Associate Professor of Clinical Psychology, Study child anxiety. Have spent the last few years building up an immunity to iocane powder. Free speech πΊπΈ π¨π΄
Im amazed. My car drove me practically all the way home, with no input from me, changing lanes, merging on and off of 3 highways, in rush hour, in the rain, in NYC traffic!!! Stunned.
@Tesla
@elonmusk
Trump on George Floyd: "I feel very, very badly. Thatβs a very shocking sight." He adds, "That was a very, very bad thing that I saw. I saw it last night and I didn't like it...what I saw was not good. Very bad."
My career can basically be summed up as trying to fix the damage caused by "gentle parenting." My field has foisted this abomination on the general public, and it's awful.
So here, you have a person (Jordan Peterson) changing their mind, in real-time, because of a superior argument, and instead of heaping praise on him for doing something that literally almost never happens, people are saying he was "destroyed"
We deserve the society we've created
The vast majority of kids described as βanxiousβ βhas big emotionsβ and βhas meltdownsβ (a term I never heard until about 10 years ago) who are referred to my practice simply need parents to be firmer and engage less when their kids tantrum and demand things.
It is not easy to
The Stanford "prohibited word" list is a good example of the misunderstanding that avoidance of discomfort is the best path to happiness.
Every (good) behavior therapist knows that the opposite is true. We need lots of practice with discomfort to get good at dealing with it.
That "microaggressions cause harm" is now accepted by my field of clinical psychology despite no experimental evidence and only weak evidence that PERCEIVED microaggressions are associated with worse mental health is really wild.
@TEDchris
@coldxman
These comments are so weak. If your goal as an organization is to be a vehicle for ideas, you must champion ideas that make people think. It is up to the people who feel offended to counter Coleman's arguments with better ideas, not throw a tantrum. You are an enabler of the
If you are a parent, it is completely reasonable to write an email to your child's school telling them that you do not authorize your child to see a school therapist without your consent
Therapy has risks. No child should be given therapy without a discussion of those risks with
I'm surprised (although I guess I shouldn't be) that I haven't heard a peep from American psychologists about the fact that
@jordanbpeterson
is being brought up on ethics changes for public opinions he shared. Do we not see where this could go?
@tage_rai
You think your primary responsibility as a professor is to protect the most privileged and coddled adult college students βfrom oppressionβ? Where did you get that bizarre notion?
A solution to the "gentle parenting" movement is to give kids LOTS of practice with what I call the "4 D's"
Disappointment
Discomfort
Distress
(mild) Danger
Kids need experience with all of these on a regular basis to turn into reasonable adults
They will learn emotion
My field is completely ignoring the evidence that being liberal is associated with higher levels of mental health problems.
This is obviously more complicated than it may seem, but psychologists will not touch this finding with a 10-foot pole.
If we are actually concerned with
Therapists shaming or even terminating clients for asking questions or having different viewpoints is unethical and is why Dr. Andrew Hartz and I (and others) have opened the Open Therapy Institute ().
I just learned of a full-year, full-time, APA accredited psychology predoctoral internship that pays 15K for the year. How is
@APA
ok with this?
For those outside the field, this is a full-time job seeing patients, under supervision, It is the last piece before the doctorate
This is one of the most important things I have learned as a clinical psychologist. Your brain is not designed to make you happy. Itβs designed to keep you alive. These are often in conflict.
"All organisms are shaped to behave in ways that increase fitness even if that decreases health and happiness...Our emotions benefit our genes far more than they do us."
I canβt help but think that a lot of the nonsense we see in academia would be vastly reduced if more academics came from working class backgrounds.
When youβve had to fight all your life to stay above water, someone using the βwrongβ word doesnβt usually lead to a tantrum.
Psychology internsβ pay is artificially suppressed by a bottleneck at the end of doctoral training. It is not a free market.
@APA
and internships have no incentive to change a system they benefit from.
APA, Itβs time you link accreditation to a minimum salary. Will you?
The modern Western tendency to overparent is actually an existential threat to our existence.
I don't think I'm exaggerating. It is so unpleasant to parent this way that I think it is leading many people to have fewer children or not have children at all.
Parents ask me how to handle the risk of allowing more independence for their kids.
