So now Iโm unable to search โpeople I followโ itโll just say โno resultsโ I think Iโm leaving this app for goodโฆ there arenโt any redeeming qualities Iโve been off social media a few years and so I need to transition to other apps. Iโm giving myself till the end of the month
People are reporting the NYPD held a large vehicular protest yesterday in city vehicles using city resources while on the clock to protest against people being released on bail. This is extraordinary.
i have a theory that white people think racism is explicit because that's the only way they "experience" any kind of racism (i.e. someone saying I Hate White People) because it's literally impossible to discriminate against them in a way that's systemic/structural/ideological
@WithLoveTee333
I used to talk like this too, Maybe some people are triggered but I think folks knowing the reality of domestic violence this phrasing and tone seems like victims blaming. Itโs an old school attitude that has done more harm to victims than good, people are recognizing it.
@tronthatdon
@TheTankHeadKai
@SlimReaper95
it is a common plot device in romantic literature and film, often presented as "persistence" and "adoration" for example the actions of Lloyd Dobler in "Saying Anything" or Nicki from "the Parkers". Moreover a lot of elders have the "wouldn't take no for an answer" as love story
He tried to talk down on white women to big me up, I was a "beautiful Black Queen" they were "a bunch of bimbos." Since he was white I asked him if that was how he felt about his mother. He was like
@shredder_al
@KT_KuMoKo
@colormemac
@Tiana5tewart
Wow the misogyny. I think their point is if at 15 boys are supposed to be sexually experienced but their girl peers are to stay pure it follows it is an expectation and desire that they are to be coerced by grown women, putting boys at risk to be sexually violated by adults
@WithLoveTee333
I just feel like it shouldnโt be someone in destressโ job to do extra emotional labor of reading between the lines when they are already in crisis. We should be asking different questions than โare you tired yetโ like Why does so much work get placed on victims? Is that right?
@Schweinzig
@TNOQuoProQuid
@JamieHacker10
She is actually using the bimbo aesthetic popularized in the late 90s early 00s in a sweater and apron; the fact that you THINK she looks like a 50s housewife is the gimmick/kink
I really used to be one of those people who privileged the thought "if everyone has an issue with you, you're the common denominator" that is until I realized all the ways in which a whole community can be toxic
Wake this up cos yโall love throwing the word bisexual around when someone is a sexual deviant; quick reminder bisexuality is a sexual orientation as well as social identity. It donโt matter how many people you have sex with you have to identify with the social identity to be bi
@sendnoodlesplzz
@chickenalfredho
@makaben9
Anybody can be mean for absolutely no reason regardless of gender, but women are held to a higher standard of kindness and politeness. Women are expected to be nice, maybe it plays a part in your perception of treatment ?
Yes this it is a form of manipulation and an abuser tactic, the most abusive relationship I have ever been in I tried to leave and dude was just like "no" and gaslit me until I agreed to stay in the relationship. We were together a full year after I "broke up" with him
@shredder_al
@KT_KuMoKo
@colormemac
@Tiana5tewart
I appreciate you for correcting yourself, I hope in the future you consider sexual violence against children is not a laughing matter regardless of the gender of the child. Peace.
This is formerly waveymarcelo, multiple practitioners have called him out on sexual abuse including grooming and abuse of power. He has been accused of using his (fake) priest status to get people in vulnerable positions and take advantage of them. DO NOT SUPPORT THIS REBRAND!
@ShlbyCbra
Cops are cops they hold no other social category. Police job is to protect property so the only reason theyโd do this is if property (or landlords) are under threat. They keep everyday people in line so folks in power donโt lose power ๐คท๐พโโ๏ธ
Women calling older women โjealousโ of younger women are never beating the internalized misogyny allegations cos real feminists donโt yield an analysis from these arbitrary generational generalizationsโฆ what are you even talking about?
