@dogmadeath
We do not exist for ur sexual pleasure and calling an entire community of people “repulsive” for not performing sexuality in a way you can get off to is actually crazy.
@AdequateEmily
I’ve seen so many people say “I wish I were a boy, but not in a trans way. I don’t want to transition I just want to have been born a boy in the first place!” Like dude. That’s what being trans is.
@rosapazl
As a survivor of several different forms of severe abuse I simply just…. Cannot find it in myself to care. You can dislike something without needing to state that it’s evil and anyone who likes it should die- ESPECIALLY because it’s like….practically canon?
A real twink bill death is in my handyman au when he finally gets together with ford he turns into a chubby silly uncle…. TEAR RUNS DOWN MY CHEEK. MY DREAM
@MS4TUNE3
@Hamwamster
There’s a big difference in transmasc and trans men for a lot of people, myself included! I literally HATE being called transmasc because that doesn’t describe my identity. Like yeah a transmasc can be a lesbian but a man cannot!
@InstantSunrise
THIS. It took me so long to realize how much I was forcing myself to be okay with being feminine and perceived as a woman to make OTHERS feel more comfortable with my transness!
@Simo2693
@flwrmoniee
Idk who she is but she’s a Zionist so fuck her. Also at least Chappell makes good music and doesn’t look/sound like literally every other bitch on this planet… she has a unique style and isn’t a shit person. Can ur fav say the same?
@Fenrir61294
@AdequateEmily
Yeah so close! Wanting to be male or female is actually what trans people want. Even if you don’t transition that is still dysphoria.
@cherryfullart
I had a phase in middle school where I strongly related to Hannibal lecter to the point of naming myself after him and intentionally changing my mannerisms to be more like him.
@takuyujiyuri
For. I’m gay but my best friend is a lesbian and says she “separates the art from the artist but like reversed” when it comes to chappel. Likes her as a person, doesn’t like her music. It’s that simple.
@dxwizardx
@MS4TUNE3
@Hamwamster
Transmasc can mean a very large range of genders, while trans man is more specific. Transmasc can include generally more masc aligned genders, including non binary genders, but does not inherently mean men.
@cbucc97
@_pisschrist
Overstimulation is not the same as being overwhelmed and it is very specific to people with sensory processing disorders, including autism. But it’s become so watered down that people just think it means getting kinda annoyed or overwhelmed
@deltarune__
@yaoiboyeli
roleplay is like a normal part of so many fandom spaces. As long as it isn’t sexual or with adults, it’s fine! Let them have fun.
@_artfulnerd
I HATE being on Etsy and seeing some cool fan works only to realize they’ve included every possible character EXCEPT for wyll??? Like you’re really gonna add halsin and minthara before WYLL???
@Fenrir61294
@AdequateEmily
Yeah but that’s not what I mean. I mean people who actively wish they were born as the opposite gender and long for that life, yet think it’s not dysphoria because they don’t want to be a boy/girl “in a trans way”
@Idontknow193902
@rosapazl
I’m not saying it is, I’m saying I personally enjoy it. Just because other people aren’t comfortable with it, doesn’t mean I can’t be. Like you said, please get over yourself.
@rororolans
Astarion having abs makes no fucking sense because not only wouldn’t physique like that take a lot of work I KNOW he isn’t doing, but it also requires nourishment that he absolutely doesn’t have. And I refuse to believe Gale was doing pull ups when he was depressed and isolated
@egashiramika
Nobody is saying disliking a ship makes you homophobic. We are saying hating something BECAUSE it is mlm is homophobic. Please learn to read yall???
@D3W1BOL1C4L
Also bill and ford are like… pretty heavily implied to have had SOME kind of thing. It doesn’t have to be outright stated and no one HAS to ship it… but it’s not something the fans just made up.
Men are not "inherently" predatory, but they are structurally and systemically enabled and encouraged to be predatory--when we say this isn't "inherent," we mean that other types of societies are possible. We don't mean that the сis male psyche isn't built on top of misogyny.
@Koko_chanc
“You disagree with me about your own culture?? Heh…. Here’s a screenshot of another person from your culture disagreeing with you which is obviously correct and the only opinion because it supports what I want it to!”
@correyallen2
@SlurvingThea
@STEFANIANIGHT
Your entire existence is spent living in an attempt to offend people, and this is why no one genuinely loves you. You are the most insufferable person to be around at any given time <3
The way you choose to interact with media CAN say a lot about you as a person and I’m tired of pretending it doesn’t. It’s not about the fictional characters, but about the actual people and issues they are meant to represent and discuss.
the issue with objectification isnt that its bad for the characters, its what it says about YOU, the real person who sexualizes children, the real person who diminishes a fictional womans story and character to her appearance, the real person who thinks we dont need poc in media
@polyanthems
Why are people bringing back 80’s and 90’s style homophobia towards queer men, but like in a “progressive” way? Like “yeah we’re calling gay men disgusting predatory monsters but like in a good way this time!”
I want yall to know that the person who made that TikTok openly says it has no sympathy for male victims, and that it WOULD feel bad if they were women. Just some food for thought.
