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Staff Product Designer @discord • ⏪ Prev: @google @YouTube @TED • 🌸 Art / Photo / Fashion / Games 💁🏻‍♀️ (she/her)

New York City
Joined March 2009
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Lil | Milktea (on Threads)
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📌 Find me at the following: Ⓜ️: 🧵: 🌤️: 🖥️: 🎨:
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“that’s 401 years white people had to build themselves up, yet you want POC to do it in 66 years while they’re still being targeted”
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Lil | Milktea (on Threads)
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The kit. 💕
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Lil | Milktea (on Threads)
6 years
You aren't safe studying at school. You aren't safe having lunch at the office. You aren't safe watching musicians at a concert. You aren't safe playing your bracket. Thanks for that, America.
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Lil | Milktea (on Threads)
5 years
This is the face of someone who said she'd go to therapy since 2012 but instead, found excuses to deprioritize her mental health for seven years. "Don't have time, I'm on the career grind!" No more. Today I went to my first legit therapist appointment and I'm proud of myself. 🎉
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@_lilchen
Lil | Milktea (on Threads)
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what i'd wear as an anime character
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Lil | Milktea (on Threads)
4 years
It’s so infuriating seeing people defend themselves against accusations by showcasing that the victim was nice to them. Do y’all really think humans are that 2-dimensional? That as soon as an assault/harassment occurs, a light switch goes off and suddenly the victim hates them?
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Lil | Milktea (on Threads)
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I got evacuated outside with my hands up. I’m with other people. I don’t think the shooter’s been found that I know of. I saw blood drops on the stairs I walk up everusay. I’m shaking. This is surreal. I hope my colleagues are okay.
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@_lilchen
Lil | Milktea (on Threads)
4 years
get yourself a man who can cook and build rollback
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Lil | Milktea (on Threads)
6 years
As many of you know, I've been training to do a pull up for years using assistance bands. I've never been fit in my life. Today I upgraded to an even thinner band before realizing it hardly did much. SO, I tried a real pull-up.. AND FUCKING DID IT. CHEESED SO HARD IN A CORNER. 😭
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Lil | Milktea (on Threads)
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What a garbage human being.
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Lil | Milktea (on Threads)
6 years
Me dating at 17: oh cool he likes asian girls Me dating at 28: why have you mainly dated asian women? Is your preference REALLY just a preference tho? do you fetishize/exoticize us? and as a side note: can you discuss privilege and intersectionality in a productive manner?
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Lil | Milktea (on Threads)
3 years
Had the honor today meeting Bond last night. Wizzyfan was also *quite* excited to meet @Fizzi36 and get a picture with him.
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Lil | Milktea (on Threads)
3 years
Thank gosh, prime numbers suck.
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Lil | Milktea (on Threads)
9 years
Remember that talk I gave? :] It's here: Why empathy is integral to sexism in gaming convos➝ http://t.co/kDbGSH8UrB http://t.co/GKWVZf1g47
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Lil | Milktea (on Threads)
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Tweeted about this once and got yelled at by a bunch of guys screaming “preferences” meanwhile lots of Asian women empathized. Someone once told me gamers aren’t ready to have discussions about race yet. Inclined to agree, guess we tackle gender first.
@slime_machine
maynard james herbert walker keenan
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re: some responses to a friend's post, it seems that the fetishization of asian women is a conversation that smash, esports, or gaming is not ready to have just really, REALLY try to put yourself in someone's shoes, and look at the entire context of the world around you
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Lil | Milktea (on Threads)
6 years
I am hiding barricaded holy shit.
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Active shooter at YouTube HQ. Heard shots and saw people running while at my desk. Now barricaded inside a room with coworkers.
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Lil | Milktea (on Threads)
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Happy Halloween! 🎃💀🕷🕸 Love, Faith Connors ✌🏼️
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Lil | Milktea (on Threads)
4 years
It's a drop in the ocean compared to actual rollback, but it's neat thinking about how many eyes have glimpsed the homepage design this week (between Twitter, Reddit, Kotaku, Engadget, PCGamer, Dot Esports).
