Refusing to be in charge of food orders at work.
Recently was planning a gaming day with a bunch of men & they decided to order pizzas and just moved on. I was like hold on, who’s ordering them? You should have seen their guilt ridden faces.
This reminds me of when I found my journal from secondary school over lockdown and in it I SWORE I was done with Dayo...15yrs later we were reading said journal together 💀🤣
10 years!
I remember waking up on Sunday thinking it’s ridiculous that I’m this happy, is this normal after this long?😂
I’ve had the best decade with you, and every single day with you has been a wonderful experience. I love you forever❤️
Happy 10th anniversary to my beautiful wife.
I love you immeasurably but more than that, I really like you, like a lot! You are so fun, kind and the very best person I know. You are my army of 1 that always fights for me, and I feel safe with you. Thank you being my partner GG♥️
What is this obsession with women ‘obeying’ like they’re some sort of child? What happened to two adults have a reasoned conversation and coming to a decision together?
I don’t really have a favourite anything. I have a selection of faves which inevitably makes things a bit odd socially and at work when ppl ask for my faves and I’m like I don’t have one...
What is this insistence on having a fave thing? Who else has no favourite things?
Asked Dayo if he thinks we should buy a new tree...our tree looks a bit tired to me.
He replied "how can something that only works 3 weeks a year be tired?"
This nonsense is so internalised... last year some women actually said to me ‘You don’t seem married, you’re so free’ or people would be surprised to see me out, living my best life...saying ‘Ah Dayo allowed you to come out? What will he eat?’
Please, I go wherever I want to go
There are certain situations, no matter how innocuous, that show you exactly who someone is and in that moment you realise you don’t want them anywhere near your life.
Parenting really isn't about ownership. This is why it's not for everyone.
If you can't handle your child being something other than what you want then just don't bother for the sake of everybody involved.
Happy Birthday my love!
@TrophyHusbandD
You are the most incredible human I know. Your love, energy & passion for life has given me some of the best moments in my life.
Thank you for being all that you are to me, our family & friends.
Here’s to your max year baby
#33
🥂❤️
Happy Birthday my Diamond Prince! (You know I can’t call you anything else now😂)
Chop life minister! I always have the best time with you...Thank you for making me laugh everyday and for being there when it counts the most.
...Love you forever ❤️
Got nominated for three awards at work. Ngl I am very overwhelmed by the recognition. It’s such a nice warm feeling, can’t guarantee I’m not gonna cry.
Struggled to celebrate IWD yesterday because the reality is since the last IWD celebration all over the world women have LESS rights. Like what is the point of the day if we are actively choosing to regress.
We need something that causes change not just lip service.
My last retweet reminds me of how Dayo doesn’t like me cooking for his friends 😂 he’s like “na ...you’re not anybody’s chef. Only cook if you want to cook”
Always interesting observing men at work who announce they’re having a baby. You can see that it’s not going to impact their careers in any way. I envy that.
I’ll be forever grateful to Dayo for teaching me how to stand up for myself....especially in workspaces. Took a lot of unlearning but I got there in the end ❤️
I have to say I'm so glad I have a partner who's ALWAYS said to me despite parental pressure "it's your body & your career...I can't tell you what to do with it, we'll discuss kids when you're ready, not a moment before"
#TrophyFuckingHusband
I am tired of white people acting like we are oversensitive when it comes to issues of race. You all know how to be respectful and not make Jewish jokes...you just get it. But somehow, it is 'oh so difficult' to grasp what is racist or insensitive to people of colour.
Happy 30th Birthday to the love of my life!🎉🥂🎉🎈
You are kind, loving and an amazing partner. You’re not afraid to forge your own path and I’m super proud of the man you are.
Thank you for always being there and for loving me like only you can.
Love you forever, E❤️
Dayo gassing me up before an important meeting today was the highlight of my day.
5 mins before he was like ‘you look good, you look professional, you know your talking points, you’ve got this’
Me the whole time:
Private citizens came together to help others and the government is annoyed and wants to arrest them? We need to protect the amazing women of
@feminist_co
AT ALL COSTS!
#endsars
I fucking hate being decent because it’s not actually valued at all. I’ve seen Far too many women who aren’t worthy of having cats, have children and women like me who is black first gets nothing and dust.
I've always felt it's a massive disservice when women don't share...sharing is a very powerful tool in making sure our friends and the next generation of women have a higher chance of making better choices for themselves