@meinmokhtar
Boleh je kalau you nak suka and approach her, cuma jangan cut her wings and expect her to downgrade her lifestyle unless she's willing to.
Asalkan dia bukan gold digger it's fine. Not every woman expect you to pay for their beauty expenses. We do it, because we can afford it.
@amrashrv_
Kalau jujur dari awalkan senang, tak kecewa bila berjumpa. Tak nak tunjuk takpe, tapi at least bagitahulah sebab benda obvious unless defect yg tersorok.
@meinmokhtar
Bila perempuan ambil pil, side effects dia different from one person to another. Ada yg mood swings, ada yg lose interest in sex, ada yg gain weight like crazy, bloated, acnes and many more.
Senang je suruh isteri ambil pil kan,sebab sendiri tak payah hadap.
@meinmokhtar
Tak salah jadi anak mak, tapi kena belajar jadi lelaki dan suami.
Memang ex kau taknaklah rujuk balik, sebab dia dah tau neraka dia kena hadap sbb kahwin ngan lelaki yg tak reti menjaga keluarga sendiri. Btw, ada buat fertility test tak??
@meinmokhtar
Sebab tu ramai sebenarnya isteri yg dh kahwin few years taknak layan suami. Sebab suami pentingkan diri. Heard lots of these during sessions.
Suami senang je bila mengadu, dia kata isteri tolak ajakan. Bila in sessions baru tahu cerita sebenar, taknak mengaku salah sendiri, ego.
@meinmokhtar
Kau tu pak sanggup ke sampai tak nak nak jaga anak? Instead of jaga anak tu sendiri kejap, kau ada niat nak pukul bini kau?
Ye, dia salah. Tapi kalau tak cukup rehat, anak berkepit 24 jam, otak dia tak rest. Mau tak gila?
@twtsecretsmy
Just share the password with her.
However, tell her that you don't want her to keep scrolling your phone everyday or too often. It's unnecessary honestly. Or.. you can also scroll her phone whenever she used yours. Each time.
@meinmokhtar
Sialnya perangai.
Nak tegakkan gender bias in rape ni dah bagus dah. Tapi boleh pulak kalau yg merogol tu perempuan taste kau, takpe?! Kalau bukan type idaman kau, baru nak kira rogol.
@meinmokhtar
Nilah baru suami yg bagus.
Korang invest dekat bini korang, benefits dapat kat korang jugak. Daripada dok 'invest' dekat betina DS buat dapat penyakit siap tambah dosa lagi.
@meinmokhtar
Most people are struggling in their early 20-30s to be stable emotionally & financially. Maybe both of you lack of patience & tolerance then
Anyway, it's in the past now. Just ask for forgiveness & closure on the issue with your ex & your children. Appreciate your current wife
@lalalolss
I think wives who have great and understanding husband would totally agree with this.
Those who are opposed to this idea usually would give examples that hinting on not having a good responsible and hardworking husband. No one can blame them tho. It is what it is.
@meinmokhtar
Tak salah pun tinggalkan dia. Nak cari suami, kena cari yg boleh bertanggungjawab, bukan awal-awal lagi dah malas berusaha, nak lepas tangan macam tu je.
Kalau nak yg boleh jalankan tanggungjawab, kena cari yg ada provider mindset.
@meinmokhtar
Your overthinking needs to be managed. Bukan rely on your partner to solve it for you entirely. Kalau dah sampai dah bertunang and you still have trust issues with him, why bother bertunang in the first place?
@meinmokhtar
Does death make a homewrecker less of a homewrecker?
Does a cheating husband who feels sad erase all his cheating history?
Does the wife's pain of being betrayed no longer valid & justify just because the homewrecker died?
@meinmokhtar
Eh kak, kami tak maki bini-bini tambahan yg berpoligami dengan cara baik yg digalakkan Islam.
Kami maki yg menyondol & suami curang, yg kaki manipulate, yg berzina, yg dah tahu bf tu suami orang tapi tetap nak caras. Kau kena sedar diri kalau kau curi laki orang buat laki kau.
@meinmokhtar
Orang kata, ahli keluarga ni ibarat air dicincang tak akan putus.
Nak tau bila boleh putus? Bila ketua keluarga yg berharta meninggal. Masa tu nampak segala belang harimau, nyamuk, kuda belang. Semualah.
Pahit ditelan, tapi lebih baik awak abaikan je diorang.
@meinmokhtar
Aib tu contoh kalau suami tengah susah, so tak dapat jalankan tanggungjawab sepatutnya so you tolong or you tolerate. Tu tak payah pi canang kat orang.
