Oh hey, I'm at 80 followers now apparently so uh...
this account is a safespace for
- littles (of all forms)
- all good faith queer identities
- endogenic systems
- therians/otherkin etc
- self-diagnosed neurodivergence
and anything else I can't think of rn
@grassfay
Before and in-case anyone comes in here and says how: straight trans people and heteroromantic ace people just to name the first 2 to come to my head in under a minute
@jimdenning42063
@sanareplyguy
the point is that OP wants to control what consenting adults can and can't do with each other because they're just a fascist with a red coat of paint
I love when transfem twitter seems to have a meltdown over a not conventionally feminine trans woman being drawn and shared by a transmasc but there's nothing for the TERFs that do it hatefully every other day, it definitely doesn't reek of internalised misogyny and transphobia
@Despair2077
yeah, youth liberation is such an important fight but almost nobody takes it seriously even in left spaces, saying its something only a 12 year old would think up. Society's idea of maturity is to be complacent with the world and to fight for change is childish
@StarMoonBoi
Speaking as an ace person totally disinterested in sex, yeah no this is just an excuse for puritan BS. If porn of your comfort character makes you uncomfortable, turn on safesearch etc when looking for art of them or blame the algorithm showing you that, not the creator making it
@DreadPirateEsk
@grassfay
Why does it matter? If someone chooses to describe their experiencing het attraction as straight while still being queer that's up to them. I see what you're saying but trying to say someone can't identify as "queer straight" gives the same vibes as being anti-mspec IMO
@W1SERIPTIDE
@IsabellaScar2
you don't get to decide that. Nobody does except the person in question. Queer labels don't exist to fit us into some rigid boxes, that's cishet shit. Queer means weird, let people be queer queerly
@genderfuckdoom
"op would literally be either queer or bi" how about you shut up trying to police how others identify for fuck's sake? We're queer, we should be better than this. As long as someone's identity is in good faith, who is anyone but said person to give a fuck?
I hate to say it but when y'all are like this, acting like a drawing of a "non-op" trans woman with facial hair is "evil", you are not only doing what the TERFs say we do, conforming heavily to some BS gender norms, but alienating a lot of GNC trans folks from trusting you
@notsaries
@miakanaiko
bi transfem with a bi transfem gf here. Y'all are biphobic clowns and don't belong in queer spaces if you're gonna keep being bigoted to other queer people
@JessPected
not to mention that "I probably remind you of somebody" why do they think its an "own" if the woman you're talking to was abused by/has trauma relating to her father? I mean I know why, its blatant misogyny and patriarchy but still
Endo systems and self diagnosis are awesome BTW, they cause zero to negligible harm to """real""" plural/autistic/adhd people. If you complain about them you're no better than a transmed/truscum. Same with "weird" queer identities and "cringe" minority people
how are we supposed to fight for liberation when you're all throwing a hissy fit over a "TME theyfab" creating a drawing of what some transfems look like? oh wait NVM most of y'all are probably libshits anyway
@sevikittty
I agree its not inherently bigoted but it depends on why someone feels that way, if a lesbian doesn't want to date a bi woman because of equating biness with promiscuity, polyamory etc then yes that's biphobic but if its just because another lesbian could relate better, its fine
@umaenot
she's not a "bearded she-gorilla", she's a drawing of a GNC trans woman OC based on the artist's friend, y'all are intentionally misinterpretting this to feed your insecurities and internalised misogyny and transphobia ISTG
@GunHeritage
@vanillaopinions
Even if it is true, have you considered that some people don't care what your god thinks? the original bible only described hell as a permanent state of being away from god, if that god is homophobic/transphobic I don't wanna be anywhere near him
@IsabellaScar2
The only "rule" to queerness really should be to just use labels in good faith. The arguments against mspec and man lesbians are typically either repackaged terf arguments, clinging to definitions that use racist terminology or excluding all enbies
@KailuaPig
one of the most abled takes alongside "ew people get so depressed they don't shower?", "just go outside/eat healthy" and "well if person B can do it why can't you"
@d3xthymia
but remember mspec and trans man lesbians are the queerphobes riiight? definitely not the people with the same roots as TERFism, wishing harm and death upon other queer people and claiming said queer folks are promoting corrective rape and conversion therapy. Literally just TERFs
@Saeko_Cut
average JoyMoone take, when people talk about white trans women having a nazi issue, she's exhibit A. Member of a strange clique of anti-transmasculine and assimilationist trans women
@MAGICALGAYMERS
also the whole thing with them being apex predators is part of why you'd want an indoor cat, to stop them killing local wildlife as predators that aren't part of the area's natural ecosystem
@adamfare1996
I'm convinced lazy doesn't exist and is just an idea made up by the rich to punish the poor for being burnt out or exhausted by being "productive" constantly or unable to be "productive" at all
@mydeardoxy
"Both of them are attracted to the other, not realizing they're the opposite gender (so, very bi4bi)."
