🧵Since October 7, I wrote about grieving, crying, and hoping with Israelis via
@jdforward
This last year taught me lessons never part of my life's curriculum. It taught me what it means to be Israeli:
Called
@Chase
to dispute a charge.
Midway through: "You know, we're all praying for you guys."
20 minutes later, we're talking about Israel, Hamas, the Holocaust, Jewish resilience, God, prayer, hope.
I didn't know I needed that.
Thank you, Geraldine❤️
@mehdirhasan
How are you still playing victim? You implicitly justify Bin Laden's terrorism because of Israel's war against Lebanon, itself prompted by terrorism. Own what you say and stop gaslighting others for calling you out for it
Someone told me he fakes his COVID test to gain access to
@YUNews
buildings for shiur. I reminded him about the clear genevat da'at going on, and he asked me if I'm one of those crazy liberals. Not sure if he's trying to suggest Rambam was a crazy liberal
Flight booker: Ok, so to confirm: Your departing flight to Israel is Aug. 14. And your return flight is —
Me, with main character energy: There is no return flight.
This feels surreal ❤️🇮🇱
@mehdirhasan
You're citing Bin Laden's reasoning for 9/11 to ... what exactly? Randomly share what he says as a fun fact? Or give credence to the Israel-based explanation he says motivated his terrorism? Seems pretty lazy and dishonest to me 🤷♂️
We don’t talk enough about the mental/emotional exhaustion of dating.
The invested hours of presence, attention, vulnerability, etc. are demanding and draining.
Then you need to “restart”—repeat the same stories, questions—for new matches.
Sometimes you just need a break.
Me: *in Tzfat, drinking my ice at a random sukkah while someone without shoes sings Zusha songs*
Random guy in said sukkah: Are you looking to get married? I think I have a girl for you.
Just had a disappointing visit to the
@YUNews
Caf. They were carding everyone for overpriced Chobanis & walking around telling people to buy Chobanis. A reminder why the MO community has had such a hard time getting past Chobanis. YU needs to do a better job or become irrelevant
Finished this over Shabbos (started a while ago) and the last few chapters are chilling.
Maybe the best book I’ve read dealing with faith, reason, and religion.
I deleted my og tweet of
@RealCandaceO
giving Jewish PhD prof/writer
@DBashIdeas
because I put on the 18Forty logo when I shouldn't have
Could have been my big Twitter moment 🥲 the sacrifices we make (not Christian children!) to not normalize antisemites
Enjoy it here tho :)
@Mandalorthodox
The article says as one of its points:
"It’s quite possible that the Jews would not have been persecuted across the generations were it not for the theological affinity between the Hebrew Bible and Christianity."
MY GUYS IS DIPPING INTO JEW-BLAMING ANTISEMITISM 101
One thing Rav Aaron taught me that's a game-changer:
Take your phone and message someone (anyone - friend, someone you lost touch w, family member) something warm and positive. short, sweet, one message
Will change your day and theirs
Spoke with
@havivrettiggur
for 18 Questions, 40 Israeli Thinkers about Philadelphi Corridor, Israeli leadership, and the price Hamas sets for victory.
This is our longest interview so far and one of the broadest.
Stay tuned for this and more from
@18_forty
Taking a Tehillim class this semester and each HW is heavy b'iyun work on a certain perek. I'll basically be making shiurim-like source sheets on each one, and I'm totally here for it
When war in Israel begins, antisemitism inevitably follows.
Does that make it Israel's fault?
Hannah Arendt and some American Jews say yes. I say no. Here's why.
My latest in
@jdforward
:
I think it's inappropriate for a prime minister to spend any time making memes when his citizens are held hostage by a terrorist group and his soldiers are fighting a dangerous, time-sensitive war
Man with phone : “Netanyahu, did you know that they’re now comparing you to James Bond?”
Netanyahu: “Nonsense. It’s Netanyahu; Benjamin Netanyahu” 🕶️🇮🇱
Had Shabbat dinner with my brother and sister in law at
@avitalrachel
and
@BenZevG
(incredible hosts and even nicer in person than on Twitter).
I’ve been convinced that we need a frum Twitter/JTwitter meet up — and that the Upper East Side is very nice
Everyone try your own!
Just had a disappointing visit to the
@YUNews
___. They were ____ everyone for _____ & walking around telling people to _____. A reminder why the MO community has had such a hard time getting past _____. YU needs to do a better job or become irrelevant
Just had a disappointing visit to the
@YUNews
Caf. They were carding everyone for overpriced Chobanis & walking around telling people to buy Chobanis. A reminder why the MO community has had such a hard time getting past Chobanis. YU needs to do a better job or become irrelevant
18 Questions with
@SivanRahav
... coming to you this Monday on
@18_forty
's new pod: 18 Questions, 40 Israeli Thinkers
We talked:
- Israel-Hamar War
- The future of Zionism
- That time Sivan interviewed Yitzchak Rabin
- and more
Stay curious :)
This is the avodah.
