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Bonnibel is migrating to Mastodon

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Hey, just popping in to say that I'm still alive, but that Twitter has pretty much become unusable for me. Find me on Mastodon instead 🐘👉

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Sebagai gambaran lebih lanjut, rata-rata gaji di Indonesia adalah Rp 2,89jt (BPS Mei 2022), yang berarti harga median rumah setara dengan bekerja selama 27-29 tahun (tergantung kebijakan gaji ke-13) tanpa pengeluaran lain. How messed up is this? Sebuah utas singkat 🧵

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Kapan hari iseng cari tahu berapa median rumah di Indonesia, ternyata..... Semilyar rupiah 🥲 Terbanyak tapi ada di antara 500-800jt

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Japanese cuteness is a trauma response to the nation's post-war defeat from the bombings. If they'd won the war things might have developed very differently, i.e. fascistic machismo.

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I want to emphasize that once your art is stolen to be tokenized, your original art will be regarded by crypto as the fake one, always and forever. This process is irreversible. And this is why NFTs are fucking evil.

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"Apa salah menyuruh perempuan untuk lebih waspada? Toh kita juga waktu malam hari mengunci pagar biar nggak kemalingan?" Iya, salah banget. Kenapa? Sebuah utas 🧵

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I woke up today and realize that @nadiyahrs 's tweets are all gone. All her artworks, her brave voice, her speaking up for all of us. This is what oppression looks like. This is what silencing people who calls you out looks like. This is what class powerlessness looks like.

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Ini bayar orang apa bikin sendiri sih? Because it's stupid as fuck. Why? A THREAD.

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THREAD 1 Selamat Malam teman-teman. Mohon maaf atas kegaduhan dan kesalahpahaman yang sudah terjadi selama 3 hari ini. Aku mau menjelaskan secara tuntas duduk permasalahan yang terjadi antara aku dan @nadiyahrs .

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Why are people mad that influencers get 250jt+ a month? It's not that the money comes from underpaid graphic designers, uncredited artists, exploited copywriters, burned-out freelancers, harrassed assistants, dead-end job secretaries, service workers who get treated like shit,

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I just think it's amazing how capitalism can warp alienation and class struggle into personal rage then commodify that destructive force into a recreational activity.

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Please don't celebrate this. This is just another attempt by the state to force trans people back into "either one of the two sexes at birth" and "legal birth names, no aliases allowed". This is another attempt at wiping out trans people. The headline is extremely misleading.

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Some people are like "Don't keep blaming the government, let's find a solution," but Pemprov DKI literally decided to stop the anti-flooding project two years ago and six months ago THEY KNEW EXACTLY THIS WAS GOING TO HAPPEN.

Nikolaus Harbowo

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Pada 19 JULI 2019, kami kutip dr Staf Khusus Menteri PUPR Bidang Sumber Daya Air. "Belum selesainya pembebasan lahan di bantaran CILIWUNG sebabkan banjir msh mengancam Jakarta di MUSIM PENGHUJAN nanti."

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I beg you all to please stop caring about why someone is queer and start caring whether they are loved, safe, sheltered, and have enough food for today.

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Kalo lu percaya Gofar ga melakukan pelecehan plis unfollow gue dan jangan pernah muncul di kehidupan gue lagi.

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Colonialist state violence doesn't always come with guns ablazing. Unreported brutality and unjust criminalization require feel-good media products like this one as an ideological support for the ongoing cruelty in West Papua 🧵

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Salah satu film Indonesia yang bakal tayang di bulan desember ini 😳

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"Activist" you say? Don't make me laugh. @awkarin is the fool's idea of what activism means, a shallow pretention profiting from the support of the status quo. Bukan cuma karya orang yang dibajak. Dia sendiri itu aktivis bajakan, palsu, minim jiwa perjuangan.

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Di Indonesia itu emang wacana sanisme masih jauh banget ya? Orang jahat dikit dibilang gila, suruh terapi, dsb. Ngakunya peduli social justice dan kesehatan mental tapi ujung-ujungnya pada sanist + mental ableist semua juga.

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This is the kind of world we're living in. Semoga fakta-fakta singkat ini tidak membuat depresi tapi bisa memicu radikalisasi menuju tuntutan kesetaraan yang lebih kuat dan mendesak! ✊🏿✊🏾✊🏽

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Grief is such a funny feeling. Sometimes you have a bond so deep with someone that you still talk to them in your head no matter how long they've been gone. Your alone time is filled with tiny utterances of the inside jokes you used to share. Loneliness hits you like a truck.

