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@MaestroStefanos

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He/Him They/Them Cisgendered, polyamorous, pansexual & queer, although seen as heterosexual. BDSM relationship & skill educator host of Kinkspedition Podcast.

San Francisco
Joined September 2009
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@MaestroStefanos
Stefanos
6 months
HEY! I am part of a new thing. I invested in something, I believe in. Now, I am trying to get all my friends to join me on a new kinky adventure. Please have a look at this: I would love your help in making this come true.
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@MaestroStefanos
Stefanos
3 years
Just to say, I miss doing kinky things to kinky people while kinky people watch and play around me.
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@MaestroStefanos
Stefanos
6 months
I'm out of the hospital. I'm healing well. Here I come. I want to thank everyone for supporting me and caring for me. I have been given a second chance, and together, we will all prosper. I'm grateful for the wonder that I am, and I am grateful for all of the people in my life
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@MaestroStefanos
Stefanos
6 years
Secret Kink HandShake (revealed and over-simplified): Pt 1: Talk to everyone with respect and as an equal. Pt 2: Accept No as a successful answer to proposed play. Pt 3: Continue to talk to everyone with respect and as an equal.
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@MaestroStefanos
Stefanos
7 months
Today, I had my colostomy closed laparoscopically. The doctor established a 60% chance of successful laparoscopic surgery, and she did it! I'm in the hospital recovering right now. This is the last major step to my recovery from July's accidental deer hunting. 🤞🤞🤞🤞🥳🥳🏍
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@MaestroStefanos
Stefanos
1 year
It's My Birthday! Miss you all!
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@MaestroStefanos
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2 years
I just left a therapy session. I'm in my head and it's ok. I will be ok. I will get better. But I wanted to say, please don't let your pride get in the way of help, the way I have. The 1st step is the hardest. Please take it.
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@MaestroStefanos
Stefanos
9 months
New trim. Just saying hi!
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@MaestroStefanos
Stefanos
4 years
When we are all vaccinated, I may just stay the fuck home anyway and get a job in a bookstore or something chill. After 3 decades of extreme extroverting and 2 decades of party hosting ... I'll be very particular about where I put my energy. Very particular.
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@MaestroStefanos
Stefanos
6 years
Hey so ... Just remembering how good my life is with @ShayBlondie as my partner!
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9 years
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@MaestroStefanos
Stefanos
6 months
As my birthday comes to a close today, I have found only this wisdom to share. Be yourself unabashedly. Take care of yourself & family (chosen or not). You will be loved for who you are by those around you. Thank you for all the years of memories & love! Looking for 52 more!
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@MaestroStefanos
Stefanos
9 years
Rando Dom: Why do you let your sub @ShayBlondie act that way? Me: Ask her @ShayBlondie : Because that's the demeanor Stefanos prefers #Ourway
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@MaestroStefanos
Stefanos
7 years
I woke up this morning to this. My tiny littlest child gave this to me. I will never need another present again. #dadthings
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@MaestroStefanos
Stefanos
6 years
Just cause I like this photo and it's another side of me.
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@MaestroStefanos
Stefanos
3 years
I'm so proud of my partner @ShayBlondie . #forallthethings
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@MaestroStefanos
Stefanos
3 years
Today while walking doing errands, I was complimented by 6 random humans. I feel good! Thanks @DamnNearKiltem I needed that today.
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@MaestroStefanos
Stefanos
4 years
Why is this not a landslide? Racism, stupidity, hatred, misogyny, and more. Fuck all these people! These voters are trash.
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@MaestroStefanos
Stefanos
3 years
Good morning from our rescue potbelly, Demeter.
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@MaestroStefanos
Stefanos
3 years
Do I need to be weekly active throwing a party to be in the community? No, I did that and I loved it. But I think I am craving something else. My closet says ... I threw parties every week. My heart says, maybe it's time to part ways. Anybody have any thoughts?
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@MaestroStefanos
Stefanos
6 years
Dreaming of another adventure!
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@MaestroStefanos
Stefanos
4 years
We celebrate Solstice not Christmas in our house, so today is the start of a wonderful few days.
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@MaestroStefanos
Stefanos
3 years
I think I'm gonna move forward w me being a better me without permission or kudos from the sphere of social media. My changes, reflections, and growth are mine ans for me. I don't think I need to "post" or "share" them. Much love for you all and keep being better.
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@MaestroStefanos
Stefanos
2 years
I like this beard thing. Thanks genetics.
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@MaestroStefanos
Stefanos
3 years
WARNING ⚠️ parenting tweet ahead. I just spent 30 min finding dubstep my 14 yr old likes! I loved it. It was like prepping for a party again in a wierd way. We had such a good time! I'm so happy right now.
