@_ShesJustJhaz
@PossiblyGuilty
@jiggyjayy2
BM don’t even recognize nor pay attention to themselves being fetished because they fetish those same women. And sad truth is, they damn sure aint gon listen to a BW tryna enlighten them to the fact.
My “issue” with compromise is that a lot of the time ppl dont care about YOUR sacrifice. They dont even appreciate that its compromise. They just gettin what they want so, whatever.
“if they wanted to they would”
leaves no room for nuance or other things people may be going through. it no longer aligns with my value system. are we meeting people where they’re at or meeting them with unrealistic expectations?
Saw a dude recently say women have to “earn” dates when asked how he is managing dating with inflation…
And my thought is, you don’t want to have a good time and enjoy yourself?
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Y’all be wantin women that don’t want y’all, get shot down and then blame all women for your lack of discernment. That’s a whole other kinda corny
Black men are allowed to be corny, if they want. Problem is, the women y’all think y’all want don’t like corny niggas. And they don’t have to. Those women don’t like corny white niggas either.
It’s also super unattractive that y’all keep crying about this shit. Help us help you
A lot of the black capitalist/alpha male ideology is rooted in capitalism, patriarchy, conservatism and really aligns itself with being a privileged white male.
I understand your overall point but my dad had a very strong influence on me when I was 23 so he absolutely positively coulda sat my ass down if he needed to.
Unpopular opinion but I think the Tee Morant criticism is a bit overboard. Could your dad control you at age 23? Now amplify that to someone who has millions and is on the road most of the year.
I’ve noticed the main ppl that talk about accountability are the ones that want YOU to accept more responsibility for a situation that you’re both involved in.
The imbalance of power has shifted from a patriarchal model of relationship where as long as a man provides he can do whatever he wants to, to a more egalitarian model of relationships that requires more emotional and communicative work. Many don't want to do what's required now
Old Twitter never left you still have freedom of speech say whatever you want. But what has changed is there’s consequences for your actions. You wanna “joke” about rape, sexual assault etc you’ll be outta here FAST
the obsession with thinking white people have better relationships just because they get married early is insane because the married white men tell anybody who’ll listen how much they hate their wife 😵💫😵💫😵💫😵💫😵💫
I took a typing class in 10th grade & the way this particular class has served me so well in my life is really remarkable 😭. It’s not a big deal but being able to sit down at a computer & not look down at the keys is still something I’m proud of. A tiny flex😂
We have a lot of people these days who will straight up look stone faced when a child waves at them or says hi. Or better yet, you have ppl who get made at a baby crying in a public place. And you have ppl trying to normalize such antisocial behaviors.
As a school counselor I’d suggest this regardless of the state you live in. If you aren’t 100% SURE what you want to do, 2yrs of CC is going to save you a ton of money while you figure it out.
In Cali, I say just go to a CC for free and transfer when you have a little better understanding of all this shit. Anf there's way more support and guidance available that you might not be able to get from your family or HS.
I believe sexuality is fluid for most ppl and men need to become be more comfortable experimenting with whatever it is they may or may not be feeling without it being deemed as gay.
That’s really the craziest part. Drake response ain’t even get a chance to be dissected.
Shit was like when you score a TD and then they run the kickoff back to retake the lead
@HouseOfShanel
Skip didn’t say anything “wrong” but I don’t think ppl care about what he actually said. Point was that it was just ill timed. Ppl felt like ALL concern should have been for player over football in that moment.
My thought, and this is just my humble opinion, is that women want ANY kind of outward expression that shows a guy cares about them. And a lot of men don’t outwardly express pleasure/excitement outside of sports but will more easily express negative emotions.
Genuinely wish I could get to the root of the psychology behind why some women in our community find satisfaction, even joy, in driving a man to a point of extreme anger, rage, depression, etc.
You would rather put a child in a dangerous environment where she is constantly ridiculed, threatened and will likely end up traumatized for the sake of a "proper education"?
You're sick.
Women LOVE doing shit for ppl. It’s not even really gender specific cause they be spoiling they homegirls too but if she like you she definitely finna trick on you or cook for you or do lil cute shit that you ain’t even think you’d like so much
I truly wish we could talk about how hard having kids truly is without being told how “you chose to have children”. Like yes I did but it’s hard as f*ck and some days there’s a mental struggle.
I had a talk with a teacher about how they feel ppl’s “hate for math” is generationally passed down from parents/elders and if students struggle early it just confirm an already held belief that its “too hard.”
Your hypothesis makes sense also
One of my youngbuls asked me for a hug today, 1st thing when I walked into practice and he gave me the tightest hug ever, like he really needed it. And as cliche as it sounds, that’s why I coach.
@syn1031
I really wasn’t attempting to make it that deep but I believe that’s the point that I’m making. No one bats an eye at “my wife/gf said no,” when those same conditions could exist in that relationship dynamic as well.