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@Capt_Haddoc

5 years

It's been decided that our votes are actually just suggestions.

Kelechi

@kelechnekoff

5 years

What has Nigeria decided?

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Almost three thousand followers. You have posted nothing for men on your sizeable platform. And yet you are competing with women. Not calling other men to action. Just complaining that nobody will do the work for you. Is this how African men will continue to lead?

Farmer John

@johndumelo

1 year

When it’s Mother’s Day, all the multinational/local companies and brands will organize events and do giveaways for mothers. But on Father’s Day, all WE get is…….nothing. God Dey.

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5 years

Her lesson?? Leaving your own child in danger to watch a game you could have paused is a lesson... To your wife? This is why people are silent on Father's Day.

Dr Muneer

@Muneeer2

5 years

@segalink 🤣🤣🤣 My wife learnt her lesson when our 6months old baby almost fell from the bed. She thought i was watching her, me that I was watching football. 🤣

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5 years

For first born girls who can't wait to start therapy when their money is enuf.

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@Capt_Haddoc

5 years

When you only want to showcase your culture in a reactionary manner, you end up looking foolish.

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@yeankhar

5 years

OK so nobody in Lagos to organize Yoruba Twitter hangout with meals like amala, iyan, semo, ikokore, moinmoin elemi meje, isapa???

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9 months

Nigerian men are defending Nigerian women? Happy Independence Day, everybody! 🇳🇬🇳🇬🇳🇬

princess p 🧚🏾

@konfle1

9 months

don’t let that country that starts with a N see this ….

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4 years

@YagazieEmezi Whatever wedding that's part of the storyline, I can hear it from here 😂.

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@Capt_Haddoc

6 years

Male Tears! Get your fresh male tears here, Ladies! When beautiful women hyping themselves up were runs girls by force, where was this energy?? Cry me a river.

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@Capt_Haddoc

4 years

A vocal minority of women endured being called "man hating feminists with no sense of humor ("dark humor" 😊)", for years, for saying what is now acceptable to be said. I'm glad they can see the attitude change in their lifetime. They deserve all the flowers.

Mr Macaroni

@mrmacaronii

4 years

#RapeIsNotAJoke

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4 years

There is an entire generation of young women who think that the "fem" in feminism stands for "feminine", not "female". To them the movement is a class action suit where we fight everything, for everyone, amd achieve nothing. I wish them well, but there's real work to be done.

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1 year

Men's mental health month: June. International Day of the Boy Child: May 16th. International Men's Day/ Month: November. Still enough time to plan something to celebrate your fellow men, instead of crying about why women's days are celebrated. (Hint: Women put in the effort).

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@Capt_Haddoc

2 months

No woman or girl has escaped misogyny & sexual violence because of a bald head or hairy armpits. Misogyny is a very intentional and ancient prejudice. If you're serious about fighting it, stop pretending like anyone can gain access to an oppressed class by saying the magic words.

Kéhìndé

@kehinde_bb

2 months

Need women to understand that the rigidity that some of you place around womanhood is to your detriment. If you are bald, you’re called a man. If you aren’t shapely, you’re a man. If you grow hair in unconventional places, you’re a man You’re woman because you insist you are

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5 years

"Rape accusations ruin Men's lives" "If a woman claims she was raped, everyone believes her" "Rape is a horrible thing, but women need to look out for the signs" "Rapists aren't men. They're animals" "There is no such thing as rape culture". 👇

adacampbell.eth

@Adacampbell

5 years

Good Morning. Seems like Biodun (COZA) is back on the pulpit and especially welcoming people who joined the church in the last 4 weeks. All that talk about stepping down was for the birds. We are back to status quo.

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@Capt_Haddoc

2 years

That cooking that you do for a living? Feminism is the reason you can do it as a career, and keep your earnings, instead of doing it uneducated, and unpaid in a man's house. It does not mean you and a man are the same. It means you don't have less rights. Hope it's clearer now?

