26 yr old virgin w/ a tiny dick. I pay hot girls to laugh at me. Hopelessly addicted to findom, over 35k sent since 2019. Please use my addiction for your gain
@_pacificspirit
Modern porn is also incredibly addictive and severely interferes with the brains dopamine release pathways.
Lots of men need help, he may not be able to quit on his own without support
@AugustLamm
I need this so badly. Got first smartphone at age 11, instantaneously went down a deep rabbit hole with porn. I feel Ike a Guinea pig and like my adolescence was robbed by this addictive technology :(
I would pay so much money for a guide like what you are describing
@lan55148
@brattykylani
Everything that was written is true though. Porn literally erodes your brain and findommes are knocking taking advantage of lonely men crying out for help
@HoratioArcturus
@ArshIiaNoor
@PedosCaught
These statistics are for America you idiot. They are skewed by racial differences in the American population. Whites are an overwhelming majority so their numbers are higher
@VibeWithJuls
I think you underestimate the difficulty many men have finding a gf.
Also, modern porn can be extremely addicting and sites like OF can tap into into the human reward circuitry by helping to conflate sending money to gain attention with actual intimacy and love
@JillsSimps
I have an extremely small penis, only about 3.5 hard. Because of this I am a 26 year old virgin who hasnโt kissed a girl since 2014. I am terrified to show my penis to a woman because I feel like they will just laugh and reject so I cope with a crippling findom addiction
@LikeSayFacade
@KameronBennett
Took the words out of my mouth, if this is what is teaching kids itโs no wonder little Johnny canโt fucking read ๐ญ๐ญ๐ญ
@alquis13
Yes and his findom addiction. Findom ruins lives, it has certainly ruined mine. I pray he finds help and can spend his time doing productive things
@issbabypanda
I have a very small penis and Iโm so ashamed about it. When I was in college I overheard a friend openly mocking a guy she went on a date with because his dick was small and it scared me from ever showing it to a girl. Iโm still a virgin because of this ๐ญ
@youserveVera
But is all of gender a social construct? Hundreds of thousands of years of evolution and differing levels of hormones have no affect on how men and women have traditionally acted?
@tup3ndeja
Looks can be deceiving. Lots of people lock them selves into absurd monthly payments they have no business trying to pay all because they want to flex for other people
@Satan_shewolf
@brattykylani
I disagree wholeheartedly. This is like blaming gambling addicts for their problem. Just because people want something doesnโt mean itโs healthy or they can rationally make the decision. I think lots of the dommes know this, it itโs easy to ignore when youโre making money
@ppresq
@plies
I think it depends on the context of โbetterโ. The quality of play is obviously much higher in the NFL. But I agree with OP, there is just something so much more enjoyable and satisfying about watching a big college game. Itโs just more fun
@brattynaina
@cupid4030
@brattykylani
It depends. Youโre correct, some men can do it in a healthy and fulfilling manner.
But to deny that there arenโt others in a very harmful spiral due to findom would also be false. Both can be true
@wakako
As a lonely, depressed man with virtually no self esteem I can 100% confirm that this is not healthy behavior. I legit hate myself and I cope with this unhealthy behavior, as do many of the men that do findom
@cupid4030
@brattykylani
She was probably hacked by a man who actually has compassion and empathy for fellow humans. Findom is inherently exploitative and can very easily turn into a situation where mentally unstable, lonely men are taken advantage of under the guise of a โkinkโ
@spoiledbabyk
@wannabespoiled
I started findom at 19 and it has destroyed my life. Porn in general is so bad for young men. I know in this space itโs always supposed to be like the dommes can do no wrong but engaging with 18 year old with something as psychologically intense and stimulating as this is gross
@ChunkyMonkeyDoe
@Satan_shewolf
@brattykylani
@pay4prosper
I think itโs different for every sub. If you can do it in a healthy manner, good for you.
But theres nothing fun about life long debt and constantly paying women to tell you that you suck. Many young men are creating extremely harmful habits that can be hard to break