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2 years

Definitely not wrong 😍

Mark Gunderson

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2 years

Sad to leave but we have the next flight booked already. We were not wrong about this. 🥰

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10 months

I genuinely don’t understand the conservative male outrage about Taylor Swift. I mean, I get the misogyny piece, but am I missing something else? She doesn’t really check any of their usual boxes for criticism (lyrics, sexualized performances, showing too much skin, etc…)

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We don’t have to make ourselves small to be worthy of love. This is garbage.

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2 years

Do you guys really understand how difficult it is to find a kind, smart, Christian man who actually likes women and doesn’t see them as beneath him?

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2 years

I’ve never met a devout Calvinist who wasn’t a jerk.

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6 months

I’m in the “hate April Fool’s Day” camp. It’s just not funny to abuse the trust of people you love. That said, the 4th graders at our kids’ school all decided to “wear pink and not tell the teachers” as their April Fool’s joke and I’m here for it. So cute.

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2 years

Hey church - please quit telling people that if they make the “right” decisions things will work out the way they want them too.

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My hot take: Quit complaining about teenagers. They are awesome humans who are still learning. I think we expect too much and too little from them all at the same time.

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9 months

Married!!!

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2 months

If you are an adult male and you find a “little girl in a miniskirt” to be sexual temptation, the girl isn’t the problem.

Sheila Gregoire--She Deserves Better is here!

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2 months

Little girls in mini-skirts in church parking lots? Here's Josh Howerton, telling the men in their congregations that if they see such a little girl, "run, Forrest, run--you are no match for that enemy." Because apparently little girls are tempting. And they're your enemy.

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5 months

I was single for the first 26 years of my adult life (married at 44). Nothing made me feel lonelier or more aware of how alone I was than church.

Erin Jean Warde

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5 months

The most common & consistent feeling I have in worship, as a single person, is deep loneliness. But by all means, please tell me where I’m allowed to sit, and that I am an inconvenience. 🫠

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5 months

Hot take of the day: Christians should be environmentalists.

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7 months

What Christian sayings drive you crazy? I’m so tired of people saying “it’s just a season”.

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10 months

@AndrewS76825037 There has been significant backlash about her Time cover and I just haven’t heard any concrete criticism outside of “we shouldn’t be looking up to her.” But I can’t really find specifics outside of her being single and in her 30s.

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1 year

Hot take: Stop saying kids are resilient. They aren’t.

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@Lucyjoyviolin And the same people who say this are also pushing for people to marry as young as possible and have children as quickly as possible. And in 15 years, it will be her fault for not seeing the red flags.

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1 year

He was my boyfriend when he arrived and my fiancé when he left 🥹.

Mark Gunderson

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1 year

Well this happened over the weekend 💞 @adhdlibrary

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2 years

If you think it is feminine for men to be kind and gentle, you have been influenced more by the culture than by God.

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2 years

I don’t want another women’s Bible study that focuses on how to manage your life, husband, & children, or your life as a single woman. I want a Bible study that teaches me more about the word, character of God, & our relationship w/Him. I want depth & seriousness not life hacks.

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2 years

Can anyone explain why people are romanticizing the prairie/farm life? Do they not realize it was really, really hard and people lost kids and spouses and sometimes starved?

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4 months

People keep throwing around women not being able to serve as “pastor” & then still say a woman can be a “director”. Explain to me how “Children’s Pastor” & “Children’s Director” are different. Give me the specific things that make them different outside of the title.

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2 years

@adhdjesse I’m very good in a crisis.

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1 year

“I put this here so that I’ll put it all away before bed” the great ADHD lie

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2 months

If your response to a pregnant, unmarried girl or woman is to shame her and withhold love and grace, it’s time to stop calling yourself pro-life. If you refuse to support her (in ways that you can support her and her child), it’s time to stop calling yourself pro-life.

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8 months

(That’s me - he’s describing me 😍😆) My master’s degree and paycheck haven’t made me inept in the kitchen (as some patriarchal folks would have you believe).