@18_forty
devoting a series to abuse is so important and so needed. Judaism requires us to take on the difficult, painful, and uncomfortable problems. Thank you,
@DBashIdeas
, for this interview.
Contemporary Issues in Talmud w/
@AriBergmann
is underway.
So many students are interested in the subject matter, but way more telling is how many are interested in an introduction to academic Talmud. (Hint: It's a lot.)
Rabbi Bergmann is changing the game here at
@YUNews
.
@YUNews
used to be rooted in 3,000 years of tradition but recently upped it to 5,000 years of tradition.
Where did the other 2,000 years come from? Wrong answers only.
To everyone using this instance to generalize Orthodox communities — stop. This person is violating the rules and happens to be Orthodox; the two have no meaningful correlation.
Following COVID rules and making ethical decisions are a universal problem
I have to give credit where credit is due:
@18_forty
has an extraordinarily touching narrative dropping this week about religious homelessness and finally finding a religious home
I love, so much, the work we do ❤️
Things Hashem and I spoke about this am I wanted to share:
1. Give yourself permission to make mistakes — Hashem already has
2. Be kind to the ego because it also wants Hashem
3. Let good things be good
4. Hashem is really funny and if you speak to Him I think you’ll agree
I imagine this year’s Pesach in split-screens:
I burn bread, the hostages hunger.
I sit with my family, the hostages sit alone.
I celebrate eight days of freedom, the hostages suffer nearly 200 days of captivity.
My latest in
@jdforward
Relationships go through four stages:
- Pshat: surface-level personality, characteristics
- Remez: hints of values, beliefs
- Drash: deeper hopes, beliefs, insecurities
- Sod: secret essence, the very presence
It takes time to move through those layers.
Orthodox Jewish art is in some ways a paradox: Art can require a certain level of transgression, and in conservative cultures probing questions are rarely tolerated. But a new generation is finding ways to tell its truths,
@avitalrachel
reports:
My latest in
@jdforward
Life only appears normal in Israel—crowded coffee shops, congested traffic, frolicking schoolchildren. But looks are misleading.
In Israel, every smile is one comment away from sorrow, every greeting one question from tears.
I wrote a difficult article for
@jdforward
that I'm sure will initially upset many. I ask you read the whole thing with an open heart and mind ❤️
Comments, criticism, and literature are much appreciated 📩
It’s impossible to avoid the banners of Hersch in Jerusalem. They stare in accusation: Why am I not home?
It’s a question that will forever haunt me.
My latest heartbreak in
@jdforward
Ok, I know I work for
@18_forty
so I'm incredibly biased, but the Book Journey led by
@Malka_Simkovich
is INCREDIBLE. First session is off the charts. So good. Just wow.
We don’t talk enough about the mental/emotional exhaustion of dating.
The invested hours of presence, attention, vulnerability, etc. are demanding and draining.
Then you need to “restart”—repeat the same stories, questions—for new matches.
Sometimes you just need a break.
“Not only has Rabbi Blau witnessed YU’s development in the last decades, he has also actively and generously nourished its growth,” writes Gaby Rahmanfar in Features.
Can finally share that my in-laws, Moscow Chief Rabbi
@PinchasRabbi
& Rebbetzin Dara Goldschmidt, have been put under pressure by authorities to publicly support the 'special operation' in Ukraine — and refused.
YU and the LGBTQ Case Thread:
Yesterday, the court made the landmark decision that
@YUNews
is not a religious corporation and thereby legally required to allow an LGBTQ club to form on campus.
This case did not begin yesterday. Here is what you need to know: 1/n
Excellent, excellent, excellent. Another powerful and informative episode in
@18_forty
’s series on abuse. Reminded me of
@Doc_RPS
’s thread yesterday about boundaries set in yeshivot/seminaries
How can we set healthy boundaries?
We sat down with Rahel Bayar, a former sex crimes prosecutor who is the CEO of the Bayar Group, which provides abuse prevention trainings, to learn about awareness and education in faith-based communities.
Start here:
I have:
- 10-paged paper for history class
- 25-paged paper for independent study
- 12-paged paper for academic Talmud
- 10-paged paper for science class
and I have not started any of them.
So, I'm writing an essay on soul with my free time because priorities
The silence is exhausting. For a community that loves to talk, argue, and yap about so many meaningless things, it's exhausting to see leaders speak about imminent dangers and appalling tragedies with such trepidation. Sexual abuse, sexual assault, corruption, etc. Call. It. Out.
🎙️ 18 Questions: Rabbi David Stav 🎙️
Israel should not be a religious state, Rabbi David Stav says, and then its citizens could more freely welcome religion into their lives.
R. David Stav is the Chief Rabbi of Shoham, an Israeli town with a large secular populace, and a
Oyyyy - I accidentally stumbled into Jerusalem’s big Chassidus sale and absentmindedly carried these to checkout and dropped my credit card on the card reader—paying for them! Then I meant to return them but ended up in my apartment. Ugh, what can you do?
