This is an opportunity to share my story.
I have the same physical condition as her’s however I will not belittle her experience because she is a female. We are not the same, our experience in the dating world is quite unique and different.
Here is my story
The point I knew that ur teachings and my father’s teachings are same is when I was about resigning from my job of 10years because I am not seeing financial improvement. Having being in a year courtship.
I told my partner I’m resigning without having another means of income yet.
If you're in a good relationship or marriage, think of every good experience & blessing you've had in it, in the opposite direction.
Then you'll understand how Àgbà came up with his several teachings.
I've one wife, never divorced & I dated only one woman seriously.
End.
I just had plans.
She said “if it is your decision and you e prayed about it, I support it laslas we go drink garri together till God come through for us”
Omoh! My confidence rise from -20 and jump to 100 in a secs.
Get a woman before your breakthrough so you can filter them.
I am the most ripped guy out of all the watersport guys that I work with.
I have the most accolades.
So for her to see herself and defining herself by her disability is the begging of the end.
But pls, read this and know that you are not alone, you are a normal human being
My own customer base.
To cut the story short,
I am in my late 20’s still practicing my skill which 2degree in mechanical engineering while earning above 1m monthly.
I am sharing this to bring the fact that there’s no DISABILY but THIS-ABILITY.
@onye_wilie
The problem I see here is not the lie or the r
@pe
situation.
It’s her attributing her failure to get a man to her disability.
That’s a low self esteem.
Practically she will have to bring more to the table than normal woman, however that low self esteem can’t help her
@_seyi__
@Dmatterarising
@FunmiKolz
The first link you added:
It is a data gotten by a platform or community that has to do with single-Female breadwinners.
This buttressed my point.
It is not a Fact based on Family’s
@thaenigma_
@_seyi__
@Dmatterarising
@FunmiKolz
Exactly 21% not most of the households.
And Note: Household needs to be described. Is it one with the Father or Without the father.
Because even single parents is running a household
@_seyi__
@Dmatterarising
@FunmiKolz
Your second link is redirecting and I cannot make any good information out of it.
However the 3rd link conducted a research in just one state of the federation and also with 160 questionnaires.
I.e less than 1% of population of the country.
Please naw…..
I found this out at a teenage age that whatever I put my mind to I can achieve.
With this knowledge getting older,
I have explore all that normal fit men do. Gym (I’m current the heaviest lifter amongst our staff)
I am undefeated arm wrestler here in the sport department
I was also injected wrongly at age 2 while infected with polio.
It affected my right leg, as I lingered when I walk.
This restricted my mobility and ability to play with my pairs while I was younger, couldn’t catch up to them in athleticism, with the help of dad (a mechanic)
I was able to find love with repair of engines at age 3C fell in love with the work while schooling.
I became so good with academics and with the technical part
At JSS 2 (age 14)I started earning same as my match teacher with my private jobs, I had my own tools, my own apprentic
@HeartOfGod_LOVE
I’m not focusing on that part. If I do it means I’m hyping the problem. I’m only trying to make her see the root of her issue which is underestimating herself first.
Defeating her own self is the foundation of her failure.
Nothing can be done with that level of self esteem
@Shez_Weird
@Ozo__Ude
@iam_feranmiii
Omoh! This generation are gullible 🤦♂️
The ideology that destroyed the great west is now here.
Similarly, they all let it be “minding their business” until they start influencing the laws of inclusivity and liberalism.
God help us all
And still…
Nigeria and camera share the same bother and so the same strength.
The Love from both Kamaru Usman and Francis is real and rear.
#FrancisNgannou
#UFC270
@USMAN84kg
@ufc
Hello 👋
My name is Odunayo, a Polio patient since 3years old (I’ve learnt to embrace my weakness) and now in my early 20’s.
At the beach last week and a photographer walk up to me and said “Bros (with a smile on his face) you will make a wonderful model allow me take your photo
@BigOsCrypt
@etiki11
1. Yes I agree the video is unnecessary
2. I disagree with your second point, it’s been 5hrs already dragging this. If it’s a problem of flat battery for iPhone, solution won’t take an hr. The fact is she cannot afford the meal herself
3. Then I will say conversation of how….
@01percentman
@Shadaya_Knight
Well said!
I have an opinion that we are all missing.
Yes other women shame women that exhibit the femininity they lacked.
But!
Men don’t shame other men that exhibit great aura of masculinity. Rather they want to be one
This difference is a vital notion to be highlighted!
@1o1Ryukski
@The_Uro_Guy
@Nhlokololo
Give her more practical and proactive advice.
