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mrs. bendell werry
2 months
You should 1000% censor your kids’ reading selections
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Christi Caldwell
2 months
I brought my girls to get library cards. The librarian asked if I would like to put restrictions on it so they can’t access “inappropriate content”. Me: I don’t censor my kids’ reading selections. Her: I do. I hate that she’s the gatekeeper there .
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mrs. bendell werry
24 days
Being a single working girl living alone in the big city
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Farina Malik ⁱᴾⁱᵃⁿ
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What’s something people romanticize but it’s actually horrible?
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mrs. bendell werry
2 years
So saddened to say our baby has passed on and we are suffering a miscarriage. I know so many of you have experienced this, and our hearts are with you. Please pray for us. The Lord is good, blessed be His holy name ❤️
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mrs. bendell werry
2 months
Can I say something.. You can just be a homemaker. Don’t feel pressure to have a side gig or a podcast or a book deal or a social media platform or monetize your every skill It’s enough that you work at home as a wife, as a mom, to the glory of God and the joy of your family ❤️
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2 years
I imagine there are some Christian women out there who have had an abortion in the past but have repented and trusted in Christ since, yet the past few days maybe have brought up some.. feelings. So just want to remind that if the Son has set you free, sis, you are free indeed.
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mrs. bendell werry
1 year
guys I found the tradwife dress at the thrift store
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mrs. bendell werry
2 years
Gonna make a general statement w/o nuancing: Being a wife and a mother is the most glorious and important work a woman can do. You can always get a Bachelors degree. You cannot always have children.
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mrs. bendell werry
9 months
this is my stanley cup
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Troy Frasier AKA Revived Studios
9 months
I haven't been living in America.... Can someone explain the new obsession with this?
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mrs. bendell werry
2 years
The biggest life hack I’ve learned is to believe the Bible without reservation. If something in it makes me uncomfy, I accept that the problem is with me and not with the Word. Makes life soooo much easier, y’all.
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mrs. bendell werry
3 years
I GET TO BE A WIFE Y’ALL
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mrs. bendell werry
3 years
Modern wedding dresses are skanky, y'all. Like, it's the wedding DAY not the wedding NIGHT good grief
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mrs. bendell werry
2 years
New Christian family just dropped. Big L for the principalities and powers of darkness.
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mrs. bendell werry
4 years
Worshiped in person today with God’s people for the first time in ~6 months. Haven’t stopped crying from the sweetness of it. Can’t believe people think this is nonessential.
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mrs. bendell werry
3 years
This was one of my fav tweets of all time
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Memesters Seminary
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mrs. bendell werry
3 years
My opinion on child rearing is that if you teach your kids manners, cursive, and how to not be afraid of air, then you’re giving them a major leg up on like 90% of their peers
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mrs. bendell werry
9 months
PETITION FOR THRIFT STORES TO PLEASE STOP PUTTING PRICE STICKERS ON BOOK COVERS, IT IS CRIMINAL, THANK YOU
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mrs. bendell werry
9 months
Modesty is much more than the clothes we wear, but it’s never less than the clothes we wear
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mrs. bendell werry
2 years
still can’t believe they made women laboring in childbirth wear masks. so wicked.
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mrs. bendell werry
2 years
I don’t understand why ppl think being a homemaker is boring. Today I’m spending the afternoon learning to make egg rolls from total scratch. In what world is this boring?
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mrs. bendell werry
1 year
Motherhood is the ultimate fulfillment for women. We’re designed and created to be mothers. Many women won’t be mothers. It doesn’t mean they don’t have a good purpose that God has ordained. But to say that motherhood isn’t the ultimate fulfillment for women is not true.
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mrs. bendell werry
2 years
if a woman has a theological question, she should ask her husband ab it first before anyone else
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mrs. bendell werry
4 years
Me, to the Lord, basically every morning:
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mrs. bendell werry
5 months
Mother’s Day is for Mothers. It’s ok that it’s not for women who aren’t mothers.
