A father who refuses to bond with his kids when they’re still little and expects the same kids to treat him with kindness in his old age is delusional at best.
Those kids will treat him like an afterthought in his old age.
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Your girlfriend must see you in a state of being terribly sick and financially broke before you marry her.
It’s up to you to come up with a way to test those.
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@Wizarab10
There's a big difference between adoption and paternity fraud, like the difference between welcoming a guest with open arms and someone sneaking into your house uninvited.
@DAMIADENUGA
This woman who frowned at her husband's lips on their wedding day is a reflection of a relationship that was built on obligation rather than genuine connection.
It's like forcing a square peg into a round hole - it may fit temporarily, but it will never be a perfect fit.
“A man who chases two rabbits will catch none."
"True happiness comes from within, not from external factors or validation, nor from screaming ama bad b!itch!."
The West's obsession with happiness is like a mirage in the desert – it looks enticing from afar, but when you get
West devils knew exactly what they were doing when they pushed "happiness" on Africans. They knew exactly what they would gain from that. For example, it ended the true meaning of African marriage & it's purpose
@Shadaya_Knight
This woman is a true example of a good woman. She is loyal, supportive, and respectful of her husband. She is the kind of woman that any man would be lucky to have.
If a man doesn't appreciate you, it's not because men don't appreciate women. It's because he's not a good man.
@Wizarab10
The fact that your girlfriend broke up with you just days before your final exams is a major red flag.
It’s quite obvious that she is not someone who is reliable or supportive.
Bro, even your "smart" wife is bound to mess up occasionally.
No stress, it's just part of her womanly nature.
Always correct her with love when those moments come.
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@KayIgama
It used to be a big deal back in the days to even mistakenly see a wøman’s pånties.
But nowadays? You can even see what’s behind the pånties from the comfort of your home.
It's fascinating to read about influencers charging 200k for a shoutout.
Meanwhile, Àgbà
@jon_d_doe
gave me an unexpected shoutout that garnered over 3k followers for free.
Thank you once again Àgbà 🙌
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@Wizarab10
This isn't just about DNA - it's about a life built on a foundation of trust that has been shattered.
Whatever he decides will be absolutely right.
If you're a traditional and ruthless man, then I see no reason why you should be having issues with
@jon_d_doe
A whole lot of men in this space are just kids that get excited at the sight of a woman's vag!na.
You fellas will surely learn the hard way!
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Men, avoid the following until you've carried out the DNA test:
1. Do not sign the birth certificate.
2. Do not inform anyone that she’s pregnant.
3. Do not rent a bigger apartment because you’re expecting a baby. Get a bigger place after the DNA test.
4. No major shopping
@Shadaya_Knight
Never, ever promote a side chick to a main chick. It's like trying to make a dessert into a main course. It just doesn't work.
If you've got a woman who's always been there for you, don't mess it up for some temporary thrill. A good woman is worth more than a thousand side
1. People who look good naturally usually don't start off by insulting someone else's looks.
2. Those who have a lot of money generally don't go around calling others 'broke.'
3. Those in happy relationships usually don't mock others' love lives.
4. Smart people don't usually
When a woman hits a man, the man should not hit back because “men are not supposed to hit women”.
Her parents failing to raise her well should be “none” of your business.
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@Wizarab10
Just like a strong pot needs a gentle fire to cook the tastiest meal, society thrives when masculine strength and feminine care work together. Men protect the village, while women nurture its heart.
@Shadaya_Knight
Imagine you're given a seed that has the potential to grow into a mighty oak tree. With proper care and nurturing, that seed can provide shade, shelter, and beauty for generations to come.
Now, imagine you take that seed and instead of planting it, you decide to eat it. You
@_shwabade_
@PenTitan
It doesn't make any sense to be the one who's always there to comfort and support someone who's constantly doubting themselves.
You're not a therapist.
I strongly recommend the following five books for deep intellectual stimulation and enhancement:
1. “The Art of Wār” by Sun Tzu - This book is a classic treatise on militāry strategy and tactïcs. It’s a great read for anyone who wants to learn about leadership, strategy, and the
@Wizarab10
This is why it is important to think for yourself and not just follow what everyone else is doing.
Just because everyone else is doing it doesn't mean it's right.
@Wizarab10
They are focusing on the man's actions, rather than on the underlying issue.
If a child is allowed to disrespect their parents without consequences, they will grow up to be disrespectful adults as we can all see around us.
Men understands that unchecked disrespect could lead to
@Wizarab10
This is a classic example of a materialistic misconception about love.
If someone loves you, they will show it through their actions, words, and the way they treat you, not by how much money they spend on you.
@Wizarab10
A woman who respects herself and her son will always conduct herself with dignity and grace.
It's not about who's watching, it's about who she is as a person.
When a single woman marries a man with kids, do you think she will treat the kids as her own?
