Shel @Shel985 Twitter profile

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Shel

1 month

#NewProfilePic On the eve before my 39th Birthday, thought I’d drop a final selfie as I know the next 12 months will entail more wrinkles and greys 🤣

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Shel

@Shel985

8 months

This is anxiety. This is depression. Smiling through the pain to show up for your friends, family or colleagues. You never always know what someone else is going through, so please Be Kind 🫶🏻 #MentalHealthAwareness

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@Shel985

9 months

#NewProfilePic

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@Shel985

10 months

I’m going to donate £1 to Mind for every like this post receives (up to £100). I’m going to be doing this instead of buying Christmas cards this year, and on behalf of all my fellow MH buddies 💚💚💚 #TisTheSeason #MentalHealthAwareness

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@Shel985

2 years

@SoVeryBritish It’s the same with toast. Gonna trigger a lot of people…

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@Shel985

2 years

@SoVeryBritish Crumpets with lashings of butter!

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@Shel985

10 months

You and me kiddo 🩷💜

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@Shel985

1 year

Battling with my own mind is probably one of the hardest things I’ve ever had to experience - but I’m hopeful I’ll get to the point of being able to cope soon 💚 #MentalHealthAwarenessWeek #anxiety #depression #ToHelpMyAnxiety

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@Shel985

15 days

Morning folks! Time to crack out the Autumnal colours… which is black, black and oooh orange! 🍂 🎃 #autumn2024 #autumncolors #Autumn

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@Shel985

7 months

I’m like a wilting piece of lettuce right now, but I’m still standing. Depression, I’ll beat you! #MentalHealthAwareness

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@Shel985

11 months

Time for a #NewProfilePic Not changed it up in a while 😜

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@Shel985

8 months

#MentalHealthAwareness This is me this week 💯

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@Shel985

2 months

What a great start to my staycation at my sister’s. They’ve just asked me to be Godmother to my niece and nephew 🥹🥹🥹❤️❤️❤️

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@Shel985

6 months

#NewProfilePic Haven’t changed it for aaaaaages. Time for a speccy one 🤓

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@Shel985

8 months

It’s been a tough week. Depression has hit me quite bad but I know it’s temporary and I’ll climb out of it. Seeing family today to brighten the spirits. Being kind to myself as much as I can. I’m not a quitter 🫶🏻 #MentalHealthAwareness

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8 months

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@Shel985

10 months

WHO TF IS THIS?!? She has nails on, hoops in, heels on. And she’s going out! 💃 laters ✌🏻🥂

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@Shel985

5 months

#NewProfilePic 🤓

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@Shel985

11 days

Here we go, chop chop chop and no more greys! And more importantly… I’m in one piece (so far)! 🙏🏻

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@Shel985

1 month

The Weakest Link - it’s not the person who gets the question wrong, it’s the tit afterwards who says “bank” 🤦🏻‍♀️ 🤣 And yes, it’s Saturday night and I’m indoors watching TV by myself - and what?!

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@Shel985

3 months

Wish there was a dating app for people who don’t actually want to play with people’s emotions and waste their time. Just have some balls and tell me the truth. Any decent guys left out there?? I’m sure girls are just as bad too. Ffs…

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@Shel985

1 year

It’s a Smiley Saturday Selfie! Haven’t done one of these in a while and it’s been a great day 🥰 #SaturdayMood

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@Shel985

11 days

Future partner/spouse/husband… just gonna leave this here for you 😁

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@Shel985

11 months

TODAY IS A GREAT DAY!!!! I’m an Auntie again, for the 6th time! But for the first time…A BABY BOY! 💙🩵💙🩵💙🩵💙🩵💙🩵💙🩵

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@Shel985

1 year

Step 1 of new beginnings ✅ 👏🏻 👏🏻 👏🏻 It’s taken almost a year guys and gals, but the light at the end of the tunnel is in sniffing distance 🙏🏻

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@Shel985

12 days

In the past week I matched with 8 guys on a particular dating app. I messaged each one and have I had even a single reply? Nope! WTF is the point? This is why I can’t be arsed with these dating apps or trying to actually date anymore 😴 #dating #datingapp

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@Shel985

9 days

My 8yo just said “no bruh, cause that is sick” 🤦🏻‍♀️ fuck….I have failed…. 🤣

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@Shel985

11 months

Happy Saturday folks! Thankfully that long arse week of work is done! Now to spend the day out with my little cherub; cinema, lunch and girly day 🩷💜👩‍👧