1. Dress well
2. Go out more
3. Be intentional about what men want that you can provide, cook, be feminine,
4 don’t want a man, need him
5. Move to areas where good guys
Etc. that can get her a man.
But none
@justkency
@Wizarab10
Same card played by the previous administration. Claiming they will fix PDP caused problems.
If 8months is not enough to get it fixed.
Kuku leave the problem as e be
@JojoNitq
1. Exchange rate
2. Lack of capital
3. Lack of British phonetics to woo my crush
4. Lack of trust
5. Lack of beards
6. Lack of social amenities the modern women craves for
7. I am a virgin 🙈
The point I knew that ur teachings and my father’s teachings are same is when I was about resigning from my job of 10years because I am not seeing financial improvement. Having being in a year courtship.
I told my partner I’m resigning without having another means of income yet.
As a professional who has worked over 14years on power generating machines.
It is one of the safest, and most economical methods of generating electric energy.
Infact, industry have employed this tech for over 15-20years now and it has been safe. There have been several fire
Sorry to ask- but how do you use “gas to on a generator”? How is that done? And why will anybody with a brain think it is safe or sensible to attempt such?
@justkency
@Wizarab10
😂
Your are projecting on Peter Obi.
The fact and truth of the matter is that you cannot predict he will do same thing or make same decisions and policies.
You can only assume.
But the reality is that this current government is failing big time.
@Shez_Weird
@Ozo__Ude
@iam_feranmiii
difference is that
Bob is breaking the law “display of sexual activities between same sex” it is not only immoral but criminal
The other is an immoral son of a gun I mean VDM. He is not publicly encouraging young boys to follow his past path.
But bob is encouraging young boys
Agba I don’t think it’s because they are not neat
It is more like they are egalitarian in nature
Generally females have no sense of structural hierarchy without the male presence.
Unlike men, without any spoken words, we size each other up and identify the strongest and listen
@molarasauce
@chapraine_c
Ok.
How does she telling women to dress well and decently becomes demeaning women?
If a man says this, you people will say man should not talk.
Now this woman is speaking our minds, now she’s demeaning women.
Everybody go dey okay sha.
Last I checked 80% of men cheats
@SpiceyLexy
@hardreder
@Queen_Aeesha
@Big_Yem
The world doesn’t work when we standardize personal choices and individual preferences.
The world works on generality and reality.
Generally if due to lack of good English you leave a man or turn him off then you don’t love him.
End
+1
🎈🎈🎈
I’ve looked around,
Tried to Walk uphill
Even Scaled mountains
Yet have I not found
The one as unique as Me.
Today is that day again…
To celebrate that same me…
With uniqueness unparalleled!
Happy birthday to me and me!
@uncleEtim
@etiki11
Nope he’s not.
Majority of men in Nigeria earns below 100k monthly.
That’s over 10% of a typical Nigeria man
You can fact check bro.
He’s not broke
He’s a normal guy
@Iam_UV0
@thejajaking
@steadydey
@Views09
@PelarIdan
Ah!!!
My brother/sister I thought the same until I wanted to take a lady seriously and to my parent then I automatically went to reset mode and asking various question and making research of her past. It is a reflex action and biologically rooted in our consciousness.
@arojinle1
@Vivikupa
@_Deejay07
Baba mi.
You no need to exclaim!
You are morally sound and could correct add or or two together.
As if we all no get back sheep for our family and we see how our parents scold them, sometimes mistakenly curse them paapaa and the rest of us are treated like kings and queens
@LawrenzoOmotayo
@mrtownjnr
@SimonOgbonna3
@officialABAT
So,
That’s an excuse to keep the country sinking?
Let’s be decisive if we still want this country to remain this way.
My vote is for PO, not because he’s the Saviour, but the qualified candidate physically, mentally and psychologically
@Talesofa9jagirl
@Wizarab10
All the ladies have similar storyline as well.
All!
No lady stayed at her friends place and something happened.
If you have any, let them come here
@Wizarab10
@JumiaNigeria
Almost 1million naira goods not delivered and not refunded since 27th of October. Even after several complaints.
You have me 16 m business hrs 3days ago. Nothing.
Even after chatting you up several times you refuse to respond.
@swan_d_poet
@5back2
@Princemoye1
Exactly…..
For a public servant to be this ignorant of how to respond and let his emotions take charge is so demoralizing.
He was one of the people that made he have faith that Policing can be great again.
But his response lately is a verbal show of excessive force
@baddest_cash
@mrcollinsken
The lord will comfort you in all areas.
We all have gone through heart aches before and we are back stronger even loving 🥰 more than ever before.
That’s the testimony, this too shall pass.
@BigChiefKiz
@GrooverEben
@d_Nwandu
@Mrpossidez
lol
Omo Nigeria hard.
