Years ago on Twitter I saw Feminista Jones clap back at someone who was disparaging her informed commentary with these words and I've never wished I could pin someone else's tweet more and so I went ahead and made this:
My mother passed away this morning after a long stay in the ICU. Please make dua that she will be reunited with my father in the Hereafter - it was her dearest wish in the 19 years since he passed away.
At this point in time the only SJB politician whose social media presence I have any respect for is Harsha De Silva. Mans knows how to tweet and when to tweet and how to read a bloody room.
@dgiritharan
Ma'am can I ask you what on earth possessed you to put this thought out on the internet because while I kind of get your intention you are being so very reductive and dismissive of the struggles and oppression that Tamil people in Sri Lanka are facing to this day.
I'm not on speaking terms with my mother, haven't been since January, I've been rebuffed every time I reached out. After a lifetime of trying and failing to earn her approval, I'm tired. Holding space today for those of us whose relationships with our mothers are far from happy.
Perhaps this is an unpopular opinion, but I will neither condone nor condemn the rage and frustration that is spilling over from the public. I am going to reserve my righteous moral indignation for the politicians, oligarchs, and war criminals who created this situation, thanks.
Attn international publications: this is why you should hire brown people to write about their own food and culture - that's how you get this kind of Excellence!
"At the moment we have to calm down, we have given the message, Govt has to take action now, Keep on protesting nothing is going to happen, it will affect tourism" Murali speaks to
@NewsX
on
#SriLankaCrisis
Full :
Unlike Gotabaya, Mahinda is an excellent speaker and a charismatic one at that. So the fact that they've pulled him out now is both a desperate ploy and their best hand to play. Don't fall for his bullshit.
Anyone else just fucking fatigued by the endless stream of bullshit from this government to the point that you can't even raise the energy for a token protest? Because I am past anger in pure hopelessness at this point and when they come for me as they surely will I'll go quietly
@Karnythia
Someone in the comments pointed out that he posted the same q in a Muslim Marriage sub and if he's Muslim he has no grounds for complaint. Muslim tradition is "his money is ours, her money is hers" - a man must provide, a woman gets to decide what she does with her earnings. 🤷🏾
So it turns out that my revisions were accepted at the end of June and I was notified of this at the start of July and because moving consumed my entire life I hadn't fucking read the email AKSJDJS BUT ANYWAY GUESS WHO'S 100% A DOCTOR OF PHILOSOPHY NOW
(As a Tamil refugee whose family fled because of the civil war and attendant miseries and thus likely have no good memories of what its like to be Tamil in Sri Lanka, Maitreyi Ramakrishnan has every right to reject a Sri Lankan identity ya absolute boobies)
Today marks 18 years since my father passed away. This is from his 50th, the last birthday he celebrated at home.
I'm eight here. I was twelve when he passed. I am thirty now. I wish he was here to tell me what he thinks of who I've become. I wish he were here to get to know me.
Dear men who are very upset about clubs with free entry for women: that's club owners trying to offer women incentive to get into clubs. The logic is that having more women in a club will draw more men, and the markups on drinks will cover it. That's capitalism, not privilege.
I am truly tired of seeing people being like "don't bring up this race/ethnic/religious stuff now let's focus on the one thing we can tackle those later" and like, when, sir? Can I get a timeline? Because we've been waiting for the better part of a fucking century
This is your casual reminder that Tom Hiddleston is actually blond, Chris Hemsworth is actually brunet, Benedict Cumberbatch is actually ginger, Idris Elba is actually perfect and Taika Waititi is actually not a pile of rocks.
@PSamarasan
I liver in Malaysia for 6 years and the Bumiputera system shocked me to my core. I come from Sri Lanka which has an obvious history of ethnic conflict but even we have equality on paper. Malaysia doesn't even have that.
Last Eid-ul-Fitr was tense and uncomfortable because Mama had just found out
@Corvus_Ignifer
and I were getting married. On Eid-ul-Adha I went back home to visit and ask her forgiveness. This Eid-ul-Fitr, Alhamdulillah, we're both headed over to spend Eid with her. Allahu akbar.
(anecdote: whenever I tweet about Muslim issues I always get a inrush of new Muslim followers, only to lose most of them again when they figure out that they just followed a gay feminist who refuses to not call herself Muslim)
We battle the most serious economic crisis ever faced, which the whole world is undergoing.
The queues are not only limited to Sri Lanka.
The raging cost of living is not only in Sri Lanka.
The global crisis is now affecting us.
#WeAreWithGota
#lka
Folks are rolling their eyes at the dhal and canned fish thing but speaking from experience one tin has 3 pieces of fish, that's protein for 3-6 meals, add a tomato and a few spices and you have fish curry for a couple days, dhal is ever versatile, mix it up with eggs or soya ...
@dgiritharan
There are so, so many other ways in which you could have said "The Rajapaksas have hurt the Sinhalese community too" without carelessly dismissing the real oppression and discrimination that Tamils and other communities are living in Sri Lanka right now.
