@fuhkutuhb
@BriskittyInABox
@KoTKoharu1
Well, IDK exactly where you even got their gender & sexuality from so not sure
With the 1st situation, there's no "tried to become a woman", it's just of them being a woman, so not gay
For the 2nd, if they *are* transfem & likes women, technically that's lesbian but sure, gay