Oh my god my first assumption when people were saying "if only it was yuri" was right. It's yuri AND yaoi /j
@lilestradiol
I define myself as confusingly as possible for the typical cishet and I love it: genderfucked girlboy bisexual sapphic achillean asexual lesboy
@YuniPo9
I'm going to be generous and assume you're unaware, "degenerate" is a word that has roots in white supremacy, it etymologically means to become less than one's own race. It's use was both racist and to paint queer and disabled folks as lesser. It's a fascist term we shouldn't use
MUSK: I was tricked into giving puberty blockers to my son. These are sterilization drugs. My son Xavier is dead. They call it deadnaming for a reason. Killed by the woke mind virus. This is the reason I vowed to destroy the woke mind virus.
@Captn_hawk
checked their account and first thing I see is ofc they retweeted something "I'm not anti-mask but"
of course the person who thinks outdoor cats are fine also thinks requiring masks at a busy con to protect immunocompromised folks is "a little much" and "its been 4 years"
@womanofwolf
isn't queen TERF being sued for perpetuating misogyny and racism against a cysgender woman of colour because she was deemed too masculine to be a "real woman"?
@IsabellaScar2
the death wishes and rapistjacketing of complex queer identities, these folks are making it hard to distinguish them from TERFs and more broad queerphobes. Really just mask off victim-blaming and shit at this point
@CaelanConrad
"stable partnerships" just say what we all know you mean Brianna, married and monogamous
also "productive members of society" lmao knowing her that's absolutely a dogwhistle for disabled, ND and mad folks. Time to pack it in guys, Brianna said we can't be queer
@umaenot
a trend of what? transmascs being better allies to GNC transfems than gender conforming trans women are? y'all having a persecution complex fuelled by internalised misogyny, transphobia and your other insecurities? 'cause that's all I've seen
@adamfare1996
my AuDHD is small routines, doing things in a specific order, bringing specific things when I go out etc but any big rigid routine would burn me out so quickly
Even so, someone interrupting my plans always irritates me
@badinfinity2
I'm convinced doctors are as bad as cops, the only reasons its not discussed are their targets are often disabled/neurodivergent folks who often get ignored and that we need medical practitioners and it's a difficult and messy conversation to have about how to fix it
this sure looks fantastic doesn't it, calling an OC based on an actual trans woman a "bearded she-gorilla" and wondering how you could possibly misogynistic
@SkulkofRoses
... How are trans women misogynistic towards trans MEN?
Additionally: We cannot call in TERFs. We should be able to call in trans mascs.
Finally: you seem to agree the bearded she-gorilla drawings are indistinguishable from TERF "art".
@ranrampant
ISTG my "dad" would constantly tell me about plans 5 minutes before they fucking happen and it'd always throw me through a loop bc I already had planned to do XYZ in a game that day
@baking_homo_
@krxsctr
also its... a general pride lanyard, not a trans lanyard, they're really telling on themselves that they view all queer people as predators not just trans people at this point huh?
I am a trans woman, been on E for a year
You are transphobic. I am not going to "argue" with you because I know nothing will change your mind. You see trans women/men as an us vs them. You're taking your dysphoria and internalised transmisogyny and harrassing people because of it
every time shit like this gets posted, it’s she/theys or trans men that have never interacted with trans women in a healthy way. I will not even consider your argument unless you are also a trans woman. Trans men do not get to speak on this and whine about us being offended
@genderfuckdoom
3 most recent posts are this, whining about basically the same thing in a qrt of Isabella's post and telling JoCat to leave the internet again. Did he even do anything wrong or do people just have a problem with him being the queerest cyshet guy?
@Sasspiria
THIS! and unfortunately, all the big transfem accounts are siding with them saying he's a misogynist etc. Sure he could have used a much better example but hate for transmascs is such a big issue in trans circles and they're just proving his point
@subway_sys
ISTG equating trans men to MRAs and the whole "not all men" type shit is the biggest red flag for a JoyMoone/Benjanun clique member. I would say imagine saying this but swap trans with gay but no lesbians also think they can't be homophobic to gay men
@havikhavikhavik
its ironic these TIRFs call trans guys "birthday boys" and yet proceed to literally do the meme that's the source of the fucking phrase
@_____newt
"they don't want power" as a criticism of anarchism is such a joke because yes, no shit! power as you are referring to is inseperable from hierarchy, authority and oppression, all things that anarchists (or at least any worth their salt regarding that last one) fight against
@IsabellaScar2
once again before people start sounding like transmeds. None of this is saying *should*. Some trans people don't want to medically transition or can't even socially due to circumstances, doesn't make them any less trans. Enby identities can overlap with "man" and "woman"
@DreadedJai
oh hey ofc she's jumping in on this, I remember someone posting her saying that complex queer identities were anglocentric or something and I just... what in the fuck?