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Lil | Milktea (on Threads)
3 years
Had to do breathing exercises through that, what a grand finals.
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Lil | Milktea (on Threads)
3 years
💉 + 🍻 + 🎮
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Lil | Milktea (on Threads)
5 years
Clean up approximately once a year for our office’s holiday party. 💅🏼
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Lil | Milktea (on Threads)
4 years
Gamers and Smashers have said "I'm sorry this happened," so many times these past weeks that it nearly sounds robotic, though I have faith that many truly mean it. The sheer volume of stories coming out illustrates the burden and mistreatment people have had to carry. Awful.
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Lil | Milktea (on Threads)
3 years
Congrats to the man who built rollback Melee! Well-deserved, Slippiman. 🐸
@esportsawards
Esports Awards
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In case you have missed it! The winner of the 2021 Panel's Choice Award is... @Fizzi36 CONGRATULATIONS!! 🏆
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Lil | Milktea (on Threads)
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I am behind another building with colleagues. There are helicopters. There are lots of police nearby. I don’t know if the shooter has been found. If you hear they’ve been found, tell me. I’m safe for now, but don’t feel safe until they’ve been found.
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Lil | Milktea (on Threads)
4 years
Gracing your feeds with Miso.
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Lil | Milktea (on Threads)
4 years
@PuppehSSB I am so sorry you had to experience this, and for the impact it has had mentally on you.
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Lil | Milktea (on Threads)
6 years
Pastel rendered GameCube tho. 😍 Would you wear it on a shirt?
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Lil | Milktea (on Threads)
4 years
With everything that is happening in Smash right now, can I please just state that I'm fucking thrilled that my weekly therapy appointment is in thirty minutes? Like, shit.
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Lil | Milktea (on Threads)
5 years
Only the Swedes and Aiden/Zhu could somehow spontaneously get me to go clubbing and then stay out until 5AM... 🇸🇪🇺🇸 🇯🇵 However, nightclub in Tokyo: Achievement acquired! ☑️
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Lil | Milktea (on Threads)
5 years
Twitter, there's something I've been hiding from you for the past week or so... Please meet Miso, our precious 9 year old Pomeranian mix.☺️
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Lil | Milktea (on Threads)
6 years
Officially hopping on the bandwagon. Thank you SO much @NintendoAmerica for inviting & hosting me as VIP for this year's #SmashBros Invitational. Last time was one of the best experiences of my life. ❤️ Follow my Instagram for on-site updates ➝ #E32018
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Lil | Milktea (on Threads)
7 years
It's here. It gets to the point. It's 🔥. It's worth a watch. Unlocking the Scene: Smash Sisters. 🎥 Share & RT.👊🏼
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Lil | Milktea (on Threads)
2 years
Had fun setting up my first studio lighting shoot, featuring @fizzi36 as my model. One v-flat and strobe was used. Thinking deeply.
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Lil | Milktea (on Threads)
6 years
I’m scared. They haven not found the shooter yet. Fuck.
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Lil | Milktea (on Threads)
7 years
Damn. @papapaintvids aka director of "Unlocking the Scene: Smash Sisters" wrote a filthy comment on Reddit about his approach to the video.🔥
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Lil | Milktea (on Threads)
5 years
A hastily drawn comic strip depicting a familiar ritual.
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Lil | Milktea (on Threads)
5 years
forcing people to try on my glasses because clear frames are the shit 🤓
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Lil | Milktea (on Threads)
5 years
🖤 Black lips to match my soul. 🖤
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Lil | Milktea (on Threads)
6 years
Holy smokes. 💯 Nintendo, can we has pink, please!? 😭
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Cat W🌺
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She’s beautiful and worth the wait (and money) 😭💕✨
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Lil | Milktea (on Threads)
6 years
The Smash community and honestly everyone (myself included) could use a lesson on what oppression, prejudice, and discrimination mean and how they interact with one another. It’s certainly a lot more complicated than “treating one group poorly because of a characteristic.”