Tspices Kitchen

@Tspiceskitchen

2 years

Unrelated but no matter how much I try to overthink this feminism thing, I've come to the conclusion that it's not for me. I like the ideology of equal opportunities.. But I reasonably believe that men and woman are not & will never be the same 🤞

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5 years

My mother has a PhD, that has given her opportunities and a higher income stream that her family benefits from years later. Traveling with her for her convocation was one of the proudest moments of my life. Stop using foolishness to construe motherhood as a means to chain women.

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4 years

@chefobubu @kikimordi Remove the microphone you've used to bug my house, please and thanks.

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@Capt_Haddoc

6 years

My maternal great grandmother fought tooth and nail to ensure that none of her female offspring were circumsised. Her daughter raised 6 girls by herself after being kicked out of her marriage for birthing all girls. Feminism an isn't abstract concept. Examples are all around us.

Editi Effiòng

@EditiEffiong

6 years

Most of our mothers got an education because our grandmother and great grandmothers fought to have their daughters educated. My mother put me through school. If her mother hadn’t educated her, who knows who I’d have been?

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@Capt_Haddoc

2 years

@its_daqueen You never see the "men of colour " advocating for darker skinned women on their shows. And yet...

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@Capt_Haddoc

9 months

She wouldn't have felt the need to explain anything if she was compared to Venus or Aphrodite sha. Let honesty guide our conversations, abeg.

Tiaraoluwa, the bitter feminist

@TheOluwabukunmi

9 months

Fighting and dragging Tems because she said she believes in Jesus is weird. You people are too weird mahnnn

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@Capt_Haddoc

5 years

All the good doctors have written PLAB and IELTS and left, so we're stuck with people who spoke their degrees into existence.

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@Capt_Haddoc

4 years

@MusingsHistory Women and girls are literally sent out of their homes and into huts made from mud and leaves due to this "ability to piss blood once a month". Periods have been used as a reason to keep women out of social and economic institutions. Enjoy scoring woke points at women's expense.

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@Capt_Haddoc

7 months

This is why you people are the face of immigrants raping women in Western countries. Because when you are at home, even you admit that you are no better than wild animals. May you continue to be locked up and deported en masse. 🙏🏿

Tsar Kika the Terrible 👁️⃤

@kingbooh_

7 months

"tell lions to stop biting people, we should be able to put our legs wherever we want without feeling unsafe" Signed: puurrrrrr!

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@Capt_Haddoc

5 years

I remember when I used to engage in mental gymnastics like this. It's tiring, and deep down, you know it makes no sense. Here's hoping you see that you really are equal, and release yourself.

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5 years

Igbo people made a thread appreciating Igbo women. A Yoruba women thread was the response. Igbo people want to hang out exclusively with each other. A Yoruba hangout is the response. If you feel a compulsion to shout yourself into every space...

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@Capt_Haddoc

5 months

"Bitterness over not having a man". Can you see that the male centered person here is you?

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10 months

@its_daqueen Dowry. Families want to be the ones doing the bullying and receiving. Instead of paying to educate a girl and paying for large dowries so she can get married.

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@Capt_Haddoc

3 years

"Dress modesty and men will not harrass/ assault you ". "Dress the way you want to be addressed." Once a society decides that a woman's body provokes sin in men, no amount of covering will ever be enough. I hope those women are safe.

Olóyè Ni'matullah

@MsNemah

3 years

Ramadan, I saw a lot of scholars talk abt how abaya isn't modest enough. These scholars especially from the north kept saying women wearing abaya were no different from prostitutes etc. None of them thought abt the impact of their comments and the safety of women. See this video

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@Capt_Haddoc

2 years

Because women have not been diligent with guarding our spaces. "Inclusivity", has people who do not experience our oppression, dictating how we should dress, what we should say, and how we should behave, at our own expense.

Ụlọma

@ulxma

2 years

Why does he even feel he can talk on black woman like this?

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@Capt_Haddoc

2 years

@SpectacularSam @ebelee_ @lolaloveandart So it wasn't a gender war when he was accusing those women of fraud when the government was hunting them down after they had risked their lives?? It's the people telling them to choose to protect themselves that are causing the war? Exactly what was your thought process, if any?

