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Acknowledge. Accept. Love.

Port Elizabeth
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@Ncapayi_
Abongile •
7 months
First week at my new permanent job, done. I love it so much already. Moved back to one of my favourite cities and into a cute flat that I’m looking forward to furnishing bit by bit throughout the year (because ndinawo amandla okwenza lonto 🥹). Grateful? An understatement. ❤️
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@Ncapayi_
Abongile •
7 years
Iphumile le degree. 😭🎓🙌
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@Ncapayi_
Abongile •
1 year
Man, having someone being thiiiis intentional about you 🥺
@vickto_willy
la loba
1 year
I proposed to the love of my life on April 4th with an animation of our love story. After months of planning, seeing her cry tears of happiness made it all more than worth it.
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@Ncapayi_
Abongile •
3 years
A few days ago, I cried myself to sleep cause EVERYTHING was going south. Today, I'm unpacking in my new place, sipping on wine, while the LOML is in the kitchen cooking for us. Eyyy, ubomi kodwa. 🥺
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@Ncapayi_
Abongile •
3 years
I used to think this until I met the man in my life rn. He came at the right time. When my life was in shambles, he held me in love. He still does. Reminded me that no matter how I saw myself or my life, I was still worthy of love and happiness. Ugh, what a gent. ❤️
@AboshNayo
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3 years
Do you guys also prefer not to date when your life is falling apart??
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@Ncapayi_
Abongile •
8 years
Insecurities aside, just for today. 👑👑👑 #ThighsForJeaux
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@Ncapayi_
Abongile •
4 years
IPHUMILE!!! 😭🙏🏽 After 3 consecutive rejects, I finally got into the Master's degree program for 2021. I'm going to be a step closer to achieving my dream of becoming a registered Counselling Psychologist. 🥺 Yho, akuxokwa xa kus'thwa a dream delayed is not a dream denied. ❤️
@Ncapayi_
Abongile •
4 years
I just came out of an interview and I think it went fairly. Yho hayi, uBawo makenze. 😭🙏🏽 Now, the waiting game...
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@Ncapayi_
Abongile •
4 years
My heart in a picture. 🥺❤️
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@Ncapayi_
Abongile •
2 years
I’m currently unemployed. Not my mom asking me what my debit orders are so she can include them in her budget. 🥺 I’ve never felt like a burden at home. My mom supports all my dreams and aspirations. Yho, I’m beyond blessed. ❤️
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@Ncapayi_
Abongile •
4 months
The little life I’m creating for myself? Man, I’m so proud. 🥹 Gratitude. That’s it. That’s the tweet.
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@Ncapayi_
Abongile •
2 years
@Linda_Mtoba Literally said this just yesterday. Yeeey ha.a maan.
@Ncapayi_
Abongile •
2 years
Yho ha.a, ikhona into e-off.
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@Ncapayi_
Abongile •
3 years
I'm so happy for @Khanyisa_MAD . Yhu, usithwele kule lockdown. She deserves all this. Onwards and upwards! 🙌🏽
@JamesonSA
Jameson South Africa
3 years
Like everyone, there a few things @Official_Athi and @Khanyisa_MAD wish could have just stayed in 2020. Watch the banter and tune in on 24 April, Saturday, at 9:00PM on @1MagicTV , 9:30PM on @Mzansimagic for a round of Bar Banter featuring @schalkiebez & @RobbyCollins_ #HumourMe
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@Ncapayi_
Abongile •
4 years
Tuned into @SissGugu 's IG Live for the first time today and man... I'm definitely going to be a regular from now onwards. Ah. 🕯️❤️🙏🏽
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@Ncapayi_
Abongile •
3 years
I've always been the responsible and independent child. Now, as difficult as it is, I reach out - I ask for help when necessary and I try to let people in. I also allow myself to be reckless every now and again, esp with money. Little pockets of joy for my inner child. 🌻
@Shoun_B
Asisipho Burwana
3 years
What are some of the ways you show up for your inner child?
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@Ncapayi_
Abongile •
3 years
Prioritize your mental health.
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@Ncapayi_
Abongile •
4 years
💆🏽‍♀️
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@Ncapayi_
Abongile •
4 years
Yho ha.a, makubuyiswe utywala ngoku.
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@Ncapayi_
Abongile •
3 years
This is a very important reminder. Stealing is rape!
@Phumlani_PrEP
#PrEPa Pig 🏳️‍🌈
3 years
Just a reminder that Stealthing is not okay.