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I want my non-Indonesian mutuals to know that right now there are huge swaths of our conservative populist government and population actively fighting against anti-sexual harrassment bills. The explicit reason? They disagree with the whole idea that consent is even necessary.

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Ngotot memisahkan pelaku dan karya dalam industri tuh ujung-ujungnya akan munafik, karena kamu masih bakal kasih duit, panggung, dan modal sosial ke para pelaku kekerasan. Perhatian dan opini kamu juga merupakan alat normalisasi relasi kuasa; tanggung jawablah sedikit.

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This is not a fucking apology. This is blame-shifting. Try again.

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Honestly I'll take kids burning public facilities while shouting "DPR kontol" over middle-aged men spewing bullshit like "sayang" and "kita keluarga" and "demonya indah" because the latter's position of comfort is a much more insidious form of violence.

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This creates incentives for many artists to tokenize their work before someone else does, which exacerbates the destructive nature of the system. The other option is to lock your accounts or never show your art in digital spaces anymore. This condition is obscene and perverse.

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"But you can always tokenize the original one yourself after the fact and make noise about the theft," yes but that burden will be on you, and you will have zero legal backing. The whole point of crypto is decentralizing, and in many cases, that also means lawlessness.

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Wow okay people finally are talking about the transphobia in Yuni now and the cises are weighing in with their takes so let me also make a thread because I'm not gonna let the mic be taken from us yet again. Spoilers for Yuni, obviously 🧵

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Biar jelas: Kami butuh sekutu bukan buat marah-marah. Kami udah jago marah. Kami butuh sekutu buat membankrutkan pelaku KS, menghancurkan karir mereka, meludahi status mereka. Kami butuh mimpi dan masa depan mereka padam. Itu yang para korban dan penyintas nggak bisa lakukan.

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I normally avoid sharing bad news but I want to draw attention to what's currently happening in Indonesia re: blocking of services, privacy, and queer persecution, and why things are pretty scary right now 🧵

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The Indonesian gov't held a national sporting event during a pandemic at the occupied indigenous land of West Papua and then left the workers unpaid, sick, some sexually assaulted. Modern-day colonialism at its purest.

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Masih percaya negara? Relawan yang bersusah payah hingga pon selesai ada yang jadi korban pemerkosaan, ada yang sakit karena tidak istirahat dengan baik, ada pula yang terinfeksi C-19, lalu masih tidak dibayar. Ente masih yakin kalau negara masih peduli sama orang Papua?

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Do I have proof that @awkarin somehow did this? Of course not. But you'd have to be wholly ignorant if you don't catch her undertones of threats and what a massive move of power abuse this is. It's the exact same logic governments use to silence its people.

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Jawabannya: 403 tahun 5 bulan dan 5 hari. Let that sink in. Gaji rata-rata kita per bulan dihasilkan TIAP MENIT pun masih butuh ratusan tahun biar bisa nyampai net worth orang terkaya di Indonesia saat ini. Ini di Indonesia doang ya.

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1. Mengasumsikan kejahatan terjadi karena kurangnya kewaspadaan. Kewaspadaan merupakan kondisi default dari kebanyakan perempuan dan gender minoritas lainnya. Ini merupakan identifikasi masalah dan solusi yang melenceng.

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Selagi Pride Month, aku pengen berbagi kenapa wacana "queer itu menyimpang" yang mengatasnamakan sains itu kurang benar. Sebuah utas ekologi queer 🧵✨

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This whole Indonesian discourse on body positivity just goes to show how little people understand structural oppression. Any awareness of it is directly rendered as pettiness and jealousy.

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tw// transphobia, exorsexism Not to downplay the horrible nature of how university staff can publicly harass a student's nonbinary gender while living on a land that acknowledges five genders, I think we should nonetheless be unabashedly hopeful for the future. Why? 🧵

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2. Menaruh tanggung jawab kepada korban dan penyintas, bukan pelaku. Ini versi lain dari pertanyaan-pertanyaan sampah seperti "Pakai baju apa? Kok keluar sendiri malam-malam?" dsb.

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Kalau di dunia gimana? Let's put it this way: Gaji rata-rata per bulan masyarakat Indonesia saat ini kurang lebih setara dengan penghasilan Jeff Bezos PER DETIK. Artinya Bezos bisa beli dua rumah seharga satu milyar rupiah setiap menitnya.

