Ufedo @NershyM Twitter profile

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Ufedo

@NershyM

2 years

Love, for Allah’s sake.

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Ufedo

@NershyM

9 months

The thing that hit me in this thread is how conveniently men can walk away from kids and think yeah they will find me in the future and we can be good again. Women don’t have the liberty to.

The Odin

@TheOdin_II

9 months

I share custody of two kids with my ex-wife. Unfortunately, she set me up during a visit to see the kids (confirmed by a judge at the magistrate court), leading to unnecessary restrictions. The situation escalated, involving the police, and I was remanded, later attending court

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Ufedo

@NershyM

9 months

@superflycook And thats the only one I can pin point. So many parts of his story has me doubting my eyes. How did she set you up? Then go on to say ure getting married snd can have other kids - are they disposable? Im soooo confused.

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Ufedo

@NershyM

1 year

@LordVizo__ @Goosiame How many more times are people going to ask a different version of the same question? You already explained it in the plainest language.

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Ufedo

@NershyM

8 months

So its taking the whole of patriarchy twitter 10 years to gather N5m? Na wa.

Paul.🇳🇬🇬🇭

@KidBold

8 months

Scenes when that money gets to the N5m mark🤭💅🏾

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Ufedo

@NershyM

4 years

@judeblay I still dont think He’s dead. I think Marty made a deal with Nelson to hide him somewhere and give them another body and throw off the lawyer.

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Ufedo

@NershyM

3 years

Sustainability can only do so much. Production needs to be clamped down on. Each garment factory should get a production limit or quota that can be spread across all styles and better adapted to demand. This over production to benefit from lower prices is killing us. Literally

Peoples Dispatch

@peoplesdispatch

3 years

🇨🇱 Images from the Atacama desert, which has become a dumpster for the global fast fashion industry. Over 100,000 tons of clothing, many of them new items with price tags that weren't sold or used, have been dumped in the Atacama desert in Chile.

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Ufedo

@NershyM

5 years

Its soo disingenious to act like you dont know ‘aboki’ is derogatory.

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Ufedo

@NershyM

9 months

She kuku carried her child so u ppl will not use ‘she is not married’ to finish her mentions

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Ufedo

@NershyM

2 years

@goodreads Hercule Poirot

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Ufedo

@NershyM

9 months

@MajorKaza Ok

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Ufedo

@NershyM

11 months

@BrotherStiv Did you understand the tweet or did you just decide to tweet this inspite of?

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Ufedo

@NershyM

3 years

Everything about what is going on makes me desperate. Even if i am able to leave this place, what about others? This just isn’t right. #KeepitOn

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Ufedo

@NershyM

8 months

@thisizrino Ignorant nigerian

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Ufedo

@NershyM

1 year

@dondekojo What’s the age of consent in England cos I’m seeing 17 year old here…

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Ufedo

@NershyM

1 year

The best thing out of Love is Blind season 4 is the bromance between Brett and Marshall. Totally here for it. Ofcourse not including Tiffany and Brett. I loved getting my yearly dose of romance from their joining. It was amazing to watch.

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Ufedo

@NershyM

6 years

Anyone on here reads Vince Flynn’s Mitch Rapp series?

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Ufedo

@NershyM

6 years

@Emmiyke @anasa_bella @Demigod115 @Ms_Dashy @OkoliChizoba If you’re waiting to fall in love before dating thats ok. All this thread is saying is, dont proclaim love off the bat. Take your time to feel it before saying it.

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Ufedo

@NershyM

9 months

@TrulyTayo Can’t control how people change - for better or worse. All that is guaranteed is change, they will. We all do.

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Ufedo

@NershyM

7 years

Go on @OgaBally , go forth and shine and ignore these Tboss people. They are upset in advance of Sunday.

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Ufedo

@NershyM

7 years

@Ebuka It was a great show. Good housemate selection. Now lets hope fake nigerians wont vote the interesting personalities out and leave us with humbelinas and those with sob stories

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Ufedo

@NershyM

2 years

@RxOres @tena__sam A company that gives period care packages is definitely not patriarchal

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Ufedo

@NershyM

4 years

Which of the favours of your Lord will you deny!

