Skai Jackson and Jonathan Majors make for an insightful comparative case in the effects of being arrested for DV. It's like night and day in their treatment.
The latter part of your statement is the issue with why y'all have difficulty in the first place, you see them as having a predisposition to being faulty, so you overcompensate and start treating them like shit.
Thread highlighting examples of sexual objectification of black boys, grooming and homophobia, all of which are used to justify sexual abuse. This affirms the findings that of all racial-sexual identities, black boys have the earliest sexual debut.
People still cite this study despite the authors of it retracting their findings due to methodological error. They tried to replicate their findings and didn't come to the same conclusion. The skew came from miscounting people who dropped out of the study as a divorce.
A study shows that men are 7 times more likely to leave their terminally ill wives. Meanwhile, this woman takes care of his ex-husband together with her current one... if anything, this shows that women are kind & selfless beyond words. Your soul is irreparably rotten by misogyny
Saw somebody mention that there were white women under the impression this movie was about female empowerment. Fucking hell, can't believe I missed this discourse.
>drugged
>raped
>tortured
>forced to watch his friends' corpses get mutilated and dismembered into grotesque piles of flesh
>burned alive
>"he deserved it because he had been mean to his girlfriend for a few days"
what the fuck lmfao
Facebook is much more personal. Even without the lack of anonymity, they are comfortable saying this because, I reckon, their friends list/social circle is comprised of people they know will not hold them accountable.
They didn't actually. The Grandfather Clause prevented many from voting. There was also the fact they were at risk of being killed for casting their ballot. So, in reality, it was not a guaranteed right at all. Also white women did vote before the 19th amendment.
Yeah, and it's economically not feasible. 36.5% of single mothers are living in poverty. This isn't making the point you think it is. A two-income household is a necessity for regular people at this point; otherwise, it's financial suicide. Why willingly create more struggle?
Why the lack of men's shelters? Well, turns out it isn't as simple as going out there and building one because people out there are ensuring it never happens.
Today, thousands of members of our community joined together to say no to building a men’s shelter next to our schools, daycare centers, and senior centers. Together, we are calling for more affordable housing, senior housing, mental health services, and improving our programs
Time and time again, we'll see how a lot of racism is constructed on gearing racialised men as threats to the dominant in-group women, but people will tell us straight-faced that the racism men experience is on account of their race and nothing else.
Some justify their actions out of fear that their sons may become gay lest they do this. A cruel reminder that boys can be subject to corrective rape as well.
Whoops, wrong study. It's not 7 times, but 6 times. The study didn't measure who initiated the divorce or the grounds to justify the action. So in the US, divorce could've been done to protect the partner from medical bills too.
And this is why they have to say roles reversed. Because y'all ascribe inherent immorality to men and innocence to women. It was a woman who assaulted him, yet her femininity didn't serve as a barrier to proper moral psychology? Your gender essentialism is part of the problem.
We need to stop being naive and understand most these men haven’t even developed the proper moral psychology to have a genuine concern for assault. Masculinity is generally a barrier to a healthy moral psychology. That should be extremely obvious by now
No, she was a rape apologist who stated that the white patriarchy protected black male slaves from sexual violence. From her book: aint i a woman, page 24.
This is objectively false.
An example: spectacle lynchings of black males almost always involved multiple forms of SV.
The classification for it to meet the criteria of "partner abandonment" was divorce or separation of more than 3 months. So if the ill individual initiates a divorce, that counts as "abandonment".
“If the roles were reversed…..”
even in men’s own victimhood, they have to implicate women, because it’s not about any genuine act of restoration but settling the score.
Of course, by now, you've noticed many themes or underlying logics. Two rather prevailing ones are that it's a rite of passage and that the boy is understood to have enjoyed it.
Notice how your branding male victims as uniquely misogynist. Your not actually advocating for them. There is no pattern of which you observed with male victims, you don't specialize/interact with them. The lack of self-awareness, y'all lie on them and demand their respect.