Part of doing that is understanding the risk of not allowing independence.
Once you see that, the equation changes dramatically.
Masked guy anxiously running through the apocalyptic NYC forest fire smog next to a guy smoking a cigarette while looking at the sky peacefully is why Iβm a clinical psychologist. People are endlessly fascinating. π€π€
@coldxman
@TheView
So important that
@coldxman
is doing these types of shows, as uncomfortable as these settings can be. You model calm and rational discussion in the face of condescension and silliness "I know Dr. King's daughter" Well done.
@bariweiss
At the Open Therapy Institute
@OpenTherapyNYC
we will help clients from any political orientation with whatever THEIR goals are. Therapist politics do not play a role.
@MrJonCryer
@elonmusk
Sounds like it's going well. A private company allowing latitude for what people can say, and when a person clearly goes past a well-defined line, you restrict access. Not sure what you think the issue is.
Pennsylvania Psychological Association forbids any mention on its professional listserv of Britain's Cass Review about pediatric gender medicine, points to
@WPATH
guidelines instead
This despite the fact that the Cass Review deemed that the World Professional Association for
@paulkrugman
Iβm Hispanic and seeing the name Jose on a label never bothered me. Do you really think it helps the cause of justice to remove this name from a label or is this more so you can check off your list that you did something righteous today?
Proud to say I resigned from APA over a decade ago. They continue to push destructive and reductive ideologies of racial essentialism and oppressor-oppressed. If youβre tired of this stuff, stop sending them money.
I wish I had not resigned from
@APA
in 2021 so that I could resign now.
This petition lays out the capture of APA by the oppressor/victim mindset, which is bad for psychologists, their research, their patients, and the country. I signed.
Psychological interventions for child anxiety focus almost entirely on what to do when the child is anxious and very little on how to raise an anti-fragile, resilient child. My team and I are working to change that.
@liupost
Imagine a parenting philosophy where intent doesnβt matter. Accidentally knocking over a glass is the same as throwing it against the wall. It would (correctly) be viewed as psychotic and abusive.
This is precisely how academia and the media proudly treat their own members.
@OGAride
@DoctorLockwood
Thatβs perfect. What excuse will they give to explain why they won't give back the stolen property they are in possession of?
An underappreciated part of
@AbigailShrier
's book, Bad Therapy, is her outstanding discussion of gentle parenting and how we got here. Highly recommended.
Another email from a client who was dumped by their therapist because of the clientβs political views. If you do this, you have no business being a therapist. Find another field where you donβt ask people to open up to you only to punish them. Unethical and outrageous.
Adding "trauma-informed" to an already effective treatment is likely to add noise and water down its efficacy.
Any good therapy is already trauma-informed in that well-trained clinicians assess for trauma and treat it.
When trauma is assumed, you very quickly veer into
I could never get a job as a psychology professor today because I would refuse to write the type of βdiversity statementβ that would unlock the first gate toward an academic job.
My field is a monoculture and we are all worse off for it.
As some of you know, I have been developing a new treatment for child anxiety that is different from exposure-based approaches. Kids get MEGA-DOSES of independence. Results are coming out (here's one child, using multiple baseline data), and they are exciting. Still early...
I am a child psychologist and I am telling you that you are probably spending too much time with your kids.
The increase in time spent with kids is unsustainable and itβs probably not good for parents or kids.
Kids need independence. You are not a bad parent if you encourage
1. The intensive parenting revolution is not remotely an American-specific phenomenon. Itβs happening ~everywhere across Europe
2. Are French mothers the only parent category in the OECD spending less time with their kids than they did 60 years ago?
Iβm in Ecuador, talking to some locals about their history. They talked a lot about the brutality of colonization. To my surprise, they mostly were referring to the atrocities committed by the Inca. I wonder how many college students ever think about pre-Columbian colonization.
A nervous mom let her sons climb a tree after they begged her & she thought, "Wait--I climbed trees all the time! Why am I so worried?"
Why? Because our culture infects us w/ fear. We see kids through the lens of risk & loss. Read how she fought back!
When I do a peer review of a journal manuscript and see βLatinxβ to describe a sample, I ask the author to explain the use of a word that almost no Latinos use and that many find offensive. I have never received a coherent answer.