Suami curang sampai bunting si sekor tu, tak ada maknanya aib. Suami you dengan sengaja khianati you. You ada hak bersuara.
@meinmokhtar
Suami tu satu hal, minda tertutup, tapi malas sangat ke nak baca sikit pasal selaput dara??
Suruh dia belajar sekali anatomi perempuan, bab period & perubahan hormon bila mengandung. Baru bijak sikit nanti nak jadi bapak anak kau non.
@meinmokhtar
Puji je laki lain. Mesti terbakar ego dia, masa tu akak sekolahkanlah laki akak tu.
Puji orang yg rapat dgn dia, lagi senang sakit hati, muahahahha
@seyrawinter
Sure, congratulating others on their winnings is part of good sportsmanship.
But look at the different tone used in both her posts. She doesn't have to mention past issues while congratulating Zii Jia, which sounds so condescending to me.
@annazrulan
Kalau depan aku, aku keluar solat, tarik dia sambil ruqyah tunggu mak dia habis solat. Then, aku sekolahkan dua-dua. Nak bawa anak gi masjid tak ada masalah, tapi kenalah didik elok-elok.
Anyway, yg rakam tu dok tengok je dah kenapa??!!! Elok kena cepuk sekali jugak.
@mujahidriza_
@jmyopinion1
@KucingRose77
@amyranadyaa
@jjaebean
Ada masa diperbolehkan tajassus; bagi mengelakkan kehilangan nyawa/bahaya which is valid in this case.
Kalau niat utk keselamatan & keadilan berserta beberapa syarat yg membolehkan tajassus, tak ada masalah. Dosa besar kalau dgn niat nak menjatuhkan orang & mencari kesalahan.
@meinmokhtar
Patutlah bodoh, isteri pregnant tak teman jumpa doktor semua. Lepastu isteri sakit bukan kronik pun, ada hati nak jijik. Perangai bodoh sombong dia tu lagi jijiklah.
@meinmokhtar
Sesetengah lelaki akan gaslight perempuan dengan ayat suami you guna tu supaya dia boleh terus buat dosa zina dia tanpa rasa bersalah dan dapat bini yg akan clean up the mess at home.
Cerai bukan haram. Betul cerai tak digalakkan. Tetapi kalau lebih baik cerai, maka cerailah.
@meinmokhtar
Haihh.. Bulan-bulan puasa ni baca luahan macam ni, nak marah rasa. Suami yg tak ada ihsan, selagi isteri tu hidup, boleh bernafas, selagi tulah dia nak kerahkan.
Stay strong kak, sakit gi klinik, kalau suami taknak bawa, cari wali/kawan yg boleh harap.
@meinmokhtar
Itu bukan culture shock. Itu just perangai manusia yang suka menunjuk, nak nampak gah dimata orang lain, tapi diri sendiri papa tak berharta.
Setakat dia ambil barang anon ok lagi, risau sampai kat uni pun dok mencuri.
@meinmokhtar
Just my thoughts, second wife yg kena sedar diri ni lebih kepada penyondol sebab dia hadir memaksa first wife terima dia.
In your case, first wife kononnya redha, so sepatutnya kalau dia baik, even suami manjakan dia, dia kena pujuk suami supaya adil. Bukan mulut je kata redha.
@meinmokhtar
Buat perangai sial lagi, dengan bini pun nak berkira. UBAT kot yg kau kedekut sangat tu. Sendiri yg buat perangai tak nak cerita masalah kat pasangan, tak nak jujur, EGO. Makanlah balasan ego tu.
Pergi minta maaf, dia salah, kau pun salah. Belajar rendahkan ego dgn isteri.
@meinmokhtar
Tudung labuh could never hides big boobs. Small boobs yes. Dia tertutup, tak nampak jelas bentuk badan tapi memang orang boleh tahu beza perempuan big boobs or not.
@thegrxyvibe
Ni sebenarnya sebab ada mak ayah yg tak ajar anak jangan entitled, sabar dan bersopan.
Ajarlah anak tu buka sampul bila orang yg bagi tu dah balik dari rumah kita or buka dalam kereta.
@thesharktattooo
Here's another one🙄
Please get educated on 'what is cross contamination?' Don't simply spew things you don't really understand to sound smart. It doesn't work that way. And IT really shows...
@meinmokhtar
Bagi duit je tak semestinya baik, masa dia curang pun dia baik layan you kan. Maybe it his guilt, watching you turning into someone else because of his selfishness.
Anyway, heal yourself first before getting into a romantic relationship.
