@naterob
When you realise the world keeps going, when you just NEED it to stop..but everyone goes back to their lives, whilst yours will never be the same 💔❤️
Always love when an unexpected payment comes out my account and fxcks up all my plans. 🙄🙄
Someone find a me a Sugar daddy that doesn't want any sugar ASAP.
@Oloni
I had several XL bullies and I stand by the fact it's the way they're trained cos mine were the biggest softies and they were scared of everything lol
Niggas want to date the weird girl until she’s telling you about her obscure dreams every day. Nahhhh sitcho ass down and listen to how you turned into a toucan and ate my foot 😐
With zero context? You crossed a line.
My son is 5. I bathe with the bathroom door open. He comes and leaves as he pleases.
Same as when I'm getting dressed.
We don't "hide" our bodies in my house. They're normal and natural.🤷🏾♀️
Told my friend to stop bathing in front of her 5 year old son and I don’t think she took it well. Could it be that she thinks I can’t have an opinion on that cause I don’t have a child or did I cross a line maybe ?
Everyone wants a calm man until he refuses to have their back during conflict with others.
I feel for Lauren.
Jono is a wet wipe.
Jack is an arsehole.
& Tori is typically submissive.
#MAFSAU
The man who abused me was obsessed with my resilience and how I'd overcome so much & was still so happy & positive.
So he did everything he could to break me.
Now, I hide my resilience & men run away cos they think I'm weak.
@naterob
Just watching people talk, laugh & eat filled me with resentment.
It was a horrific time.
Unfortunately, they don't understand, unless, they do.
the purest form of love is consideration. when someone thinks about how things would make you feel. pays attention to detail. holds you in regard when making decisions that could affect you. in any bond, how much they care about you can be found in how much they consider you
People at Jam Jouvert are really parking on pavements and blocking people in. Some of us still have to live u know!!!!!
(I'm just jealous I'm basically on the premises but not inside)
The way I react when triggered is actually CRAZY.
It's like I become a different person cos WTAF.
I can't even comprehend it.
#traumaisREAL
#actuallyautistic
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@AJs_Momma
When we people realise it's the owners not the breed! Ignorance like that drives me crazy! My Ex & I had 2 & 3 American bullies when we made the decision to have our son. They are the most gentle loving creatures with him. Especially when he was first born!
@RaniJuelz
Like it validates all their behaviour & invalidates your feelings.
We don't have to be in a relationship to have respect & adhere to boundaries!
@RichieBrave
Had it since teens, just didn't know what it was. Has gotten progressively worse the older I've got and the more aware I am of the horrific things outside my home.
Trying medication which helps but the ignorance of others makes me feel ashamed to admit how bad it can be.
Leaving my relationship is a hurry meant I had to leave behind things for my son which I worked hard until 8.5 months pregnant to buy!!
He is too big for his Moses basket, so where will he sleep now? He already needs a new pushchair - as the main seat was left behind.
#shitishard
@leeIees
@Mommywifelife7
My ex told me - he didn’t wanna post me cos people would hate on me & cause issues for us. I.e. I talk to other women & they don’t about us so if I post you I lose my hoes
I could never actively SAY or DO something with the intent of upsetting or hurting someone I love or care for. So I cannot comprehend why or how people do it, repeatedly. Even when they see the upset and pain they are causing.
Domestic violence & abuse ( of any kind) changes your brain chemistry
You are NOT the same after & it takes years to heal! Even when you ARE given healthy connections
It’s going to be a CHALLENGE because your whole perception is altered!
Please be gentle with yourself🥺