It fascinates me how many men who were beaten, attacked, bullied and abused by their own fathers go on to hate feminism, women and girls, instead of hating male violence.
I notice the same pattern with men and boys who have been raped by men, who absolutely hate women, and hate
Already critiqued the study which is deeply flawed. In younger marriages, women are more likely to leave men with work-limiting health conditions (teachman 2010). Either way, the overwhelming majority of men stay (94%).
Incredibly dumb how being a single man or lonely has you constantly equated to being akin to that of Elliot Rodger. Overwhelmingly so, guys are not doing what you think, lol.
lonely women in their 20s are so much stronger than lonely men in their 20s. like we just get a dog or a cat and some vibrators, not a rifle and homicidal ideology
The video doesn't make any mention of racism or socioeconomic factors. He's describing black men as hypermasculine or hypersexual; he's regurgitating racist talking points. Others judge them, yet they can opt out of this "self-induced prison" at any time? Contradictory.
This is the real tea on Black men’s mental health but yall are so committed to the self-induced prison of hypermasculinity, misogyny, and homophobia that you refuse to zoom out and realize the call is coming from inside the house
Hell isn't hot enough for you. Deliberately baiting these reactions: twisting the rape victim's words. They literally forced him to wear women's underwear. That's why he said he was treated like a woman.
I will never forget that documentary with an Iraqi man painfully recounting rape and torture at Abu Ghraib and described it as “they treated us like women”
Ah, but hostile sexism towards men doesn't exist, right? Women aren't being rendered a threat to children, only men, so this isn't something explained by class alone.
Today, thousands of members of our community joined together to say no to building a men’s shelter next to our schools, daycare centers, and senior centers. Together, we are calling for more affordable housing, senior housing, mental health services, and improving our programs
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Medical intervention for obesity would make more sense if the target were 50+ old adults, not children. Losing weight and maintaining those losses is easier for children. It also does nothing to remedy the dysfunctional behaviour either.
Boys being adultified into combatants is an example of colonial violence. They aren't being feminized in that regard.
We don't need to pretend, they do have unique experiences. Androcide is an integral component to genocide.
In the US, the majority of lynchings were black men.
…so this is why I say we have to understand colonized men’s position as feminized when juxtaposed against the patriarchy of the colonizer of ANY gender, else we start pretending there’s a unique gender experience men have that magically gender marginalized colonize ppl don’t.
Scum. 41k likes justifying physically assaulting children. There's plenty of research demonstrating violence does not work in raising kids, but that never mattered to any of you. That wasn't the concern; you're just violent and want to fulfil your sadistic fantasies.
A sizable number of women are advocating for child abuse or murder in the quotes and saying it's too late for him. Yet these same idiots will complain about socialisation. Yeah, scum like you putting in no effort to raise children is exactly the problem.
im so serious how do i stop my brother from going down the racist misogynistic incel pipeline because hes really young and already is repeating really racist and sexist shit he's seen online
Black men were once regarded as without gender (understood as animals). Then as apatriarchal effeminate boys. They marched to be recognised as men. How did their material conditions change once they were referred to as men? Did they all of a sudden benefit from the patriarchy?
The majority of women who kill their children don't do so because of postpartum psychosis. The fact you presume so immediately is minimising their actions.
The most common motivator for filicide is due to the child being unwanted.
I read multiple stories of female teachers perpetrating rape this week. Happens so often that there is a Reddit for it. The key difference is one is less obvious to y'all because you have sexist notions of women as "pure".
I read 3 separate stories about gang rape just this week alone and it wasn’t women doin the rapin.
It’s not a gender war, there is a serious problem with men and it’s obvious. Y’all are just in denial
Lawmakers have proposed an anti-nonconsensual AI porn bill after the Taylor Swift controversy
It would let people sue anyone who created or intended to spread the digitally faked sexual images
The Booker T Washington one is also bad. They appropriate his beliefs in self-determination with no mention of the fact he was a dissenter of integration. The video appeals to individualism/conservative bootstrap logics.
