submitting yourself to male scrutiny unprovoked because you need them to evaluate you is certainly a choice. you’re an entire, complete person. having an identity outside of men is the most basic thing you can do walahi😭
Emeka Ike might be the devil for all we know, but in a few years time, his son will regret coming out to speak against his father in that way. That boy is st most, 20, and has not yet bitten the forbidden fruit of manhood and he should have not been allowed to appear on the show.
must be nice to have an identity that can not be questioned, stripped away, discriminated against or even worse based on your behavior. must be nice to know that even when you’re moving mad, na wetin you be them go still call you.
lots of queer people are overachieving because they are trying to ‘make up’ for their queerness. ‘if i can excel in every other area of life perhaps it will make this blight of mine more tolerable and me and object of less disdain’
men are very aware of misogyny btw, it just so happens they see it as the status quo and are unwilling to do anything to change it because what does it profit you to tear down a system that benefits you?
hate being on the internet in times like this because i’m so tired of anger that i have nowhere to put. i’m tired of arguing with strangers about the value of female lives and female bodies.
isn’t it funny how the only way for queerness to be accepted or at least overlooked is for you to be wildly successful because at the end of the day, class rules all.
I am just reminded once again that all we have in this community is each other. Looking at ignorance play out in the comments of bloggers who don't value our lives and we really have no one.
Who will save us? Who will mourn us? Who will let us live?
you guys love ignoring nuance. like you don’t understand why transwomen also need community or why they won’t feel safe in most spaces. it’s the queer women on this discourse that’s muzzing me ngl. coming from YOU? insane o
@its_daqueen
1. Being able to not get drafted to a single battle all ur life in the military.
2. Being able to get away with false accusations of rape.
3. Paternity fraud still allowed to linger on without a law passed on it despite its prevalence.
@OlajumokeHera
music to occupy the part of my brain that would distract me so i can focus. breaking things down into mini and easily achievable goals that kind of act like a ladder. breaks in between:)
boy maths is how the yahoo boy’s girlfriend is desperate for money and thus deserves to die more than the man that is literally committing fraud for money
i don’t even like them ‘stud, fem, masc, top, bottom’ labels. i understand their necessity but i don’t like the space for heteronormativity they provide
and that ‘cismen will start cross dressing to invade women’s spaces’ thing dey always kill me. i DARE one of you niggas to live a day as a transwoman in nigeria.
Why do certain Nigerians take criticisms against the government as a personal attack on themselves. Bro look around you are you not feeling it too???? I feel like I’m losing my mind honestly. What is wrong with us???
crazy how i’m not longer unhinged and insane i just do drugs sometimes, love my partner, make some money, try to do well in school, try to not act in ways and exhibit behaviors and actively ruin my life. i think i’m doing amazing idk