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@Shel985

9 months

It’s cold, post a time when you were warm Love a bit of Flozza heat! 🇺🇸 May/June 2022

Kirsty

@iamKirsty_

9 months

It’s cold, post a time when you were warm July 23…

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@Shel985

9 months

Waited for this moment for an eternity. I’ve finally completed and that bad boy house is mine 👏🏻 👏🏻 👏🏻 Off to sink a bucket of gin!! Cheers 🥂

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@Shel985

9 months

Here we go! Cheers to you all. Wishing you lots of health and happiness 🫶🏻 #HappyNewYear

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@Shel985

1 month

Going to the hospital to say goodbye to someone is a very weird feeling. The last time I did that it was for my ex partners Nan - over 15 years ago - more of a support than for me. Today though, it’s for my Stepdad. 😢 Emphysema is brutal and I’m just glad he’s in no more pain 💔

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@Shel985

10 months

Merry Christmas to you all. With my little early Xmas pressie from my sis 🩵 #nephew #family #Christmas2023

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@Shel985

9 months

This goes for myself as well as others! 💪🏻

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@SeffSaid

9 months

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@Shel985

8 days

Morning all. October 1st! 🍂🎃☕️ Soup season has begun 😋

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@Shel985

5 months

Pizza and Mocktails night was a real success with my little lady 🍕🥂👌🏻

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@Shel985

2 years

@SoVeryBritish Pop round anytime…just give me at least a 1 hour warning to tidy the house and get out of my PJs 😂

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@Shel985

7 months

(2/2)… if/when it’s needed. This time away to focus on me has made me realise I need more counselling, so currently trying to arrange this with my previous therapist. Take care of yourself. Be kind to yourself. Mental Health can impact so much. Thanks for all the support 💚

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@Shel985

1 month

I hate being a woman in this heat! Under boob sweat, basal body temperature increase, moody arse. Bring on some more autumnal vibes please. Done with “summer” 🍂 🎃 ☕️ 🍲 🍎

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@Shel985

7 months

Back to work today after my time off following (for me) quite a severe depressive episode. I’m going back on my terms and I feel ready to get my life back in order. Home life is doing so much better and it goes to show how important it is that you take time for yourself… (1/2)

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@Shel985

1 month

Thanks everyone for the messages. Glad I got to see him and say goodbye. He went peacefully at midnight 🕊️

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@Shel985

1 month

Going to the hospital to say goodbye to someone is a very weird feeling. The last time I did that it was for my ex partners Nan - over 15 years ago - more of a support than for me. Today though, it’s for my Stepdad. 😢 Emphysema is brutal and I’m just glad he’s in no more pain 💔

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@Shel985

12 days

I’ve caved. Heating’s on 🔥

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@Shel985

28 days

For my stepdad’s funeral, my Mum has written a poem to be read out by the celebrant. Her words are so heartwarmingly precious and she’s making me incredibly proud of her and how she’s coping so far 🙏🏻

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@Shel985

5 months

Holy Moly 🤤 I’ve cut the kcals off the pic, cause no one needs that kind of negativity in their life 🙈

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@Shel985

10 months

If this was an Olympic sport…I’d be World Champ by now 🙄

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@Shel985

10 months

One of the many selfies from the festive period, cause it’s the only way I’ll be happy with any pictures of myself these days 🤪

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@Shel985

5 months

My “baby” girl is 8 today 😱 Time to celebrate with the family and have an awesome day. She’s been through quite a lot this past year, so she deserves every second. 🎈🌈 🦄 🎂 💖

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@Shel985

11 days

Today’s the day 😱 To say I’m nervous is an understatement! 🙈

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@Shel985

25 days

Patch test done. Greys will be gone in the next couple weeks 👏🏻 Seriously guys and gals - get a patch test. I had 2 at the same time and thank fook I did because one of them reacted within 3mins of walking out the salon! (I have a history 😂)

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@Shel985

1 year

It really does make a big difference to my outlook on the future, when there is someone special around to share it with. Doesn’t mean I can’t be content with being single, but even just speaking to this person every day makes me super happy 😊🥰

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@Shel985

8 months

One day 🙏🏻

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@SeffSaid

8 months

Remember

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@Shel985

2 months

When you’re clearing out your dialled numbers and accidentally call the one that ghosted you 3 months ago. Ahhh shiiiit 🙈