Instead, all they -- and King! -- want to talk about is standing up for "what's right" (vaguely drawn) and MLK delivering the "I Have a Dream" speech.
And of course, the One True Quote is singled out.
1/4 A common uninformed misconception about sex offenders is that they have higher recidivism rates than other criminals and that outcasting them serves as a better prevention system. Neither of these is true. Reintegration is proven to lower the re-offence rate.
El 90% de los violadores que pasan por un programa de rehabilitación en España no vuelve a violar, siempre y cuando se le ofrezca terapia individual, lo cual no pasa mucho porque prefieren destinar el dinero a contratar guardias y no psicólogos. Preocupaos por eso.
Research has yet to establish why women in Western nations are more likely to kill their male sons, but look at their attitudes: the answers are right in front of us.
Avoid women like this, fellas; they are the type who see a platonic friendship between guys and think it's homoerotic or gay and project their jealousy onto you. "Emotionally attracted": it's called being friends with someone you like... Duh.
Racism is gendered. Racialised men are discriminated due to both. Androcide is a good example.
If it weren't, we'd expect equal casualty rates between the genders of civilians.
The military is under directives to discriminate by gender and kill the men.
Saw this post by a man. He describes being date raped and having pornographic material produced of him nonconsensually. A thread highlighting comments made by people responding to his story: a reminder of why men are uncomfortable disclosing their experiences.
Men in Palestine are being systematically targeted because of their gender. Refusal to acknowledge how the male gender becomes marginalised during conflict is genocide apologia. Male victims are often invisibilised by having their gender erased through gender-neutral terms.
2/6. The APA guidelines aren't a therapeutic approach. It's just conversion treatment to make them more useful for feminist causes. Straight from their boys/men guidelines. Imagine being treated as privileged whilst going to therapy over your sexual abuse.
The reactions to this post have only served to radicalize me into solidifying my position on how feminists are a bunch of reactionaries hell-bent on obscuring the gendered dynamics at play of white supremacist systems. They are siding with racists in the replies/quotes.
1/2. 40% of claimants to slaves were white women.
What are those white women doing alongside their male counterparts in Israel exactly? They raping, murdering, etc. Hardly a difference worth noting.
You don't realise "statistics" out of thin air. You read about it. The only time you realistically expect sexual victimisation figures at or above 80% is when you broadly include sexual harassment.
Palestinian women experiencing sexual violence doesn't mean we shouldn't talk about what Palestinian men are going through. Only a genocide apologist would be ashamed to acknowledge the gendered dynamics at play.
Gleefully taking credit for perpetrating domestic violence and receiving praise from everyone. I'm not phased; years of seeing this type of crap before have steeled me against it. Just for once, I would like for my anticipations to be wrong.
They can actually because gender is stratified by race, class, etc. In this case, they are oppressed by colonizers which include Israeli women, who are part of the IDF or IOF and complicit in their genocide. Most casualties in Palestine have been men. Racism is gendered.
That’s not misandry that’s quite literally racism that you are talking about.
Misandry cannot exist as a concept because men cannot be oppressed by women like how women are oppressed by men.
This is like saying white people can be victims of racism which doesn’t make sense lol.
You are not slick at rebranding sexism like this. Y'all also like to evade the question of boys being groomed into these views by their female abusers. You want to blame the victim.
Your very existence has got to be pathetic to complain that men didn't watch Barbie. It's none of your business what they choose to watch in the theatres.
We know their dead name, as it was featured in the article you linked. But clearly, you didn't read it because you were too preoccupied with disingenuously slandering a field. You're really pathetic: you dedicate every living moment on Twitter to stalking these people.
How would anyone know her dead name without inside information? Or public trial information? You make zero fucking sense, per usual. And this isn’t even the same state the assault took place in.