In class and my computer has 2% and phone has 10%, so I was wondering what I would do when they both died
Then I realized I could listen to the professor
I reported closely on LGBTQ issues at YU for over two years. It's only when headlines are made that people speak about "love" and "inclusion" for LGBTQ Jews—and it usually comes after quoting halakha, not as a stand-alone statement.
It's worth asking why.
“For these things do my eyes weep” (Eikhah 1:16).
I hope, I pray, that these are not our blaring warning signs for the future. But I see Israel’s democracy dying in the daylight.
My latest in
@jdforward
, as I'm set to move to Israel in three weeks.
It was an honor to speak with LGBTQ students at
@YUNews
about navigating their religious identities. Their stories are deeply inspiring and deserve to be heard
The Gemarah in Berachot says that Eretz Yisrael is only given through suffering.
As the twin babies’ cries grow louder on this flight, I feel our sages’ timeless words.
I read this over Shabbos and over the last two months, mentioning both Dr. Zornberg and her work incessantly—both online and in person—and I take no prisoners
Not to hype my own thread, but this is why local journalism is so critical. On-the-ground reporters who intimately know their sources and the news are what keep communities informed and, in effect, empowered.
YU and the LGBTQ Case Thread:
Yesterday, the court made the landmark decision that
@YUNews
is not a religious corporation and thereby legally required to allow an LGBTQ club to form on campus.
This case did not begin yesterday. Here is what you need to know: 1/n
LOL. First paragraph quotes a woman who posted “radical solidarity with Palestine means … not apologizing for Hamas.”
In what world is it accurate to describe this as criticism of Israel??
LOL. First paragraph quotes a woman who posted “radical solidarity with Palestine means … not apologizing for Hamas.”
In what world is it accurate to describe this as criticism of Israel??
The Washington Post is outraged that
@StopAntisemites
is exposing virulent antisemites, so now they're writing sympathetic profiles of said antisemites.
My university, Yeshiva University, received a phone call threat this morning. Just two weeks ago, a gunman held four Jews hostage in a synagogue. 2021 was the worst year for antisemitism in the past decade.
We cannot let this be our new norm.
The
@NYPDCT
came to
@YUNews
' Wilf Campus this morning to investigate a threatening phone call made against the university. It remains unclear if the threat was antisemitic in nature.
—
Shlomit Ebbin and
@SruliFruchter
report
Said to an agunah who supports the mikvah strike: "You've lost all credibility for why you're an agunah—I'll say it right here.... I would not trust you for a flipping second."
What a lovely culture we're cultivating
The
@MislaibeledPod
convened an emergency IG live to discuss the Flatbush girl/ Mikvah strike controversy.
They brought on and debated a woman, that supports the Mikvah strike until Malky gets her Get.
Syllabus was released for Cont. Issues in Talmud with
@AriBergmann
. Few topics:
- Reading the Talmud in Context: Classical Method and Academic Study
- Status of the Fetus
- Torah and the Mundane Life
- Income Inequality and Social Gap
- Social Justice
- Environmental Ethics
It's exhausting and pathetic that we're still trying to convince people that slaughtering Jews is bad.
I'm sick of it, sick of explaining, sick of justifying, sick of pandering to murderous, terrorist-supporting animals.
Shifra Horowitz. Defenseless, she was targeted by Walder. Resilient, she exposed his sexual abuses. Failed, she died by suicide.
A Jewish woman who we failed, and she paid the price for it. She should be here today.
Spirituality cannot just be singing, meditating, and learning. Spirituality must also be purifying ethics, demanding justice, and living truth.
It may be easy to live in our personal bubbles with Hashem, away from the world's pains, but that doesn't make it right.
I traveled to Tel Aviv a month ago to interview the famed Israeli historian Anita Shapira for — you guessed it —
@18_forty
's new pod "18 Questions, 40 Israeli Thinkers"
We discussed destroying Hamas, the crisis up North, and more.
Episode drops tomorrow — not to be missed🙏
Getting an email from a well-known adult from my hometown, the night before Yom Kippur, that The Commentator's publication of a rape survivor's story is "rechilos and assur" and "the biggest chillel Hashem" is sad, ironic, and telling on so many levels.
At YU conversation with
@AriBermanYU
and Sheikh Dr. Mohammad Al-Issa:
President Berman: What in the past prevented something like this from happening before?
Sheikh Al-Issa: Maybe I was never invited
Years ago, an Israeli family asked how my family felt about my planned aliyah.
"They're happy," I joked. "Now they'll have a place to stay by when they want to."
Everyone laughed—except for the father.
He stared at me: "When they want to, or when they need to."
.
@BenZevG
and
@avitalrachel
's new shul on Upper East Side: I don't know anything about it except that it will be revolutionary. We need leaders committed to the future of Jewish History, and they are that. My brother and sister-in-law live on the UES - iyH I'll go there myself