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@Shel985

1 year

Yet again, stamping out the toxicity in my life. I’m becoming a pro almost 🙄 I’m so done with being made to feel like the shittiest person. I won’t let anyone ruin all my good work it’s taken this past year, to get me to my good MH state, so you can go fuck yourself! 🖕🏻

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1 year

Agree

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@Shel985

6 months

🤟🏻 Happy Wednesday from my 7 year old mini rocker 🤟🏻 Always making me laugh this one 😆

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@Shel985

30 days

Heck yeah! #BeKind 💚

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@Shel985

11 months

I know there are a few of us going through some struggles at the moment, but deep down we are so much stronger than our fears. Know that you’re not alone and I’m here if you need or want to talk 🫶🏻💚

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@Shel985

8 months

My 7yo: Are you tired Mummy? Me: Yes babe, knackered. 7yo: Yeah…you look it Me: Thanks darlin, appreciate it…. 🤦🏻‍♀️ Out of the mouth of babes eh? 👌🏻

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@Shel985

1 year

All I want is a nice guy, a family man, someone to come with me & my girl for day trips to the zoo/cinema/seaside, as well as holidays, but also someone who wants to spend time with just me & enjoys me, my company, sharing a few interests. Too much to ask?? 😂

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@Shel985

6 months

It’s my big sis’ 40th birthday today. I remember when my Mum turned 40, so this is a huge deal to accustom to the fact my sister is now that age! So proud of everything she’s accomplished, she’s honestly my inspo and my best friend 🫶🏻

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@Shel985

11 months

Separation has been the first step to a new life. D-I-V-O-R-C-E is next…the only way is up! #NewBeginnings

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@Shel985

25 days

Today I’ve been reminded about why I avoid the bus in my area… Some people…fucking stink! That is all 🤢 #haveabath

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@Shel985

4 months

June so far ✅ Day with the family again, bbq at home, teaching my 3yo niece to make daisy chains, getting my 6mo nephew to sleep in my arms, lots of playtime with my little girlie-she loves her family so so much and it’s beautiful to watch 🫶🏻

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@Shel985

25 days

Patch test done. Greys will be gone in the next couple weeks 👏🏻 Seriously guys and gals - get a patch test. I had 2 at the same time and thank fook I did because one of them reacted within 3mins of walking out the salon! (I have a history 😂)

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@Shel985

24 days

Nightmares/insomnia… I was doing so well… why TF have you surfaced again?! 2 hours I’ve been awake now. FML. Today is gonna be a struggle 😩

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@Shel985

1 year

Yeeeaaa…. Oh 😒 #ClocksGoBack

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@Shel985

12 days

I totally agree, this is me currently, needing some love and patience 🙏🏻

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@MatthewCoast

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What do you think?

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@Shel985

1 year

#HelloOctober Exciting month ahead for me, some big life changes coming up 👏🏻 And I bloody love Autumn!! 🍁 🍂

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@Shel985

23 days

This is me to a tee. I don’t NEED you, but when I WANT you, I can guarantee you will feel and see how much I genuinely do. Plus, being a Queen I get to wear a 👑 Now to find my King 👀

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@welshscotty74

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For the queens ❤️

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@Shel985

9 months

Winning the parenting game today! Get home from the school run and my 7yo is upstairs singing a Def Leppard tune 🤘🏻

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@Shel985

1 year

@charliersmith1 Whatever works and makes you feel better. It just makes me laugh (or more 🙄), that people don’t have any comments on needing a cast on a broken arm, or paracetamol for a headache, or a plaster on a cut. Why does medication for mental health have to be so stigmatised?!

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@Shel985

9 months

Why is my child still awake!?!? Tomorrow morning back to school is gonna be a struggle!! 😩

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@Shel985

1 year

@Markshark26 Good choice. Mine is an absolute gem 👌🏻

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@Shel985

5 months

I’m freeeeeeeee! As much as I love my little girl and would have her 24/7 if I could, having some time for me and my MH is really my silver lining in the split with her Dad. So I now have 2.5 days completely to myself 💆🏻‍♀️ 🛁 🧹 🧼 🪴 🎨 🎥 🍿

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@Shel985

11 months

Having a major dose of happy hormones this weekend 🥰💙🥰💙🥰 Is there a job where you can just sit and cuddle babies all day? If so, where do I apply???

