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Relationship-forward conduit of sacred theater 🪄 Writer, mountain nymph, epicure, mixed indigenous woman.

Boulder/Denver, Colorado
Joined October 2018
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@MeetAmberDelice
Amber Délice
6 years
When a client arrives and he goes to take a shower and asks: “Want to join me?” with a wink. Sure... I just took one, covered my body in coconut oil, put on makeup, dried my hair, curled my hair, got dressed, put on heels... all to go back in the shower with you. 🎉😃🎉
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Amber Délice
5 years
A year ago, I met an incredible man. When I’m with him, I feel peace, joy and excitement. We grew slowly, and this wknd I get to celebrate his bday! Yes, he’s a client—and a human. A beautiful one. Clients: Never underestimate the effect you have on your provider’s well-being.
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Amber Délice
5 years
Male photographers: You do not need to add “I mean, it got me hard 🍆” etc. about a particular photo you took to reassure us, or whatever it is you’re doing. I can’t speak for everyone, but when I receive that my heart drops a bit because...
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Amber Délice
5 years
Me, to the pretty girl in 2B on my flight to Mexico: Hi, do you mind if I edit some boudoir photos during the flight? Her: Not at all! You’re so sweet to ask. Me: Great! Her: ...And if there’s a really good one, show me. 😉 Me: 😯🥰
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Amber Délice
5 years
Today, I got amazing civ news I can’t share specifics on, but I do want to say— During the interview process, I intuitively took a chance and shared that I was a SWer. This was scary for me, yet deeply important that this part of me be accepted by the artists in this space.
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Amber Délice
5 years
I have a crush on my massage therapist. 🙊 She asked me out to coffee today, then we lingered and laughed/connected and had lunch, and then she asked me on a hike next time... so, maybe she likes me? The only way I know how to flirt with women is to ask to do duos. 😂 Help.
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Amber Délice
5 years
Unpopular opinion? I hear (& have said) a lot: “my clients treat me better than my dates,” but—we also often treat our clients better, too. I think about when my ex used to come home; was there a charcuterie plate, wine and me in Bordelle waiting for him? 😂 No, there was not.
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Amber Délice
2 years
@AmyTaylorNYC I feel some put-down energy swirling here, which I'm not used to from you. There's a way to exude elegance and radiate your truth without making generalizations about other escorts. Otherwise, you're still in a comparison trap, and it's not helping our fellow companions.
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Amber Délice
6 years
A client suggested a duo with a male provider would be “for my pleasure” and so should cost less. 🤔 This inspired me to share my priorities. 1) Sleep 2) Non-SW work 3) Girl time 4) Me time 5) See (1) Casual hookups are (91), after (90): Replace contact solution at Target. 🎯
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Amber Délice
4 years
When a client cancels last-minute... but does so to take care of himself and show up for what’s happening in his life, tells you to enjoy the hotel room, and sends 100% of your rate PLUS EXTRA for a nice dinner. 👏🏽😭🥰
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Amber Délice
5 years
I am deflecting comments like this constantly, and it’s energetically draining. When I seek a photographer, I seek a professional.
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Amber Délice
3 years
The feminine urge to suck his soul out of him while he’s on a Zoom call 🍭
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Amber Délice
3 years
Good morning to everyone except clients who hunt down and view my civilian social media. (Yes, I can see you, and this is a blacklistable privacy violation.)
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Amber Délice
2 years
Oh my goodness. I must tell SW Twitter this— There is a fine dining restaurant in Denver that, for single diners only, will make half portions! It’s not on the menu; it’s a secret and they’ll only tell you once they’re sure you’re alone. Fucking. Genius.
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Amber Délice
2 years
Today I started working with a female financial advisor—a direct relationship, which I never imagined was possible. I realized as I left that, as a SWer, I earn more income than any man in my lineage ever has. I am proud of that 🙏🏽
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Amber Délice
4 years
It is 100% not okay to ever stalk a companion’s civilian social accounts. I have found two clients doing this in the last month. You will be immediately blocked, and I won’t hesitate to mention it on the lists that keep us safe. Not. Okay.
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Amber Délice
3 years
Some think being a SWer and being in a committed relationship isn’t possible. Well! Guess what *else* is possible: My most treasured long-term clients love hearing I am in love. They continue to book me for extended dates. We continue to expand our intimacy and connection.
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Amber Délice
5 years
I feel anxiety when I see an ex-client (who is an emotionally unstable pathological liar) on Twitter acting sweet and interacting with providers I deeply care for. I have reported him on blacklist sites, but I feel unsettled. Do I just sit this one out when it comes to Twitter?
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Amber Délice
4 years
Recently, I discovered I’d been worried about coming out as a SWer to a dear friend for no reason. 🌻 Her response was in essence: “I’d guessed. I figured you’d tell me when you were ready. I would never judge you. I am so curious and want to know everything!” I love her. ❤️
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Amber Délice
5 years
Providers: How do you know when to raise your rates? For me, sometimes my business tells me. For all of January, I noticed I did not do a single 1-hour date. I was looking at my website today, and realized I'd like to continue not doing them! So, they are no longer an option.
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Amber Délice
5 years
Today I received word I was welcomed in to this group 🥳—and they wrote that it is because of (not in spite of) my experience and background. It feels incredible to be valued in this way, and I am feeling so tickled today. 🥰
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Amber Délice
4 years
@craziemamarose I have condoms in 3 sizes, I always have cash, I am dressed in “urban garbage luxury” at the airport (sweatpants/Chanel purse), I am incredibly emotionally present with you except for the literal *days* I vanish from communication and then come back needing “time by myself.”
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Amber Délice
3 years
My credit score moved into Excellent today 🎉 As an ex-20-something hippie who used to cut up her credit cards and not pay taxes—I’ve come a long way. Thanks SW, for ironically making me a contributing member of the economy I am not legally allowed to participate in 💁🏻‍♀️
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Amber Délice
5 years
Future FSSWs who join the industry post-pandemic will have NO idea what this was like. They won’t feel it in their bones: the fear, the experimentation, how we were supported by our clients/peers in unprecedented ways. We’ll always have this monster dumpster fire in common. 💛
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Amber Délice
5 years
Type “My quarantine secret is” and let autocorrect tell the truth. My quarantine secret is that I cannot wait for it to be done in my butt. 🧐
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Amber Délice
5 years
Does anyone else prep for a 2-hr flight like they’re going on a boating expedition across the Pacific? 😂 Netflix downloads of shows and movies, 7 podcasts, 3 books, computer work, a giant healthy meal plus snacks... when really I’ll prob just take a nap and sip an apple juice.
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Amber Délice
2 years
I do not agree with this at all. It’s a toilet in a bathroom. We are all humans; if we have to go, we go. (Obviously 100% hygiene, even if it requires a quick shower after, is a given.) I would definitely not rather have someone hold it (!) or make them leave the premises.
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Angel Barbie - Las Vegas - FMTY
2 years
Clients, please don’t poop at our Incall. It’s gross! Shit at home or in lobby please! 🤮🟤
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