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Gabrielle Blair

@designmom

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I’m a mother of six, and a Mormon. I have a good understanding of arguments surrounding abortion, religious and otherwise. I've been listening to men grandstand about women's reproductive rights, and I'm convinced men actually have zero interest in stopping abortion. Here's why…

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@spuntpatrol @KEEMSTAR Dude is always covering up his head so that we don’t see his bald spot.

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@annamlulis Firstly, zygotes are not kids. Secondly, Plan B PREVENTS pregnancy, it doesn’t end a pregnancy. You cannot abort anything if you’re not pregnant.

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@annamlulis 9 out of 10 abortions are 2 pills and an induced miscarriage before 9 weeks 6 days.

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Remind me Pearl, who is responsible for continuing the human race?

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@Atomic_Mittens @The8BitIdiot @AlRSuarez2 Twitter isn’t an academic platform. They gave the source as his memoirs, if you need more than that, do your own work.

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@buddyhogtrigger @AdamEPaine @RenContessa @TJ_onfire @TheMask19036255 @MidlifeMisfit @pinkheretic Then why are women leaders so much better than male leaders?

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There’s literally countless men who don’t even wipe their own ass after they defecate & are unable to do a load of laundry but Pearl here thinks they run the world…

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@DermotKearney3 @punishedkimbo You’re not an OBGYN, Dermot, you just pretend to be.

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@schrumbly @ezrachronicles YOUR parents should take your phone, buckaroo.

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@_RG100 @AirMail_Tweets @PEScorpiio AntiChoicers aren’t known for being very bright.

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@spuntpatrol @KEEMSTAR Do you wear your bandana to bed @KEEMSTAR ?

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@ivyprofem Ah yes, no c1s woman has ever had thin lips before…. 💀💀💀💀

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@isabellarileyus @skalamander Typically women who are transphobic struggle with deep insecurities with their womanhood & appearance and feel threatened by trans women which is why they say stuff like this:

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@theatregirl2221 @PBanpoys Threatening to knock someone out for unsolicited comments about a person’s body isn’t threatening to “murder” them. I’ve definitely heard women say they’ll do the same in response to other people making unsolicited remarks too.

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@DrSteveJacobs @MelJone13061512 @atriana @DrJenGunter @GOPLeader Abortion directly ends a pregnancy. Embryos & foetuses are *potential* human beings at most. If you wouldn’t tell a women whose miscarried that she’s committed involuntary manslaughter, then stop comparing abortion to murder or homicide.

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@Avengin55592123 @annamlulis Embryos don’t have the neurological development necessary to feel pain or suffering. I’m always going to prioritise the health and wellbeing of a person over an embryo.

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Not dying in childbirth to “own the libs”

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@MBru77 @henryk_photo Ooh Staffa is lovely! We went last year.

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@NickInEngland @JoshDenny Me too… 1/10 people who have a uterus have endometriosis.

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@SoupTransphobes They spelled transphobes incorrectly.

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@MrGlockLesnar @_celia_bedelia_ Working out didn’t fix your personality tho.

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@ElijahSchaffer That’s really horrible she went through that and now you’re disgracing her memory with how you spend your time on this app.

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@nut_lamp @spuntpatrol @KEEMSTAR My husband doesn’t, nor does he slag off women’s appearances on social media, lol.

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Just FYI, getting married doesn’t change a person’s sexuality. I may have married a dude but I’m *still* queer.

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@theladykatie Miscarriage is a spontaneous abortion. Abortion is the ending of a pregnancy by emptying the uterus.

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@PluphArt @Ianthe_SF @GreyDeLisle Being inclusive isn’t “dehumanising women” People who are not women who also have uteri include: - Girls - Non-binary people - Trans Men

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@michael_cutcher @1MargueriteReed @KillerMartinis All of those actually existing people aren’t entitled to use your body against your will, though …an embryo or foetus is no different.

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@ScoutSleepe @KatyMontgomerie “Everyone who doesn’t agree with me is a man! It doesn’t occur to me that I’m a raging misogynist!” - Joanna

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@itskellydiane What’s wrong with men being domestic?

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@lukab24373859 @DrJessTaylor She’s a TER, not representative of intersectional feminism.

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@ToTamTam @ashleyn1cole How does one go about getting adopted by Mandy Patinkin. Asking for myself.

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Why do so many American AntiChoicers pretend to be against child abuse & exploitation but then ignore that child marriage is still legal in 42 states? I would love to get an answer to this question…

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@Lin_kuei255 @logosaetos @orchi_man @AngelaBelcamino @kirtipatelmd @MattWalshBlog I was a kid when I started menstruating. Why do you need to believe that little girls who get their period are adults?

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@jacelala Embryos are not children.

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@michael_cutcher @1MargueriteReed @KillerMartinis The fact that they didn’t need to be inside anyone else’s body to sustain life, just like you don’t require being inside someone else’s body to sustain life. It’s not a difficult concept.

