He/Him They/Them
Cisgendered, polyamorous, pansexual & queer, although seen as heterosexual. BDSM relationship & skill educator host of Kinkspedition Podcast.
HEY! I am part of a new thing. I invested in something, I believe in. Now, I am trying to get all my friends to join me on a new kinky adventure. Please have a look at this: I would love your help in making this come true.
I'm out of the hospital. I'm healing well. Here I come. I want to thank everyone for supporting me and caring for me. I have been given a second chance, and together, we will all prosper. I'm grateful for the wonder that I am, and I am grateful for all of the people in my life
Secret Kink HandShake (revealed and over-simplified):
Pt 1: Talk to everyone with respect and as an equal.
Pt 2: Accept No as a successful answer to proposed play.
Pt 3: Continue to talk to everyone with respect and as an equal.
Today, I had my colostomy closed laparoscopically. The doctor established a 60% chance of successful laparoscopic surgery, and she did it! I'm in the hospital recovering right now. This is the last major step to my recovery from July's accidental deer hunting. 🤞🤞🤞🤞🥳🥳🏍
I just left a therapy session. I'm in my head and it's ok. I will be ok. I will get better.
But I wanted to say, please don't let your pride get in the way of help, the way I have. The 1st step is the hardest. Please take it.
When we are all vaccinated, I may just stay the fuck home anyway and get a job in a bookstore or something chill.
After 3 decades of extreme extroverting and 2 decades of party hosting ... I'll be very particular about where I put my energy. Very particular.
As my birthday comes to a close today, I have found only this wisdom to share. Be yourself unabashedly. Take care of yourself & family (chosen or not). You will be loved for who you are by those around you.
Thank you for all the years of memories & love! Looking for 52 more!
Do I need to be weekly active throwing a party to be in the community? No, I did that and I loved it. But I think I am craving something else. My closet says ... I threw parties every week. My heart says, maybe it's time to part ways.
Anybody have any thoughts?
I think I'm gonna move forward w me being a better me without permission or kudos from the sphere of social media. My changes, reflections, and growth are mine ans for me. I don't think I need to "post" or "share" them. Much love for you all and keep being better.
WARNING ⚠️ parenting tweet ahead.
I just spent 30 min finding dubstep my 14 yr old likes! I loved it. It was like prepping for a party again in a wierd way. We had such a good time! I'm so happy right now.
Originally I had a surgery scheduled for next week. To repair my ostomy. It turns out because I had three minor strokes during my accident the waiting period has to be longer and my new appointment will be in March. I'm almost there people. Almost there.
Today when my cup felt too full to carry - I saw it grow bigger and lighter because you all and others not here helped me carry it.
We are strong because we are a whole that honors individuals.
Love your loves and tell them so.
One is a part of the whole.
Many people in my chosen family transitioned and/or found the identity that is true for who they are. I support & love them. I'm in love w them! I even fuck some of them. If you can't handle that I'm queer & cis AND that I love my family NO MATTER WHAT. I'm not sorry.
Step one of Birthday cake from
@SilverSenta
chocolate cake w chocolate mousse and chocolate ganache! Soon to be covered in gold leaf piping if all goes well! Food experimentation
Wearing a mask is not about liberty and some need for individual freedom. If you chose to not wear a mask you are choosing to be a biological weapon of terror. You are causing harm to your country, your family, your economy, your church, your business and your freedom.
Today I love the internet! I am searching swimwear for my youngest kiddo (12). I am finding a grand number of sites and designers for non-binary humans like them. Thank you internet for making this possible!
And today I continue to ask myself: How has the last X (16) months treated me? What are my priorities for me? How have I changed? What do I want from this life I have made? Who are my friends? How can I change this or that for all people. What are you doing?
As I re-read this book before publication, it reminds me of how amazing
@ShayBlondie
is at writing and including so many points of view from the larger group of kink and sexuality humans that helped shape us and guide us before and still to this day. Thank you!
1991, I was 19 yrs old, in the USAF, on England AFB. A black Airman 1st Class told me when I said, I don't understand racism, a human is a human. He said, "You don't and won't understand because you are white". Still haunted and He was right.
Event Attendee: how do you work these events without wanting to fuck the hot people?
Me: there's way too much information to decode the Event. You get used to it, though. Your brain does the translating. I don't even see the blonde, brunette, and redhead. All I see is the code.
Navigating through mental health care with my second born is enlightening me to better ways to communicate and look at my own emotions. This is a rewarding parent experience.
Happy birthday
@MaestroStefanos
! So grateful to be able to celebrate your successful turn around the sun, thanks for sticking with us 💗 🏍️ Looking forward to throwing darts into a phone booth soon 😉 🎯 🎂 🍺
(Also pictured
@FoxIronwood
@ShayBlondie
@ZenExistNull
)
Super excited to show you the cover for the self-suspension book! Art by
@WazMaTaz
, design by Deadheavy 🥰
Just doing a once-over of the proof copy, then I'll be launching on Amazon! w00t, it's almost there! HUGE thank you to all the folks who have supported this long process 😍
Every community needs financial support, we know it. Regardless of your connection to
@WickedGrounds
, we need the cafe. We need it. There are few if any places left for kinky people and queer people to go!!! $5 is something. I did. Can you?
Thank you
@voxbody
for creating a space and a place for art, rope and love. We love you for it. Thank you for sharing the space with so many and for lifting others with you! We (my friends and family) appreciate you! Kink on and fly!
Holy fuck! I am nominated to an
@avnawards
for best group sex scene in the 2020 ccategory! I am trying to go to
@AVNMediaNetwork
For the first time in a decade!