๐ฎ๐ฌ๐ž๐ง๐›๐ž๐ซ๐  (๐›๐š๐œ๐ค ๐ฎ๐ฉ)
8 months
14. Don't overlook her past because that past is what laid the foundation of who she is. It's not just the past that has to do with how she managed her body but money, family and previous relationships, too. Is she economically unattractive?
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๐Š๐ฅ๐š๐ฎ๐ฌ๐ž๐ง๐›๐ž๐ซ๐  (๐›๐š๐œ๐ค ๐ฎ๐ฉ)
8 months
It's a key component that's encoded in our DNA. It's a sexual marker that increases or decreases desirability. Men can only teach inexperienced people. Inexperienced women tend to be humble and it's a turn-on for men. It brings out the empathy in them and they want to coach.
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๐Š๐ฅ๐š๐ฎ๐ฌ๐ž๐ง๐›๐ž๐ซ๐  (๐›๐š๐œ๐ค ๐ฎ๐ฉ)
8 months
Make no mistake, the selfish nature of children is for their survival. Children will defile, betray, and annoy but also respect, love, care and honour you, as their parent. The selfless mandate expected of you is to always love and support them. Learn or learn the hard way.
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๐Š๐ฅ๐š๐ฎ๐ฌ๐ž๐ง๐›๐ž๐ซ๐  (๐›๐š๐œ๐ค ๐ฎ๐ฉ)
8 months
20. Marry someone whose family accepts you and yours accepts them because they'd make everything, effortless. Marriage isn't just between the two people but the extension of their families because all the positives or negatives are exchanged.
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๐Š๐ฅ๐š๐ฎ๐ฌ๐ž๐ง๐›๐ž๐ซ๐  (๐›๐š๐œ๐ค ๐ฎ๐ฉ)
8 months
@jon_d_doe When a man has found the one for him. He might cheat but he'd never leave her and would never allow the outside women to disrespect her. He would occasionally not be in the mood for sex but he'd always experience adrenal rush, when she's naked.
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๐Š๐ฅ๐š๐ฎ๐ฌ๐ž๐ง๐›๐ž๐ซ๐  (๐›๐š๐œ๐ค ๐ฎ๐ฉ)
7 months
Let me say this, Yes, men are doing single mothers a FAVOUR by being with them. It's an inconveniencing truth the swallow. Any man who sees a single childless woman but decides to york himself with a woman who has kids, he'll likely invest in, is doing her a favour.
@jon_d_doe
ร€gbร  John Doe
7 months
Please read the conversation I had with a single mother ๐Ÿ‘‡.
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๐Š๐ฅ๐š๐ฎ๐ฌ๐ž๐ง๐›๐ž๐ซ๐  (๐›๐š๐œ๐ค ๐ฎ๐ฉ)
8 months
out of the goodness of your caring heart, tried to inquire whether she had eaten. The interesting thing is that all these things are psychological and they are set in that wavelength and won't see the issue, even when you complain or calmly try to explain how asinine it is.
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๐Š๐ฅ๐š๐ฎ๐ฌ๐ž๐ง๐›๐ž๐ซ๐  (๐›๐š๐œ๐ค ๐ฎ๐ฉ)
8 months
struggle with dating a man who changes their hair every 3 months. You can observe what I am talking about with a girl who lost her wealthy father. Their lives are altered and they now have to adjust to a lower lifestyle than they are used to. Such girls resort to prostitution.
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๐Š๐ฅ๐š๐ฎ๐ฌ๐ž๐ง๐›๐ž๐ซ๐  (๐›๐š๐œ๐ค ๐ฎ๐ฉ)
8 months
Why you must avoid girls who have dated those men is because of female hypergamy. What does that mean? I am glad you asked. You and I know that women are, naturally, hypergamous, right? Hypergamy means that if they are with a man who changes their hair weekly they would
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๐Š๐ฅ๐š๐ฎ๐ฌ๐ž๐ง๐›๐ž๐ซ๐  (๐›๐š๐œ๐ค ๐ฎ๐ฉ)
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16. Don't engage or continue to engage in fraud after you've married your wife. It creates appetite that might become harder to satisfy, should things not work out. Have a stable source of income.
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๐Š๐ฅ๐š๐ฎ๐ฌ๐ž๐ง๐›๐ž๐ซ๐  (๐›๐š๐œ๐ค ๐ฎ๐ฉ)
8 months
BIOLOGICAL CLOCK: A woman will marry a blind man, once that clock ticks the hardest. They would settle for literal "less" just so, they can have a husband. At that point, all wise counsel falls on deaf ears because she has to be a "Mrs." Enters from one ear, out the other.