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The Classic Wife
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mrs. bendell werry
2 years
We normalized women spending 9 hrs a workday alone with men who aren’t their husbands and now we’re surprised that women feel entitled to alone time with a man whenever she feels like it
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mrs. bendell werry
3 months
During the Civil War, General Lee refused to plunder the North because he said, “I cannot hope that Heaven will prosper our cause when we are violating its laws” and exhorted troops to “abstain with most scrupulous care from unnecessary or wanton injury to private property.”
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mrs. bendell werry
7 months
we don't laugh at these jokes
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Enez Özen
7 months
Hahahaha
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mrs. bendell werry
3 years
Women ARE made for a particular use, and I assure you it’s not for working for a dude who is not your husband, who doesn’t care for you or provide for you, and who sees you only as a means to profit. A sandwich made for a man who is truly invested in you is not a sandwich wasted.
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mrs. bendell werry
2 years
Yes but what good is it to gain your own life while forfeiting your very soul?
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mrs. bendell werry
2 years
One of my homemaking budget hacks is Costco chickens. Two rotisserie chickens makes enough shredded chicken for four different meals, each of which will feed us 2-3 times, and this much very delicious broth. Not bad for $10 👍
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mrs. bendell werry
1 year
sleeveless dresses are immodest, pass it on in all love: just bc it’s summertime doesn’t mean you chuck all modesty out the window for the sake of convenience or comfort
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mrs. bendell werry
2 years
one of the kids who sits behind us in church drew this of me and Ben and I love it so much that I have to frame it ❤️❤️❤️
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mrs. bendell werry
4 years
I haven’t met with God’s people in 21 weeks, and given the impotence of the churches around me, I’m wondering if I was ever meeting with God’s people in the first place. My spirit is dry, and Sundays are the hardest days by far. Screw this and the horse it rode in on
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9Marks
4 years
“Before your church follows @johnmacarthur and @GraceComChurch and decides to gather in defiance of governmental orders, hold on! Stop and think with me for a moment.” @JonathanLeeman :
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mrs. bendell werry
2 months
I have a hard time getting past the immodest clothing. You can’t give glory to God while disobeying His word. The Lord tells women how they ought to present themselves, and whenever a woman goes against what the Lord says while giving praise to Him, it’s cognitive dissonance
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Lee Strobel
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mrs. bendell werry
2 years
Would anyone else’s mom put a sheet on the couch when you were sick so that germs wouldn’t get on the couch cushions?
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mrs. bendell werry
3 years
HEY QUICK UPDATE
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mrs. bendell werry
3 years
How it How it's started going @bendellwerry
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mrs. bendell werry
2 years
You do not have to have children in the home to be a full-time homemaker. I would be faithless if I thought my work at home didn’t matter bc it’s only my husband I’m serving, or if I thought I needed to wait until kids bc that’s when others find stay-at-home acceptable.
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mrs. bendell werry
3 years
I love pregnancy announcements where they tell the kids and the kids get super excited bc kids instinctively know that more kids are a blessing
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mrs. bendell werry
2 years
speaking of… baby bendell or bendellette coming June 2023 ❤️❤️ praise the Lord!!! 🙏❤️
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mrs. bendell werry
2 years
Sometimes I sit and think of the kindness and goodness of the Lord over my life and I am just overwhelmed. He is gracious and worthy of praise y’all
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10 months
One of the most effective ways you can be a noticeably Christian family is to resolve never to laugh at “those jokes”. Jokes belittling marriage, belittling families, belittling children. Y’all, we just don’t laugh at those jokes. It cuts them off at the knees.
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Marshall Haas 🏎
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No more kids for me. My wife had the jokes when I got home from the doctor today. 😆
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mrs. bendell werry
2 years
The Amy Byrds and Beth Moores of the world probably got their start leading women’s Bible studies
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mrs. bendell werry
11 months
It should be standard societal practice that when a woman gets married, she becomes a full-time homemaker
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Baby girl 💕
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what opinion about marriage will have you like this?