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@Ncapayi_
Abongile •
7 years
Aaaand, it's official. Second degree in the bag! Looking forward to grad day. 😭🎓
@Ncapayi_
Abongile •
7 years
If I get to graduate again next year, I'm legit going to cry. This year is a lot. Wow, isikolo bethuna.
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@Ncapayi_
Abongile •
4 years
I just came out of an interview and I think it went fairly. Yho hayi, uBawo makenze. 😭🙏🏽 Now, the waiting game...
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@Ncapayi_
Abongile •
2 years
You sound like umzali who has given up on us. 😭
@Bongani_Momoti
Mimo
2 years
No advice today. Umntu makabe yilento afuna ubayiyo, aphile lempilo afuna uyiphila.
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@Ncapayi_
Abongile •
3 years
Yho. Niyazenza izinto. Niyazithetha izinto.
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@Ncapayi_
Abongile •
4 years
Today was a good day.
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@Ncapayi_
Abongile •
3 years
I've been binging on @GogoMoyoSpeaks YouTube channel today. Ugh, my heart. 🥺🕯️❤️
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@Ncapayi_
Abongile •
3 years
Nah, something good needs to happen this week.
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@Ncapayi_
Abongile •
4 months
Bethuna, umntu ona 30 uvuka atye ntoni?
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@Ncapayi_
Abongile •
3 years
@Monelisi_Sigabi Hayi hayi, sus'thethelela. Asinamali.
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@Ncapayi_
Abongile •
3 years
This week, we try again.
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@Ncapayi_
Abongile •
3 years
Thixo, ulilanga lethu, Uyakhanya phezu kwethu, Umphefumlo ungaboni Apho uhambela khona. ... Ithamsanqa elikhulu, Ithamsanqa elezulu, Likho kothembayo kuWe; Ngokuba ethandwa nguWe. Amen. 🥺🙏🏽 #ComeLetUsPray
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@Ncapayi_
Abongile •
4 years
The one thing I'm always praying for is my own space. I have no idea how that's gonna happen anytime soon cause I have zero income coming in but icebo lizovela. uThixo makenze. Yho. 😭🙏🏽
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@Ncapayi_
Abongile •
3 years
Hoping to have a productive week. 🤞🏽
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@Ncapayi_
Abongile •
1 year
@camagumayeye_ Yeyona eb’hlungu ke le. Umane usithi “heeman”, abe u-1 + 1 engu 2 nyani kengoku. Rha, amadoda.
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@Ncapayi_
Abongile •
7 months
Grief is such a weird thing man. It’s been 11 years but I woke up this morning and cried cause I really miss my dad, because what do you mean I’ll never get to see him again??? YHO. 😔💔
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@Ncapayi_
Abongile •
3 years
Thixo akunangqaleko Thixo akunangqibeko Ukho endaweni zonke Ukho ngamaxesha onke ... Zoda zigqibeke zonke Kuthi tshabalala konke Ube wena ungapheli Ube wena usahleli 🥺🙏🏽❤️
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@Ncapayi_
Abongile •
5 years
Posting this for whoever may need to see it. 🌻♥️
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@Ncapayi_
Abongile •
3 years
uThixo namaNyange knew exactly what they were doing when they brought my boyf into my life. 🥺❤️
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@Ncapayi_
Abongile •
3 years
John 14:3 "And if I go and prepare a place for you, I will come back and take you to be with me that you also may be where I am" Oh Bawo wam, this verse comforted me so much after my dad's passing in 2013. 🥺❤️ Ingathi senzelwe mna esi space. #ComeLetUsPray 🙏🏽
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@Ncapayi_
Abongile •
3 years
11:11 Sikhanyisele, Bawo. 🕯️🙏🏽
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@Ncapayi_
Abongile •
3 years
Ingathi inob'thongo. ☹️
@_StormHaze
Khan Debugger 🕷️
3 years
I make tattoos from R250 DM for complete price list. My customer might be on your TL
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@Ncapayi_
Abongile •
4 years
Choose yourself. Choose healing.
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@Ncapayi_
Abongile •
9 months
Uba uThixo akandiniki amandla wothenga imoto next year, ingaba udlala ngam. Yhini.
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@Ncapayi_
Abongile •
3 years
I actually thought about this uvuka kwam. Sithi aba?! Haiiiibo! 🥺❤️
@Masakhane_M
Masa
3 years
November🤗 - I am one exam & five assignments away from registering as an Intern Psychologist. Phew!😅May I receive all the necessary strenght this month🕯️🙏🏾.