@meinmokhtar
Just wondering, anak bongsu nak masuk 3 bulan, meaning your wife is currently recovering & breastfeeding kan? And if you're talking about her neglecting her wifey duties to you before, meaning is it during her pregnancy?
@Claytonmark76
@saifyakhtar
Then why you guys didn't refill your car fuel in Singapore? Singapore got no fuel is it???
Don't be a cheapskate. If you want to refill your fuel in Malaysia, use RON 97. It's unsubsidized by Malaysian government. Once Malaysia unsubsidized the RON 95, then you can buy it here.
@meinmokhtar
Anon, suruhlah dia tidurkan. Anak dia jugak bukan orang lain. Tapi tulah anak kalau kecil lagi waktu tidur sepatutnya fix, educatelah suami awak tu jadi bapa.
Kadang-kadang para bapa ni kurang ilmu tumbesaran dan pendidikan anak. Share je videos kat dia. Jgn lupa minta maaf.
@meinmokhtar
Cubalah kantoikan. Some people are in denial, suka tipu diri sendiri selagi dia tak nampak depan mata. Could be a coping mechanism and avoidant behaviour, but regardless.. truly stupid lah.
@twtsecretsmy
Info zakat fitrah.
Kalau sebelum ni ayah yg bayarkan, bagitau dia you nak bayar sendiri since you dah mampu.
Kalau ayah nak bayarkan untuk anak perempuan yg dah bekerjaya & mampu untuk membayar untuk diri sendiri, hukum dia harus & sah dengan syarat anak perempuan tu beri izin.
@twtsecretsmy
First of all, because you failed to set boundaries. You knew he was wrong, and yet you entertained him.
Second, didn't you realise your happiness is on someone else's heartbreak and broken relationship?
Both of you are wrong. None of you are better than the other.
@twtsecretsmy
Kudos! You are so damn smart and such a good girl. Insyaallah, you'll find someone that deserves you.
And to answer your questions, it's just their ego. They feel good about themselves when they get to fooled women, more so girls that take good care of herself and her dignity.
@FAliaHMS
If I was sleeping a lot, like a lot a lot; usually it means something is wrong with me, emotionally.
I may have not realised it yet, but my body knows.
@meinmokhtar
Lain kali highlight kan part undangan tu dan kalau jemputan untuk just 2 org dewasa, you either stated that in the card or guna perkataan sahaja. Contoh;
𝑨𝒉𝒎𝒂𝒅 & 𝒊𝒔𝒕𝒆𝒓𝒊 𝒔𝒂𝒉𝒂𝒋𝒂
Kalau tak emphasised benda ni, orang kadang terlepas pandang.
@zackthebrawler
Gila ke apa tak langgar syariat? Agama mana kau ni?
Jantan dan betina tu berzina ntah berapa lama dah, gugur sampai 2 kali. Tak langgar syariat??? Nak jadi enabler jantan curang dengan penyondol pun tak payahlah petik agama.
@Yaya2xx
'Tak check' final design & 'tak check' final color/material with supplier which ended up making your product obviously a plagiarised product rather than an inspired product.
~Style, Execution & Concept~
@meinmokhtar
Sebab wife kat rumah jaga anak, jaga rumah, jaga mak bapak jantan sundal tu. Free labour, rugi lah kalau dia ceraikan.
Tak masuk lagi wife yg bayar part of the household commitments. Duit lebih, dia gi joli betina.
Sebab tu kalau kantoi curang, kumpul bukti, ambil lawyer.
@meinmokhtar
If this is for real, then please know that the way you 'love' her, changed her.
She's no longer the person you used to know because of YOU. You keep taking from her and what make it worst is that you keep abandoning her emotional needs.
@ketengahketepi
Tak boleh nak buat apa. Sebab apa? Sebab parents you enable him. What you can do is don't contribute anything that's to him. Contribute only to your parents.
Kadang-kadang parents ni pun lupa. Dok rasa okay tanggung anak biawak hidup, padahal not them tanggung fully pun.
@meinmokhtar
Kebanyakkan lelaki memang dah normalise kan dosa tengok porn, langgan DS.
Normal jugak untuk perempuan bijak tinggalkan fuckboys macam ni. Cari yg perangai helok sikit ye, yg pandai jaga nafsu.
@meinmokhtar
Riak? Lol.
Anon tu penat sebab suami bukan 'a practicing muslim'. Dah lah bab nafkah 50-50,tu okay lagi sebab anon tu boleh terima. Yang dia tak boleh terima bila bab agama pun suami dia fail. Imam dia tak function. Faham tak?
@yeolahv
Benda simple je, masa mak tiri aku sakit dulu & I'm still in boarding school, elok je bapak aku jaga rumahtangga dia.