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mrs. bendell werry
4 years
Lots of hate against the Christian patriarchy in my timeline today. Let me let y’all in on a little secret: All godly women want is a godly dude, preferably majestically bearded, though this is negotiable, to love her and tell her what to do. It’s basically science.
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mrs. bendell werry
19 days
POV: hey homemaker, you did good today 👍
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mrs. bendell werry
8 months
Ok but now do headcoverings
@GMRench
Waterboy
8 months
Wine was served in communion for 1800 years since the Lord instituted it around 33 AD, then along came the church ladies pushing abstinence from alcohol in the 1800s, and now your modern theology of grape juice as a substitute in the Lord’s Supper is not so convincing to me. 👇👇
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mrs. bendell werry
2 years
Getting married tomorrow. I’m not nervous, but definitely feeling the gravity of the decision. Lewis talks about the ‘solemn joy’ of occasions such as marriage. Perfect description. There’s a weight in my heart tonight, not heavy, but joyfully solemn. Peaceful. Thankful. Resting.
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mrs. bendell werry
4 months
let’s bring back the phrase “unbecoming of a lady”
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mrs. bendell werry
1 year
no idea why moms and grocery carts are showing up on my tl today but one time I offered to take a mom’s cart back in the Costco parking lot and she almost started crying so I highly recommend doing it if the opportunity arises
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mrs. bendell werry
2 years
A year ago, I messaged Ben about something random and now we’re married so if you’re a single gal and kind of interested in a dude on twitter, go ahead and send the message, you never know where you’ll be in a year 😂😉
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mrs. bendell werry
2 years
Maybe this is a good time for another hot take which is that young women almost never need to go to college, and sending daughters off to college shouldn’t be the default for Christian parents
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mrs. bendell werry
1 year
watching the Duggar doc on Amazon w Ben It was a sin for these parents to broadcast their children’s lives on national television for millions of ppl to see. Parents, don’t do this.
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mrs. bendell werry
3 years
Being engaged, one of the first things women ask is “So what are you going to do for work?” and I’m honestly about to start asking, “So when are you quitting your job and staying home?”
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mrs. bendell werry
6 months
Roald Dahl gets it
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@Totally_Brandon
BRANDON (DARK MAGA)
6 months
Saying “physiognomy is real” is a top-notch dig because it insults both body & mind. Much of the time, it holds true. Turns out, you CAN judge a book by its cover. 🧵 a short thread... (1/7) Guess which guy wrote “The Boniface Option” and which guy calls CN a deep state psyop?
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@atroyn
anton (𝔴𝔞𝔯𝔱𝔦𝔪𝔢)
2 years
you can use large language models to generate new books of the bible (receive new revelation from god), using active learning - here's how
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mrs. bendell werry
2 years
Y’all please spank your children, in grace, in obedience to the Lord. The end. 🙏🙏
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mrs. bendell werry
1 year
Here’s a good standard: if your husband is allowed to touch it, but other men aren’t: maybe don’t show it
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mrs. bendell werry
2 years
finished up a little cross stitch today this quote was on the card with the first flowers Ben ever sent me 💕💕
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mrs. bendell werry
6 months
IM GOING TO BAKE MY COBBLER AND FEED MY FAMILY AND CELEBRATE OUR RISEN LORD EVEN HARDER NOW BECAUSE CHRIST IS KING
@NateSchlomann
Nate Schlomann
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I didn’t think this could possibly be real, but it is. Link in the replies. You need to understand that they hate you, Christian. They want your kids destroyed and hating God, and this is a religious doctrine for them. This is why you must say proudly and boldly, “No, Christ is
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mrs. bendell werry
1 year
if you’re constantly bored then you may be boring 🤷‍♀️
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mrs. bendell werry
2 years
please. i am begging you please.