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Ufedo

@NershyM

1 year

@ozzyetomi Take the law into your hands cos nothing works. Even abroad, restraining orders are violated daily.

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Ufedo

@NershyM

1 year

@d_ocheido @IjeomaOgood This is mot the answer tho. That you catered to his physical needs doesnt mean you have catered to his emotional needs. To a carpenter, every solution to a problem needs a hammer. Try logic, empathy and love sometimes.

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Ufedo

@NershyM

2 years

@ikisok @gechife Advise yes, practical no. I travelled alone to Uni at 19 through 2 countries. Would my parents have loved to come with me? Yes but funds were not permitting so not always feasible. The burden on women to be and act in certain ways is crippling and I for one am over it!

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Ufedo

@NershyM

11 months

@seboflon Crime of passion when they arent in a relationship?

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Ufedo

@NershyM

2 years

Most of the women who have a problem with Meghan have it because she didnt ‘shut up and bear it’. May God deliver us from this endurance olympics.

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Ufedo

@NershyM

4 years

@MsNemah Abi oo. Not that I will reach house from campaigning in one remote location then one man will sit down fuming cos I did not make dinner before going for campaign and now its late. Kmt

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Ufedo

@NershyM

4 years

@gechife Interesting. Oguche is a name from Benue state in Nigeria

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Ufedo

@NershyM

2 years

@drfatima84 Still unaware that u need spread and not just popularity votes to win? And by North do you mean core? Cos i doubt muslims can win the central and it is politically north. Try a little education. Doesn’t hurt.

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Ufedo

@NershyM

11 months

My dad. Son of a fisherman got 3 degrees from UK top Unis.

Osaretin Victor Asemota

@asemota

11 months

Who was the unicorn builder in your family? I have been thinking about this a lot since @pyjama_ceo started the conversation here. Each generation has some sort of privilege over the others. My kids are very privileged with multiple nationalities and very large family on both

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Ufedo

@NershyM

6 months

@SerapaSaGodimo @KBUdeogu @Ofochebe This is true. The number of schools who encourage reading on one’s own aren’t many. I was lucky to have attended a pry school that did this. Today I have varied interests.

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Ufedo

@NershyM

4 years

@PurpletweetyB Even our relationships with our children/nieces/nephews. I wonder why I am so willing to inconvenience myself for them and friendships to an extent but not relationships. 🤔

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Ufedo

@NershyM

7 years

I have seen strong women who are more or less feminists of their time but when it comes to marriage and how to treat men in them, they bow to age old traditions like they arent deserving of the respect they bestow on the men. I seriously hope we do better. This is us. This is now

Doreen🫶🏾

@Doreenglm

7 years

Mothers tell daughters to follow their own coping strategy, like as if marriage is a thing to survive. "Here is a list of what you should/ shouldn't do to get him angry & upset" "Here are the ways to unlook when he is flaunting infidelity" "Here are prayers to help you forgive"

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Ufedo

@NershyM

2 years

@Fothlog @ayooladejo As long as a Nigerian can calculate how much they add to your bottom line, you will soon be out of business.

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Ufedo

@NershyM

5 months

@Brizzy_ray @Mochievous Women have lineages? I thought only men do. 🤔

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Ufedo

@NershyM

10 months

Emancipate yourself from mental slavery

ThatBlessedGirl

@BlessedGirl001

10 months

@EcheXCVI Nobody says natural hair is bad. But can you go to events with your natural hair? An envent that you have a function to run? You can be at your natural look when at home but for an occasion, look your best

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Ufedo

@NershyM

3 years

@Biliquis_X Then tomorrow same nigerian men will come and say not all men but they are here aiding and abetting by warning. God forbid

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Ufedo

@NershyM

3 years

@ozzyetomi @elnathan_john Never allowing that kid back on a play date. I fight everyone to never introduce gender roles to my son so he does what he does. His favourite play time is spent watching excavating machines or ‘cooking’. Im happy to fight school and friends too when those come.

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Ufedo

@NershyM

1 year

@Cheztoi3Foods @ozzyetomi You can complete it

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Ufedo

@NershyM

5 years

@karensagar13 @hodakatebi It just means peace be unto you. Everyone deserves peace and I say it to all. Definitely welcome from all over here

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Ufedo

@NershyM

1 year

@olamzzzz @ChifeDr Cos na the son she born for not the grandmother. And if she need consent, only the son can provide. Its not that hard to understand.