@adamfare1996
audiobooks are the like only way I'd be able to read almost any literature if I could afford to get a subscription or something. Otherwise, it's just visual novels, mostly because the music keeps my attention I think
unpopular opinion - you're a privileged ableist twat as is everyone who agrees with you. Even ignoring systemic medical bigotry that hinders diagnosis, the idea that a doctor knows your life and experiences better than you do is one of many ways "sane" society dehumanises madness
@Bubbles133714
@_Cosmic_Orion_
I was gonna say who's talking about grooming but oh yeah you're the type of freak who can't see a trans person without thinking of the porn you watch and therefore think trans minors are being groomed
@qualityghost
@KirbyCheatFurby
I remember being a kid and being paranoid Jeff was gonna be at my window so it became a habit of checking it at night for years
@americanfemcel
@genderfuckdoom
shut up transphobic "transmed", you do not speak for trans people who actually want liberation and not to keep licking doctors' boots begging for HRT and surgeries
@grassfay
honestly I think c!s radfems and hell, trans radfems are more of a danger to the average queer person than some "bi girl's straight bf" 99% of the time (twitter decided to nuke my first attempt at this bc I said the scary c word without censoring it)
@Pyonchitchi
I'm white as shit and one of my safe foods is spicy Indian curry lol. Like yes chips (bri'ish) are up there too but I need something spicy with them to actually enjoy it lol. Another is specifically cholula originally hot sauce on (usually) ready salted crisps
@TheRigLib
@Despair2077
no its not lmao nobody's asking for changes to the age of consent dipshit, we're saying kids deserve bodily autonomy and freedom to escape their parents if they're abusive pieces of shit like you probably are if you're opposed to kids being safer from parental abuse
@AliArthPainter
@Duskblossom
official diagnosis can also have more detriments than benefits given to you because of it, it being used against you in custody cases, immigration and the whole fiasco during covid, people with learning disabilities being given DNR's without their consent
@gayehudaism
@W1SERIPTIDE
@IsabellaScar2
yeaaah I'm not gonna take lessons on "reality and sense" from someone with america and israel's flags in their bio lmao. "sense" to you is bombing innocent civillians
@adamfare1996
the eugenics is obviously abhorrent and somehow worse in their other replies but the use of "MRDD" and "special needs" sure aren't helping either
@therapatical
I pointed out that a big name transfem account saying "trans men proving they're men" about that one tiktok is harmful and malgendering and got called some MRA bull for it
@adamfare1996
If done in a way that isn't causing environmental damage, it's probably relatively harmless but I do find it ironic that they call us obsessed with kids and sex when they're the ones throwing parties based around an unborn fetus' sex organs
@ultrarotom
I feel like it also reflects the bs we call maturity, which is often associated with complacency with one's place in the system and to be radical or to desire change is "childish", especially overt when the topic of youth liberation comes up IMO
@MahimikoUmbral
TBH this whole socialisation debate is such a mess to me because yea we're not "socialised" as our AGAB but we do have hands on experience being perceived as such. Trans men experience misogyny pre-transition and still often do when not recognised as men /1
@maritimesad
Hi, I am a genderfucked mess of a transfem. I'm simultaneously an achillean turigirl and a sapphic lesboy, though for brevity's sake I just call myself a bisexual girlboy. Both exist and queerness isn't meant to be defined by rigid rules. Don't like it? Leave queer spaces.
@C0smicJester
Every single time, same with exclusion of mspec and transmasc lesbians, including here since Polyanthems is a transmasc sapphic that they bullied back into the closet.
1:1 arguments with TERFism. "They're supporting corrective rape and conversion therapy" Sound familiar?
@nyaakoo_
@tragic_endings_
"grown men in fetishistic skirts" is transphobic because its almost 1:1 with the way terfs refer to trans women, even if she's referring to femboys with it, its a transmisogynistic dogwhistle, whether she realises that or not
@FatTony_txt
you're equating calling out the use of a nazi dogwhistle with "defending zionism" which NGL sounds kinda antisemitic and, frankly, like you're a nazi. IDK why I'd expect better from some tankie who thinks anarchism is "neolib" though.
@uglymarigold
bi lesbian here and I would date a queerly masculine or femboy c!s guy if I wasn't already in an ace bi transfem 4 ace bi transfem relationship
@The_Oyster
@XRPistheKING
@DevG1719
@AriDrennen
they clearly don't care about c'is women with masculine features or those who can't get pregnant clearly since both are constantly caught in the crossfire of their transphobia
@mycroftirl
I'm honestly just disappointed in my fellow transfems, falling into radfem ways and hurting our brothers like this, what ever happened to solidarity?