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@Capt_Haddoc

5 years

The isolation. No matter how "open minded" your theist friends are, they believe they're better people than you by virtue of their fear of punishment, and it will show. Unlearning indoctrinated thought patterns that make it seem like you must believe in a religion to survive.

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@Ziziian

5 years

O jewa ke eng ? (Atheist, agnostic; irreligious version)

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@Capt_Haddoc

4 years

"Women empowerment" is wonderful, but misogynists love it bc it doesn't threaten much. Most people love a female CEO that submits to her husband at home. So when people praise "quiet" empowerment over "long talk" and activism, it should be obvious what they are trying to do.

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@Capt_Haddoc

6 years

MRAs always ignore the statistics on rape, maternal mortality, salaries earned, sexual assault and harassment and intimate partner violence in order to cram themselves into oppression by force.

Garbage Human 🗑

@GarbageHuman_GH

6 years

MALE PRIVILEGE: Deaths in battle Men 97.7% Women 2.3% Homelessness Men 62% Women 38% Suicides Men 77.9% Women 22.1% Homicides Men 77.4% Women 22.6% Workplace deaths Men 93% Women 7% College graduates Men 40% Women 60% Winners of custody Men 17.8% Women 82.2%

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2 years

I remember the feminists from other African countries that criticised Nigerian feminists for focusing on issues like this. They said we weren't inclusive enough, and were concerned only about the ABCs of feminism. I hope they stub their toes on every staircase they climb.

Dr Ola Brown

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2 years

Kenyan man chops off wife’s hand because ‘she wasn’t home to cook’

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@Capt_Haddoc

5 years

It's probably because you see yourself as the default, and that is something you need to sort out, with yourself.

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5 years

@kat_mira Because there weren't any. However, there were different shades of dark and non-light skinned women and girls. Be okay with not being the centre of everything. You'll survive.

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6 months

@LesediNxumalo @Oloni You make assumptions of a culture and insult a member of that culture at HER wedding, and expect to be spoon-fed with grace? Where I come from, we call that "ment". Entitlement.

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@Capt_Haddoc

5 years

Plot twist: "We aren't doing any of that shit" really means "we aren't getting married".

OLONI BABY 💋

@Oloni

5 years

#AskOloni ‘My boyfriend doesn’t respect my culture.. help’ THOUGHTS? RT RT

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@Capt_Haddoc

3 years

Fair. It's actually not by force. But a lot of you learn new words to enjoy your favorite anime, and would bow to greet your Japanese friend's parents. As you should. It's good to respect other cultures. The casual disrespect for African culture is...interesting.

valentine

@V1TNE

3 years

In the most respectful way possible if your parents expect me to kneel to them don’t bring me to your house😭

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@Capt_Haddoc

2 years

@Jollz That's how you know how who has never had to walk in the market, haggle, come back home, start meal prep and then start cooking for hours. It's the spaghetti and indomie merchants that are talking about love.

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@Capt_Haddoc

2 years

A newspaper prints in France, and people are burned to death in Nigeria. A women picks a bag and is burned to death because she allegedly touched the Quran. A young woman responds to a post on a school group chat and does not live to see nightfall. People aren't phobic enough.

Abdulbaki Jari Aliyu

@Bahaushee

2 years

There is a lot of Islamophobia in Nigeria. From fighting Hijab to warning staff from attending Friday prayer to forcing female secondary students to wear short skirts. It shouldn’t be so.

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@Capt_Haddoc

5 years

A wise man. Didn't give room for another man to wreck his home. Maturity. Youths of today won't understand.

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@Capt_Haddoc

5 years

Women are only loved when they edit themselves to serve others. Children are only loved when they don't act out. Dogs are deliberately bred and trained to distill traits that are desirable to humans. Their wilder cousins are left alone for this very reason.

️️️️ ️

@CallMeGozie

5 years

Only Women, Children and Dogs Are Truly Loved Unconditionally. A Man Is Only Loved On The Condition That He Provides Something.

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@Capt_Haddoc

4 years

@WendyA__ But give them a week, and they're asking everyone to buy their products with money they laughed at us for not having.

