But if we teach girls they don't have to be polite to guys they don't like ("nerd", socially awkward, etc) that can easily turn into "Ew what is wrong with you, I'd NEVER like YOU, go away" because they've been told they don't have to worry about boys' and men's feelings.
@MphoMoalamedi
They get so distant! They ask less questions, they get so explosive and defensive about little things because they know if you break up they have another option. They really just stop trying.
What if I said married and partnered people are often times bad at community? They very often want ppl to show up for them but then will forget about single ppl.
@NotSoNewlywedPC
My exs mom said this verbatim. You want to “stay out his business” but now that you’re in it and aware he’s abusive, you’re defending him? You’re questioning people about them reacting to him being abusive? God will meet you at the gates and reject you.
He’s a digestible black. The kind of black person that can be the one black friend in a group of white people who won’t make them feel white guilt or bring up slavery to make them feel bad. The Childish Gambino type. You have to start scaring the hoes.
@123itsmeMary
Looks aside, mixed people will have a extra element of socialization and influence. Which is why white mama biracials stay catching heat. Their proximity to whiteness means they have white socialization too.
@ulxma
My ex mom told me that he was acting exactly like his father (in regards to attacking me bc she had to pull him off me) but then kept trying to pressure me to let him be a father and continue the cycle? No thanks.
@NoKizzyLane
Damn, one more thing to add to the list of “reasons that people won’t date me but aren’t a direct reflection of my character, so I’m not going to take it personally”. Cause my family is dysfunctional as hell.
@desdollas
I really wish these women would separate themselves as much as possible from these men for the sake of themselves and their children. The suffering is not worth it.
@gaialect
I keep begging them to break up. I’m so tired of being a third wheel in a toxic relationship. They both come to me to talk about the other. Please let this go.
@bad_dominicana
I really think people give lizzo so much shit because her body type. If she had a hour glass shape, people wouldn’t pick on her like this.
@FLOTUK
This why yt momma biracials who didn’t grow up with their dad shouldn’t run around telling people that they’re just black. They’re mixed. They grew up eating potato salad with raisins in it.
And you never hear about mentally ill women being physically violent like this. You would think they would try and separate mental illness and violence.
@lexiloathesyou
I understand why some people make the choices they do in life because when you have a mother like this, you spend a lot of time looking for anyone to love you.
@rinnyssance
@produder
Yeah but they’ll also abuse you too if you don’t abandon your abused friend. Which at that point someone is forced to take their own advice and leave the situation There’s really no winning in this.
This boy went to jail for kidnapping, abusing, and s*xually assaulting his baby mama with a metal pole. Went to jail with a bond of $100K, and got bonded out by his mama. Two days later, he killed his mama, his daddy, and his baby mama.
@iampebblesss__
Learned that the hard way. I moved in and all of a sudden had no rights or say so in the relationship. Girls and young ladies please don’t move in with your boyfriends especially if they’re older.
@pierrefleury_
I don’t like telling people anything I’ve been through because when I have that’s usually been the reaction. It’s just brushed off because it makes the person uncomfortable. I don’t want to ruin anyone’s day so I just don’t talk about it anymore. I’ve made my own peace with it.
When I was pregnant my bd was like “so you’re dropping out of college right?” And I kept saying no. He proceeded to routinely call me selfish for staying in school.
When a woman's career/education begins to flourish all of a sudden she's pregnant/getting married. There's a myth that women overwhelminly trap men with pregnancy and marriage. We've recently seen it's the opposite.
She is one. So is Ice Spice, Drake, and even Lady Gaga. Most of these top artist are not organic, and most of their hype is artificial, & heavily astroturfed. This is more common than one thinks. These celebrites are not who y'all think they are.
@gaialect
Knowing that someone can change their mind at anytime and decide they don’t like and all you can do is accept it makes me not want to be in love. I’ll always be anticipating the end.
an abusive parent may do this thing where they treat you like a child, they don’t let you do certain things, undermine you, don’t allow you to be independent. but at the same time, they won’t help you, whether it be financially or anything else
@CamF08
Sex Ed starts off as teaching children about consent. Children should be taught that people aren’t supposed to touch them a certain way. The earlier a child knows sex ed the less likely they will get sexually abused.
Meg saw Saweetie getting that fast food bag and decided to jump in the market LOL 4 out of 5 black women already overweight and these celebrities y'all obsessed with continue to promote unhealthy eating.
@gracejarvisohno
I wouldn’t want anyone showing up to my house unannounced because I’d like to be prepared. I don’t want anyone showing up and I don’t have anything to feed them. I don’t really think that’s anti community. Just be respectful of ppls time.
@keatingssixth
My bds mom said that she was afraid to leave him with his dad bc he had beat her so badly and was afraid he’d hurt him too and literally turned around and watched him do the same thing his father did and criticized me for feeling the same way she did. It makes no sense.
2. Never tell a man you aborting his seed. Protect your neck. If you gon do it do it, never speak to him. Get a friend, keep that secret with y’all.
Never ever share that with him.