Mark Gunderson

@MdtShell

8 months

My wife has a career and is better in the kitchen than your tradwife

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2 years

@awesomebrandi I went in because I was losing the full function of my left side (which ended up being due to two herniated discs) and the doc told me to “stop eating so many pastries.” Um, thanks? That’s not what this visit is for, and pastries aren’t a part of my regular diet.

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2 years

@HeatherHasADHD Or does everyone walk in the house and leave their keys in the door? Or get out of the car and just walk away without closing the door? Or hyperfocus to the point of the world disappearing?

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2 years

Talked with a friend’s 16 year old daughter today who was outraged because some of the girls in her homeschool group have started saying that women have too many rights. I’m glad she was outraged, but wow. 🤬

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6 months

Here’s the thing, I LOVE a good joke. I make them, I laugh at them. I enjoy lots of stand up. A pastor joking from the pulpit about a sacred covenant & physical relationship designed for oneness & intimacy & reducing a man to a place holder & a woman to a sex toy isn’t funny.

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6 months

@brent_waggoner I’ve always wanted to be with my friends & their kids, but as friends started having kids, their assumption that I wouldn’t want to hang around because I didn’t have kids was the thing that created distance. I worked so hard to let my friends know that I loved being with them.

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2 years

Church, we need to do a better job of encouraging people for whom the waiting may never end. Don’t keep telling us it’s just a season. Some seasons last a lifetime.

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2 years

If you don’t believe in exceptions to save the life of the mother, you aren’t pro-life.

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10 months

@DaveSylvester11 It’s not just online.

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8 months

Why, yes, I did just number 159 tiny frogs to hide around the house for leap year.

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2 years

Everyone should know that this dog moved his bed so that it’s in front of the fire.

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2 months

The saddest part of all the vitriol I see towards childless people right now is that I’ve heard just about every one of these comments from friends or women at church at one time or another.

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2 years

My dog just urgently asked to go out, ran outside, farted really loud, turned around and slowly walked back in 😆

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2 years

So, it turns out that saying, “Don’t cry or I’m going to give you something to cry about,” to your kids doesn’t really allow for the best emotional development.

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2 years

Doesn’t matter how old you are, it’s always a bummer to realize someone isn’t really your friend.

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2 years

Sweet potato casserole with marshmallows? gross. Sweet potato with butter and salt? delicious.

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2 years

@aggie_panda I’ll be two years post the *most* mild case of Covid (fatigue, stuffy nose, loss of smell) in November. My smell and taste are back, but completely wrong - I’ve eaten mainly bagels because they don’t taste like rotten vomit and chemicals. I’m improving, but it’s horrible. 1/

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2 years

I GOT THE JOB!!!

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2 years

The Venn diagram of men who say women are “too emotional” and men who are angry all the time is a circle.

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2 years

@jacasiegel Tell me you have ADHD without telling me you have ADHD 😂

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2 years

Twitter friends who pray - pray for me if you think of it. I have so much going on right now & continue to be just maxed out on stress. (Stress dreams & daily crying. Woke up the night before last because I was screaming in my sleep.) Just need at least one thing to ease up.

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9 months

Lest anyone thinks it was a glamorous time this weekend, here’s our “rehearsal dinner” on the living room sofa - mac & cheese with hotdogs. (And a little reminder that we do clean up nicely) (with my handsome husband 🥰)

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4 months

It’s pretty fun watching the same people who don’t believe in divorce for any reason trip all over themselves to defend an unrepentant twice divorced, thrice married, adulterer.

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2 years

In other news (something other than heartbreak content)… Today is the 2 year anniversary of my breast reduction surgery. It’s the best decision I’ve ever made. They removed 5 pounds total. I had 2 herniated discs & it has resolved my pain. AMA (don’t be creepy) 1/2

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11 months

It's been just over a year since this handsome guy asked if he could DM me. I'll forever be thankful. I love you, @MdtShell . More and more every day.

Mark Gunderson

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11 months

With @adhdlibrary in the city for my birthday!