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Also, take a careful look at @HELLOHONEBI 's screencaps in the QT above. The art thief is an organization of 28 people. Plus a lucrative black market that does not care. NFTs are enabling technocratic forms of organized crime against all of the art community. You are not safe.

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Demi Lovato: *comes out as nonbinary* Every Indonesian news outlet: THERE ARE MANY OF THEM NOW

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We're moving up, just FYI.

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Gara-gara satu podcast jelek bisa sampe ke titik ini.

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3. Menormalisasi kekerasan seksual sebagai sesuatu yang esensial dalam diri cislaki. Ini versi lain dari pernyataan-pernyataan sampah seperti, "Namanya juga cowok, maklum lah kalau bercandanya begitu," dsb.

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If you're an ally, please stop wasting your time and energy debating what is natural or deviant or traumagenic or whatever. Maybe you have good intentions but literally none of us cares. It's the same old shit for decades. Give money or check in with your queer friends instead.

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Panduan penulisan beberapa istilah terkait dengan transgender yang mungkin masih jarang diketahui 🧵 Silakan RT untuk menyebarluaskan ✨🥰

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My heart goes out to all of you pressured and gaslit to deny your own experiences. My heart goes out to all of you too sick and traumatized to speak up no matter how much solidarity you want to show the world. I see you. You're not guilty. Thank you for staying alive.

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Tahu nggak kalau Hartono bersaudara punya kekayaan pribadi Rp 612,8 trilyun (Forbes 2021)? Ayo tebak-tebakan: Kalau kamu punya mesin pencetak uang yang bisa nyetak setara gaji rata-rata Indonesia tiap bulan dalam satu menit, kira-kira kamu perlu nyalain mesin itu berapa lama?

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Pro-tip: Next time you see a queer person being toxic and your first reaction is "See, we have given the LGBT community way too much privilege!" you're not exactly an ally, mate.

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Hi everyone. I made this comic on the non-binary experience for #PRIDE 🥰 It would mean a lot to me if you shared it 💛🤍💜🖤

We Have Always Been Here – New Naratif

Non-binary people are not a recent trend; we have always been here. It’s time for the world to see us and to celebrate with us.

newnaratif.com

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CALL FOR FLASH FICTION! ICYMI @NewNaratif is holding its second round of flash fiction series, with yours truly as the editor! We're inviting SEAsians to send in 300-500 words of fiction to #ReimagineSEA . More info at RTs appreciated! 📝🌻🧸

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@badpresident_ @BRIANNAFAITHVC @GorresstFump @YOURINEXTDOOR22 @DaWaterSupplier @lunarfaeriie @AC_soRAW @ZacharyTurnbul3 @2dsucc @conner_NYK @erutrun @MasteroftheUnk3 @SauceMyNoodle @tursasM @Dzevad54531298 @xqzkai @ItsGiosWorld @act_mkw @Gullyseth82 @RooneyDude22 @kyotozay @sphagett @thatguyt7 @im_yeaa @TheeHornyPoPo homie the posterior police 🚔🚨

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👦: Pak, ormas menolak pembangunan rumah ibadah. 👮‍♂️: AkSi dAMai 👦: Pak, para pendemo sudah bubar dan pulang dengan tertib. 👮: GAS AIR MATA!!! MERIAM AIR!!!1! 👦: Pak, para polisi menembak mati mahasiswa di jalan. 👮: *ketawa* Dasar Si Udin emang kagak disiplin

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Indonesia is known for being a transphobic country, but seeing the outpouring of love and support for my dear friend Rara in her first time attending a wedding reception gives me a lot of hope for humanity. Thank you Rara for your courage 💖🤗🌸

ibuk 🏳️‍⚧️(lagi cari sosok suami, wallahi 🫠)

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Salut sama diri sendiri karena sudah berani pakai dress, flat shoes, anting & make up-an di resepsi adikku. Ditambah bersyukur karena disetujui mama & di-support doi. Meski muak sama tatapan tetangga & saudara yang menertawakanku, setidaknya aku cukup bahagia hari ini. 👗👠🌼

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A while back we had that "there are no more goth teens now since everyone is trans" take. The "no transwomen in sports" agenda basically claims we're all jocks. And now we have this headline on nerds. Waiting for the take on preps to complete the roster I guess @refrainbow .

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Aw shit, they're on to us.