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Ufedo

@NershyM

2 years

I cringe at tweets like this. It is extremely uncomfortable for mento watch another casually discard entire existence of others just as human and Nigerian as them.

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@Vizzy_rayven

2 years

There are some states in Nigeria I totally forgot existed. Wtf is a Yobe state 😭

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Ufedo

@NershyM

6 years

@Ebuka @Miss_Jayla Thank you Ebuka. If you had dared named Cee c as winner, you for kuku remain in SA

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Ufedo

@NershyM

1 year

Just watched brotherhood finally and I have to give @tobibakre his flowers. That fall off the bridge was the single best part of the movie and w close second was when he shot izzie. I pray interpol never catches you 😃

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Ufedo

@NershyM

9 months

This is what comes from dating twitter men. They are often like their tweets.

Mo' Sarkee

@Moh__Sarkee

9 months

Heck, Sir Ruffy upgraded from analog to digital against all odds. Love it for him. Alhamdulillah!

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Ufedo

@NershyM

3 years

I’m big on a civil service layoff however classist it may sound. However, what we never get right is how to implement the right policies before introducing the cuts. We need to get the business environment going that can serve as an employer of the labour we will be letting go.

Gimba Kakanda

@gimbakakanda

3 years

My column this week: “As long as this class privilege exists, those who advocate the “right-sizing” of the civil service, which is akin to dismantling an IDP camp in a country still at war, risk being labelled unsympathetic and classist.” Read here:

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Ufedo

@NershyM

3 years

@chikwado_ @Munachim_ @feminist_co @valerian247 You want time audited or money? Pick a battle

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Ufedo

@NershyM

1 year

@MrSpifff @Rene_noire But this is kinda like what she is saying no? Be a happy jovial person so you attract same. Not one wallowing in self pity and then u attract creeps

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Ufedo

@NershyM

6 years

@Newmanluckyman @Chxta How many*

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Ufedo

@NershyM

2 years

Looks better on Tiwa than the designer.

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Ufedo

@NershyM

5 years

@doyinwright1 @ozzyetomi @le_julz Lmao! U jest surely.

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Ufedo

@NershyM

3 years

@chikwado_ @Munachim_ @feminist_co @valerian247 I’m not sure you understand how these things work. Its not a matter of sentiment. Audited financials are inly sent to interested parties. Your financier, investor, partner, board or donors. Except you’re a publicly quoted company, its never made public.

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Ufedo

@NershyM

2 years

Beth’s support of Randall and all his hare brained schemes (love Randall when he’s not being silly) reminds me so much of Nigerian women trying to keep their marriage against all odds and I hate it sooo much! Fight that man!

NBC Entertainment

@nbc

2 years

We're canceling each other over our #ThisIsUs takes today. Post your most cancellable #ThisIsUs takes.

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@NershyM

2 years

@chuksp20 @LayeOkoh_ @_xoxo_maris_ @_SLYTAUREAN Same family who married her off at 19?

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Ufedo

@NershyM

8 months

This is the crux for me. When the abuse crosses over to me cos of my association with you, I should be free to take any action including ones that protect me.

Sandra Ezekwesili

@SEzekwesili

8 months

I called the police on this guy who wanted to marry my pal cos he slapped me for getting in his face about hitting her in my presence. He also threatened to shoot me with the gun in his car. She refused to make a statement at the station and begged me to change mine. We couldn’t

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Ufedo

@NershyM

5 years

@koldflame @gimbakakanda Why would i want to be called something i am not when i have my own identifier?

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Ufedo

@NershyM

10 years

Watching The Voice Us re-runs, I love Damien!

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Ufedo

@NershyM

2 years

Lmao! Same people that stoned a prostitute in Lagos cos she had the Quran after paying snd using her services. Just thank God, God no be man.

Olóyè Ni'matullah

@MsNemah

2 years

Muslim men can't see what the said Khalid is doing on big brother because "they don't watch the show" but if it were a Muslim woman, they'd watch the show just to chastise her. 🤡S

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@NershyM

7 months

@oneceline_ @abbanibe Its the hate that will not allow you admit. 🤣. I understand jare. If i was you, i’d hate me too

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Ufedo

@NershyM

3 years

In the beginning, this whole Pantami saga went over my head and ai wasn’t interested but after seeing those documents of a supposed meeting he chaired that sort of implicates him in something dangerous? He really should resign and afterwards seek to clear his name if untrue.