The way y'all pathologise sexual desire using theoretical understandings of patriarchy is concerning. Seeing relationships as a social accessory indicating status is not a one-sided phenomenon, nor is performing for validation.
but if I said sex for men in the patriarchy is more than anything, a performance of masculinity entirely in pursuit of the esteem of their male peers… and that women are just the means to what they really want, validation from other men😀 I’m tripping
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It really doesn't. The current atomisation of society and ever-lowering sex and relationships among youngsters is happening across the board. Both women and men are less likely to form friendships too. This trend started before labour participation among women increased.
If this is what those who belong to the "feminist ethos" have to say about male victims who speak up, then it's necessary that we decenter feminist thought when discussing male sexual victmisation.
Included are some other examples:
Feminists -their ideology, too- cannot help but inherently dehumanise male rape victims. "Enforce misogyny": by what mechanisms would this proliferate misogyny amongst Iraqis? Literally arguing that men being raped turns them into misogynists. It's not why they were tortured.
Highly contested claim. I will outline multiple papers and some articles that indicate that equal or more than the majority of sexual violence boys face is from women as well as papers that are relevant.
Notice the difference in response. So if men dress for male validation, it's "homoerotic", yet the other way round isn't sexual? Do people not dress for themselves?
again, i feel like guys who have no interest in clothes don't understand that women commonly dress for other women. if you see a woman dressing in a very revealing way, they are prob doing it for their female friends.
The comments and quotes filled with men saying "I can fix her" and of women saying "she's me." All of you are blatantly glossing over the abusive behaviour she admitted to.
What a dumb caption too: in what world is this race-specific behaviour?
I mean, this shouldn't even be a question if you simply stop centering on middle-class white guys. Then it becomes so obvious. Such as the school-to-prison pipeline that black boys are subject to. All you have to do is look at those marginalised in some way to find out.
Ok genuinely, what systemic issues do you believe men face that aren't either universal or caused by other men in a way that will make you mad when it's pointed out?
The reactions to this post have only served to radicalize me into solidifying my position on how feminists are a bunch of reactionaries hell-bent on obscuring the gendered dynamics at play of white supremacist systems. They are siding with racists in the replies/quotes.
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The rise of lonely single men isn't dangerous, your average lonely man isn't Elliot Rodger. Murders in the US continue to drop. Men also report having more friends than women. Most of what you stated is just stereotypes. Both women and men are becoming more lonely in general.
Using feminist theory to justify stalking, invasion of privacy, and borderline coercive control. The "imbalance of power" is rather trivial, especially in Western societies. Still doesn't stop half of all intimate DV perpetrators from being women.
Who is to blame for this public misperception of the history of white women's complicity in racism? Obviously, this is not accurate at all. Their actions go well beyond that of appropriation. Personally, I blame white feminists: look at how they sanitized suffragettes' image.
Drawing sociological conclusions from fiction is embarrassing. You just love listening to yourself talk whilst everyone pats you on the back. Strange how white women backed or took part in every white man's move throughout history.
Barbie is actually a good example of a society men want vs what women want. men’s idea of an ideal society is domination and subjugation of women. in women’s ideal barbie world men just don’t matter, and women have no interest in dominating them. they’re just there.
It's like night and day. You can tell which women actually care, as opposed to those who were using Michael Rainey Jr.'s sexual assault to find a way to criticize him for speaking out. Unlike the others, male victims are positively engaging with this tweet.
I remember that Radfem poll in which half of them thought they could have solidarity with aristocratic women. This is the problem of thinking virtue resides within gender. Values/beliefs differ more across class than gender; elite women do not care about any of you.
@whatever8272t
Irrelevant to the point of my tweet. I'm exposing how she effaced black male rape victims.
The majority of lynchings were black men. Both black men and women have their struggles in unique ways. No reason to pit the severity of their suffering against one another.