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2 years

I love that they estimate that about 4% of the population has ADHD and somehow we have all found each other on Twitter 😂

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1 month

There’s a certain kind of frat boy/man child I’ve always avoided because I felt unsafe around them, but I’ve never been able to articulate why. Had the same feeling watching the clips of Howerton’s sermons this week, & it dawned on me - entitlement w/underlying anger.

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2 years

Depression and anxiety aren’t sins. Get the help you need. Go to therapy, take the meds, learn the coping strategies, lean on your community, pray. Be open about your struggles.

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1 year

@dalelf57 @WeirdMedieval Tell me you’ve never seen a pregnant belly without telling me you’ve never seen a pregnant belly. 🤦🏻‍♀️

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10 months

@mummacity I listened to that the other day - so interesting!

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2 years

Can we quit making “healthy” versions of dessert and just eat the dessert? No, I don’t want your high protein cookie dough. I’d rather just have a steak and a cookie later.

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@DebTreister @bljtfs @AJKocman Would you say this to your infertile friend who longs for a child? To the friend who has had miscarriages? To the friend whose husband had health problems that have resulted in infertility? Since childless people can’t get this any other way, will they always be inferior to you?

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5 months

I’ve seen this play out in real life - mostly ends in kids essentially not having a father. Everyone’s situation is different & sometimes this is necessary. But to put your wife in the position of being a single mother just because you think she should be home is a net negative

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2 years

Was blocked by a pastor for this response today. And they wonder why people are leaving their churches. There’s a mean streak in the church that seems to be growing and growing (or maybe I’m just more aware of it now because I know others of you have experienced it, too.)

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2 years

I was taught that Bathsheba was essentially an evil temptress who was at fault because she was bathing and he could see her. This thread untangles all of that. Also, so super sick of this debate, but this is a thread worth reading.

Scott Coley

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2 years

This is philosophically and theologically illiterate. Thread:

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2 years

@ejcrotty @3kidpainter1 @JanisODonnell18 @rebecca_fachner When I bought my house in 2019, I had to certify that I was a single woman. There is no such requirement for men.

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2 years

@k_walnation3 @BadMedicalTakes More like 50…

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@LJCBrah Not what I said. At all. And you know exactly zero about my life.

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9 months

@emilykmay Yep - I had a man at a ministry job tell me once that I should never mention taking a bath because it was too hard for him to not imagine me bathing.

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10 months

I don’t want to make too many assumptions, but when someone complains about how hard dating is & then launches into a (grumpy old man voice) tirade about liberal feminists, calls people names, & demands answers to personal questions, I’m not sure the women are the problem 🤷🏻‍♀️

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@drantbradley I think it’s not great (to put it mildly) to say that something most people have no control over is one of the “greatest” Christian witnesses. When I was still single (until this last NYE) there was no where I felt less like I belonged & less welcome than the church. 1/

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2 years

This made me throw up in my mouth a little. Seriously. I feel used and dirty just reading it. How is this beneficial and edifying for the Body?

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2 years

@adhdjesse 42! Man do I wish I could go back to college and be medicated this time. Starting my PhD in January and am hopeful that it will be less stressful and overwhelming

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1 year

Had someone tell me tonight that I need to enjoy my last months of being single. A. Engaged isn’t exactly single. B. Baby, I’ve been single for the last 25ish years. I’m good.

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@AndrewS76825037 Yeah - I don’t mind criticism if there are stated reasons even if I disagree. And it’s fine not to like someone or their music. I guess she just doesn’t seem like she should be particularly polarizing, and some of what I have seen feels a little over the top.

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2 years

Please stop saying, “Someday, when you have kids…” to people. You have no idea what a person’s situation is.

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2 years

He’s HERE!

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Not going back to church until after I move. It’s been a month and I’ve not heard from a single person. Interesting

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2 years

This should concern EVERYONE. Who gets to define “obscene”? What falls under that category? This is a license to ban just about anything. Please spare me your “freedom” and “small government” talking points. Just a bunch of lies.

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2 years

Anyone else find ASMR stressful?