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@Capt_Haddoc

5 years

They'll get back to us in 3-5 working days 😑.

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@Capt_Haddoc

4 years

In both liberal and conservative circles, misogynists are allowed to get away with harming women, as long as they're the wrong type of women. They thrive unchecked because misogyny is the most acceptable prejudice. That's why woke bros call women gendered slurs regularly.

Ayo

@emirtea

4 years

Male allies being condescending towards women they don’t agree with will never seem right to me sha

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@Capt_Haddoc

3 years

Virginity will not trigger anyone who had sex when & bc they wanted to. You call others cheap and useless, because that is how you would see yourself if you had sex. The pleasure you can't gain from sex, you attempt to replicate by shaming others. How is that now our problem??

Thamani💘

@MaverickThamani

3 years

Virginity will always trigger people coz deep down they wish they had it. There is nothing cute about multiple body count. You'll always feel used and worthless. Being Sexually active at an early age increases the risk of depression and suicide. The records are there. Research it

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@Capt_Haddoc

6 years

Remember this logic when your leaders point you to war-torn African countries without basic amenities when you ask them for stable electricity, roads and healthcare. Remember this your logic, and know that you deserve them.

Máfejópamí

@VillageParrot

6 years

Homosexuality is not legal in more than two-third of the world, but Nigerians will carry it on their head on twitter and attack anyone who feels differently about it. Don’t go and fight for electricity, good governance, and education. Be carrying First World problems.

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@Capt_Haddoc

4 years

@ClaireShrugged All the while disassociating from feminism while demanding for a safe space in it for women like her.

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@Capt_Haddoc

4 years

@harbeeola08 @Sir_Accolade Yes. You have. I understand you don't want to face this because it means you will have to confront and lay boundaries with people still in your life. But they failed you. Society failed you. And until you are strong enough to face up to it, stop obstructing people doing the work.

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@Capt_Haddoc

2 years

Okay so the next time a white woman straightens her hair and calls it a "Silk Press", don't come crying when people tell you to "get over it". Ndi ara.

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@TheFineFeminine

2 years

Also, sorry to the naija girls about us rebranding “soft life” but we really don’t care atp get over it.

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@Capt_Haddoc

3 years

The devil uses the bar to wipe his ass at this point. "He wanted to take advantage of the fact that I was stranded, but at least he didn't rape me".

Harley knows you are lonely and so she

@miss_ezeani

3 years

I once got stranded at a friend’s, he said I could sleep over. Middle of the night, he woke me, asked if we could get down. My mind was already racing because I thought it’d be a long night. I said no. He turned, faced the wall and never bothered me. Not all men are terrible.

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@Capt_Haddoc

4 years

Indeed, we too, miss the days when your kind was conscripted to the warfront, never to return.

Gafaru!

@ayo_gafaru

4 years

We need to start a movement that would force women back to the kitchen. They have heard enough Freedom.

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@Capt_Haddoc

3 years

My favorite part about this is, later this year, a man will say this in a different way, and all the people ratioing Jola, will praise his unique perspective. Na so e dey go.

Jola

@Jollz

3 years

Are Nigerian kitchens so terribly designed because it's mostly men designing and building homes? Our society is super patriarchal and men don't see it as their domain so it stands to reason that they don't think of comfort, ventilation, storage, etc when designing them? Reach?

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@Capt_Haddoc

1 year

@RejiYates He recognises what you bring to the table (visa, money, etc) and wants to enjoy those benefits. But he still wants to remain "Head of the House", as a typical Nigerian man. Of course he won't compromise, so if you stand your ground, you're the problem. Sorry about that though.

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@Capt_Haddoc

4 years

@diikells Feel free to not project your own spending errors on me. Stay blessed.

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@Capt_Haddoc

5 years

@EniolaHu patriarchy scams women into scrambling for crumbs of respect, making them trample on other women to get something that is innate.

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@Capt_Haddoc

5 years

@mzmilkshake02 @trappin4russell In reality, there's a high chance someone you know, your friend, colleague or family member, has had an abortion. Your tweet has shown them that you are not worthy of their trust OR their respect. Hope that high horse is worth it.