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@Shel985

2 months

Current dilemma: I need a break from dating, but I don’t want to be alone. I’m unhappy when I’m alone because I just have so much to give to someone, the right one. I don’t fucking understand why guys are insisting on absolutely crushing me into the ground 😢

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@Shel985

10 months

Ironically, this Christmas feels like it’s gonna be harder than the last. Facing the reality of not seeing my little girl every day is damn fucking hard and it’s making me super emotional these past few days 💔

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@Shel985

1 year

Had enough of being ill this year now! If it’s not mental it’s physical. Gimme a break pls! Got too much exciting stuff going on to be stuck in bed/in the house 🙏🏻🤢😷

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@Shel985

1 year

How times have changed… Xmas list writing 1990s: Grab the Argos catalogue and mark everything on every page Xmas list writing 2020s: Nick. Junior. Adverts… 😒 Watch a tv show and say “oooh” or “hmmm” after every advert, whilst giving the side eye to Mum 👀

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@Shel985

3 months

Someone reminded me of this yesterday and it’s very true 🙏🏻

The Mindfulness Meditation Institute

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@Shel985

11 months

Definitely one of the best days of 2023 yesterday. Meeting my 2 day old nephew 💙💙💙💙 and having lots of cuddles! Who says I have to wait until new year for good times to begin? ☺️🥰

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@Shel985

4 months

This is all too real for a lot of us. Don’t be embarrassed to speak out and get the help you need 💚

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@samhsagov

4 months

It's common to feel stress symptoms before or after a crisis. Learn about the common warning signs and risk factors for emotional distress that children, adults, and first responders often experience—and how to get help ➡️ #PTSDAwarenessMonth

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@Shel985

11 months

Absolutely buzzing! When I completed my counselling earlier this year, I wrote an article for our work newsletter to share my experience. Had 2 colleagues start with counselling & this message through tonight. I wanted to help 1 person by ending the stigma & it’s happening 🥰

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@Shel985

11 months

Low mood this afternoon. And he wonders why this came to an end? He says/does things that massively affect how I am going to feel for the day ahead. And I’m not even at home this weekend!! I am counting down the day he moves out like you wouldn’t believe!

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@Shel985

10 months

For years, I’ve been sent emails that miss the 2nd E off my name & I let it slide each time! Today I sent 1 email, adding an E to someone’s name (for the first time!) & she called me out! Is this a thing now? I thought we just seethed about it to ourselves & moaned to others?! 🤣

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@Shel985

11 months

My big sis, my absolute everything 👯‍♀️ 💜💚

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@Shel985

6 months

#daughter 💗 She’ll never know just how much strength she’s given me 💗

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@Shel985

10 months

The last month of 2023, so let’s make it a good one 🙏🏻🩷

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5 months

McShel’s for brekkie - what I do for my girl 💓

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@Shel985

17 days

The sheer fucking audacity and hypocrisy of some people never ceases to amaze me!

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@Shel985

11 months

#LestWeForget2023 #LestWeForget

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@Shel985

1 year

Amen to this and a very good morning to you all ☺️

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@Shel985

1 year

It’s #WorldMentalHealthDay , a day that resonates with so many people around the globe - a lot of whom still don’t receive the right support and treatment. 💚💚💚 Please sign the petition for the UK Gov to reform our 40 year old MH Act: ..

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@Shel985

11 months

You don’t need to be alone to feel lonely - ain’t that the truth! Been in such a low mood since Sunday afternoon. Can’t snap out of it 😤

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@Shel985

1 year

Feeling a sense of accomplishment tonight, as I finished my counselling! Therapist is very happy with my progress & said some lovely words at the end which got me very emotional. Couldn’t have asked for a better counsellor, she’s been the light at the end of a very dark tunnel 🫶🏻

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@Shel985

10 months

I need a holiday/break/getaway! Next year I wanna go somewhere I’ve never been before. Whether it’s via ✈️ or 🚂, I don’t mind! UK or abroad 🤷🏻‍♀️ Oh…yeah…first things first. I need some money! 😂

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@Shel985

5 months

And what a 3 years it’s been. Made some absolutely blinding mates for life 🫶🏻 Do you remember when you joined X? I do! #MyXAnniversary

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@Shel985

1 year

Oooh balloons 🎈 So happy to be back in even numbers again 👏🏻 👏🏻 👏🏻 Already had the best birthday with my little girl giving me a beautiful bunch of flowers in bed & singing to me all by herself. Very proud Mum over ere 🥹❤️ Getting older is a privilege, so I’m embracing it 🤍

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