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Lil | Milktea (on Threads)
5 years
These two kids just won 3 million dollars from Fortnite's world cup. My grassroots Smash brain can't comprehend this. Hell, my tech-industry brain can't either. 😱
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Lil | Milktea (on Threads)
5 years
30 today. 🥳
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Lil | Milktea (on Threads)
1 year
Today is my last day at Google. While I’m beyond ecstatic about my next chapter (you’ll find out soon), I’d like to honor how much Google has nurtured my UX career over the last eight years. That’s a long time!
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Lil | Milktea (on Threads)
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Lil | Milktea (on Threads)
7 years
#EVO2017 over. Here's my outfit from last night while I wait on my flight. "Lolita Cut Out Dress" by AQ/AQ. Love their line. ☺️ #NotBlack 💕
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Lil | Milktea (on Threads)
5 years
It's been too long, silver. ✨
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Lil | Milktea (on Threads)
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#SmashSisters tho. LETZZZZZGOOOOO #G3
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Lil | Milktea (on Threads)
4 years
Slippi caused Melee to trend on Twitter... Happy rollback day!
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Lil | Milktea (on Threads)
6 years
Every year for my birthday, my little brother and I make sure we take a grimace-at-cake photo for our birthdays. Speaking of which, I'm 29 today. ☺️
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Lil | Milktea (on Threads)
7 years
Disappointed in the Melee Competition Committee's gross oversight on the need for diverse representation. I believe allyship has a ceiling.
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Lil | Milktea (on Threads)
6 years
Spent a lot of effort planning my #G6 outfits but been too occupied with #SmashSisters to post them! So here is today's, at least. 💕
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Lil | Milktea (on Threads)
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I have waited for this timeline for SO DAMN LONG, but not as long as the champion himself. CONGRATULATIONS @TSM_Leffen FOR WINNING #EV02018 ! 🥇🏆💥
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Lil | Milktea (on Threads)
6 years
Lyft driver just gave me a pro-tip: He said especially for women, he recommends not putting your home address but something nearby. Honestly a great idea, once my driver hit on me and as I stepped out to enter my building, it dawned on me that he now knew exactly where I lived.
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Lil | Milktea (on Threads)
9 years
Seriously. Joke trash-talking can be cute, but booing Hungrybox while he's getting his second place medal? Come on now. Come on. #evo2015
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Lil | Milktea (on Threads)
4 years
Thanks for taking the time to reach out. I can’t know how sincere this is and it adds to my emotional labor this week, but I appreciate the acknowledgment about my work from years ago (which I truly believe traumatized me, so huge props to the people speaking out this week).
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Lil | Milktea (on Threads)
6 years
Feelin' my outfit today. There's a high likelihood that this is because it's the only time I've tried to look presentable in months. New Y-3 pants back from Japan. 👌🏼
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Lil | Milktea (on Threads)
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3.5 hrs post-shooting, I got an email from a reporter asking if I could talk & that he's on a "tight deadline." Today, I got one saying they're glad I'm safe & that they're a creative engineer who wants to work at YT. Resume attached. Both to my personal inbox. People, please.
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Lil | Milktea (on Threads)
4 years
A festive fit to celebrate the season. Merry Christmas and happy holidays! 🎄
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Lil | Milktea (on Threads)
5 years
WOOOOO! Congratulations to Magi for making it in! FIRST WOMAN AT MELEE SUMMIT! 🎉 Also the branding for this year's event is super cute! 😍
@SSBMagi
Magi
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Simps, you have shocked the nation. By all indications, we are going on to Los Angeles victorious. #SmashSummit9
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Lil | Milktea (on Threads)
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This table is discussing frame data at a wedding. #dayzatthezhu
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Lil | Milktea (on Threads)
4 years
Have you not noticed the trend in the recent allegations that show various victims staying friends with their abuser? This is NOT to fault them, but to show this shit can take years to process. I can tell you from personal experience that these interactions are not binary. Ugh.