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๐Š๐ฅ๐š๐ฎ๐ฌ๐ž๐ง๐›๐ž๐ซ๐  (๐›๐š๐œ๐ค ๐ฎ๐ฉ)
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13. Are you a fitness enthusiast? Do you have social skills? Brush up yourself because you will be mirrored by your woman and I do hope you'd like what you see, when that happens.
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๐Š๐ฅ๐š๐ฎ๐ฌ๐ž๐ง๐›๐ž๐ซ๐  (๐›๐š๐œ๐ค ๐ฎ๐ฉ)
8 months
CHILDREN: Many women will tolerate abuse because of the children's sake. They won't want them to suffer the societal stigma of being 'children raised by a single mother, especially their daughters.' They wait until the children are of age before they become rebellious.
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๐Š๐ฅ๐š๐ฎ๐ฌ๐ž๐ง๐›๐ž๐ซ๐  (๐›๐š๐œ๐ค ๐ฎ๐ฉ)
8 months
Women are the loudest. They would abuse their men, emotionally and the men dare not react, physically. Because she'd end up being the victim at the mercy of a monster. Make no mistake, men like women, are enduring a lot in marriages. Women enduring have better PR. LOLTHW.
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๐Š๐ฅ๐š๐ฎ๐ฌ๐ž๐ง๐›๐ž๐ซ๐  (๐›๐š๐œ๐ค ๐ฎ๐ฉ)
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17. Don't be involved with her if her mother is the "man of their house" because that's who you are marrying before marrying her daughter. If you go ahead, her mother becomes your future.
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๐Š๐ฅ๐š๐ฎ๐ฌ๐ž๐ง๐›๐ž๐ซ๐  (๐›๐š๐œ๐ค ๐ฎ๐ฉ)
8 months
I forgive after I've done my own back... which makes forgetting, easy because now, I don't have any "unfinished scores" to settle. Forgiveness is for God and his angels.
@babbylawya
mayyrheeeeee
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Be sincere,do you forgive and forget easily?
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๐Š๐ฅ๐š๐ฎ๐ฌ๐ž๐ง๐›๐ž๐ซ๐  (๐›๐š๐œ๐ค ๐ฎ๐ฉ)
8 months
"Klaus, but what if I just use it to raise capital and dump it afterwards?" It's not bad but mind you, your business will suffer the consequences but it would be a penance that'd help you recover and become who you are destined to be.
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๐Š๐ฅ๐š๐ฎ๐ฌ๐ž๐ง๐›๐ž๐ซ๐  (๐›๐š๐œ๐ค ๐ฎ๐ฉ)
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He left her in this cruel world "naked" and she has to scavenge to get the bare minimum. Such is the fate of a woman who has dated a fraudulent man. They have an insatiable appetite for everything... I mean EVERYTHING. They could never adapt to the average way of living.
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๐Š๐ฅ๐š๐ฎ๐ฌ๐ž๐ง๐›๐ž๐ซ๐  (๐›๐š๐œ๐ค ๐ฎ๐ฉ)
8 months
INVESTMENT/SACRIFICES: A woman is more loyal to her feelings than a man's sacrifice. But she's more loyal to her sacrifice than her feelings. That's why you must get the woman, you are dating/married to, to actively invest in the relationship.
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๐Š๐ฅ๐š๐ฎ๐ฌ๐ž๐ง๐›๐ž๐ซ๐  (๐›๐š๐œ๐ค ๐ฎ๐ฉ)
8 months
Yes, because adults can choose to ruin their lives without bringing children into it. But if children are involved, it's important to consciously redirect the path you've being tolling. A man has to be temporarily hated for the greater good of his family.
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๐Š๐ฅ๐š๐ฎ๐ฌ๐ž๐ง๐›๐ž๐ซ๐  (๐›๐š๐œ๐ค ๐ฎ๐ฉ)
8 months
18. Make certain that your digital footprint and hers are "clean" before saying "I do." The last thing you'd need is being sent videos of your wife twerking or constituting nuisance on the internet.
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@iamklausenberg
๐Š๐ฅ๐š๐ฎ๐ฌ๐ž๐ง๐›๐ž๐ซ๐  (๐›๐š๐œ๐ค ๐ฎ๐ฉ)
8 months
15. Remember that you must have your apartment, even if you haven't furnished it yet. That way you both can grow to discover yourselves outside your family.
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@iamklausenberg
๐Š๐ฅ๐š๐ฎ๐ฌ๐ž๐ง๐›๐ž๐ซ๐  (๐›๐š๐œ๐ค ๐ฎ๐ฉ)
8 months
That's the mindset they'd use to raise your children and it's a danger to you. So, being a fraudulent man or dating a woman who has been with a fraudulent man could have been overlooked if it weren't a danger to the future generation.