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@NershyM

3 years

@SimplyKaka @sugabelly Exactly! When I think of my family history, due to the sickle cell gene which they only found out in the 2nd generation, kids dying in infancy were a thing and it was likened to ogbanje. Terrible terrible thing to want to glorify in such fashion

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Ufedo

@NershyM

3 years

@sahniwaiman @josephejiro_bkp @xoubeey The thing that is wrong is that the same person is on different sides of the fence on the same issue. Now even sure how that is possible but he did it

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Ufedo

@NershyM

1 year

The last sentence has no import here. It was put there to be derogatory. This is what loses you points in an argument. An inability to convey your pov without being insulting. Also speaks to a certain lack of intelligence. Do better. Be more tolerant.

fauzyy ❤️💙

@fauzybash

1 year

The funny thing is only southerners see and treat u as hausas, we in the north dont need this ur post cuz we know u r not hausa and will never be. A hausa man doesnt go around eating dogs and drinking burukutu.

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Ufedo

@NershyM

9 months

@PurpletweetyB @superflycook Everyone thinks they are above board until it hits them. Set awon ‘my story will be different’ , with a Nigerian man? i pity for you sha

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Ufedo

@NershyM

4 years

@Coleman1411 @FFaxie @Inzaghi1 @Nelos_Daughter @jidesanwoolu Island*

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Ufedo

@NershyM

6 years

@ynfinitiwar @TJOKaro And he has contributed 3 more to the world population

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Ufedo

@NershyM

7 years

@Funmilola Extremely disappointed in your summation.

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Ufedo

@NershyM

3 years

@xo_osiris_xo @SheisBoki In which country?

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Ufedo

@NershyM

1 year

Lack of shame is the antithesis of Nigerian men and their bad behaviours. If you have shame, they will cheat you. Lose all forms of shame today.

Toks 4.2 🇵🇸

@Toksyk27

1 year

As a woman who left her cheating husband ten months into our marriage EYE am here to tell women you DON'T have to stay and endure. It would have been two weeks if not for family 'intervening'. But I carry ZERO SHAME for enacting consequences to HIS ACTIONS.

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Ufedo

@NershyM

2 years

@SalimAbidoye @papi_tizzle @DangbanaManager Actually, the opposite when you factor in Inflation. 😊

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Ufedo

@NershyM

3 years

If she’s truly a nanny and just looking after kids, why fire or switch roles? Afterall women daily look after kids while pregnant

Ozzy

@ozzyetomi

3 years

Do you think its unethical to fire nannies/ housekeepers because they are pregnant?

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Ufedo

@NershyM

2 years

@Drchidox @aproko_doctor Intubated? I definitely wasnt. Doesn’t that only happen when you’re put to sleep? Not all epidurals reach the level of being unconscious.

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@NershyM

2 years

@kayshefar @Da1nOnlyCMart She had the kids before the economy broke!

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Ufedo

@NershyM

2 years

Olaniwun Ajayi? Chase Clout with your name? Wow. This internet does give wings

Linda Ikeji Blog

@lindaikeji

2 years

@TimiOlutobi @lanreigh @Oluwanonso_Esq @its_emyce @OlaniwunAjayiLP If I saw one, I would have responded. I have lawyers on retainership doing nothing. I was not served about anything in Abuja. So by the time I'm done appealing, I'm going to countersue. They can't use my name to chase clout

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Ufedo

@NershyM

3 years

@AdeniyiIsrael_ @gechife Or a Trans category in sports. You have men 100m, women 100m and trans 100m. Everyone is happy.

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Ufedo

@NershyM

2 years

@ikisok @gechife These situations don’t pick and choose and because you value one over the other doesn’t change the gravity of a crime. We should always speak out unequivocally about it instead of making it dependent on situation.

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@NershyM

2 years

Hand luggage only

Imabong.

@The_Florentyna

2 years

None of the men tried to run away with their kids. Sigh.