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4. Mereduksi kekerasan seksual sebagai kejahatan individual dan menafikan kondisi struktural di belakangnya. Kemalingan dan pemerkosaan tak bisa dianalogikan satu sama lain karena strukturnya amat berbeda. Kekerasan seksual punya status budaya yang jauh lebih mengakar di sini.

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Never thought I'd be in this position but I'm accepting donations for my cats' health funds. My Paypal email is bonni (dot) rambatan (at) gmail (dot) com, Jenius cashtag is $ bonni07 (without the space), other options via DM. RTs appreciated. A bit of background 🧵

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6. Menyepelekan beban emosional luar biasa dari sikap waspada yang senantiasa. Bagi kaum rentan, kewaspadaan adalah cara hidup, bukan sikap yang bisa dinyalakan dan dimatikan kapan saja. Nasehat untuk waspada adalah mansplaining tidak peka dari yang tak punya pengalaman.

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Karin jelas tau kekuatannya, wong dia flexing lawyer. Jelas tahu followernya nyerang Nadiyah gak karu-karuan. Terus sekarang gak mau disalahin kalau Nadiyah ngilang dan hapus tweet2nya, karena Karin gak ngancam secara langsung? Buat orang yg ngaku nyadar isu sosial, ini goblok.

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Japanese cuteness has also influenced meme culture and social media and it's strongly tied to our own sense of defeat against capitalism. @Jacob_PhD and I dedicated an entire chapter to talk about this in our book, Event Horizon.

About Event Horizon

Blurbs, recommendations, and purchase links for our book

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The fact that today, any student at all can publicly claim their nonbinary identity out in public in a university setting in a conservative country like Indonesia is pretty radical. Regardless of how this turns out, I think this kind of courage needs to be celebrated.

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Ini nih beneran senggak paham ini soal isu struktural ya? Bahwa pertemanan dan pembahasaan itu dianggap nggak ada kaitannya mentang-mentang bukan bagian langsung dari rencana? Bahwa mengakui itu salah dan meminta maaf itu cukup karena ini dianggap isu moral indvidual aja?

Dandhy Laksono

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Setelah dituding mempraktikkan perbudakan, kini ekspedisi di-frame dan dikaitkan dengan kasus pelecehan seksual, seolah dia bagian dari rencana ekspedisi.

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"Kesalahan itu kan empat tahun lalu." Yg dimasalahin itu bukan cuma nyurinya tapi fakta bahwa Karin cuma main blok dan nggak mau minta maaf waktu dulu diminta Nadiyah. Lo bilang "masalah pun selesai" itu ya kagak, nyet, buktinya masih ada yang diblok dan ngebekas sampe sekarang.

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I made this artwork for #EidAlFitr this year, pretty much inspired by @Mipsterz 's #ALHAMDU Muslim Futurism project. It was super fun to draw!!! 🎨🌸💕 Happy Eid, y'all! 🥰✨

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#EidMubarak to our Muslim siblings and everyone else who celebrates! 🕌🙏💕 Walau tantangan terus berdatangan, semoga kita semua masih mampu menemukan maaf dan kebaikan di hati—baik bagi diri sendiri maupun orang lain 🌸🐨🐰💞

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Good point that leads to another connection between cuteness and war propaganda. Those cute sailor fuku and gakuran uniforms? They were literally designed so students respect the navy and thus aspire to Japanese warfare heroism!

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I don't think a lot of people are aware or realize the gravity of this. Remnants of QAnon, antivax, Covid deniers, and anti-Semites are converging under this transphobic fantasy which solidifies into organized transphobia in the West.

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Love the way that because trans people have next to no institutional power, next to no representation in government, and almost no presence in traditional media, transphobes had started conspiracies about various powerful cis people being SECRETLY TRANS, and it's absolutely wild.

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Meanwhile South Korea outsources to Indonesia for an even cheaper price 😌

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the unsung heroes

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I think we may have a winner for #地味ハロウィン #MundaneHalloween from Indonesia this year 😭✨ "Street food vendor whose thumb went inside the soup he's selling."

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I love how nonbinary identities are getting more visibility in Indonesia 🥰 I know there are dangers that come with it, but let me celebrate our existence if only for a bit 💛🤍💜🖤

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Chris Derek dan Reymi menceritakan pengalaman mereka sebagai warga non-biner di Indonesia. Sementara Dr. L. Ayu Saraswati, associate professor di University of Hawaii Manoa, menjelaskan perbedaan antara gender dan orientasi seksual. Selengkapnya 👉

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"Your past doesn't define your future." Kenapa sih masih ngotot ini perkara past? Yg dimasalahin itu pengancaman dan pembungkamannya. Yg masa kaku tuh sebagian kecil aja. Masa gitu aja lo bebal?

