Sounding The Red Alarm: Raising Domestic Violence Awareness seeks to Raise Awareness about Domestic Violence and to Inform. Goal: Raise Male DV Shelters for men
@davidgmandel
WHO was the Social Worker!? Whoever that Social Worker is, they need to be fired. It's not up to the SW to gaslight the victim, when the victim has been through so much, already. I'd be more scared of the SW who'd ever forced me to say anything that I wasn't feeling.
@Gaslight_Effect
It's not that narcissistic abuse has been normalized, it's that more people are speaking up about it, they're talking about it, they know they deserve better than what has been given to them, they know they don't want anymore heartache. Domestic violence thrives in silence.
@nate_postlethwt
And it's ok to not always be strong. We have to normalize that it's ok to have an occasional emotional breakdown and to also normalize asking for help when we need it. There is some strength left in someone who knows they need help, they've not given up.
@IllyNOTLilly
Yes, just had this thought while at a local social event. Then, I had beamed with pride. They're talking about us. It's about time we stood in this and unified, showing them what we're all about.
@nate_postlethwt
Trauma bonds are going to happen. They'll be people that you don't really want to let go of, that you deeply care about, that you'll cherish for the rest of your life. The amazing thing is, you don't have to let go of those people. It's ok to love from a distance.
@lonesfeels
Really, it eats at your gut. I dislike this feeling, and I hope you ask questions instead of making assumptions. Resolvance only comes from knowing, and pursuing.
@AKNewsNow
Imagine being 24 years old, and then retestifying in court about the man who did this to you, only to find out he will be released and you still remain scared for the rest of your life because of what he did. Alaska needs to reinstate The Death Penalty for people like him.
@AKNewsNow
🗣 I wouldn't.
There were more inspirational people who serviced Alaska far better than he did. Why are we trying to name a port after someone who wasn't Alaska Native?
@MatthewCoast
She should never approach a man. If she values herself, and she has self worth, she'll never approach a man. Her self confidence is far more than enough to attract a man, no matter how she looks. If she approaches a man she'll appear desperate.
@_SuccessMinded_
Sudden, unexplainable positive change. If that positive change is in love, life or possibilities; they need to know- nothing is impossible for those who try.
@thisusertwtss
How can you tell if somebody misses you, if you don't give them the opportunity to miss you? Absence makes the heart grow fonder, but too much absence can lead to loneliness. Set boundaries and break limiting barriers. Stay positive-thinking, as it often leads to good action.
@MatthewCoast
He knows he's condescending you. In fact, he just hopes you don't react negatively to it so you don't get into an argument. But yes- he knows he's condescending you, he knows he's abusive. How much you're willing to tolerate, before you let go, is the ultimate question.
Domestic violence thrives in silence. When we speak up, we actively empower others and ourselves. Telling our story about domestic violence is the hard part. Facing our demons is the hard part. Going through it is the hard part. Be uncomfortable, or your environment never changes
@Alaskanbuilt2nd
@lisamurkowski
Wow, as an Alaska Native myself, you are severely undereducated about Alaska Natives or of Alaska. I'm no "savage"; but it is people like you who perpetrate DV against AN/AI. You say people shouldn't discriminate, but you do it yourself. You can't be hypocritical.
@realDonaldTrump
Sir, with all due respect. China knows about walls. 3,000 years from now, it's just going to be another tourist attraction on the map of the globe. Berlin also knows about walls, but they took theirs down.
@alaskascott
I mean, thanks for the extra twelve bucks; when we should have been getting full PFD this whole time- without half of it going to State of Alaska. 🤦🏻♀️
@adndotcom
It's government abusive to do this to the residencies of Alaska. There is no excuse for it. Anchorage had 8 DHS Offices, Juneau had 6. The days of merging post-Columbine are over. OPEN THE OFFICES!!
@IntrovertsAreUs
Intelligent people change how they have thought about socialization and who they associate with because they also tend to put up with less B.S. You run yourself with the same folks that you identify yourself with. It's hard to see the world any differently once you've changed.
@MatthewCoast
When your partner asks to keep a scheduled phone call and scheduled meeting time. Who else is he/she seeing, besides you? My last ex decided to use his additional time to gaslight me behind my back w/friends & his family while he was searching for someone else to be with.
@adndotcom
About time RCV was repealed. It silenced people and discriminated others from a genuine vote. Some of those ballots never made it past the 1st count. Others were discarded. It's the most illegal voting system I've ever seen.
@privatekeanu11
Zephyr (Like the Steampunk Air Balloon, "West Wind")
Zenith (Like the television set, "the time at which something is most powerful or successful; the point in the celestial sphere directly above an observer"
Zindel ("Defender of men")
May your Self-Confidence, Peace, and Retention of a Clear Conscience be so strong, that you have actively decided to no longer care about the people that leave you behind. You didn't do anything wrong.
@NeffeliesStuff
Oh, you've no idea. It's fact, not fiction.
There are very subtle signs and synchronicities doing God's work. Open up your mind, open up your heart and realize nothing is impossible. If you solely look for benevolency, you'll see the Angels who walk among us.