Was looking through family albums today and found this picture - from the mid90s! - of Mama and Dada dressed up for a wedding. I don't remember the last time my mother looked this happy. May they be reunited in Jannah, ameen.
My mother passed away this morning after a long stay in the ICU. Please make dua that she will be reunited with my father in the Hereafter - it was her dearest wish in the 19 years since he passed away.
Today is the 19th anniversary of my father's sudden and unexpected death.
I am not doing well. I never do well around this date, but it is worse this year. I don't have the words to explain why, I'm sorry.
I'm going to log off for a while. Maybe the rest of the month. Be well.
Been watching Muslim Twitter lose its mind over Andrew Tate allegedly accepting Islam and it strikes me as incredibly telling how so many Muslims are more willing to accept this misogynist woman-beating sex trafficker as a fellow Muslim than, say, a non-hijabi queer woman like me
Only in freelance design do you get clients who after 3 rounds of brand development and updates decide that because they aren't happy with the work done they want the advance back and threaten to take you to the cops when you point out the "nonrefundable" clause in the invoice
Idk why I hadn't blocked Champika Ranawaka before but I've blocked him now. Idc how much the man is trying to rehabilitate his image, I for one haven't forgotten how he got here with his ethnonationalist base. He might be opposition now but he's cut from the same cloth as the Rs.
Today makes it 17 years since Dada died. At this point, my grief is like an old familiar piece of furniture that's been around so long you don't really think about it - but sometimes, you stub your toe on it, and then you remember.
I've been stubbing my toe a lot, lately.
Probably the most infuriating bloody response to the fuel crisis is the people who are like "cycle to work! improve your health!" like bitch have you considered that added energy expenditure on top of inadequate nutrition is going to offset all your imagined health benefits
A big Thank you to all hard-working Sri Lankan taxpayers from Basil Rajapaksa and his family, for buying them 4x business/first class tickets to America at a cost of Rs. 3,272,367 each, totaling Rs 13,089,468. Fare was paid in cash to Hemas/Forbes on Monday itself.
This is a deeply disingenuous comment.
A sixth sense is not required to extrapolate from facts and historical records. The ordinary five, plus the application of reason and logic, will suffice.
But that requires one to be sufficiently motivated - and let's face it, most weren't.
[CW frustrated rant]
I'm not central to or important in the GGG or Aragalaya movements but as a citizen supporter can everyone please stop acting like none of this has anything to do with politics
The protests are attempting to influence governance
THAT IS INHERENTLY POLITICAL
Buying groceries - online, because it's cheaper to order than take a tuk up and down. This is my cart right now: Rs. 700 for just 2 loaves of bread and 6 eggs.
We are comfortably middle-class, have a good, functional fridge, and can afford these prices. What of people who can't?
Sanjiva ප්ලීස් දැන් බබා part දාං එන්න එපා. This is the regime you cheered and defended and campaigned for. No one wants or cares for your Johnny-come-lately indignation and concern for minorities. I know you don't know how to search things so here's a reminder for you:
This is disgustingly unbelievable
@ReAdSarath
. So if the protestors go against Sinhala Buddhist culture we won’t tolerate that but if they go against say Tamil Hindu culture that’s cool with you?
WTF- you’re minister of Public Security, not minister of Sinhala Buddhist Security!
This has been quite a Sunday on the TL; quite a Sunday for the country. Here's to hoping this doesn't fizzle out; that people stay angry and stay motivated; that we get through this and the Rajapaksas don't. This is my dua for tonight. Ameen, ameen, ameen.
@thinker_karan
@aslanpahari
idk what you mean dude I'm Sri Lankan and that's absolutely a Sri Lankan face. (can't speak to the BD one BC I've never lived there but she sure looks like she could be a cousin of my friends from Bangladesh!)
@siddipedia
@asimaxpatel
Sir you should reconsider calling yourself a liberal at all because you are very literally arguing for taking choices away from women
Last night, at 10 pm, there were teenagers - kids who looked no older than 14-15 - at Independence Square protesting with their parents. Given how completely politically unaware I was at that age, I cannot bring myself to say that young people and their enthusiasm is a bad thing.
Very salient point
@lihiaee
. When my friends complain to me about ‘Gen-Z hijacking the protest’, l told them good, because we must not ‘police protests’ or youthful expression.
I care little as long as the purpose remains steadfast and our collective objective is achieved.
Looking at the voting patterns in the results this morning I can tell you one thing for sure: post-election will be hell. This level of voter polarisation does not bode well for a united Sri Lanka.
The most exhausting thing about living in Sri Lanka under the present regime is that all of this madness was so very predictable. Lots of people predicted it, even.
And then there were the legions of irredeemable optimists who were like "wait and see! don't be a pessimist!"
L O L
Thank you, SL Twitter, for confirming that I made a wise decision in skipping the Junior Parajaksa space. Sorry to those of y'all who wasted your time!