@iWomansplainer
Womansplainer
2 years
All I want is to stop seeing the picture of the man with the massive fake boobs on my timeline. Please.
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mrs. bendell werry
3 years
I've started online dating which is a hell unto itself, but yesterday I had a guy message me "If covid hasn't taken you out, can I?" and y'all I just can't
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mrs. bendell werry
8 months
Love when the women on masterchef are like “I don’t want to be working in a cubicle the rest of my life, I want to be cooking!” Like sis have I got an idea for you
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mrs. bendell werry
2 years
GOOD MORNING WE ARE GETTING MARRIED IN 4 DAYS! Give me your best new bride advice plz :)
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mrs. bendell werry
1 year
A woman who cannot have a child, for whatever reason, is not invaluable as a person or a second-class citizen
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mrs. bendell werry
2 years
When I was single and praying for a husband, one of my only specific prayers was that I would marry a man who loved the Bible and knew it better than I do. Here’s me doing my knitting while my husband reads aloud from a theology work, teaching me as he reads God is faithful ❤️
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mrs. bendell werry
1 year
being called a “trad wife” is like the girl version of being called a “Christian Nationalist”
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mrs. bendell werry
1 year
y’all this is a wonderful idea ❤️
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mrs. bendell werry
3 years
Being a Christian woman just means you’ll be saying “Lord, why won’t this soup thicken and please fix my attitude” over and over again until you die and meet Jesus
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mrs. bendell werry
2 years
brb ardently convincing my husband we don’t need a bear in a saddle
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mrs. bendell werry
1 year
a hospitality tip for those who don’t have kids at home: pick up some toys, puzzles, games, sidewalk chalk, and books for various ages when you’re at the thrift store. that way, whenever you have friends with little kids over, they’ll always have something to do 👍
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mrs. bendell werry
4 years
I feel like enneagram numbers in the bio is the soft 'Christian' version of gender pronouns
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mrs. bendell werry
1 year
Rachel, 7 years into it
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mrs. bendell werry
2 months
Imminent.
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mrs. bendell werry
2 years
There’s a temptation in grief to police how others express their condolences, and get angry when ppl don’t say what you think they should say. But this is when that whole “love believes all things” comes in handy. We can assume good intentions, and let Love cover the rest ❤️
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mrs. bendell werry
1 year
things of which every kitchen should have two pieces/sets: - measuring cups - wooden spoons - casserole dishes - big knives - cutting boards - spatulas what would you add?
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mrs. bendell werry
1 month
ladies, do not do this, you will die
@bryan_johnson
Bryan Johnson /dd
1 month
My final meal of the day is at 11 am. I tested hundreds of times to arrive at this. It creates the highest quality sleep. Try eating your last meal of the day 2 hours before bed. Then try 3,4,5,6.. hours and see if your sleep improves each time.
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mrs. bendell werry
1 year
me, to every ant in my kitchen this summer:
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mrs. bendell werry
2 years
One main reason I make so much of our food from scratch is that I believe it is my duty to love my family as God has commanded, and a huge part of my responsibility as a homemaker is overseeing the food we eat.
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8 months
Turn 37 today. And in Your book they all were written, The days fashioned for me, When as yet there were none of them. So teach me to number my days, that I may gain a heart of wisdom.
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mrs. bendell werry
10 months
y’all look at the air bubble on this tortilla
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mrs. bendell werry
2 years
You can’t do anything about the IRS agents, but you CAN refrain from taking an enneagram test.
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mrs. bendell werry
2 years
i love this video and will rt it every time it shows up on the tl
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mrs. bendell werry
6 months
He is risen indeed! We honor Him with car selfies!!
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bendell werry 🌲
6 months
Happy Easter from the Werry family!
