The story of that young foreign woman going to the doctor in Japan for something minor and getting her spine punctured leaving her disabled and in excruciating chronic pain is enough to make me not trust any doctor here ever again.
I’m not even a big account but ppl still find a way to come for me like “white foreigners don’t belong in Japan!” I went to a Japanese university, work for a Japanese company, have a valid visa, am engaged to a Japanese person… where do you suggest I go?
Boy, do offices in Japan just LOVE to exclude their foreign language workers from special activities. Woman at the desk next to mine: "Hey, are you coming to the new years party tonight?"
Me: "Well, this is the first I'm hearing about this, so no."
Really? Based on my resume info that says I have 6 years of experience in my field and a minimum salary requirement they tell me I’d be interested in a part-time, ¥1200-yen-an-hour, operating-staff position? The jokes don’t stop with this site!
When you go to a foreign-owned restaurant in Japan, do you speak to them in Japanese or another language? I default to Japanese unless they speak to me in English first (which I think is the right way to go about it bc you can’t assume everyone knows English).
I flew domestically in Japan for the first time and wow, is it really always that easy? I printed my boarding pass from a machine, didn’t have to show my ID at all, didn’t have to weigh my carry on, didn’t have to take my shoes off… I never knew!
That whole conversation about making friends in Japan is 😵💫😵💫😵💫
Here’s my two cents:
Elitist attitudes about Japan have always been there. Whether is about your language level, job, partner, etc. I started noticing it when I applied for the JET Program years ago. Avoid Reddit -
@_shiopan
When I was searching for an apartment the staff called various landlords to check if foreigners were OK, and I had some ask what /kind/ of foreigner. I told them American, and they still asked what /kind/ of American. That was racism clear as day toward anyone but white people.
I almost felt shame about living in JP for seven years and just now passing N2, but when I say I never study, that’s the truth. My college degree had me at N4, and I never took another class. Being able to function at this level through just changing my environment is wild to me.
Oh yeah… a day late but happy Japanniversary to me! Six years in Tokyo.
I’m more stable than I’ve ever been, and pretty happy overall. That’s all I can ask for!
Ever see a recipe that looks bomb but u just know it’ll be impossible to make w ingredients found in a basic Japanese kitchen? Happens all the time. I have to exclusively use JP recipes if I don’t want to spend a fortune on imported products. Plus, how many of you have an oven?😂
People outside of Japan that ask, “Oh people still care about covid there?” My question is: and you don’t???
Why are they making me feel like this country is “so behind” on something that is still very real and affecting people?
And after 5 years you are by law allowed to become a permanent employee, but either they’ll fire you before that or they will cut your pay so much you’ll say no. 🥲
Foreigners living in Japan long term (5+ years) have a hard time securing full time work, with 36% - 2x the national average - stuck in contracts jobs, according to a new government study on wages in Japan.
I hate how I could have this amazing community of friends by now but they all chose to dip from this country. If we all just stayed maybe it WOULD be more diverse.
Signed, a tired 30 yr old who is sick of trying to find new best friends from scratch every year.
Helping bumbling tourists out because it’s so painful to watch the staff try to communicate.
If you come to Japan without any language skills please speak slowly / use Google translate!
and it’s natural to find comfort in others who speak your native language and are going through the same struggles.
Be friends with whoever you want, but the elitist way of thinking here sucks. We should all be more supportive of each other in this small community.
Americans that wanna move abroad now, I have one thing to say to you: good luck! You’ll be met with a myriad of other issues in your new country too.
Japan is great if you’re seeking a place to escape gun violence, but abortion/queer rights ain’t it.
Hating on people that watch tv with subtitles in their first language is not the personality trait you think it is. They’re always on in my house for obvious reasons, but even when I’m alone I use them. I can’t hear what these people are mumbling half the time. Let us live!!!!
Why do I suddenly find myself reading content from people who think teaching isn’t a valid career? If you dismiss it as “having fun for a year abroad” I will simply block you! Yes, the jobs are underpaid, but they are still worth doing & help a lot of people.
Hakone. We saw Fuji at sunset by chance. The next day it was hidden in the clouds and several people told us they came there specifically to see it and were disappointed.