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Just an FYI to AntiChoice people; Starting today I will be blocking those who use inflammatory speech to describe abortion/people who have abortions/people who support abortion rights. If you cannot engage rationally then you are not worth my time.

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Just wait until you find about what your Church has been up to, Kay.

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@MikeMason830 @ewarren Unless someone pinned you down and vaccinated you against your will, it’s not forced.

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@vixmcintyre She hasn’t been picked yet.

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1. Infanticide is still illegal. 2. Trauma lasts a lifetime. 3. People often end their own lives due to trauma.

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Just hangin’ with the puffins, NBD

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@KristanHawkins Make up your mind @KristanHawkins

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@Greenman2486 @KatyMontgomerie The biggest threat to women is cis-het men like yourself, what are you actually doing to protect women? Or is this just deflection from your own misogynistic behaviour like most other GC men?

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@joyce_m_morgan @TaylorRMarshall No one owes you grandchildren.

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@theladykatie @AliceKing69 @jacelala @feminemi1y I doubt it makes much difference to a neonate without a brain that survives a few hours after birth vs an injection & induction a few months earlier, but if that’s the narrative you need to believe in order to justify your views then go ahead.

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@EKaht @sharrond62 @mara_yamauchi @TheFamousArtBR @tmsilverman @Glinner @SethDillon @millihill @Riley_Gaines_ @ginacarano @jk_rowling @Gillian_Philip @RooneyRachel @MForstater @AlisonSydor @Martina @KaeleyT @CF_Farrow @SwipeWright LOLLLL Your dedication to hating a minority group is really impressive in a super cringe sort of way. BTW, you’re not akin to a witch, you’re akin to the person who burned witches at the stake & drowned them.

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@michael_cutcher @1MargueriteReed @KillerMartinis Then how did I survive after my mother died when I was a baby?

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@cheerpoasting @birgitomo @ClaudetteGGibs1 If Black people are responding to you in that manner, it’s a response to your lack of decorum. I’ve never had issues with Black patients but that’s because I treat them with the same respect as all people deserve.

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@DontDoxMeBruh @AdrienneLaF That book fueled my Tom Robbins obsession in my early 20s. He helped shape some of my views with how he wrote about social issues. Anyway, here’s me with a mangel-wurzel.

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@chrispdm1 @Monika_Dutt Says the dude who never experiences prejudice based on his gender or skin colour. Sit down & shut up, Chris.

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@cheerpoasting @birgitomo @ClaudetteGGibs1 Thanks for publicly confirming that you are, in fact, just a stereotypical ignorant racist.

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Retweeting this FOREVER for the men who oppose abortion.

Gabrielle Blair

@designmom

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I’m a mother of six, and a Mormon. I have a good understanding of arguments surrounding abortion, religious and otherwise. I've been listening to men grandstand about women's reproductive rights, and I'm convinced men actually have zero interest in stopping abortion. Here's why…

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@DermotKearney3 @MamaDoctorJones Removing unwanted others from our body is not “resorting to killing”. There is no right to gestation at the expense of other people’s health & wellbeing, Dermot.

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@Amanda1Brezlyn @hultmark_mark So is mine and I don’t use that as an excuse to put my hair in other people’s space. Maybe someone can teach you how to use a hair elastic.

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@MrGlockLesnar @_celia_bedelia_ Still single then I take it? I can’t relate since I’m happily married but you do you, pet.

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And you should be made to watch the mass graves of mother & baby homes exhumed, videos of abused & neglected children living in squalor, videos of women speaking of the forced gestation & birth they had to endure, videos of women dying from unsafe abortions…

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In order to sleep at night, I have to believe most people have never actually seen an abortion procedure/victim. In order to have a hope of changing minds about abortion, I have to ensure everybody does.

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@annamlulis That happened in 1991 and he was convicted for performing an abortion after the 24th week and other crimes. You really thought you had something there, didn’t you?

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@CoachCaroline Sorry Caroline, the only men I’ve seen masturbating in public spaces have been cis men. Didn’t catch a video for you unfortunately. Soz!

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@DefAMustRead @greasyskill @ThomasWillett9 You seem happy enough denying that you’re a massive bigot 🤷🏼‍♀️

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My only birthday wish is for TERFs and AntiChoicers to learn what words mean before they use them.

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A woman who doesn’t regret their abortion should also be treated with respect & dignity. No one has an abortion because they were in a “silly goofy mood”. How utterly misogynistic.

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@toddstarnes It’s literally Ramadan right now, Toddy.

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@DrJenGunter This is Marls who got out 4 hours before we were to catch our flight moving to the U.K.

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@AmarHujan Then GPs need more education on Endometriosis because it took me 9 years before my GP even considered it as the cause of my unexplained pelvic pain.

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@SomeWelder Read this over and over and over until it sinks in. If you don’t like abortion, keep it in your pants.

Gabrielle Blair

@designmom

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I’m a mother of six, and a Mormon. I have a good understanding of arguments surrounding abortion, religious and otherwise. I've been listening to men grandstand about women's reproductive rights, and I'm convinced men actually have zero interest in stopping abortion. Here's why…

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@PheonixRising50 @OlyWebDiva @GEDSB Sounds like your son needs to man up and read about how his actions impact women & girls.