The guy is just saying.
“You are not a trad man”
But you “stated trad values and they are not negotiable”
That to me as well is the real definition of read men
@justkency
@Wizarab10
I don’t know much about them. But
During his tenure is same as Fashola.
I remembered vividly how Fashola was working and redefining governance, yet! Obi was awarded Best governor ahead of Fashola. That speaks volume
@mbachuzara
@andre_sixone
@unusualBrit
How did that make him unfortunate like you?
Even dangote and otedola is more successful than your entire lineage, in the men’s world it is a normal thing that someone will be more successful.
@Shez_Weird
@Ozo__Ude
@iam_feranmiii
I just told you the difference and yet you are still not seeing it.
What did you disagree with what I explain above?
I want to have a genuine conversation with you
After reading all of this epistle.
I say congratulations, next year there will be more because you will have to mention Taye and Kehinde in the write up.
Happy wedding anniversary.
The oil of gladness upon your home will never run dry. Amen 🙏
@TANIMOLA_2
@Ozo__Ude
@thatverydarkman
Bro.
On this bob issue, he speaking for all Nigerians.
You can come for him with other things. But on this bob issue we all should come out against sexual immorality. Or else the price will be heavy
@Ladiawotinde
@SavvyRinu
You need to understand that it’s about the livelihood of the people.
Let’s fact check something.
USA (which is a standard measure generally accepted)
Fuel price/liter = 0.956usd (446naira & 600naira black market)
Average wage/earnings in the USA = 6,288usd (2.8mill & 4.6mill)
@CHI_funmii
@jon_d_doe
The funny thing is how she first see herself that way.
I understand that the value a woman brings is beauty first and then nurturing, however she should not see herself in that manner.
I am in similar physical condition as her, was wrongly injected at age 2. Which render the
@Brighttez1
@MannieTradez
@TokyosBite
If a bad bitch says I am a baddie!!
Do you see any motives behind that?
If she says, imma dress for me while showing her boobs, would you say she is condescending the All dressed up people?
Flip the scrip and see how you guys are wrong for coming at her.
@PastorMarvy
Got it boss!
However anyone who earn 3k usd monthly have more purchasing power than people who earn 1million naira monthly sir.
On this you are wrong respectfully.
However the next question is how many earn 1mill naira monthly in 9ja or that 500k?
Are they majority?
Etc?
Yoruba m:
Bi ina o ba tan l’aso, eje kii tan leekanna
English:
As long as lice remain on one’s clothes, blood can’t cease from one’s finger nails…….Yoruba Proverb!
#Dont_Quit
💪
@Omooba_nimi
@silvertuke
@realFFK
Let’s say you are correct (which I disagree)
Tell me about the last elections.
The ballot box snatching didn’t start 5 elections ago. Tell me about that.
Tell about the elimination of Funsho Williams as well, is it also about the entire Yoruba people.
Speak for yourself
@BlessedGirl001
@Slimxy_Paul
Exactly where you run to.
“We all see things differently”
“In my opinion”
“I feel like”
In the face of objective facts and reality.
Person pray for you and add small joke, you called it disrespectful!
How is that in anyway disrespectful?
Like take some time and things
@ogujohnugo
Don't mind the critics, your humble spirit brings togetherness of the team, whether playing or not, we need you in that team.
Future captain
@floofydoodlez
@MohWorldent
@Solomon_Buchi
Because it doesn’t add to the parents or the life of the child.
They are elderly people, dem using those words are due to the state of their emotions. They don’t mean it.
Focusing on that is ignorant of the fact that they are not happy.
@iamOLR
It is a two edge sword bro.
The beginning of my journey is what I tagged “no mercy”
As a man, no one will come and save you. Even as a physically disabled person.
Life is unfair, no one is coming to save her unless she save herself first.
@TrentahRaihanah
@jon_d_doe
Madam, preach.
The truth is bitter.
Don’t judge - Na so America became one of the most useless society today.
Abeg speak your mind and educate women to make right choices and be comfortable with its consequences.
@uncommon_chic
Wow!!!
Then you don’t have an idea how the world works.
I have been influenced by the likes of Christino Ronaldo on hardwork.
Dwane Johnson in fitness, My POP on engineering, Bidemi Olaoba in gospel music.
We all get influenced one way or another.
Am I not adult enough?
@bolanleap
collision course is an epic movie with real life vibes that makes you hold your breath waiting for the next scene.
Great work by
@etimeffiong_
sir, kudos for a job welldone.
It’s been long I see emotional movie.
To the fallen hero’s of
#EndSARS
@NetflixNaija