Something I hate about Tokyo (does this happen elsewhere?) is that I pay an extra full month’s rent every two years to renew my apartment lease, but on the off year I still have to pay an extra ¥10,000 in fees? Why? I’ve paid enough! 😤
But as a minority, it can make you bitter to see others who look like you succeed and chalk it up to not having gaijin friends or passing N1.
Many of us are trying to find our place here — struggling to improve our language level, get a better job, or make and retain friends —
Anyone else who has moved out of the US kinda just a little terrified that you could be caught in a shooting when you go back? What if I bring my bf back to visit and someone attacks him for being Asian? Idk. Hard not to have these thoughts. Probably delusional to a point.
Hanging out with people with big dreams can be exhausting when you just aren’t there right now. They keep coming at you with questions. No, I don’t have some ultimate goal. I just want a nice home, to travel, and not have to think about spending a little extra on things.
Something I’m sure all of us Gtwitter folks have gotten is the “I’m coming to Japan what should I do” message. I just have to laugh. Don’t send messages like that! Be SPECIFIC. Where? How long? What do you like to do? What’s your budget? I cannot plan your trip lol.
Americans always assume that I can get dual citizenship in Japan. Not even people born with a Japanese parent are legally allowed dual citizenship. You must forfeit one when you become an adult (though many fly under the radar).
@writerofscratch
I believe many of them are coming to Japan once in their lifetime or for the first time. Of course they want to see Kyoto or Tokyo, there’s no escaping that.
I love a rural onsen town, but that wouldn’t be my first stop in the country.
@Michanoku
I probably wouldn’t want to go with them anyway. It would be amazing to get a stipend toward a plane ticket to see my family instead.
And we organize our own parties at least. Japanese staff are free to come but most don’t because of kids/overtime/whatnot.
like the plague if you are optimistic. This is just another one of those situations.
As a Japanese person, you *probably* wouldn’t notice or understand. You’d probably think, “Wow! This person has adapted to life here really well. Good for them.”
Listen— I used to trash talk the people in full-body rash guards at the beach. I thought it was overkill. UNTIL I got the worst sun poisoning of my life while snorkeling. Now I always wear at least the top. Better safe than sorry y’all. Let us live!
I’m just feeling utterly miserable for no good reason lately.
A have a few plans with friends coming up.
Relationship is peaceful.
Job is as usual.
Making some travel plans.
So why?
And I wonder if I would feel like this no matter where I was in the world.
On the other hand I didn’t blink an eye when I was in Korea and used English to order at several places we went. And that is largely due to me not knowing Korean, but idk the level of awkward I feel is totally different in Japan in these situations.
~Feelings Dump~
I have no community left in Japan, & it’s pretty disheartening. One moment I crave it and the next I just want to be left alone though. I’m so hot and cold. I just miss my forever friends because it’s natural and easy with them.
I used to be that person complaining about Japanese people making plans exactly 1 month and 3 days in advance, but now I’m like that too. It takes effort to get me to be social. For better or for worse? Who knows.
I’ve lived in Japan since working full-time and it just dawned on me that because of that I don’t know what it’s like to live in the US and actually have money to spend. 😆 I wonder how fun it is in comparison to here?
@LMcshield
This is just about Twitter trolls. I have nothing to prove to them as I know my legal status. Even if I had citizenship, these people wouldn’t stop!
“Visit London! Visit Amsterdam! Visit Portland! Visit Melbourne!” they all say in unison while my salary never budges an inch, the yen weakens, and cost of living increases. 🥲
I’d love to see your countries but it’s better if you come to Japan at this point.
@ReinaScully
Tattoos are NOT illegal stop spreading misinformation. Also by an icon getting a tattoo in Japanese-wrong or not- it helps to NORMALIZE it in society and change opinions. -An active member of society with a sleeve in Tokyo.
People are shocked when I say I wanted to start a new life and move out of the US. They don’t realize how awful it can be to live there, especially if you’re poor.
Anyone else feeling like 2024 is a huge year of change? So many people I know are making moves, disrupting their lives, building or breaking, myself included.
@rcampbelltokyo
This tweet wasn’t supposed to get more than two likes. I never imagined the person themselves would see it! I’m so sorry for dragging you on twitter! 🫣
What I’m coming to realize about friendships is…
small groups > big parties
experiences > dinners
I would rather make core memories with my friends that don’t revolve around simply eating and drinking. Sadly, it’s so hard to schedule things with people.