Been an eventful couple of days, sorry for my absence as I have been trying to get things done.
Lovely, I am also back on my TicTok account. I know some of my followers here don't like TicTok, but that's where I also raise domestic violence awareness.
Hope to see you there.
The whole of The Universe is mobilizing today to take back it's Freedom. The whole world has shifted, spiritually, consiously, and intentionally while reclaiming their Lost Thrones and Rightful Heirs.
We have Returned to
The Valley Of The Kings.
People mistake my kindness for weakness. Indeed, I am kind, but I am not weak. I have lived through 5 DV Relationships, 3 of which had nearly taken my life. Everyone's first DV Relationship was with that of their parents, continuing the Gen. Trauma & Abuse.
@lovewins11011
Abuse made me..
Nervous
Scared for my life
Question everything
Defensive
Always look over my shoulder
Hospitalized
Relive the abuse in court
Traumatized
PTSD
CPTSD
Depressed
Have suicidal thoughts
Think I was worthless
That I didn't matter
...
I am still here.
You are too.
🙏
@selfcarecanvas
Do nothing. Let them wallow and think it over. Walk away.
But when walking away, show them the growth that you have done in their absence.
And then finally, forgive them. It may hurt for a while, but it is necessary to keep on going.
@matthewhussey
People can have great chemistry together. Physical attraction isn't everything, unfortunantly. It's important to be compatible in good morals as well. Like minded people attract like minded people.
@adndotcom
Anchorage is going to wind up killing the homelessness population. These people didn't choose homelessness on purpose. What Anchorage needs to do, is open up more YMCA's and offer these people free showers, clean job interview clothes and building more new homes with HUD Sec.8
@matt1775725420
No sloppy seconds
If that goes into your mouth, you have to finish it
Finger food isn't what it used to be
Pound for pound, it doesn't get any better than this
This is the cremè de ala cremè
Welcome to the party
Family affairs are in order
Thank you for sharing your story.
When we speak up, this is the when we have actively decided to take our power back as individuals. This shift is so important. When one speaks up, it physically encourages others to do the same. We are not alone.
@PattyMurray
What's more alarming, is that USDOD so often doesn't have the Federal Funding they need to be combating problematic SA. I currently know people who say the VA is severely underfunded, often lacking in supplies needed and that our Vets would do better finding a regular hospital.
@ewarren
It's not the job of Congress, but every American Citizen to step up and take action. We can't 100% depend on government to do for Us, what We should be doing ourselves. I hope you look forward to my next video on Raising Domestic Violence Awareness.
@MatthewCoast
They feel like:
They're not enough
lost
inadequate
insecure
jealousy
anger
anxiety
hopeless
helpless
hurt
depressed
clinically depressed
afraid
scared
...
Men have feelings. They're afraid or have been taught not to express them.
🗣🚨Women abuse, too.
Telling your person all of your deepest thoughts with full trust, and knowing they'll never destroy you because they want to build with you, love you, cherish you, honor you and never leave you.
@lonesfeels
No. I'd be worried and wondering what they're going through. Do they need help!? Going suddenly silent isn't normal behavior. Lack of attention and refusing attention are two different things. I promised I'd never go silent or suddenly silent from social media.
@pearlythingz
That the court system tends to favor the matriarchy and exclude the patriarchy from the children- is already post-secondary abusive. I'm a daughter, raised by my father and my father has been the best gift I could have ever asked for. Children desperately need their fathers.
@nate_postlethwt
Healing is asking yourself why you stuck around, and realizing you didn't have to. Sometimes, people are just not our people. There's a whole new world out there that still needs to be explored.
@lexfridman
Counselor tells me this one:
Concentrate on the things that is within your own control. When we focus on things outside of our own control - it becomes moot. Why worry past your own ability to do!?
@RohitSah786
There exists 3,868 Domestic Violence Shelters. NOT a single ONE of them is a male domestic violence shelter, which SHOULD REQUIRE MEN to get the counseling he needs as a Second Exit Plan before he leaves the DV Shelter. WOMEN have had this privilege for almost 40 yrs.
@muhmmdazhr
The "About:" Profile Section in WebTv, using HTML. I really miss it. I had awesome digital art; and a good trance, techno, synthwave playlist. I also miss the soundwave bar visuals.
@AKNewsNow
She's restored my faith in humanity. She's right: Our 2 Party System isn't working. Our Founding Fathers warned us of having a 2 Party System as a specific danger to our own society. What We need.. going forward, is lifting up our Independent & Constitutional Parties.
You're aware.
But, are you hyperaware?
You're playing it safe.
But, have you tried to let your guard down?
You're not focused.
But, have you tried doing just a little bit at a time?
You've distanced yourself.
But, have you tried calling someone?
Have you tried to open your heart?
@Malone1k
Criminal Psychology, and develop an extensive background into Forensics. If you can study multiple languages, do that also because it will increase your job search criteria.
@ReviveTheBH
-A man protects his home.