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@NershyM

2 years

@nellyobii @kfcharmian But she’ll have some self respect this way. Imagine begging someone who dislikes you to give you something, anything.

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@NershyM

2 years

@PurpletweetyB Nothing that is not bigotted.

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@NershyM

1 year

@Chimgaemezuya @IfyAniebo Very well deserved. The organization is for profit after all. They also should learn and put policies that will hinder this in place.

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@NershyM

2 years

What if the ‘wrong candidate’ wins and Nigeria progresses under him. Will people admit to being wrong and support him afterwards?

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@NershyM

7 years

@pabloMarwa2 Its not money, it is having a sense of purpose whichmakes others sit up and listen when she talks

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@NershyM

7 months

@tomilayo_ Our housekeepers are pretty close workers to us so we tend to know their family situation hence the advise. I have had similar situations and gave similar advise and thankfully, she has financial freedom today and it didn’t break the marriage either.

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@NershyM

1 year

This is how whole sections of this country gets retrogressed, lose economic progress and educational prowress. 20 years from now, this generation will have matured and become a burden to society. Nigeria never learns from history. BH is recent history but here we are.

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@NershyM

6 months

@FTRTTSPWBF_ @doseofkard Is that the case in practice?

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@NershyM

4 years

Ramadan Kareem everyone. May all our good acts intercede for us today, thorughout this month and at the time of our deaths. May Allah have mercy on us and accept all acts of Ibadah. Amin.

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@NershyM

4 years

@femioyinsan360 @eldivyn Only sensible answer in this whole thread. As long as our fundamentals remain like this, depreciation will continue to happen and all investments irrespective of type will lose value.

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@NershyM

4 years

@TobiLafinhan @seyisolu @SeunEsq Lastly, the naira isnt a tradeable currency. It is not acceptable and cannot be used/ found outside of nigeria. A few currencies can including the GBP hence their value.

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@NershyM

6 years

@phemoragh @Carina_SFX @ehival Issues the woman could have resolved but the man couldn’t have??

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@NershyM

2 years

@godwinAbryi @elnathan_john Being conservative doesn’t mean the difference between wearing a veil or going bare headed. Its in our ideology that is fundamental to us.

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@NershyM

4 years

@zikokomag Wow. I think Emeka has got it on lock. Setting boundaries is the best thing to happen with black tax.

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@NershyM

1 year

The IWD message today is for everyone to embrace equity…in all spheres of life not just as it concerns women in the workplace. This shouldn’t be lip service, it should be how we live and breathe. Thank you.

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@NershyM

2 years

This thread. Lol! All the yellow people i know that DONT BLEACE must have nude veins well matched to their skin tone.

Lit!

@JusttLit

2 years

Deji to chichi: “Do you use cream? Like do you use cream on a regular? Because your arm, green veins are showing.”

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@NershyM

3 years

I switched from biological sciences to Banking and finance over kneading dough for chin chin and 12 years later, I am an AGM in an intl bank

Jennifer Johnson

@seejenwrite

3 years

Tell me a decision that changed the trajectory of your life but you CAN'T say choosing your faith, getting married, or having a kid.

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@NershyM

10 months

@Adekol5 @casmirozuruigbo Thats why he beat her abi? That would make sense.

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Ufedo

@NershyM

9 months

Hate when those who made their money and fame off social media come to belittle those who gave it to them by saying they don’t spend time on social media. Pray tell- people came to your house to build community for you? Kmt

Ìfẹ́

@diaryofa9jagirl

9 months

I prioritize staying true to myself and acknowledging my mistakes with the intention of learning and growing. 3 days ago, no mistake was made. Today, no mistake was made. I won't change my truth to please you. In real life and on social media, I help/empower women with joy.

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@NershyM

1 year

I always advise ppl to choose safe assets like bank deposits, govt bills and bonds if you do not understand investment and drivers of value.

The Nation Nigeria

@TheNationNews

1 year

MOTHER OF ALL SCAMS: How Farmforte owners duped investors of billions of naira, relocated abroad to live large | The Nation Newspaper

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Ufedo

@NershyM

2 years

Im really curious. Will we reject progress just because it is a BAT presidency?

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Ufedo

@NershyM

7 months

@seunonigbinde Its classified cos they are using it to chop

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