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mrs. bendell werry
2 years
You may have a bitterness problem if you see others receiving something you want, and you are more sad for yourself rather than glad for them
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mrs. bendell werry
2 years
huge w for feminists
@FellowshipFans
Fellowship of Fans 💍
2 years
First look at female orcs in Amazon’s The Lord of the Rings: The Rings of Power 😍 #LOTRROP
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mrs. bendell werry
1 year
Ok my hot take with the CN thing is that ladies should just stay out of it right now bc dudes banter and fight differently than we do. So what looks ugly to us is totally bro and loving for guys, and we should just let them bro it out and not impose girl rules 🤷‍♀️
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mrs. bendell werry
2 years
In 2022 I met Ben in person, dated long distance, got engaged, moved across the country, got married, lived in a cabin, got pregnant, suffered a miscarriage, moved cities, and decorated a house. A year for the books. The Lord is good ❤️ Wonder what next year will bring!
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mrs. bendell werry
4 years
It’s Christ or chaos, y’all. There is no winsome third way.
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mrs. bendell werry
4 years
Things I ask when I'm feeling anxious: 1) Have I prayed ab this? Sin anywhere? 2) What have I been filling my mind with? 3) When was the last time I ate a snack or meal? 4) Have I exercised today? 5) Do I need a nap? All of Christ for all of life. He cares about all of it.
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mrs. bendell werry
2 years
Ok my homemaking hack today is the following: - baking soda - washing soda - soap flakes - vinegar - dish soap - essential oils 6 ingredients and you’ve met basically all your cleaning needs. Making your own cleaner/detergent is cost effective and takes minimal effort 👍👍
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mrs. bendell werry
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Lord, hear our prayer 🙏 🥰
@DudespostingWs
Dudes Posting Their W’s
11 months
Imagine this happening to you
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mrs. bendell werry
2 years
girl was taking a bath on a roof across from the palace. she knew what she was doing, come on now y’all, women aren’t stupid
@_nomadic_soul
Meg W. ☕️🌧️🍂 VOTE
2 years
Bathsheba did not consent to the “affair” with David, therefore it was rape. Period.
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2 years
A way to guard against bitterness is to accept that not every sermon, not every church activity, not even every twitter thread, needs to be all about you nor include every nuance relative to your situation or station in life.
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mrs. bendell werry
5 months
you either die a normie, or you live long enough to see yourself become the trad meme
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6 months
Laura Loomer’s post that the whore can’t be redeemed is incorrect The Transformed Wife’s post is right that there are consequences to our sin Christ saves, sin has consequences, and Christ’s mercy is immense throughout
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I remember the first time I held a baby after coming to Christ. I was 34 years old. I came to know Christ at 31. A dear brother lost his wife in childbirth. He brought the tiny baby to church. The first time I held this girl it was like a dam broke within me. It was beautiful ❤️
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Fyodor Dostoevsky | Novelist & Philosopher ✍️
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mrs. bendell werry
2 years
I always said that the worst times to be a single gal were when you were sick and when you had car trouble. In the past two days my husband fixed our truck and cared for me when I was laid up in bed real sick. He absolutely mirrors Christ as a kind of savior to me.
@R_Denhollander
Rachael Denhollander
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In light of the recent outcry over the TGC article, perhaps it is time to look with open eyes at what has been taught for a very long time. What is new is not what Butler wrote. Only that people cared this time.
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mrs. bendell werry
2 years
Ben got me a really nice deep freezer as an early birthday present. I feel seen and known and loved.
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1 year
went grocery shopping on an empty stomach and still came in under budget
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mrs. bendell werry
10 months
I have no clue what the “stocking discourse” is, but I did make my husband one for Christmas so that I have something to put his little presents in, is that helpful at all?
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mrs. bendell werry
2 years
When I was still single and struggling with the prospect of being single forever, I heard DW refer to singleness as an affliction and not a gift. Was the first time I heard a pastor say that. Really put things in perspective, and helped me pray better about it
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Douglas Wilson
2 years
"Telling the unmarried people in the church that their singleness is a gift and that they should be rejoicing in it is simply cruel. They should be rejoicing—because the Bible says to—but they are rejoicing in an affliction." New video post:
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