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Lil | Milktea (on Threads)
6 years
Congratulations to @SSBMagi for breaking into Melee's Top 100, making her the 1st woman ever on #SSBMRank ! This is a massive accomplishment, especially with all the talent out there. 🙌🏼 I've been out of the Smash loop, but have waited for this day for a while. Top 8 next? 😛
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Lil | Milktea (on Threads)
9 years
Someone might not have entirely thought through this photo thumbnail choice. http://t.co/E1pZFYVzPf
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Lil | Milktea (on Threads)
6 years
I’m pretty removed from the Smash community these days. Smash Sisters and friends are the only ties. This is great because now I don’t have to feign diplomacy anymore, and can actively unfollow/remove problematic Smashers from my life. Here we go! ✌🏼 #NoTimeForIgnorance
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Lil | Milktea (on Threads)
6 years
RT if you deprioritized all your hobbies to achieve the Asian American immigrant family dream of a landing stable career and upon achieving such, regressed back to enjoying your childhood hobbies you wish you’d done more of. Brb, binging video games + anime + art. 💁🏻‍♀️
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Lil | Milktea (on Threads)
5 years
Self-potrait.
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Lil | Milktea (on Threads)
9 years
I bet the people who clap to Dreamland are the same folks who clap when a plane lands.
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Lil | Milktea (on Threads)
8 years
If you want to see something happen, make it happen. Chances are executing it yourself will yield better results than complaining & waiting.
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Lil | Milktea (on Threads)
7 years
"Missing girl was found safe? She didn't sound grateful!? WTF, I invested ALL that energy + time by RETWEETING. She owes me an explanation!"
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Lil | Milktea (on Threads)
9 years
Finally, my lengthy thoughts on this pesky topic. Stop asking about all female tournaments ➝
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Lil | Milktea (on Threads)
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👻 Happy Halloween! 🎃 From your local, Kiki, Tombo, & Jiji 🧹🚲🐈‍⬛
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Lil | Milktea (on Threads)
6 years
I’m home. In shock and processing it all. Not in the mental state to do interviews... Probably can’t respond to every message, but thank you everyone who reached out. Today was horrifying and surreal. Went from hearing gunshots to hiding in a matter of minutes. Thoughts later.
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Lil | Milktea (on Threads)
5 years
Realizing that silver hair brings my fits to the next level, or perhaps it's just the cute scenery. 🖤🇩🇰
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Lil | Milktea (on Threads)
6 years
You know the state of America is messed up when you accidentally catch yourself thinking how you’re “lucky” that the weapon wasn’t more powerful, instead of wishing that the shooting never occurred. Shootings feel subconsciously unavoidable and commonplace now. So f*cked.
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Lil | Milktea (on Threads)
6 years
Say goodbye to the last closet mirror selfie from this apartment you'll ever see. Peace out, my beloved nerd studio. ✌🏼
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Lil | Milktea (on Threads)
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Ran into @ssbmhax and some kid interrupts: "OMFG YOU'RE HAX HOLY SHIT OMG himilktea OMFG HAX." Hax: "He doesn't give a fk about u" LMAOOO
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Lil | Milktea (on Threads)
4 years
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Lil | Milktea (on Threads)
5 years
Went to tea today. 💖 #MerryMakingintheGhostTown
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Lil | Milktea (on Threads)
8 years
Practice makeup run on one eye before dinner. 🎃 Not very good at faking the Faith scowl.
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Lil | Milktea (on Threads)
5 years
I SENT MY FIRST V6 TONIGHT! Thanks to my friends for supporting, recording, and giving me advice in the form of Melee analogies. I'm grateful for all the cheering at the end of the clip. ☺️ Also stoked that I never have to climb this again. 😂
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Lil | Milktea (on Threads)
4 years
My quarantine gym is ready. 💦
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Lil | Milktea (on Threads)
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Lil | Milktea (on Threads)
4 years
@MVG_Mew2King Thank you for sharing your story and being so courageously vulnerable. We haven't spoken in years, but I remember some of our old conversations. I wish for your happiness from the sidelines.