Yg mana tak reti or tak ada masa nak buat contoh masak, boleh beli. Lelaki yg semua harap bini memang tak reti berdikari jangan bagi alasan. Nak dgn tak nak je.
@_picanggoyeng
Dude, just admit you're wrong & moved on. Ohh, also just because it looks like a temple to you, doesn't mean it is.
Architecture is the manifestation and expression of a culture. It is the part of identity of each community & carries the message of culture of that society.
@__loveshak
Kenapa ramai faham mangsa dan perogol tu adik beradik?
Bukan ya. Perogol 6 ekor tu adalah adik beradik, mungkin jiran mangsa. Sebab mangsa dirogol di rumah jiran.
@meinmokhtar
Lol, dia yg dok berkawan dengan perempuan miskin/ suka mengharap, sibuk nak label perempuan yg tak bawak wallet ni red flag🙄
Even tho dia lawa kene dengan taste kau, kalau tak mampu date perempuan macam tu, carilah perempuan lain yg kau mampu.
@meinmokhtar
Siblings mak anon kan, kalau makcik tu tak ada anak or suami dah, patutnya mak awaklah jaga.
Just apply je upu tu dulu, kalau mak tak bagi, awak tolonglah dia buat senyap-senyap.
@meinmokhtar
Dia tak 'percaya' tu bukan sebab apa, dia just nak hang offer your virginity kat dia supaya dia percaya hang. Kalau hang bagi, memang tak lama lepas tu kena tinggallah
@meinmokhtar
Ramai je isteri asal cantik tapi bila suami insecure, demand their wife to resign. Then, tak mampu tanggung lifestyle yg support isteri jadi cantik dan mula salahkan isteri.
If you have to force your wife to let go certain things in life, you must lower your expectations as well
@meinmokhtar
Sebab tulah orang kata jangan ambil tanggungjawab suami. Baloq dah, duit dia tak tau gi mana, tanggungjawab ke laut.
Tak nak berkira pun kena bijak sis. Ni nak ubah bukan senang.
@meinmokhtar
Dia akan gaslight kau dan sebagainya. Sediakan bukti yg dia suami yg culas nafkah, dan dia perabis harta kau. Then, proceed for cerai.
Semoga dipermudahkan urusan.
@mhmmdhsm
Memang dia ada hak nak kata benda tu tak kena dgn anak tekak dia. Dia bayar kan, so dia boleh bagi comment. But she crossed a line and slandered.
Owner tak over sebab in this case. That girl bashed and said,
"BUKAN ORIGINAL DARI COKLAT YANG DIA CLAIM"
"TAK PREMIUM PUN"
@meinmokhtar
Kalau nak wife tu teman pagi, bagitahu dia. Alang-alang tu ajak subuh sekali. Wife bangun lewat tengok tak dia tido pukul berapa? Anak jaga malam lagi tak? Jaga anak kecik ni renyah. Kalau style nak melekat dengan orang je, payah la mak dia nak buat kerja.
@twt_syahir
@NazmiHanafiah
Biasakan tegur dengan berhemah, bukan marah-marah. Kalau tak jalan, lain cerita. Semua benda nak label red flag kat orang payahlah😪
Her parents did a great job raising her that way. Why would she want to exposed herself and her future children to an aggressive environment?
@meinmokhtar
It's not easy being a provider, a husband. If its too much, have pillow talks with your wife about this. Wives love when their husband open up to them, helps the relationship too. She's supposed to be your safe space and vice versa.
May Allah bless you and your family.
@twtsecretsmy
It's called a hobby.
Sis, you're the red flag if you couldn't tolerate him enjoying his hobby. It's not even excessive. He's done a lot for you.
His world doesn't just revolve around you until he wife you up. Even then, there's still boundaries.
@meinmokhtar
Anon, your bisexual desires stem from trauma.
Like rape, it can cause the victim to be repulsed to sex or touch (which is what we thought should happen). But for some victims, it's the opposite; it causes them to be hypersexual.
I hope you can seek help regarding your trauma.
@KucingRose77
@mujahidriza_
@jmyopinion1
@amyranadyaa
@jjaebean
Both of them are public figures or at least quite well-known. Their life has always been on display.
People are just discussing on the validity of the evidences. Which I think is reasonable, since the husband denies hurting his wife.
@neymabites
Dah refund pun reply masih tak beradab lagi. Tak boleh terima salah sendiri, nak marah orang ikut suka dia je.
Semoga bisnes you makin maju.
