As a woman, your standards for how men treat you should be so high that you'd rather let humanity go extinct than allow a disrespectful man to touch you or benefit from your energy.
Black women are the only women who are conditioned to believe that they should accept the bare minimum in love and life. I hate that this struggle love narrative is constantly sold to our women. If a man cannot afford to provide a home for a family, he doesn’t deserve one. Never
Having a HOE phase is a LIE. Don’t let these women trick you into thinking this is cool or the move! Value and honor yourself always ladies! Every many should NOT be able to have access to you.
A man sexually desiring you isn’t something to brag about. Men who are only interested in you sexually tend to be focused on taking from you or giving only to get something in return. Men who truly admire and respect you genuinely want to see you happy and well taken care of.
Embrace your sexuality ladies. Tap into your inner divinity and love who you are. There is no reason to be insecure about another woman. You are powerful because you are YOU and nobody can do you better than YOU.
Sleeping with a man while still having to pay any bills is wild to me. Some men have it way too easy, and some women see it as a badge of honor not to "ask" or expect anything.
This is why I advise women: a gift is truly yours only when it's in your name and fully paid for. Avoid accepting loans or leased cars from men.
This is why I urge women not to have children with men who aren't committed enough to make them their wives. This woman had several
Black women, I beg you—keep your personal business offline. You will NEVER be celebrated for leaving behind poverty-stricken, struggle love. Date and elevate in silence. Don’t seek validation. You don’t need it.
She’s incredibly wise and is intentional about everything she does, which is probably why she’s so successful at such a young age. Honestly love that for her
Having a man in your life should make life easier for you. I can’t understand women who shack up with men and are still struggling.
Say no to struggle love.
I can’t imagine giving birth to a man’s child and sharing a home with him, only for him to go online and say he’s still looking for a wife. No sane, child free woman wants a man with eight kids and three baby mamas.
Cam Newton broke down how he desired more children but had reservations about marriage. Cam explained that he was fearful of ultimately getting a divorce despite having no issue welcoming 8 children with 3 women and possibly more later down the road.
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You confiscate personal items claiming they could be dangerous, but then turn around and give them away, framing it as a good deed. To me, this just feels like a way to steal from people. I can’t support that at all.
Women should run far, far, away from any man who refuses to take care of her the way she wants to be taken care of.
That varies from woman to woman, but if he isn't doing your bare minimum, he should be off your radar.
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This is so scary. I can recall several incidents where men have had extreme outburst simply because I said that I was not interested. Saying you’re not interested these days could literally cost you your life. Be careful out here ladies.
Oversharing has landed so many people flat on their face. The internet is often not a safe space, and although there’s tons is support, the same crowd will applaud your downfall. Be mindful of what you’re sharing, especially when it comes to your job, home, private life, etc.
I don’t care what anyone says, men spend when they love their woman, because she's a reflection of him. If he’s not sharing with you, he’s stingy & doesn’t like you. It’s not about him being “rich” either.
They are lacking the basic art of finesse, thinking that showing up is finesse.
Being able to pay for your own meal is a part of the allure. That’s how you exude confidence! Why would you want a man to come to you off the impression that you cannot pay?
People can smell when
real bad b!tches aren't b!tches at all.
they are kind and have a deep, spiritual inner life. they are aware that material life cannot bring full satisfaction as a human being. they are more high value than high maintenance.
that mean girl crap to other women is not cute.
I LOVE my man. 😭 I’d do anything for him. He makes my life so easy and peaceful, providing a space for me to focus on my healing and growth. He's truly one of a kind, and I'm so thankful for him.
When a woman operates from a place of self-worth, high vibration, and strong boundaries, she attracts men who are also operating from a similar place of emotional maturity, self-awareness, and respect.
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A lot of women don’t realize their pair bonding is damaged. This is why I strongly recommend young women to be careful about casually going around and having meaningless sex. It can really scar you for life.
If any man wants to be in your life, he should be allowing you to rest in your femininity. Which means stress free from burdens, especially financial ones.
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Men are affected by it.
But society teaches men to not acknowledge their emotions and to not deal with them.
However, as a human being your emotional state is going to function with or without your conscious behaviors.
@emptytrinketbox
Schools are designed for education, not for sharing personal details. Why is it necessary for students to know about a teacher's sexual orientation? The focus should be on learning, not on whether a teacher may share aspects of their personal life, including their sexual
Just three weeks ago, the super bowl had 25,000 people in attendance. Florida and Atlanta are wide open and the numbers aren’t spiking. There is no pandemic. Wake up to the lies & propaganda. I can’t give this anymore energy.
Fauci: “There are things, even if you’re vaccinated, that you’re not going to be able to do in society. For example, indoor dining, theaters, places where people congregate.”
These are the words of a power-mad lunatic.
A woman's most valuable asset is TIME, not looks. Beauty can be bought. With that said, learn to cut your losses. Don't stick around in a dead-end relationship because you're afraid you won't meet anyone new.
The reason there’s this strong push for black women to settle is because black men aren't progressing at the same or better rates. They’re less educated and less employed.
I think it’s going to get worse for black men (that aren’t high earners/high wealth already) and they know
Why do they have to put sex scenes in movies? Serious question because it is so uncomfortable when you’re watching a movie with family and friends, and then there’s this drawn out sex scene and you’re cringing inside.
So apple is getting rid of passwords so the only way you’ll be able to open your phone is by thumbprint or Face ID. I don’t use either. I don’t like it.
I don’t believe this story about the Texas pipeline being hacked for one bit. There is no gas shortage. This entire thing is orchestrated to cause chaos or whatever the agenda is.
Don't be afraid to speak up even when you think it could "ruin a good thing". If speaking your mind ruins a good thing, it was never good to begin with.
It's wise for women to steer clear of men who don't use social media tastefully. Respectable men usually don't engage in making cringe-worthy videos on these platforms.
If he was someone she truly respected, this would have never happened. I can see why she said what she said.
In the eyes of the world, Black women are not "allowed" to date up. You’ll always face slut-shaming, accusations of being white-washed, and ppl trying to tear you down for it. I need you to truly understand this—move in silence, enjoy the good life, & focus on those who actually
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I mean he’s not lying. I am tired is the unwarranted porn on this app. It was never like this before. Before you had to go search to even see it.
I'm proud of how far I've come & that I never gave up, even when the odds were stacked against me. I survived the darkest times, let go of the anger and sadness from my humiliations, & kept pushing forward. My life & the challenges I've overcome are nothing short of a miracle.
I believe the best people (man or woman) are the people who deeply know themselves, aware of their dark side, enjoy their own company, and are comfortable in their solitude…yet are conscious of how important it is to learn something from every person they encounter.
And when