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@Capt_Haddoc

6 years

"WOMEN SHOULD TAKE PRECAUTIONS! There will always be rapists around" "I CANNOT BELIEVE that this hot woman I don't know refused to get in my car! A whole nice guy like me! Always thinking too highly of themselves, these women. She wasn't even all that 😓"

Doreen🫶🏾

@Doreenglm

6 years

As a man I am fully entitled to have sex with as many women casually as possible and brag about it, but as a woman, sex with anyone other than your husband makes you a whore, but anyway you up? Can I come over? #tweetwithmalelogic

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@Capt_Haddoc

4 years

I love the way Ms Knowles loves Beyoncé, Solange and Kelly. So heartwarming 💛.

BEYONCÉ LEGION 𐚁

@BeyLegion

4 years

Ms. Tina @knowles_lawson gets emotional as she recalls her daughters getting her through her divorce. 💖

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@Capt_Haddoc

5 years

@_Yashami @koreybrowne1 @_ItsMarisWorld_ Protection. From. What??

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@Capt_Haddoc

3 years

Not three days ago, you lot were bleating that Nigerian women made no effort to get into Tech. Men were proud to dominate the field and said the gender gap was women's fault. A company took deliberate steps to include women, and NOW you know sexism exists. E Choke true true.

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@Capt_Haddoc

4 years

@diaryofa9jagirl I understand why you would think like this, given the society we all grew up in, but please understand that the people you are dismissing as "triggered" are trying to tell you that misogynists KNOW and have ALWAYS known that there are women who become successful without sex.

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@Capt_Haddoc

2 years

From your brethren online arguing why they can't marry a woman who can't cook, to the ones offline who abuse and kill their wives for not cooking, to yet another set who demand their wives cook them fresh meals, daily... My brother in Christ, surely you know that you are capping?

Ben Adaephon Delat

@Immortal_Teddy

2 years

From this tweet you would think NG men sit at home all day demanding food from their wives.

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@Capt_Haddoc

4 years

@diaryofa9jagirl In fact a lot of the men hailing you are the very ones that expect sexual favours from women they show the barest minimum niceness to (from car lifts, to jobs). We were all here when their SARS Saviour came here to tweet that Dr Oby Ezekwesili exchanged sex for her success.

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@Capt_Haddoc

1 year

Fortunately, some of us did not grow up surrounded by white people. They are not our standard. Our mother's, grand mother's, sisters and ourselves, informed our knowledge of womanhood. We own our history, not the white people you allow to live rent free in your heads.

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@Capt_Haddoc

3 years

When men were fighting World War 2, women excelled in programming & codebreaking. They came back from war to force women back into the kitchen and they stayed there until recently. Their sons who have faced little societal roadblocks into tech, have come out to call women lazy.

nesta

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In Nigeria, coding started some few years ago. society gave same opportunity to both boys and girls but boys started coding. Today the field is dominated by men and the social construct people are blaming society for it.

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@Capt_Haddoc

5 years

One guy brought up fat women in response to a tweet about people with flat bums, another guy said the futa bully "justified his hatred of fat women", then another man is crowing about his cousin who sat down and died because they were fat...but Nigerians LOVE fat women though.

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@Capt_Haddoc

1 year

This is the second such tweet I've seen about Yoruba women. Another man from the "progressive" side of twitter said "Igbo women have the beauty Yoruba women think they do". Just six days ago, the TL was screaming that these same Yorubas were the most tribalist people in Nigeria.

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@Capt_Haddoc

1 year

Actors do not owe you sexual gratification. Consent and boundaries apply to them, too.

Manish (he/him/his)

@vertigay314

1 year

no offense to sexless generation, but i find penn badgley's antisex comments really creepy and unprofessional. it's his choice not to do sex scenes but tying it to infidelity and not crossing boundaries with his wife is offputting

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@Capt_Haddoc

4 years

That's why my bio says "Women First. Always". That a movement benefits from female liberation does not mean women *must* center that fight, or prioritise it ahead of theirs, at their expense. More power to those strong enough to be Voltrons sha.