@meinmokhtar
Marah bini bagus dah, tapi marah sekali laki tu. Kot bini kau tu takut ke apa.. Nak jaga hak jangan macam pengecut, berani dengan perempuan jaa.
Mintak video mohon maaf?? 🤣🤣 Pergi BERSEMUKA, KALAU KAU BETUL SUAMI LAH..
@meinmokhtar
Anon, pesan kat mak jangan carikan, nanti aniaya anak orang.
Kalau mak you marah sebab you cakap macam tu, you jawab la sanggup ke dia dapat menantu macam abang you?
@thesharktattooo
Yes. You should add that point and shouldn't simply assumed.
I don't know how you handle things at your restaurant. But with someone who hires many employees in a kitchen, different people have their own tasks in the kitchen.
@twtsecretsmy
Hidup akan jadi tak best bila:
1) People's opinions matters more to you than your own.
2) You start comparing lifestyle and blessing with others.
@meinmokhtar
Sebab wujud lelaki macam nilah yg buatkan sesetengah wanita 'berkira' (duit isteri, isteri punya; duit suami, isteri punya). Habis madu sepah dibuang!
Bukan setakat tak menghargai pengorbanan isteri, siap pakej curang lagi dibalas.
@AbudiAlsagoff
Anon, kalau you kahwin dengan lelaki yg bijak, fikir pakai otak bukan nafsu, you don't have to overthink this.
Kalau you pilih lelaki yg bodoh, then, maybe kena risau sikit. Bukan risau nak explain kenapa tak berdarah, instead risau about having your future with him.
@meinmokhtar
Some people just view religion as a belief, some find their way back to religion when they're down.
For Mukmin, Islam is a lifestyle. That's why we believe interfaith marriage doesn't make sense. Hence, require the non muslim partner to learn about Islam and embrace it first.
@brgsjks
Kalau aku, aku save gambar laki tu dengan family dia then aku hantar kat jantan tak guna tu. Pesan siap "kalau kau kacau/cuba menggatal dengan aku lagi, aku report bini kau".
Kalau dia kacau lagi lepastu, memang aku report sungguh.
@meinmokhtar
Jadi perempuan kena bijak sekarang ni. Kena berjaga-jaga sebab kalau tidak memang kita yg akan disalahkan padahal certain men love to cheat and lies.
@meinmokhtar
First time curang ke first time kantoi anon?? Apa masalah jadi janda? Better daripada dapat suami dayus, tak guna, curang.
Tak salah pun kau check phone suami, yg salah tu dia sebab perangai belen.
@meinmokhtar
YOU.
Just be yourself, be kind & respectful. If he wants you, he would stay loyal and reciprocate.
Don't make him stay for the ideal (unattain) of you. It'll just back fire. Definitely not worth your time.
@meinmokhtar
Kalau suami tak kisah balik belah you every year, then you tak selfish. Tapi kalau tak, and you tak nak buat giliran, then, you are selfish despite you don't want to acknowledge it.
Maybe sendu bagi you, tapi for your husband, they are his family. The one he grew up with.
@meinmokhtar
Anon, if you nak Allah terima doa you, why not belajar kenal Allah, nama-nama dia, sifat-sifat, sirah rasul dia, agama dia then baru you learn into more detail about Islam.
@meinmokhtar
Sis, you sit with your husband amd list out everything that used money in your life. Then tengok cukup ke tak 1.7k to continue living and having a family of your own?
I know money is not everythingin life, but everything needs money, unfortunately.
@nasuhasri
Kalau betul lah memang Malaysia kekurangan tenaga kerja dalam sektor teknologi tinggi, boleh mitigate dengan buat professional program or short course untuk pelajar yg ada degree berkaitan industri teknologi tinggi atau graduan yg berminat untuk join industri ni.
@meinmokhtar
Discuss it before sex. If that doesn't work, don't let him finished.
Kinda edge him, then asked him to finish you first. Biar dia frustrated a bit so he knows how you felt most of the time.
Guide him la tapi. He might not know how or where huhu.. Goodluck.
@ChristineHillCo
@GalacticHeaven
@davidvolodzko
I hate to invalidate a woman's sexual assault.
But to say that 50 men (only malay) groped you while you were walking from Central Market to Shangri-La (±2 km), isn't that too much of an exaggeration? Also, they want to grope you just because you're a white woman???!
@twtsecretsmy
You tak pernah buat dosa ke dulu? Suci murni, maksum ye?
Look, benda dah lepas, tak payah fikir. Bukan dia berdosa dengan you, dosa dia dengan Allah. Kalau dia dah bertaubat, siapa you nak ungkit dosa silam dia?
Focus on the on the present. Now! It's all that matters after all.