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Lil | Milktea (on Threads)
6 years
TFW your friend’s wedding requires you to wear color. 😑 *Shifts uncomfortably.*
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Lil | Milktea (on Threads)
6 years
In regards to @Kayane 's tweets, I'd like to share a snippet of something I wrote about "earning" respect as a woman in the FGC. I wrote this in 2014 and am mildly irritated (but not shocked) that we still have to reiterate this in 2018.
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Lil | Milktea (on Threads)
9 years
First day. Proud to announce that I'll be an Interaction Designer on Google's @YouTubeGaming team. Stoked to learn + work with a rad team!
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Lil | Milktea (on Threads)
8 years
A snippet of the outfit from the holiday party. 😊 Rocking this tomorrow to the #AngelicPretty Tea Party too. Possibly more/better photos!✌🏼️
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Lil | Milktea (on Threads)
6 years
WE GET DOG THERAPY AT WORK. THIS IS THE BEST DAY OF THE WEEK!!!!!! (There are like 30 pets!) 🐶
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Lil | Milktea (on Threads)
6 years
This lady’s phone case is legit, a spray bottle. 😂 #SpottedinJapan
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Lil | Milktea (on Threads)
8 years
Recently banned in NA for molesting Smash gal. Now funding to attend EU event? I demand Smash EU leaders comment.
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Lil | Milktea (on Threads)
6 years
2015: Finding my place. 2019: Leaving my place. Not much has changed, huh? 🏴
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Lil | Milktea (on Threads)
4 years
valorant doggo
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Lil | Milktea (on Threads)
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Was lurking tweets about Slippi's impact, which I don't think is as obvious as we might believe (not every Smasher knew what rollback was either). So, here's a thread on some thoughts regarding the possible benefits of having a smoother, streamlined, online Melee experience: 👇🏼
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Lil | Milktea (on Threads)
2 years
Also, thanks @Fizzi36 for agreeing to model in a photoshoot to commemorate this moment! 😍
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Lil | Milktea (on Threads)
5 years
Host a Meeting: Starter Edition Made this for my mentee and am sharing it in case it's useful. As an introvert raised in a non-American household, I've always disliked that critical social practices in the office aren't explicitly spelled out. Not all social cues are obvious! ✌🏼
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Lil | Milktea (on Threads)
4 years
In layman’s terms for the non-nerds: ✅ Rollback makes the game feel smoother, like you’re playing IRL on a CRT. You’ll also be able to play ppl at much further distances w/ varying smoothness too ✅ Finding matches is better designed and fast ✅ Less downloads ✅ Replay files
@Fizzi36
Jas | FIZZI#36
4 years
Melee community. Welcome to the era of rollback. After seven months of full-time work, the newest Dolphin build from Slippi brings you: ✅ Rollback netcode ✅ Integrated matchmaking ✅ Auto-updates ✅ Replays Try it out now →
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Lil | Milktea (on Threads)
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Idk where the tweet went but if you're a trans-woman don't hesitate for a second to think we wouldn't welcome you to play in #SmashSisters .💕
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Lil | Milktea (on Threads)
6 years
Cup Noodles Museum today! 🍜
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Lil | Milktea (on Threads)
7 years
Thread. 👇🏼 This line of thinking is also why I deliberately tweet about makeup, frilly lolita dresses, and pink things. Being into feminine shit shouldn’t detract from my interest in tech, games, etc. Surprisingly, I’ve met a lot of women who seem biased in this way.
@sailorhg
sailor mercury
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no, not all women present feminine, not all women like feminine stuff. but being feminine isn't bad & it's not contradictory to liking & being good at computers
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