Babe, first daughters are not stopping anyone else from talking about their struggles.
There’s no need to try to invalidate our experiences because you’ve refused to talk about yours.
I hate that "First daughters" thing you people do too much. It's almost like y'all think you're the center of the family or something. "First daughters are going through a lot" so is the second and the third. Stfu and let us have peace.
August was a weird fever dream that seemed like it was short but it really was long and there’s barely any memory of anything that occurred. If anything even occurred.
@yaiffos
When? Where?
If that happens with you or someone you know, you can be specific yk.
First born daughters do go through a lot. A lot of families also live differently. You have no idea what other people face in their families to make them decide to rant.
If I found out that I birthed and raised a murderer, I’ll turn them in myself, then k myself.
Let alone a murderer who killed my other child.
All of us will meet in the afterlife.
As if my mum had planned it..she didn't even lift her head as she was pressing her phone then she went "did you wash my plates?" 🤣🤣🤣
The girl turn look me open eyes...me sef spread my eyes wide
I kukuma didn't know this was going to happen, am as shocked
The country got real sour,
I was (/am) so exhausted and uninterested in everything.
I barely documented outfits 💀
but I got to hang out with people I care about and the music has been beautiful.
2/5.I’ll take it.
@Enime_Sorgwe
“…so is the second and the third. Stfu and let us have peace” literally screams
“You’re struggling and so? Are you the only one? Better be quiet”
@Enime_Sorgwe
You’ve said an entirely different thing than she did.
Either way, ISWIS. You don’t have to tell first daughters to stop talking about their experiences because of other issues/experiences that you’re not even ready to speak about.
These conversations can exist independently
@Enime_Sorgwe
Now that’s not specifically a first daughter problem.
If you’re telling someone your struggles and they downplay it with theirs. That’s a them problem and it’s absolutely okay to call them out on it and address them.
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@ayrastarr
surpasses 25M listeners on spotify for the first time in her career.
• She’s the 1st Female Nigerian Artist and 3rd overall to reach the milestone.
@Enime_Sorgwe
In all of this our plenty talk, all I’m saying is there’s enough room for everyone to talk about what they’re facing without having to tell the other person not to talk about theirs or counter theirs with yours regardless of whatever they/we are.
I've been in a meeting where I stood up and served myself tea (the only woman there), then some dude asked me to also serve him.
Me: Why?
Him: Because even at home our wives serve us tea!
Me: {Looking around} I don't see them here?
@Enime_Sorgwe
“Her own way” is centered around 1st daughters complaints and empasizes on how they should be quiet so that she can have peace. There’s no mention of how other daughters want to talk about their struggles as well in her OT.
The online version of "You must drink the water used to wash the corpse of your husband to prove your innocence", but we think we're better than our parents' generation.
Anyway, Dear Woman, if you like Feminist, if you like, feminist not, society hates us both the same.
Orun as well.
It has such a good vibe. When I listen to it I feel like I’m at a friend’s 50 years old birthday party and we’re reminiscing about tough times, just so glad to be alive, celebrating achievements and stuff.
August was a weird fever dream that seemed like it was short but it really was long and there’s barely any memory of anything that occurred. If anything even occurred.
@Enime_Sorgwe
If you wanted to tweet about them you should say “I don’t like people who downplay other people’s experiences because they think they’ve had worse” or something
If your tweet is like the OT, then you’re doing the exact same thing you’re complaining about.
@phoenixashes199
@vantaexjamie
@vikhargreeves
Ben didn’t. Abigail the Alien did.
She had all these information and handed the marigold to them, then sent them to the Christmas village place. She knew what she was doing, Ben was just a tool.
You guysssss I just discovered that Snapchat places your bitmoji alongside your friends’ when you click on their bio (whatever it’s called)
It’s literally the cutest thing. I’m so excited 😹
July is such an IT month for me.
Especially in the last three years. It’s like July is when the universe decides that I deserve to hangout with my friends.
It’s also when I’m rich-ish. I’d say richest but I’ve never really compared.
Things just make sense in July sha.
I just clocked that I’m so detached from everyone because I’ve always been physically distant from my favorite people and I’ve trained myself to be okay with it.
Now it’s bad bad.
Hate to be that guy, this is what will happen to you if you keep oversharing on the internet.
Someone will use your tl to build themselves into the imaginary ideal partner and you too will think this is the one
😭😭😭
Shame. Shame?
The shame doesn’t even make you angry at the men who have done/are doing all these terrible things that women complain about.
Your shame wants women to stop complaining about the terrible things & terrible men so you can bask in your manhood.
Again, you so not see it and maybe because you do not want to.
A man tells you he continuously feels ashamed of being a man on social media because of the guilt placed on his lap for the actions of violent men, and yet to you it is nothing.
It is not enough
If you can’t gift someone something without expecting something in return or going back to ask for it when you fall out, then don’t bother giving it out in the first place.
Keep your stuff to yourself.
I’ll give you 5. 1 for every stage of grief.
1. Denial: Remorse (interlude) - Demi Mulla
2. Anger: Thunder Fire you - Richassani
3. Bargaining: Miss you bad- Mr Eazi, Burna boy
4. Depression: On my own - Amaeya
5. Acceptance: Ego - Djinee
Bloody civ said she’s on a weight loss journey. The people (read men) in her comments are saying Her body is perfect for them. What’s her business with what’s perfect for you??
Could be your name and it still wouldn’t be you. There’s no need to stress over whether it’s you or not. Enjoy the moment if you want, if you’re proven wrong later, so be it, you’ll find a way to deal with it.
@leosekhmet
@yaiffos
You know what? Reality is beyond me and people I know.
I’ve also noticed that
@yaiffos
’s comments and quotes are filled with those mocking invalidating tones. While her OT was still pretty invalidating, she does have a point.