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@ADHDdesigner I had a nurse say, “But you finished your masters.” She didn’t know that I had started many other programs that I hadn’t finished (like how I’m two classes away from a masters in education and didn’t finish because I was too burned out)

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@emilykmay We all wake up thinking that. But my very existence as a single woman with multiple degrees and no children disappoints her, so I don’t have to try hard 🤣

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1 year

Anyone else sit in the bathroom stall at work a little longer than you need to because you just want the quiet time?

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2 years

@AlanaMReynolds Congratulations! Leaving the classroom was the best thing I’ve ever done for my physical and mental health (12 years in the classroom, 3 as a school librarian).

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@JustinDGentry When something goes wrong - your car breaks down? Demons. You trip and break your ankle? Demons. Cancer? Demons. Lose your job? Demons. Well all of these things are either demons and sin in your life. So if there’s no sin that would cause it, it must be demons.

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Reading through some tweets and wondering why Christians are so angry at atheists. It doesn’t feel like the urgency of someone who loves & wants to save people from Hell. It just seems angry and insecure. And some of the most upset ones are Calvinists. Please explain that to me.

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@drantbradley Interesting. I guess it’s my fault that I made all the “right” choices, dated the “right” men, and still didn’t marry until I was 44. I am worth more than my marital status.

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10 months

I love @MdtShell so much. So glad we met before Twitter fell apart 💕

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10 months

I’ve said it before and I’ll say it again. We are not called to fight a culture war. We are, however, called to love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control. 1/2

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A friendly reminder for all my anti-christian nationalist and libertarian brethren: If you're not at the table, you're on the menu

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@TGC Seems like you dug this up from three years ago because you can’t handle criticism. Very, very warranted criticism.

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@BasedPhilosoph Said nothing about moms. Maybe read my post again and understand that it’s a single post. This isn’t even a list of qualities. And it’s a narrow list. Everyone always zooms in on the career thing, but what about the demand that women be quiet and opinion-less?

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@FranDHexe I never said one couldn’t have things they are looking for in a spouse. But it is ridiculous to say that “no Christian man wants…” You just can’t put such narrow requirements on people. ALL Christian men don’t want the same things, and that’s fine. Good, in fact.

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Raise your hand if you’ve gotten really, really, really good at planning ahead and just now realized it’s how you manage anxiety. And without being able to plan for things you are just a bundle of nerves. 🙋🏻‍♀️

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Turns out, you can get married for the first time at 44, be very clear that you will not be trying for babies and STILL those same people will send you clever hints to push you to have babies.

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2 years

A thing I’ve learned from “Christian Twitter”? Look up the pastor of that church you’re thinking about visiting. 😬

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9 months

When you are planning a wedding and you met on Twitter…

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2 years

A thread of things I’ve learned from dating. Will continue to add over time… 1. Kindness is the most important thing. Are they kind to you? To your family and friends? To wait staff? Shop employees? Animals?

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2 years

Belated Valentine’s celebration with this handsome guy @MdtShell

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10 months

@PastorTrey05 Leonard 🤣

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1 year

Why are we so uncomfortable w/just sitting w/someone in their grief & letting them grieve? Why do we feel compelled to share unhelpful verses that basically say, “Buck up, little camper!” or guilt them into doing something hard. It’s ok to just say nothing & be there.

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10 months

One year later and we are planning a wedding 💕

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2 years

Landed. Get to see @adhdlibrary !

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😆 Life as a librarian

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Mixed generational groups are healthier for the church. And for society in general. Can we stop segregating ourselves based on age and life stage?

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2 years

@TGC This is so gross. How do you come close to justifying the publication of an article like this? 🤮

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1 year

Let’s all be thankful that Henry Winkler never turned out to be a turd.

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@janeelisabethh Walked out of a church I was visiting once because I couldn’t sit through one more sermon like this. Never went back. Picked a church that valued people whether or not they were married.

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@_nomadic_soul Man, I heard this at church over and over and over. Also that the “job” of women is to “tame” men.

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