In todayβs least shocking news: Telling people they are fragile and need warnings to tolerate discomfort actually makes them fragile and unable to tolerate discomfort.
Meta-Analysis: Trigger warnings donβt help people emotionally prepare for distressing material, or lead them to avoid it β the two things theyβre intended to do. Their main effect seems to be to make people more anxious about encountering the material.
@CJFerguson1111
@RealSaavedra
Youβre saying the rise in the percentage of teens describing themselves as transgender has no social contagion component?
@sullydish
Putting aside whether heβs right, the shock at hearing a non-extreme alternative opinion speaks volumes about the intellectual bubble these people live in.
If you have an iota of doubt that academia is rotten to the core, watch this and tell me our system is working.
This is what happens when the purpose of science deviates from truth seeking.
Once again offering to read personal statements of anyone applying to PsyD programs in Clinical Psychology if:
a) You are not applying to my program at LIU-Post
b) You grew up in a family where neither parent went to college OR you grew up in a low-income family
DM me
Please RT
In academia, many people become irritable at the first hint of disagreement.
Disagreement used to be exciting to people. They used to see it as an opportunity for personal growth.
If you are looking for a therapist, one of the first questions you should ask them during the free phone call most therapists offer is what their view is on locus of control. If they suggest most people don't have an internal locus of control, call another therapist.
Itβs certainly fair game to discuss the concept of privilege, but if you are unwilling to consider beauty, height, youth, and temporal privilege (being alive now), you are not really interested in discussing the idea.
@mkraju
For god's sake, can we stop looking for evidence that Collins is going to do the decent thing? It's just sad. She is NEVER going to do the decent thing.
@eckels_sam
Changing one's thinking rarely leads to immediate behavior change, for lots of reasons. If the former is punished, the latter will certainly not happen.
If you have an anxious child, consider that you may be working too hard as a parent, and doing less may actually be helpful to them.
There are lots of ways to do less that may benefit your child (in addition to benefiting you!).
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When a college asks me for money, I reply with
@TheFIREorg
's college free speech rankings and let them know what the money will flow when the free speech returns. If enough people do this, change will come.
Was excitedly approached by a major academic book publisher to write a parenting book. After telling me that their core value is βfree speechβ they suddenly wrote to tell me that because of my Twitter posts, they would not partner. Would not tell me what opinion I hold that makes
If you are an academic journal article author and you insist on using a term (Latinx) that roughly 4% of Latinos prefer, how do you reconcile that with the principle of respecting your research participants? Serious question.
@xavierbonilla87
@StrangelEdweird
@EvelynBehar
This is so embarrassing. These two literally are incapable of having a conversation with personal attacks and condescension.
@coldxman
's calm and respectful approach only made that more clear.
β’
@coldxman
's appearance on The View
"There's no evidence that I've been co-opted by anyone. I have an independent podcast, I work for CNN as an analyst, I write for The Free Press, I'm independent in all of these endeavors and no one is paying me to say what I'm saying"
I just replied to a text from a potential client and my message autocorrected to asking if they wanted to have a sleepover with me. Howβs your day going? π³
Psychology academics seem to think that if you make something into an acronym, that makes it real.
I just saw "experts by experienceβ (EBEs), which is just another way of saying anecdotal evidence.
Someone explain to me how higher ed is not deeply broken.
So few of my colleagues seem to care that this buffoonery happens because the clowns are on the βrightβ side. Very sad.
Stanford Law students shouted down Fifth Circuit appellate judge Kyle Duncan while he was trying to speak.
When he asked for an administrator to control the situation, Stanfordβs βassociate dean of diversity, equity, and inclusionβ got up and lectured him for nearly 10 minutes
If you are a psychologist and tired of waiting around for professional societies like
@APA
and
@ABCTNOW
to regain their sanity and return to being a place that seeks to understand the truth instead of pushing the fashionable beliefs of the day, I highly recommend you join The
Clinical psychology, which literally popularized the idea that repeatedly facing what you fear makes you stronger (exposure therapy) has somehow become the biggest proponent of βprotectingβ people from any and all discomfort
A complete abdication of professional responsibility