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@Ncapayi_
Abongile •
3 years
Every now and then, I randomly think about the things I've experienced with my boyf and I smile. That gent makes me so happy. 🥺❤️
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@Ncapayi_
Abongile •
4 years
@SissGugu 's IG Live resonated so much with me tonight. It's really important for one to adjust their borrowed eye. Acknowledge that your feelings are normal/valid, but also introspect on where exactly they stem from. 🕯️🙏🏽❤️
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@Ncapayi_
Abongile •
4 years
Winter is such an unnecessary season. There's absolutely no need for it.
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@Ncapayi_
Abongile •
2 years
Yho ha.a, ikhona into e-off.
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@Ncapayi_
Abongile •
2 years
06/05/2013 - Always and forever, dad. 🕊❤️
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@Ncapayi_
Abongile •
3 years
Every now and then, I randomly think about how I love my boyfriend. Yhu, ingaske ndilile. I've never been happier. 🥺
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@Ncapayi_
Abongile •
8 years
Boobs = Perfect stress balls. 😍
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@Ncapayi_
Abongile •
4 years
Who's craving financial freedom???
@rilxf
𝓃𝒶𝓌𝒾 ✧
4 years
Boomboclaat??
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@Ncapayi_
Abongile •
3 years
Hoping for a blessed, productive week. 🤞🏽
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@Ncapayi_
Abongile •
4 months
@Lonz_Sigabi 😭😭😭 I HATE YOU!
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@Ncapayi_
Abongile •
4 years
These heartbreak stories on the TL are hilarious. 😂 Getting through it and laughing about it afterwards >>>
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@Ncapayi_
Abongile •
4 years
Dj Zinhle (feat. Loyiso) - Indlovu Ah, such an affirming song. 😭❤️
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@Ncapayi_
Abongile •
4 years
If I tweet some sad shit, please don't ask me about it on WhatsApp. If I wanted to talk to you about it, I would.
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@Ncapayi_
Abongile •
7 years
Khosi Jiyane on #RealTalkWithAnele ...I love listening to this woman. 🙌
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@Ncapayi_
Abongile •
3 years
Be kind. Always.
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@Ncapayi_
Abongile •
4 years
The conversation being had about sexual assault on the TL is so important. We can never talk enough it it. It has to happen. It's also mad triggering though, but we push through. 💔❤️
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@Ncapayi_
Abongile •
7 years
I hope the academic gods will be with me this year. 🙏
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@Ncapayi_
Abongile •
2 years
IG is filled with reposts of Nozi and Skhu’s pregnancy reveal. Oh bethuna, I’m so happy for them. 🥺❤️
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@Ncapayi_
Abongile •
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@Ncapayi_
Abongile •
4 years
Today was a good day.
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@Ncapayi_
Abongile •
3 years
@nandnz Her dresses so beautiful. 🥺 Anibahle maan. Congratulations, Nande! 🥂
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@Ncapayi_
Abongile •
2 years
Nah, this will forever be funny. 😂
@NetflixSA
NetflixSA
3 years
And the award to the most chaotic scene in The Office goes to...😭😭😭
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@Ncapayi_
Abongile •
3 years
The hand gestures. 😭
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@Ncapayi_
Abongile •
3 years
Eyyy bethuna.
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@Ncapayi_
Abongile •
4 years
I'm going to marry this man. 🥺❤️
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@Ncapayi_
Abongile •
3 years
When I listen to Mamela by Mi Casa, I feel like I'm on a road trip with the LOML. What a beautiful song. 🥺❤️
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@Ncapayi_
Abongile •
3 years
Impepho? I highly recommend.
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@Ncapayi_
Abongile •
1 year
Intsindiso inako ukwenza nqwaku nqwaku kodwa.
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@Ncapayi_
Abongile •
3 years
Vaccinated. 💃🏽
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@Ncapayi_
Abongile •
4 years
Fight the urge to tweet everything about your lives bethuna. Niyazijongisa.
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@Ncapayi_
Abongile •
1 year
The most beautiful woman in South Ah. 🥺
@NetflixSA
NetflixSA
1 year
Gail “Face Card” Mabalane!!! #UNSEEN
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@Ncapayi_
Abongile •
7 months
It wouldn’t be Christmas in EL without abit of rain.
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@Ncapayi_
Abongile •
8 years
Can we pretend that airplanes in the night sky are like shooting stars? I could really use a wish right now
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@Ncapayi_
Abongile •
3 years
Khanyisa's vids are always accurate. 🤣
@Khanyisa_MAD
Unfiltered
3 years
Clinic Chronicles Part 1 #khanyisaunfiltered
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@Ncapayi_
Abongile •
8 years
Keep moving forward.