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@MaestroStefanos
Stefanos
5 years
And that's a shoot. I'll let @ShayBlondie send out the spoilers.
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@MaestroStefanos
Stefanos
9 months
Originally I had a surgery scheduled for next week. To repair my ostomy. It turns out because I had three minor strokes during my accident the waiting period has to be longer and my new appointment will be in March. I'm almost there people. Almost there.
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@MaestroStefanos
Stefanos
5 years
Today when my cup felt too full to carry - I saw it grow bigger and lighter because you all and others not here helped me carry it. We are strong because we are a whole that honors individuals. Love your loves and tell them so. One is a part of the whole.
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@MaestroStefanos
Stefanos
4 years
1 lifetime or 1 year. Something? I miss you all so very much.
@ShayBlondie
Shay Tiziano
4 years
This was one year ago. One. Year. Ago. It doesn't even feel like the same lifetime. 😔😥
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@MaestroStefanos
Stefanos
3 years
I would love if people would join us for this fun topic.
@HouseOfAlgos
Ask_Ezra_
3 years
Join us for class Wednesday May 26th at 7PM PST for “Tying With Ties: Unconventional Materials Bondage for Beginners” with @ShayBlondie & @MaestroStefanos hosted by @HouseOfAlgos & @SanctuaryLAX
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@MaestroStefanos
Stefanos
6 years
Just a story for you all from 2016.
@MaestroStefanos
Stefanos
9 years
Rando Dom: Why do you let your sub @ShayBlondie act that way? Me: Ask her @ShayBlondie : Because that's the demeanor Stefanos prefers #Ourway
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@MaestroStefanos
Stefanos
3 years
I have been hired to teach privately and share my life lessons (good and bad) in kink/BDSM, poly and romance. I feel so lucky (and scared).
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@MaestroStefanos
Stefanos
4 years
We are starting tbr Solstice decorating at our house. The doggos are investigating and included.
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@MaestroStefanos
Stefanos
3 years
Many people in my chosen family transitioned and/or found the identity that is true for who they are. I support & love them. I'm in love w them! I even fuck some of them. If you can't handle that I'm queer & cis AND that I love my family NO MATTER WHAT. I'm not sorry.
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@MaestroStefanos
Stefanos
4 years
Step one of Birthday cake from @SilverSenta chocolate cake w chocolate mousse and chocolate ganache! Soon to be covered in gold leaf piping if all goes well! Food experimentation
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@MaestroStefanos
Stefanos
4 years
Wearing a mask is not about liberty and some need for individual freedom. If you chose to not wear a mask you are choosing to be a biological weapon of terror. You are causing harm to your country, your family, your economy, your church, your business and your freedom.
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@MaestroStefanos
Stefanos
4 years
Today I love the internet! I am searching swimwear for my youngest kiddo (12). I am finding a grand number of sites and designers for non-binary humans like them. Thank you internet for making this possible!
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@MaestroStefanos
Stefanos
4 years
. @ShayBlondie was kind enough to work while am learning to use shadows and harsh light.
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@MaestroStefanos
Stefanos
5 years
Read this Or this
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@MaestroStefanos
Stefanos
7 years
And @SilverSenta offically lives with us. Mine is ours now!
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@MaestroStefanos
Stefanos
7 years
Have I mentioned what a power house and inspiration @ShayBlondie is? She does ALL the things for us all!
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@MaestroStefanos
Stefanos
4 years
Happy day to you all from Demeter.
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@MaestroStefanos
Stefanos
3 years
And today I continue to ask myself: How has the last X (16) months treated me? What are my priorities for me? How have I changed? What do I want from this life I have made? Who are my friends? How can I change this or that for all people. What are you doing?
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@MaestroStefanos
Stefanos
10 years
And then @realdakotaskye takes it in the ass ...right after @VerucaJames tongues it http://t.co/rsQUulH0Nh
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@MaestroStefanos
Stefanos
3 years
And ... this is what our house looks like today. Thank you @ShayBlondie #likeyoudo
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@MaestroStefanos
Stefanos
4 years
Grilling some salt and pepper wings, mushrooms and wearing my new kilt. Yup quarantine life.
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@MaestroStefanos
Stefanos
3 years
As I re-read this book before publication, it reminds me of how amazing @ShayBlondie is at writing and including so many points of view from the larger group of kink and sexuality humans that helped shape us and guide us before and still to this day. Thank you!
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@MaestroStefanos
Stefanos
3 years
My house needs this for @ShayBlondie
@MissAudreyArrow
Audrey Arrow NYC 🏹 DC 11/3-5
3 years
This double chromatic harp except it's also a St. Andrew's Cross
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@MaestroStefanos
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3 years
This was in the morning today. And my day was this good, all day.