If you never want to hear about how male victims aren't taken seriously, then clearly, the experiences of male victims don't matter to you either, so stop pretending to care about it.
Trying to frame black boys as predators in regards to their sexual victmisation clearly demonstrates you do not care about the sexual assault or victims.
Making little black boys hypersexual in elementary is harmful for little black girls bc WHO do you think they gonna be trying to fuck on as they go through puberty & middle school? And ppl wonder why minors are posting crazy messages like they are in that underage group on here
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"Choose better women next time". Nope, that is the abusers' fault, you are victim-blaming. The women who are violent are responsible for their own actions. "Overabundance of black men", you sound genocidal, black men die more prematurely than any other male counterpart.
It's women. My thread on it: flawed research failed to account that boys are led to believe that their victimisation by women must be willing/wanted, so they are more likely to say they had sex with women than raped by one. Questionnaires overlooked this.
The author of the concept no longer believes the glass escalator is as accurate as previously thought; it was based on the experiences of straight-white middle-class men.
The joke was a pretty obvious jab at heteronormative expectations put on gay men. Also, you're the one projecting these values onto women; OP never said anything about expecting servitude from women.
maybe im just easily pissed off today but this just speaks volumes to me about how men regardless of sexual orientation will always view women as objects of servitude
Most of the jokes were directed to male victims, such as the "no diddy" remark. They are bringing them up because you deliberately excluded them. Clearly you don't care about male victims, if their mere mention angers you.
Stop bringing up the male victims as if you give a fuck about them.
You faceless, ugly-ass, underwhelming Reddit dickbeaters do not care about male victims.
Y'all called Cassie a bag chaser and made wack-ass jokes at the expense of female victims.
Stand in your misogyny.
Ultimatums are only coercive when the choice to deny them doesn't exist or is very detrimental because then you have actual leverage. If they say they intend on leaving if you don't change your behaviour, yet are financially dependent, then it's abusive.
Let me clear something up for the men of Twitter:
Jonah Hill wasn’t *actually* offering to leave the relationship. If Sarah Brady had agreed it was best to part ways, he would have changed tactics to try to get the outcome he wanted.
That’s how ultimatums in abuse work.
For black men, their sexualisation absolutely has been harmful, and your thread has nothing to do with why one should be principally against both; if you're even familiar with male SA literature, you'd know sexual objectification is literally used to justify SV against them.
This is largely the history of bourgeoisie white women.
They even embraced it because, at the time, it was seen as favourable over the risks involved with workplace conditions during the industrial era. This option wasn't available for racialised or poor women.
I saw a video the other day that said “Men blocked women from obtaining jobs, education and a livelihood and then positioned themselves as providers so that women had no choice but to be dependent on them.”
If this isn’t the most apt description of how the patriarchy works.
Nice lie. Children who witness DV between their partners are at great risk of psychological harm (this includes boys). They do not see it as a right they inherit. The stark majority of children in proximity to familial violence don't become abusers.
Again, boys are not blind or deaf. They often see exactly what the daughters see and hear exactly what the daughters hear.
But while daughters see abuse, the sons see the male privilege and entitlement they get to inherit.
29k likes for blatant lies. You are making this up to combat a stereotype, which didn't have to do disingenuously. It's obviously a lie, considering the prolific amount of men dedicated in media to these "deep dives".
the way cis straight men play video games is infinitely fascinating to me. They just do not take in the story at all. I’ve had to explain bloodborne characters to men who say it’s their fave game. I talked abt Portal w a guy and said GLaDOS was my fave & he asked who that was.
I'm not surprised so many boys get physically and sexually abused by their mothers when there are so many women out there who possess a hatred for boys.
So in spite of similar experiences of stalking and the risk of violence post-breakup, the male shelters do nothing to ensure their safety? You're not making the point you think you are.
The mens homeless shelter I work at is public & huge & accessible. The womens shelter is a secret location, you can’t share the address, and they can’t open the door for anyone without permission. Can u guess why that is