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@KatelynTweeter Nope. There is no rule or law which states I must continue gestating any pregnancy against my will. Why do AntiChoicers think they can make things up and expect to be believed?

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Apparently I “married a dud” by marrying a man who values me and who wouldn’t ever force me to do things against my will.

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@LaurenGNC_Butch I have a butch lesbian friend who’s continually harassed in bathrooms, much more these days than ever before.

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@annamlulis If your church hates gay people, leave. Jesus didn’t hate gay people so why do you?

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@jacelala @theladykatie @feminemi1y Most medical procedures are elective, even ones that save lives. Elective simply means that they’re scheduled, not an emergency.

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@KriegerDavid_ Sounds a lot like you’re looking to date a child who can also provide you with labour.

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@GessicGoesNuts @SCWatt @mhdksafa Seems to everyone else that the dude was the entitled one if he felt it was his place to correct the boss and didn’t even know who she was.

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@ShumBaloo @naomicfisher No, it’s not just a matter of “application and concentration” for some people. Please stop perpetuating the myth that people with learning disabilities just have to try harder.

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@jusknowyarole @MeganAgnew Um, feminism doesn’t “hate” motherhood, many mothers are feminists.

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@Michell33650674 Intellectually disabled is a better term as the R word is a slur.

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@DermotKearney3 @punishedkimbo Again, you’re not an OBGYN. Your AntiChoice views only end up killing pregnant people.

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@GrumpyShtroumpf @SallyAnnC3 @MForstater In the U.K., yes Clearly you’ve grown up with the privilege of never having to miss a day of school because you could not afford to buy enough pads/tampons.

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@TakedownMRAs @libsoftiktok I never thought I’d see the day

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@harmonizedgrace OR we can make our own choices regarding whether we have sex before marriage or not. Other people’s choices don’t impact you. Try focusing on yourself.

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Why are literally all of the AntiChoice people I encounter on twitter also Anti-Vax/Anti-Mask/Anti-Science? I thought y’all were all about “the science” and anything that “saves lives”…?!? I guess it’s iNcOnVeNiEnT when you have to change your own behaviour…

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@vixmcintyre @jacelala Because then she doesn’t get to brag about being a humble trad wife who HAS IT ALL.

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@nicolita_d You’re using your situation to advocate against other people having the same right to choose as you enjoyed. That’s not grieving, that’s pushing an agenda via emotional manipulation.

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@snide_sally There is no punishment for men who irresponsibly ejaculate.

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@wittyyuck @KatelynTweeter Why do AntiChoicers want to pretend that the only people who seek abortion are “amoral” & “promiscuous”? Married/long term couples have abortions, wanted pregnancies sometimes end in abortion… your narrative only seeks to slut-shame women while completely ignoring…

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@ValerieSouders @Poppy_yyyyyyyy Being humiliated & disrespected in front of your friends & family by your new husband isn’t a very nice memory to have of one’s wedding.

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@DES_Toronto @ssbstrongsmart That’s one of the lamest excuses I’ve come across yet 😂🤣😂 “I love language so I cannot use they as a singular pronoun” Yet great writers like Shakespeare and Austen did so hundreds of years ago & I reckon they loved language more than you actually do.

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Arguably it’s more paternalistic and infantilising to remove reproductive options from pregnant people because you can’t trust us to make our own choices.

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@theladykatie That’s why we can remove unwanted “bodies” from ours. Someone else can use their own body to sustain life without having to use mine.

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@StaceyCKs1 I’ve seen it in restaurants and never gave it consideration but your daughter & your tweets have convinced me that I need to try making this!

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@itskellydiane lol, what a fucking coward 🤣😂

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@Thedeangulberry @_celia_bedelia_ I’m guessing you have no idea about why that group of muscles is pretty important for women…

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@BillyBaldwin @davenewworld_2 The baby seems to be the only rational person there.

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@annamlulis Until men can gestate, then they’ll get a say over their own pregnancies.

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@XLColdJ @theserfstv My contraception helps me manage my chronic pain condition (endometriosis & adenomyosis) and live a relatively normal life. Explain to me how that’s “bad”….

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@mandalynns23 @Trad_Humanist You’re grateful that homeschooling left you wholly unprepared for later education? Sounds like you don’t have any postsecondary education. What are you going to do if one day you have to become the one financially supporting your family?

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@theatregirl2221 Your mum has lived for 75 years and still hasn’t learned to keep her unsolicited opinions about other people to herself? If I commented on her facial hair would you expect her to treat me with dignity & respect?

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@StudentsforLife You’re all only one pregnancy away from becoming ProChoice.

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@Lin_kuei255 @logosaetos @orchi_man @AngelaBelcamino @kirtipatelmd @MattWalshBlog Not without sperm they aren’t. And no, you can’t have sex with children. That’s statutory RAPE.

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