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@Ncapayi_
Abongile •
4 years
Top tier. 🥺
@bonesfromgod
Jul' iklipa
4 years
Good sex, sure. But naps w your person bro>>>> 😭😭😭
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@Ncapayi_
Abongile •
3 years
Gospel is a top tier genre. 🥺🙏🏽
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@Ncapayi_
Abongile •
3 years
I hope 2022 will be kinder. 🥺🙏🏽
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@Ncapayi_
Abongile •
8 years
Being alone is quite addictive.
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@Ncapayi_
Abongile •
4 years
Someone posted this a while back on FB. It's in Mdantsane. I'm not sure if you were asking about something like this.
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@Blaq_asian_
iMbalentle
4 years
East London Twitter: Please suggest places with fun activities.
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@Ncapayi_
Abongile •
3 years
On point, as per usual. 😂 You genuinely deserve all these bags coming your way! ❤️
@Khanyisa_MAD
Unfiltered
3 years
#AD | Yintoni le ingakha caba everyday Netflix and chill ?🧐 #NetflixWeather ❤️ @NetflixSA #khanyisaunfiltered
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@Ncapayi_
Abongile •
3 years
Sikhanyisele, Bawo. 🙏🏽❤️
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@Ncapayi_
Abongile •
2 years
Yho bethuna, imali??? Very important that thing.
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@Ncapayi_
Abongile •
3 years
This! I'll forever be grateful for ikhaya endisuka kulo. 🥺❤️ It really saddens me that abanye abantu can't do this cause home isn't a safe space for them.
@_SandisiweVani
Sandisiwe
3 years
Nothing in this world beats packing your bags and going home xa ugowa. There's absolutely nothing wrong with trying again and starting over. As many times as you need to.
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@Ncapayi_
Abongile •
2 years
Senxanwe.
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@Ncapayi_
Abongile •
1 year
Sana, uCyril. Siyamsokolisa caba.
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@Ncapayi_
Abongile •
3 years
Definitely. 🤞🏽
@ThaboT_style
Thabo
3 years
Akere we going to be extra kind to ourselves this year 😁
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@Ncapayi_
Abongile •
4 years
Yho, the detail. This is so beautiful. 😍
@AfriTumic
Boitumelo Modiba-Rasefate 🇿🇦
4 years
Decided to stop being lazy and work Exaggerated Ruffled Dress , with pin tucks.. 💙💙💙 Dress: @hotogadi MUA: @AfriTumic
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@Ncapayi_
Abongile •
5 years
Yho, bumnandi utywala. Haibo.
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@Ncapayi_
Abongile •
2 years
“Heeey, sisi, take it away!” You’re such a black mom. 😭😂
@Khanyisa_MAD
Unfiltered
2 years
We really thought she ate 😭
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@Ncapayi_
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11 months
Yho, both sana.
@sthedoingthings
𝐇𝐀𝐁𝐈𝐋𝐄.
11 months
Guys ,is everything expensive now or we're getting paid peanuts? 🤔😂🥴
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@Ncapayi_
Abongile •
3 years
I love social media. Having access to info at your fingertips is truly the best thing. It can get abit too much at times though. There are constantly triggers on here, some that may even affect you subconsciously. I hope you take breaks from this app every now and again. 🌻
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@Ncapayi_
Abongile •
1 year
Sketch sana.
@dbuwa
Sizwe seAfrika
1 year
Some of these rich people are out of touch with reality yaz. I'm disappointed in Duduzani Zuma yaz
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@Ncapayi_
Abongile •
3 years
Yho hayi, abazali. 🤣
@Khanyisa_MAD
Unfiltered
3 years
Black parents are so tricky 😭 #KhanyisaUnfiltered
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@Ncapayi_
Abongile •
3 years
Eeeeeverything requires money. Yho!
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@Ncapayi_
Abongile •
1 year
#ShakaiLembe is such a beautiful production. 🥺
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@Ncapayi_
Abongile •
5 years
🙏🏽♥️
@Methodist_hymns
The Methodist Church of Southern Africa
5 years
Ukuthemba uYehova Nokuphepha ngaYe Kuko okulungileyo Kungathenjwa Bantu! 🙌🏾 #MCSA_Hymns
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@Ncapayi_
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4 years
I haven't applied for jobs in about 2 months, cause I've been tired tired. Time to get back at it. 🙏🏽
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@Ncapayi_
Abongile •
3 years
I completely agree with this.
@ThaboT_style
Thabo
3 years
The biggest lesson I learnt last year was that the whole notion of "doing it on my own" is quite misleading sometimes. If it wasn't for the People that I had in my life, I would have cracked under the pressure. We all need somebody, and that's a fact!
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