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4 years
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@MaestroStefanos
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10 years
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@MaestroStefanos
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9 years
Not every D or S-type does the same tasks. Don't put your relationship in a box belonging to someone else
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@MaestroStefanos
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4 years
1991, I was 19 yrs old, in the USAF, on England AFB. A black Airman 1st Class told me when I said, I don't understand racism, a human is a human. He said, "You don't and won't understand because you are white". Still haunted and He was right.
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@MaestroStefanos
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4 years
My Littlest made this for me.
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@MaestroStefanos
Stefanos
3 years
Happy Halloween.
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@MaestroStefanos
Stefanos
7 years
Event Attendee: how do you work these events without wanting to fuck the hot people? Me: there's way too much information to decode the Event. You get used to it, though. Your brain does the translating. I don't even see the blonde, brunette, and redhead. All I see is the code.
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@MaestroStefanos
Stefanos
3 years
I am weirdly proud of this candy dish moment I made at home.
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@MaestroStefanos
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3 years
It's a good night outside.
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@MaestroStefanos
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4 years
Navigating through mental health care with my second born is enlightening me to better ways to communicate and look at my own emotions. This is a rewarding parent experience.
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@MaestroStefanos
Stefanos
6 months
Thank you! Here's the 50 some more
@TheDaveyXX
Mx Davey Faye
6 months
Happy birthday @MaestroStefanos ! So grateful to be able to celebrate your successful turn around the sun, thanks for sticking with us 💗 🏍️ Looking forward to throwing darts into a phone booth soon 😉 🎯 🎂 🍺 (Also pictured @FoxIronwood @ShayBlondie @ZenExistNull )
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4 years
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@MaestroStefanos
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8 years
Fuck at least some goes news for me my family and my friends.
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2 years
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@MaestroStefanos
Stefanos
5 years
I am proud of you and for you. I'm honored to be part of your journey and a piece of your life. You are amazing My Girasole ... 👁💕🌻
@ShayBlondie
Shay Tiziano
5 years
Super excited to show you the cover for the self-suspension book! Art by @WazMaTaz , design by Deadheavy 🥰 Just doing a once-over of the proof copy, then I'll be launching on Amazon! w00t, it's almost there! HUGE thank you to all the folks who have supported this long process 😍
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3 years
May the sun warm your back and the cuddles be felt for all time to come.
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@MaestroStefanos
Stefanos
2 years
Every community needs financial support, we know it. Regardless of your connection to @WickedGrounds , we need the cafe. We need it. There are few if any places left for kinky people and queer people to go!!! $5 is something. I did. Can you?
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@MaestroStefanos
Stefanos
10 years
Look what @ShayBlondie did to me here at @RomeBDSMCon It's her first time cutting me! #SoHappy http://t.co/rJSud9V1yK
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10 years
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@MaestroStefanos
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10 years
Miss @abella_danger is learning the basic of @TheUpperFloor House. From the old beginning! http://t.co/pafuYuWuDv
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@MaestroStefanos
Stefanos
3 years
Just playing today! Cause happy Demeter Dog makes the world better for me and mine.
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@MaestroStefanos
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8 years
Ready for FOR SCIENCE at @DarkOdyssey w @SilverSenta
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6 years
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@MaestroStefanos
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2 years
Thank you @voxbody for creating a space and a place for art, rope and love. We love you for it. Thank you for sharing the space with so many and for lifting others with you! We (my friends and family) appreciate you! Kink on and fly!
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@MaestroStefanos
Stefanos
4 years
. @drazilepor thank you for the great mini bull!
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@MaestroStefanos
Stefanos
5 years
Holy fuck! I am nominated to an @avnawards for best group sex scene in the 2020 ccategory! I am trying to go to @AVNMediaNetwork For the first time in a decade!
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@MaestroStefanos
Stefanos
3 years
Thank the goddess & gods that I have a big poly (pod), & club family ... when my mind hits overtime & refuses to sleep and work. Thank you for supporting me! @ShayBlondie @SilverSenta @ZenExistNull @Figaro1972 @MsLexaa @LegionofSin
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10 years
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@MaestroStefanos
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3 years
Love doing the things
@ShayBlondie
Shay Tiziano
3 years
Set up to present Tying with Ties online with @MaestroStefanos for @HouseOfAlgos ! 😊
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8 months
Happy Birthday @ProVillain !
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@MaestroStefanos
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8 years
. @ShayBlondie : "You gonna take my cucumber?" Me: "yup I like things in my mouth" #dowf17
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@MaestroStefanos
Stefanos
3 years
And this was my afternoon.
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@MaestroStefanos
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4 years
I wanna tweet something dirty, but ... the world is too heavy. So insert a dirty thought for us all.
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@MaestroStefanos
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3 years
Kink Life Tip (IMHO): In general -- Put your D/s into your relationship (and it's goals) not the other way around.
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