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@iamklausenberg
๐Š๐ฅ๐š๐ฎ๐ฌ๐ž๐ง๐›๐ž๐ซ๐  (๐›๐š๐œ๐ค ๐ฎ๐ฉ)
8 months
SHE CHEATED FIRST: This part is buried like it's never a thing. Women would rather die than admit that they know the motivation behind their husband's sudden change in attitude. A once-sweet-husband, suddenly, as a result of his patriarchal nature, becomes abusive.
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@iamklausenberg
๐Š๐ฅ๐š๐ฎ๐ฌ๐ž๐ง๐›๐ž๐ซ๐  (๐›๐š๐œ๐ค ๐ฎ๐ฉ)
8 months
She wants everything that's supposed to happen, with proper planning, good time and money management, right now. If her ex used to buy her a wig of 40 to 300k with stolen money, you better match that. They are the kind of women that expect you to send her money because you,
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๐Š๐ฅ๐š๐ฎ๐ฌ๐ž๐ง๐›๐ž๐ซ๐  (๐›๐š๐œ๐ค ๐ฎ๐ฉ)
8 months
By that time, they have all the cards and can decide the man's fate. Woe betide husbands who underestimate the feminine power. They turn the kids against the father and fill their heads with all kinds of narrative that lives on, even after their demise.
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@iamklausenberg
๐Š๐ฅ๐š๐ฎ๐ฌ๐ž๐ง๐›๐ž๐ซ๐  (๐›๐š๐œ๐ค ๐ฎ๐ฉ)
8 months
The woman, oh, she couldn't have done anything, to influence that change. He slept and in his dreams, had conversations with his patriarchal archaic ancestors and they filled his head with the importance of being a beast to his wife. "He wasn't always like this."
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@iamklausenberg
๐Š๐ฅ๐š๐ฎ๐ฌ๐ž๐ง๐›๐ž๐ซ๐  (๐›๐š๐œ๐ค ๐ฎ๐ฉ)
8 months
Because they want to keep up with the lifestyle they are used to. They got everything they wanted when they wanted it. So, it's a herculean task expecting them to re-adapt to the current state of things. Some would blame their fathers for dying if they could.
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๐Š๐ฅ๐š๐ฎ๐ฌ๐ž๐ง๐›๐ž๐ซ๐  (๐›๐š๐œ๐ค ๐ฎ๐ฉ)
8 months
But they'd never act like they know why or what influenced it. Sometimes, the husbands keep them in the loop, after they catch them in the act, without their knowledge. He becomes a 'promiscuous god' because why stay loyal to philandering whore? Yeah, "women are saints."๐Ÿคก๐Ÿคก
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๐Š๐ฅ๐š๐ฎ๐ฌ๐ž๐ง๐›๐ž๐ซ๐  (๐›๐š๐œ๐ค ๐ฎ๐ฉ)
2 years
I just had this conversation with a friend some days back, his restrain comes from the place of "she has slept with other men too and his ego seems to big to accommodate that" but then I advised him to look beyond that and make that move because she is single. He was reckless
@jon_d_doe
ร€gbร  John Doe
2 years
If you're single & below 30 and doing well, this advise may or may not sit well with you. But you see that lady you once met that was really kind to you? Find out if she's not yet married or in a serious relationship & try to win her back. Except you broke up with her because
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๐Š๐ฅ๐š๐ฎ๐ฌ๐ž๐ง๐›๐ž๐ซ๐  (๐›๐š๐œ๐ค ๐ฎ๐ฉ)
8 months
They won't care about "sexual" compatibility and all those compatibilities that used to be a standard. They want to get married to have kids, legally. Have a husband to pressure other women with. Such a woman would easily forgive cheating. I mean, ordinary cheating?
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๐Š๐ฅ๐š๐ฎ๐ฌ๐ž๐ง๐›๐ž๐ซ๐  (๐›๐š๐œ๐ค ๐ฎ๐ฉ)
8 months
Men would be happy if while dating their girlfriends, they get an opportunity to smash a female celebrity. Women would believe they rank above their men if they get an opportunity to smash a male celebrity. Then, wants the male celebrity to be loyal to them. ๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿคก LOLTHW.
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@iamklausenberg
๐Š๐ฅ๐š๐ฎ๐ฌ๐ž๐ง๐›๐ž๐ซ๐  (๐›๐š๐œ๐ค ๐ฎ๐ฉ)
1 year
Over a little quarrel.
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๐Š๐ฅ๐š๐ฎ๐ฌ๐ž๐ง๐›๐ž๐ซ๐  (๐›๐š๐œ๐ค ๐ฎ๐ฉ)
7 months
I want to speak to deported individuals. Folks who were forced out of the foreign countries they used to reside in. Either due to circumstances beyond their control or it was their fault. But you were imprisoned and kept in the deportation camps and eventually sent home.
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