One day weโll discuss how a lot of them are just mad that genz women donโt make the same stupid decisions they made and disguising theirs as some sort of leading feminism moves that genz is โdestroyingโ or โregressing to be conservativesโ
Yโall why did I join a Black and Queer meetingโฆ I thought you could be one or the other. The ice breaker was going around the room asking about your queer awakeningโฆ
I had to tell them I was just here because Iโm Black ๐ญ Iโm so embarrassed
@someguy46758190
@tronthatdon
@TheTankHeadKai
@SlimReaper95
I agree with everything Piper already said to add if you think a girl is playing "hard to get" just tell her she's playing games, you take consent/autonomy seriously and you want to know if she is actually interested. Its totally fine to be up front and put the ball in her court
I don't understand how you see the world as it is and place any blame on queer/trans people for the state of things but your privilege seduces even the most asinine. You keep trying to implicate the most marginalized people in your analysis, who does that serve?
We gone talk about the fact that much of American Cholo culture (especially in the 90s) is just Black culture with a lil mole cause or we just gonna keep acting like slicked edges is fair game
Yup and a lot of yโall canโt recognize it cos itโs what your parents did after they beat you then waited a while and asked you if you wanted a some food, or allow you to stay up late or just started acting overly affectionate or whatever they did to normalize things after
My therapist told me this morning that love bombing isnโt just in the beginning . Once your partner, specifically an abusive partner can feel that you want to leave, it can be as subtle as complimenting you as they did in the beginning so you get that false sense of security to-
Some old head tried flirting with me in line at the pharmacy, talking about where I get my bracelet... Instead of giving him my number I made him download
@miiriya1
@allenisaiah1990
@GoldenJans
Did you live with that person? Were you financially dependent on them in any way? Did yโall have kids? Cos these are all common scenarios that make โjust leavingโ very difficult. Imagine someone switching up on you and yโall both still on the lease or yโall have property together
Yes to all of this. Also work slow. Be less productive if you can. Take time on your phone, take too long during your break. Do what you can within reason to shut it down!!
lotta us canโt exactly take off work, especially when OT/Holiday pay is on the line, and a lotta us have to spend money to get to work soโฆ. But maybe forgo the morning Dunkinโ or afternoon lunch, or the usual spot after work.
You're being extremely unfair to a well-respected priestess, someone who is very generous with their teachings and musings, you could have asked a question or even chose not to quote tweet if this is all you had to add... disappointing.
Never has a Black Capitalist ever put a Kneegrow in charge of their businessโฆ they barely hire their own kind unless they can use them for optics ๐
Today I checked out some caves the Tainos used before our land was colonized. Taino carvings & writings are still engraved in these caves. Although some try to strip us of our rich Taino history & legacy, weโll continue to celebrate those who came before us. Viv Ayiti. โ๐ฟ๐ญ๐น
none of the people arrested this week have committed any crimes, you have to remember this. they are all in jail cos the cops want to impact our momentum and place us in torture camps for fighting back
People actually do this with a lot of isms especially on social media. More worried about being called something than actually dismantling power structures
Ya know I think itโs so interesting that so many ppl saw Namor as an ally or even possible ally to Wakandans. He basically said: help me protect my culture/people or Iโll kill yours after ignoring the violence youve endured for centuries.
If your whole personality is hating men im so sorry but youโre just as โmale centeredโ as the next girl who is begging for validation from them. Thereโs more to life than mon
As a bi woman I see bi dudes say this a lot but then I be thinking "ok but WE exist" but it is obviously more complicated than that. Sending love to this man and all Bisexual Black Men ๐๐๐
This is a gross oversimplification of things. People's spiritual beliefs, their religions and theological philosophies have often been the catalyst for their organizing so a statement like this only serves to alienate those people from organizing with you.
one day we will have a honest conversation about how certain groups weaponize their identities to get their bills paid and then accuse folks of being phobic when it doesnโt work out for them
Yโall say this and yes but I need yโall to know these type of Negroes existed then too itโs a part of the reason the system is able to find informants, agents and colluders to do their bidding.
These are the women always tossing up their nose at BA women for being baby mamas but you silly girls could learn a thing or two from a baby mama like how not to sell yourself to a man just so that heโll acknowledge the child he fathered. Perhaps they could teach you your worth.