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@Capt_Haddoc

4 years

@vinny_fineboy @thedami_xx @kimistiredofit Lol his friends lied on him after he died, but the problem is "evil " women you know? 🤢🤢

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@Capt_Haddoc

6 months

@jenny_gxo Yeah, let's...let's leave her alone.

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@Capt_Haddoc

4 years

Divest Inc will eat good this 2020, it seems.

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@Capt_Haddoc

5 years

He was the Alpha of the wolf pack. He spoke in growls and roars with a limited vocabulary mostly consisting of the word "Mine!". She was a brown haired, blue eyed 140 pound girl who the goddess Luna had chosen as his mate. His obsession with her + her timid nature = Soulmates.

Feminist Witch 🇵🇸🇵🇸 🌙

@DonCorleANN

5 years

Write a typical white Romance novel in one tweet.

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@Capt_Haddoc

4 years

@msAdedapo @kikimordi @wemabank And unkind women are not the reason you cannot pass Nigerian citizenship to your children if you marry a foreigner. Women's rights to equality should not be determined by how "nice" they are to other women. It certainly hasn't been required of men. So it is nonsense AT BEST.

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@Capt_Haddoc

4 years

Women and girls are literally sent out of their homes and into huts made from mud and leaves due to this "ability to piss blood once a month". Periods have been used as a reason to keep women out of social and economic institutions. Enjoy scoring woke points at women's expense.

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@Capt_Haddoc

2 months

The same way you people insist that because African languages didn't have gendered pronouns, they did not have gendered oppression. Your great grand father may not have said the word "She", but he knew which sex of child to prioritise. Be fucking serious I beg you.

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@Capt_Haddoc

3 years

It is natual to want companionship. Every 3-5 business days, we discuss how poor the dating options are for straight women. Mocking them for being religious and wanting good partners is... mean spirited.

Ozzy

@ozzyetomi

3 years

Aside from “Ciara’s prayer” being the most cringe thing the internet has been on for a while, I can’t believe people assess Ciara and assess Russel Wilson and think it was Ciara’s prayer not Russel’s prayer.

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@Capt_Haddoc

2 years

Misogyny: the world's most accepted prejudice. 20K+ likes.

Covfefe Anon

@CovfefeAnon

2 years

Nice try buddy but I'm sticking to dating women

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@Capt_Haddoc

6 years

@Mr_Emmcap__ I don't just get period pains. The week before, my face gets oily, and I get pimples. Then there's the cramps that come with a little blood. Initially. After that it's a lot of blood. Two pads full a day. Then there's constipation. If I'm lucky, diarrhoea too. And more blood.

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@Capt_Haddoc

2 years

The women insulting her for this post, need to question why they cannot handle the hair that grows out of their own heads. A lot of you relax your hair and rush to fix straight wigs and weaves on top. Stop the lies. It's not about convienence.

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@Capt_Haddoc

4 years

All the organising, protesting, lobbying and on ground work Nigerian feminists have been doing, and they're "weak links" because they won't accept theory that is not realistic or relevant to their experiences. Theoretical tenets that those pushing (from abroad), won't follow.

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@Capt_Haddoc

5 years

@PinballWitch "He never helps around the house and has a *toxic* habit. He's resisted all attempts to discuss this and I worry I'm overreacting because I really do love him" Vs "She bought me that ring I looked at in the store once, and writes me love letters everyday. Are we just friends???"

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@Capt_Haddoc

3 years

Release yourself. Slimmer women do look good in everything (Western clothes), partly because those clothes have always been designed with their body types in mind. Other women being complimented doesn't make you less desirable. Breathe.

𝓔𝓷𝓲𝓫𝓪𝓫𝔂🫧

@Eni0la1

3 years

Nah, y’all literally just tweet anything on this app.

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@Capt_Haddoc

4 years

@msAdedapo @kikimordi @wemabank Women being nice to each other did not keep a judge from being denied her appointment because her husband was from another state. It did not stop girls from being kidnapped for daring to go to school. It has not stopped thousands of women from being raped, assaulted / molested.