@kreddit_fakecel
This is like insanely fucked up considering what those allegations were last time. Idc if you think he’s cringe but leave the man ALONE.
The homophobia you guys have towards queer men is absolutely fucking disgusting and horrifying. PLEASE stop regressing to the 80’s and pick up a fucking book.
@goustmilky
@nontoxicgrape
@fleetwoodmaxpng
@collinkilloranx
Eh, I’m a gay man who’s been called that a lot but I still wouldn’t ever use it, because it wasn’t actually directed at my sexuality. People THOUGHT I was a lesbian and that’s why they called me that so it��s not really my place???
@oldmanyari
@ineedjeezus
I think people need to just start hating things without trying to find a moral justification for hating it tbh! It’s so freeing I promise it doesn’t kill you!!! Simply block people I am so serious
Most autistic memes are just “lol all autistics can only ever eat these three things!” And it’s like…. Plain pasta, chicken nuggets, and bread or smth.
the weird type of online conversation where white autistic people all metaphorically stand in a circle and talk about how it's only natural they're disgusted by and would never willingly try ethnic food because it's not ✨safe✨
@Idontknow193902
@rosapazl
I am not gonna sit here and explain to you why someone making silly little drawings about an old man divorcing a triangle isn’t a crime against humanity. Saying it’s a “weird obsession with abusive relationships” is actually crazy.
@vmyauroraa
Also like… as a trans man I do not WANT to be included in this. If someone’s identity is defined as being attracted only to non men and they said it’s fine to date me because I’m trans I’d like… actually cry??? That would be my last straw.
@Bulmalovespizza
@unkissedyuri
So people who are into men will probably talk about being into men sometimes, in the same way people who are into women will talk about it sometimes. I hope this helps!💕💕💕
@spoonyspinee
You are currently like the
#1
artist I look up to tbh you’re so cool and a large part of me wants to print out one of your drawings and eat it I’m so serious
@goustmilky
@nontoxicgrape
@fleetwoodmaxpng
@collinkilloranx
However I do have sort of complicated feelings on the way some other queer people use the word faggot directed at gay men as an insult because originally it didn’t apply to yall and while I think other queer people can say it, the WAY some people use it rubs me the wrong way
@hahihikaa
Also unpopular opinion but genderbending CANON gay characters into women saying you “fixed” them is like…. So homophobic to me?? Because a lot of people are (rightfully) mad if someone does the same to sapphics. So what makes THAT not okay while doing it to queer men is??
@bimbotheory
It is honestly really refreshing and sweet to see someone who is not a gay man actually defending the community ur an absolute angel actually
Like idk I think there’s a difference between consuming media that portrays dark themes and complex relationships and just openly saying you wanna r-pe someone 😭
@R3ACHINGOUT
Especially because I know for a FACT there were so many other clips that could have been funny! Like for Mabel just use a louise or Sarah Lynn audio or smth…. There are plenty that aren’t sexual
@Idontknow193902
@rosapazl
I’m saying I enjoy what I like, and others are allowed to hate it but they don’t need to make it my problem. I think if you see someone shipping billford you should just block them instead of acting like you have some moral high ground
Calling a 17 year old girl a pedophile for a distasteful, stupid, unfunny joke when there’s actual horrible men out there doing god knows what seem so bizarre to me idk 😭
@egashiramika
And when I tried to explain it’s about actual homophobia and not stupid fandom discourse you brought it up again because that’s the only thing you can argue doesn’t exist.
@ofdogwood
@biassenjoyer
1) YOU are the one behaving like periods should not be acknowledged publicly and 2) HIV killed thousands of our community so yes it’s worse than making a drag gag about periods. If you think that’s what misogyny is, you are severely fucking mistaken.
she looks like the type of trans guy you’re acquaintances with in high school that gets in a relationship with a straight man who begs him not to go on testosterone
@pinknpurple360
God forbid I say I think selling the pimp mug is fucking strange and insanely insensitive to victims of trafficking, then the fandom will get on my ass with “it’s just a character! It’s just a joke!” Fuck OFFFF
@sugarbeez_
I’m more annoyed with that entire account (the one the video is from) because they aren’t even actually 2020 alt they just make fun of “cringe” people and people are too stupid to realize it’s satire.
@R41NB0WD4SHX3
Fighting so hard in the replies about how “erm you can’t police me using the f slur im queer” like yeah you can use it but using it derogatorily against gay men is still bad even if ur queer!! In fact that is still just homophobia!!
@Bozzman__
They aren’t saying it’s good, but they’re saying it’s heavily implied that it HAPPENED and that the implications of that relationship and its toxicity are like… very important and very obvious.
@rotten_werk
If astarion were canonically not into women it would single handedly solve and cause so many issues at the same time and I’m honestly curious to see what would have happened…
@LeeofLeeLand
@yurigaysex
@UFOCR4ZE
Go read a fucking book. The person in the photo is saying they “could have made it.” That’s why everyone is upset, because physically? Yes, you could. But you DIDNT because you didn’t go through the grief and heartbreak that inspired the concept