-A man doesn't have a need to control.
-A man doesn't have the need to be narcissistic.
-A man supports his spouse, whatever she chooses to do. They both lift each other up in endeavors.
-It's ok for a man or woman to cry.
One of the things I love about Psychology is how Psychology has recognized over 3,800 names of feelings that we experience, and how Psychology is working on the total possible combinations of those feelings because we recognize feelings are complex, just as humans are complex.
Most don't think about having a back up plan. Most don't save for family emergencies. Most don't think their parents would ever die. You need to have a savings plan that works for you. Be prepared in family emergencies. You never know when they will come.
@ML_Philosophy
I also disagree with the workplace policy of the inability of employee's to change their hair color. Hair color doesn't affect how business is done. I think it's unconstitutional for employer's to insist on this policy while preventing freedom of expression.
@wiseconnector
I believe in a long term relationship in person that results in marriage. People think too hard about marriage, or try to make that marriage life too difficult before really getting to know each other. Marriage isn't supposed to be a scary thing to go through.
@wealth_director
Don't wait on somebody else.
Wait on me, work on me, love me, respect me, cherish me, value me, honor me, have faith in me, believe in me.
Someone else can always leave me, but I am still here to do it all on my own.
@MatthewCoast
Got some long stories that would sound impossible if anyone else had heard them. That's been my entire life, though- everything about my life sounds impossible and I'm still here. I didn't break my 35 yrs promise- to raise DVA on behalf of those closest to me.
@EMusk44057
I learned some hard lessons along the way.
During our hardest times, is when internalized growth seems to happen the fastest. I believe God works miracles, just to let us know He's still here.
@MatthewCoast
A man needs to learn patience.
If he is serious about her, he is patient with her. Men live on anxiety, worrying about the woman's next action, when they need to learn how to ask. But, being patient with a woman - is marriage, no matter how much he doesn't understand about her.
When you're in a relationship, your only competition is with the other person's peace of mind before they knew you.
That other person was comfortable with being alone. That's your competition.
If you broke down those walls, then they're a keeper.
@thisusertwtss
But then you remember that the powers of suggestion and positivity are your daily strength and need; that you truly create the reality you choose to live in just because of a thought; so that when we are so positive, it didn't do ourself any good to worry in the first place.
@elonmuskPOTUX
Check out The Cameron Islands of Malaysia. They have a similar program like our BIA, so the land is Govt funded; but the citizens get to keep the crops they make, and they're forced to make & keep the crops or they lose their land property. So gen after gen. has to keep it up.
@mindfulmaven_
Thinking outside of the box:
The No. 1 cause of divorce .. is having the divorce lawyers and divorce court present in the first place. No divorce lawyers or divorce court existing, then there would be.. no divorce.
Marriage is a Divine Union.
@adndotcom
Alaska is hellbent on oil as the only source of income for Alaska Natives, this isn't working, for the past 40 years. We have 229 Alaska Native Villages that seriously need to be built, because they don't meet basic human needs. We are vulnerable as
#MMIP
@Iam_StephenMusk
Even a Therapist needs another Therapist, Psychologist or Counselor. Therapy, Psychology and Counseling are the top 3 jobs slated for severe depression, anxiety and throughts of suicide. The 4th is Police Officers and the 5th are Security jobs.
@Liz_Wheeler
@elonmusk
Planned Parenthood hasn't always been right, either. They've had their own business to have made their own mistakes. However; I support abortion. We've had 78,000 women die, without it. More women have died without abortion, than during it's existence.
@NCADDNational
It’s time to stop calling alcoholism a “disease”. Drinking alcohol is a “choice”, not a “disease”.
#Addiction
is the point of no return when the body can no longer go w/o substance of choice or face death bc of severe withdraw.
@NeffeliesStuff
It's the realization that you've been in control this whole time, but it was in how you should have dealt with the troubles along the way, using wisdom instead of choosing difficulty. Language by itself is complicated, how you talk to yourself determines subtle outcomes.
@mari_penaranda1
As an Alaska Native, I could do this, and also not be bothered. He just wants the fruit, his already natural food source. I ever have such an encounter, he needs pets and hugs also.
@OscarZBuisiness
Even though both of them are the same price, people will shop at Store 2 more because they think they are getting a better deal while reading the On Sale sign.
"I am not responsible for what others do. I am only responsible for what I do." : Is such a powerful thing to say when it comes to the self-realization that you are not a victim of circumstance, but of your environment. Change your environment, to live well.
So, TODAY we cannot have men be ignored in domestic violence. They are equally in need of domestic violence awareness counseling and DV shelters. When we heal the men from domestic violence, we have now healed the ENTIRE household. THAT'S POWERFUL!
#whyIdidntreport
Because at 12 years old, I got the blame from my father who didn't support me. I was blamed for being too beautiful. I didn't know what sexual assault was, having been stalked by 12 other High School guys on the way home. I had no way out. No community support.
@MatthewCoast
Dating for a while!? No, depends on the situation; but there are plenty of dates that can still happen and don't require any money at all.