Ohhhh gumbo, well you came and you gave without taking… I’ll never send you away, oh gumbo… you kissed me and stopped me from shaking and I need you today, oh gumbo… 🎶 🥹
One thing I’ve noticed that really tests friendships is when you stop relying on trauma bonding or both of you sharing misery which solidified the relationship
Relationships, whether platonic or romantic, are inherently challenging. Full stop.
We each have different thresholds of what we will/will not put up with. A lot of the discussion on here is projection of your own shit which you need to take to your therapist.
A broken clock is right twice a day, doesn’t mean we’re going to use it. We don’t have to accept a blatant homophobic, transphobic, misogynistic, and scammer individual because he “makes some great points” this is nonsensical.
Let me tell you something, saying “soul ties” are the reason you can’t move on is defeatist attitude. It’s a piss poor excuse for not making any attempt, spiritual and/or practical to move forward. Period. Full stop.