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Happy Eid al-Fitr. I hope you find it in yourself to forgive your past mistakes and current patterns of reacting from places of trauma this Eid. I hope you allow yourself the space for being unable to forgive certain things. It's okay. You're not a bad person.

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I don't think people realize how deeply embedded the Israeli-Palestinian conflict is in the heads of many around the world. Most don't even understand the real nature of the conflict and simply internalize anti-Semitism, Islamophobia, or both, since a very young age.

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5. Mengasumsikan kemungkinan keadaan netral dan memungkiri peran ketimpangan relasi kuasa dalam kekerasan seksual. Kewaspadaan bukanlah solusi untuk hubungan eksploitatif di mana korban sudah ditempatkan dalam posisi rentan tanpa kesetaraan sejak awal.

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🚨 URGENT 🚨 A trans friend got his tuition money stolen in an incident of transphobic abuse. We need to raise $1,250 before Friday, Aug 26th, for him to remain in university. You can donate to PayPal bonni (dot) rambatan (at) gmail (dot) com to help. RTs appreciated

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"Nadiyah menggiring opini seolah baru terjadi." Oh honey, ini jadi gede emang gara2 yg baru terjadi, yaitu Karin flexing pengacara dst. Lo lihat siapa yang masalahin empat taon lalu? Basi kali, itu awal doang. Masalahnya tuh bukan nyuri tapi membungkam. Gitu aja gak nyadar?

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Dalam rangka #Pride2021 aku pengen bikin utas 101 yang aku update tiap hari tentang tema terkait ah 🥰🏳️‍⚧️🏳️‍🌈 Aku bikin dalam Bahasa Indonesia agar lebih mudah dipahami untuk allies yg ingin belajar. Kalau ada pertanyaan silakan komen atau DM 💬💌

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Yes I know it was a shitpost but this is my area of research and I can't help it.

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@BradAbdul @jm_steger @_TallieRose Much more exciting than cisformers!

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Replying "Go talk to my lawyer": ❌ overused ❌ playground bully attitude ❌ makes you sound like a coward Replying "I seem to have broken my blood oath": ✅ dark & mysterious ✅ exudes integrity ✅ displays courage meant for comic book superheroes

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Spent the day decorating my new living space 🥰🌸🧚🏻‍♀️🌈✨ slowly becoming the cottagecore lesbian of my dreams 🌳🍄🌻🌲🌺🍃🌷🌿

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tw // kekerasan seksual, bunuh diri Aku kenal banyak orang yang bernasib nggak jauh beda dari NW. Kebanyakan dari mereka selamat percobaan bunuh diri berulang kali. Kebanyakan dari mereka masih memikirkan mati setiap hari.

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Do you ever get called weird because you have two opposite traits at the same time? Selfless yet egocentric, grandiose yet lacking in self esteem, sensitive yet tactless, routine-obsessed yet sloppy, etc? I get these all the time and looks like I've found an explanation 🧵 (1/8)

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I muted this thread but it's taking off huh :o You guys might also be interested in my rebuttals for the "green NFT" argument:

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This article has been making the rounds to defend crypto art, and to be honest it makes some points well worth engaging with. So let's unpack the arguments a bit 🧵

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7. Mengaburkan prioritas solusi. "Ya kan bisa aja edukasi jalan, waspada juga tetap." Ini melanggengkan paralel timpang antara gejala struktur yang rusak dengan kebutuhan perubahan struktural, diwarnai ragam asumsi problematik poin 1-6 di atas.

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People who slut-shame, look down on sex workers, call casual sex "gross", and blame addicts for their substance abuse all fail to grasp the larger violence propagated by their moralistic reduction: seeing the body as a site of policing.

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Indonesian independence day is pretending we are free from the colonialism of the Global North so we can use this as a pretext to further our own colonization of West Papua.

Veronica Koman 許愛茜

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Indonesia's annual obsession to Indonesianize West Papua in the lead-up to Independence Day (17 Aug): fully armed soldiers erect Indonesian flags along the road from Tembagapura (Freeport) to Banti, Kimbeli, and Opitawak Villages.

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tw// death, transphobia I wrote a trans poem today. If you've contemplated death, or have ever lost a trans loved one, I'm dedicating this for you.