When a single man marries a woman with kids, do you think… as his own?
That’s why everyone should start their lives on a clean slate.
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@Wizarab10
Your girlfriend's tendency to post memes about feeling unloved might be a way of expressing her insecurities or seeking validation which is a glaring red flag.
When you mirrored her behavior, it probably hit her in a way she didn't anticipate.
@KayIgama
Nature is like a wise and patient parent.
It gives us all the tools and resources we need to thrive, but it also sets boundaries and consequences for those who choose to ignore its laws.
Just as a parent might punish a child for misbehaving, nature will teach us a lesson if
@KayIgama
Spots on!
Imagine a world where people were actually ashamed of doing bad things. Where they would hesitate to post videos of themselves engaging in questionable activities, because they didn't want to be judged by others.
That would be a much better world, wouldn't it?
@Wizarab10
@PenTitan
It's because they learned how to measure, mix, and cook in large quantities, all without the aid of modern kitchen appliances. They learned to cook using their intuition and experience.
In contrast, the girls of this generation have grown up with microwaves, ovens, and
@Wizarab10
It's true, we've become so obsessed with "leveling up" that we forget to nurture the genuine connections that matter most.
True friendship isn't about social climbing or financial gains - it's about mutual support, shared experiences, & a bond that transcends time and changes.
@Wizarab10
In school, they teach you the numbers and the science, but they don't always teach you the human element of business.
That's where you need to step in and make a conscious decision to be fair and grateful.
If she's dropping lines like;
'You're very different'
'Even if we stop dating, I want us to remain friends'
'You're such a sweet soul'
Bro, it’ll be wise to gracefully exit the current relationship, prioritize self-improvement, & starting afresh with someone else.
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Ever seen dudes trying to flex their masculinity without even grasping what it truly means? It's a comedic sight!
1. You lack leadership skills.
2. You freak out when you encounter some tough situations.
3. Your siblings don’t even respect you as your words lack weight.
4.
@jon_d_doe
In this economy that our ladies are maintaining minimum of 5 men to stay afloat - I am sure more than 60% of our ladies will be found wanting in this experiment
"Discover the Magic of Reading!“ 📚
Reading isn't just for leisure, it's a powerful tool for intellectual growth, emotional well-being, and personal development.
Make it a habit and enrich your life!
Embrace words—grab a book today! 📖✨
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@TheFigen_
Sometimes, refusing to let go can be as destructive as the thing you're clinging to.
It's like holding onto a burning log, thinking it'll provide warmth, when all it does is burn you up.
@KayIgama
@PenTitan
If you're only focused on the superficial aspects of a relationship, you're likely to miss out on the real depth and meaning that true love can bring.
Fellas, avoid!
@unkonfined
Your biggest fan might be someone who sees your light from afar, appreciating your unique spark, while your biggest hater might be someone who feels threatened by your potential, trying to dim your shine.
@Wizarab10
Reunions these days are more like social media status updates in real life.
Everyone's trying to outdo each other with their accomplishments, their cars, and their perfectly curated lives.
It's no wonder so many people dread them.
@Shadaya_Knight
Women are attracted to a variety of things, including kindness, intelligence, humor, and ambition etc…
But you see money, that’s the real champ in the boxing ring.
@Shadaya_Knight
When a woman surrenders to you, she doesn't lose herself - she finds herself in you and becomes the best version of herself because of you.
She will start using your slang and sayings, even if they don't make sense to her. She will start liking the same music you do, even if she
@KayIgama
@yaygha
Women have this idea that they deserve to be with a man who is way out of their league.
They think they should be able to attract an A-list men, even if they're just an average woman.
This can lead to a lot of disappointment and frustration since they make that their reality.
Definition of a boring girl that I highly recommend!
1. She’s contented.
2. She’s family oriented.
3. She’s not easily impressed.
4. She spends a lot of time in the kitchen.
5. She doesn’t have friends, maybe just 1 or 2.
6. She’s not into social media grams.
7. She loves
A man who marries a woman expecting her to change is like a farmer who plants a yam and expects it to grow into a pawpaw.
Bro, you go wait tire and the shackles of shege banza will become your best friend.
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@Shadaya_Knight
If you're constantly putting her on a pedestal and putting her needs above your own, then you’re on this table.
And if you're giving her money or gifts in exchange for attention or affection, hello as well.
@Wizarab10
Love is blind, but not stupid. If you're making excuses for someone who's cheating on you, you're not being fair to yourself. Love yourself enough to demand better.
@Wizarab10
Don't let your hustle become a one-man relay race. Find someone to share the victory lap with.
A healthy relationship is like a comfy couch – it's where you go to unwind and recharge after a long day.
@Wizarab10
1. Cook her a romantic dinner.
2. Give her a massage.
3. Write her a love letter.
4. Take her dancing.
5. Plan a surprise weekend getaway.
6. Dey play bro, just dey play.