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@Capt_Haddoc

9 months

You have never known the fear of hoping and praying for your / a loved one's safety because they were unfortunate enough to be in Northern Nigeria, and not be a northern Muslim. A valid fear is not a phobia.

Grezzy

@Grezzy1111

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Igbo people are proper Islamophobic I’ve noticed lol

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@Capt_Haddoc

6 months

You make assumptions of a culture and insult a member of that culture at HER wedding, and expect to be spoon-fed with grace? Where I come from, we call that "ment". Entitlement.

Lesedi 🇿🇦

@LesediNxumalo

6 months

@Oloni I love watching videos of Nigerian weddings but this attitude is so unnecessary , if they don’t understand your culture, just teach them, it’s that simple.

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@Capt_Haddoc

4 years

If it has Priyanka Chopra in it, I'm watching. Period. ❤

Netflix Nigeria

@NetflixNaija

4 years

The White Tiger - Jan 22. He was raised to be a loyal servant, but he used his wit and cunning to escape poverty and become a force to reckon with. ⚪️

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@Capt_Haddoc

4 years

@Chydee Actually loving someone might involve a desire to lessen their burdens and create more time for them to rest, instead of comfortably sleeping while they clean up after you, a grown adult. Especially if they also have a job.

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@Capt_Haddoc

1 year

Funny enough, a reply like this to someone explaining a feeling of loss from a romantic relationship, just shows that you would be a terrible friend. People are allowed to want romantic relationships, and miss them if they lose them.

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@Capt_Haddoc

6 years

@MissyOyamo @DoreenGLM @Rixpoet Plot twist: Most pedophiles are in heterosexual relationships with other adults. Since she never said sex with children was okay, your attempt to reduce her point to the most absurd extreme was obvious, unnecessary and very bigoted.

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@Capt_Haddoc

3 years

@onosowobo I like being surrounded by people I love, who look like me. My parents are visibly ageing and I like being able to see them when I choose to. Open to leaving, but there real reasons why people stay, and we need to respect that.

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@Capt_Haddoc

6 months

Everybody? Come on now. There's this thing people do when it comes to 4c hair. When hair care tips are posted, these are the people who say it's too stressful, and the length of hair doesn't matter. When long 4c hair is appreciated, these same people claim that it's unrealistic.

ms t. 🖤

@msflxff

6 months

Now appreciate the tiny ones too. The ones everybody has.

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@Capt_Haddoc

2 years

There is a way a woman will describe love and you just know she isn't talking about loving a man. No talk of power struggle, or diluting her whole self, or putting up with less than desirable things in the name of "love". Light, Safety and mutual effort. Love this for you. 🙏🏿🙏🏿

max ‘odogwu’ obae

@makispoke

2 years

i never quite understood this before, but when you deeply love someone with everything in you, your willingness to serve them grows deeper, and can even (and quite often will) extend to members of their family. you just want to do everything in your power to make them happy.

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@Capt_Haddoc

5 years

Honestly, if you aren't willing to ask his permission to separate the oxygen from the carbon dioxide he breathes out, so you can inhale it in turn, then marriage isn't for you. Sarah that called her husband "My Lord", did not have two heads.

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@Capt_Haddoc

7 months

@jenny_gxo It's honestly a "no" from me tbh.

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@Capt_Haddoc

5 years

@prisyyblaze This is a criminal offence in countries where having a child isn't a right. I'm just happy these ones are outing themselves.

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@Capt_Haddoc

8 months

@jenny_gxo You cannot wake people pretending to be asleep.

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@Capt_Haddoc

5 years

@raychellered Notice how threats to not hire women as staff anymore, only gain traction when women speak up about rape, assault and harassment. Nobody has a problem hiring women as long as they're quite about their abuse. We see them. Clearly.

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@Capt_Haddoc

2 years

My man said "Delete this, or they ride at dawn" 😭😭😭

BAMBUSA®

@BambusaJamaica

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Dem soon wake up enuh.... Yuh still have time 😂

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