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"Sama sekali tidak ada korelasinya antara kesalahan aku di masa lalu dengan kegiatan2 sosial yg coba aku tekuni akhir-akhir ini." Newsflash Bambang lo kira kita enggan mendukung pelanggar HAM berpolitik atau penjahat perang yg bikin amal tanpa pernah minta maaf tuh kenapa?

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Happy to announce that your girl's joined up with the amazing people at @NewNaratif 🔥✨

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Aku koreksi dikit utasnya bagian ini, ya. Poin 3 ini bukan sex tapi AGAB atau gender yang diberikan saat lahir. Sex memang mengacu pada struktur biologis, tapi yang perlu diperhatikan ada dua hal: - sex adalah spektrum - sex bisa berubah sepanjang kita hidup Sebuah utas 🧵

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3. sex: identitas milik orang sesuai dengan waktu mereka dilahirin. kalo waktu lahir berkontol ya cowo, kalo waktu lahir bermeki ya cewe, bisa juga intersex alias gak jelas sexnya apa karena kelainan (CMIIW).

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In more ways than one! Early manga took cues from Disney. American culture (e.g. pro wrestling) was imported specifically because they won the war, and the Japanese had to make counter-narratives. The cultural dynamics were fascinating!

Siska F. Amity 🏳️‍⚧️

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@bonni07 so basically USA is the reason why kawaii culture exist?

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Happy Trans Day of Visibility! 🏳️‍⚧️ It's my first #TDoV as a transnonbinary, so let me celebrate with this selfie I like before posting some thoughts on things 🧵 1/9

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When you feel really alone, please remember that it's likely because those who went through what you did never made it out alive. So thank you for being here. Your existence is one more light of hope for others you might never know. Let's stay alive for each other.

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Wanna see a magical girl transformation sequence? 💕🧚🏻‍♀️🪄 2018 🌸 2019 🌸 2020 🌸 2021 ✨

Jasmine('s boobs hurt)

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Wanna see a magic trick? 💫 2018 => 2019 => 2020 = 2021

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To the girl with the gorgeous dyed hair at the bookstore who came over to me only to compliment my looks and pride pins and thank me for being visibly queer before rushing off, you have no idea how much you've made my evening 💘🥺🌈✨

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Hey my Indo mutuals. Please ake a break from Twitter if it's too much. Lots of nasty tweets seem to be passing through the mute filters. Quote tweets can't seem to be filtered properly. It sucks. I'm so sorry this is happening again. Please take care of yourselves.

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Orang jahat itu kebanyakan waras, cuma privileged aja. Orang gila itu kebalikannya: ga berdaya, terstigmatisasi, dipenjarakan lembaga ini itu. Banyak orang gila yang jauh lebih baik dan nggak bakalan bertingkah kayak tiga orang yang lagi ramai dibahas ini.

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Being an ally doesn't mean you think queer people are all angels, but it does mean acknowledging that queer assholes exist, and it's probably because they're assholes, not because they're queer. Toxicity is not inherent in identity.

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Forgiveness is such a tricky thing. Time heals but also time can make you more aware of what was happening. What you thought was forgiveness might have been self-censorship and undue tolerance to suffering.

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"Sudah DM dengan baik-baik." Terlepas dari ini guyon atau bukan, ada kekuatan sosial luar biasa dan pengikut fanatik jadi faktor besar di sini. Dari awal tuh duduknya sudah nggak seimbang. Ini nyuri permen anak SD terus bilang "Lo gak tau bapak gue sapa?!"

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Tambahan: perlindungan diri dgn senjata dan bela diri itu gapapa banget! Yang dimasalahin di sini adalah narasi tentang solusinya. Melindungi diri itu jelas untuk bertahan, bukan sebagai solusi atas kekerasan. Lakukan cara apapun untuk bertahan hidup!

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I don't know who needs to hear this but just because someone is traumatized it doesn't mean you have to tolerate their abusive behavior towards you. The validity of their suffering does not legitimize any of their toxicity. It's okay to walk away. You don't have to be the hero.

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Trans girlfriend Bonnibel lv.35 🌟🎂🏳️‍⚧️

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Yes, it's as bad as it sounds. We don't even dare to fight for trans rights or gay rights because we're now at a point in history where women's rights not to be raped is still a topic of debate, in a country where pedophilia is defended and joked about and perpetrated by cops.

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i mean it's not my fault i am given this much access to the means of production that i can use to accumulate wealth from the surplus value of your labor so that you stay poor c'mon man i got here through hard work just not my own ok

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