Yโall seem to want to absolve white women for sex tourism and Iโm not with itโฆ Iโm not into how yโall will lie just to bash the passport bros ๐ค yโall literally donโt know who that man is. This video is just well edited ๐
Yโall do realize a thief will cover their face to rob you regardless of the law because a thief is willing to break the law right!? So this only punishes law abiding citizens who are young, Black and mostly men who want to wear a face covering.
People not from here will not understand why this ban is needed.. people are murdered, robbed, beaten etc DAILY & you cant even identify the person because they are in ski mask. The male pop here is fuckin dangerous
There was sooooo much unpacked in this video!!!!
I tell yall all the timeโฆโฆ The T is the most despised in our community because itโs the only letter thatโs actually IDENTITY and not sexuality or sexual orientationโฆโฆ.
But ummm Marc Jacobsโฆ. Whatโs tea?
Everyone wants to talk about what therapists and other care workers should/shouldnโt do/say online but no one wants to take responsibility for their lack of media literacy, ironically.
ironically, this might be shade about me. even more ironically, i never said anything about people pleasers being manipulators or abusive. i said that the behavior itself is manipulative, not the people. i certainly didnโt call it abusive but twitter twisted those words out of
@someguy46758190
I feel you lol "Idk we'll see" is a no, even if she might like you, she is playing games and wasting your time. But a lot of times women say stuff like that "not to be rude" it's not up to you to decide where that is coming from
@melaninsecrets
I honestly believe you asked this question in earnest but some of the responses youโre getting are ableist and not rooted in anything scientific or in metaphysical sciences for that matter. Iโd listen to autistic people about this issue if I were you and ignore the rest.
Yโall know RAPE can happen in full blown relationships right??! A man will literally force himself onto you, while youโre visibly uncomfortable and rejecting himโฆ some men are just nasty sexual creatures who lose control in moments of being rejected and wonโt even be remorseful!
This entire thread is bonkers but pay attention to word โconservativeโ itโs so fascinating how that is used instead of โmisogynyโ women are abandoning men once they have the economic and social stability to do so because they are tired of being oppressed butโฆ yeah bonkers
NEW: an ideological divide is emerging between young men and women in many countries around the world.
I think this one of the most important social trends unfolding today, and provides the answer to several puzzles.
This was his response to someone pointing out that patriarchal abuse isn't unique to a generation... that women were treated just as poorly by men in the past as they are now if not worse cos well... it was legal to do so. This was his response
Iโm not trying to be funny but who was yโallโs history teachers? Cos I learned there was slavery in the North in school. People escaped slavery to Philadelphia cos of its free population then went further to Canadaโฆ why did they go all the way to Canada if they could be free in
Because many of you Negroes are homophobic, transphobic and antagonistic to anyone non white and thinking your Blackness is an exemption from having to address this as a problem.
"The moment you can recognize that someone is projecting onto you, you immediately stop taking it personally because you realize that person is not talking to you. They are talking to themselves out loud in your presence." -
@PeoplesOracle
LRTs and folks think I am "taking it too far" when I say the policing of womens bodies in church spaces is just some strange elaborate sexual harassment. Like how you watch me in choir practice for hours to pull me aside and say I "distracted people" what people, YOU?!
@MansaMusaThe7th
@kiingmoney1
@MrsJellySantos
If he is on probation he is still in the system + could be sent back for any reason they choose. The system often blames victims especially of marginalized groups. I know it doesnโt make sense but it happens often enough thatโs why people are mentioning it. 2/3
@AdamantxYves
People donโt listen to music with and around their kids anymore thatโs how we picked it up. Everyoneโs media is curated to what they already engage with. Culture is dying ๐ฉ
Men so deeply believe that everything in society is made FOR THEM and their sexual appetites that if a woman is depicted in public media they assume that the advertiser expects them to be attracted to her.
@obaa_boni
Itโs actually pretty common. The further back you go a lot of AA are of mixed heritage and not due to love and romance, so this little joke isnโt cute. Also just cos ppl know they have a white grandma/pa doesnโt mean they were claimed itโs bringing up a lot for no reason at all
I donโt think gen z is thinking about us all like that I think they just have the unique experience of every flippant remark about โold peopleโ they make becomes chronicled by some bitter older person running to social media like โcan you believe what they saidโ