It was brought to my attention yesterday that Gen Zs may not know this:
We do not have accurate unbiased accounts or records of the final phase of the Sri Lankan Civil War because the Sri Lankan Government literally banned both international and local journalists from the area
Issuing a statement on the death of Jāliya Dissanayake (26), a young protester who died on Wednesday (13) during a protest in
#Colombo
, the police media division says ‘he is an alcoholic and a drug addict’.
If your idea of unity is one where all of us minorities shut up about our problems and support you in solving yours then friendo that's not unity that's just supremacy and suppression in a different package so hard fucking pass
Look I don't like the SJB either but they gave the public fair advance warning of the time and location of the protest, which is really all you can ask in terms of mitigating inconvenience for a protest. Why are there so many Sri Lankan journalists acting like this was a surprise
Is it any wonder young Sri Lankans have such a flawed understanding of consent when it is not a factor anywhere else in their lives? They do what their parents say, study and work where their parents approve, marry who their parents choose - where to learn consent so?
Okay. Going to pray Isha'. Going to make dua. Going to lock the doors. Going to trust in Allah.
"And they planned, but Allah planned. And Allah is the best of planners." (3:54)
Just in case y'all forgot there's racism at home, too:
Spouse went to look at a prospective place today. Things all good until, "සිංහල ද?"
Spouse: "මම සිංහල, wife මුස්ලිම්, අනිත් දෙන්නගේ එක්කෙනෙක් මුස්ලිම්, අනිකා සිංහල."
Owner: *tsks, makes face*
Spouse: "... හරි එහෙනම් කමක් නෑ."
Inna lillahi wa inna ilaihi raajioon. One of the best, most underrated actors in Indian cinema and a personal fave.
(He had a neuroendocrine tumour, diagnosed in 2018.)
Being Sri Lankan is loving this gorgeous island and its generous people with all your heart while simultaneously despising this dysfunctional nation-state and its despicable governing class and the degeneracy they breed in culture and society from the very depth of your soul.
CW sexual assault
I'm not sharing that video of the dude flashing a little girl but can I just say I am flabbergasted by the purported incredulity of folks on here who are only just realising for the first time that pervs expose themselves to kids?
Funny story that should tell you all you need to know about AOD management and admin: the building's original name as planned was the Colombo Learning and Innovation Tower. They only changed it after a bunch of people pointed out the unfortunate resulting acronym.
Have y'all ever thought about how SL Tourism's whole "Sri Lankan Hospitality!" schpeil is essentially just selling the servitude of brown people to their former colonisers
@notallbhas
I am deeply aggravated by the people calling this movie Islamaphobic like they're not being exactly that by shutting down the voice of an African-French Muslim woman (assuming Maïmouna still considers herself Muslim)
Ma'am, you are aware that since beef imports are okayed, more cattle elsewhere in the world will die, right? And that a large chunk of Sri Lankan cattle farmers and meat industry workers will be out of work, right? Please think before you tweet.
Do I think RW is competent? no.
Do I think RW is effective? no.
Do I think RW is blameless? no.
Do I think RW is ideal? no.
But ask me to choose between him and MR, and I will choose RW every time.
Our choices matter, even when the options are terrible. One is always worse.
It has been less than 48 hours since Galagoda Aththe Gnanasara was pardoned and released from Welikada Prison and he's already out here issuing ultimatums to the Police and threatening to "take action", whatever that means. Great job,
@MaithripalaS
. Great job.
if you have mathematical skills and a decent understanding of the new tax reforms please reach out to your panicking friends and family and offer to calculate their taxes for them before they all have meltdowns and fall the fuck apart
How exactly are you going to yell for Gota to go home without actually addressing and acknowledging the fact that he got here because he capitalised on supremacist rhetoric and demonisation of minorities?
This is utterly discriminatory, demeaning and disgusting. Happening right here at The Love Bar Colombo, it shows outright
#transphobia
& how companies have not given any sort of training on customer care, basic ethics and rights. Absolutely furious!
#SriLanka
#Lka
@SriyalNilanka
really truly astounded at the number of dudes on LKA Muslim Twitter going out of their way to jeer and mock a young woman making a very personally political protest on her wedding day. what islamic values do you miserable excuses for men think you're demonstrating here.
Happy International Men's Day to, in order:
All trans men, especially of colour
All nonbinary men, especially of colour
All cis queer men, especially of colour
All men of colour living through oppression
The cishet men actively working on unlearning toxic masculinity on the daily
I don’t get this
#JVP
way of living.
@VraieB
, how come you get all your kids clothes from another? Why on earth you can’t spend few Rs for you kids ? What’s d harm in it ? Especially when they are small?
#lka
#npp
CW weight talk, obesity, BMI
A thing that baffles me is health professionals who both acknowledge that the BMI is a flawed and broken metric and in the same breath defend using it anyway as a baseline starting point?
Do y'all not take research methods or something BC uhhhhhh ...
No, it literally means "womanish man" and is a slur that has been used to target gay men and trans people. It is anti-woman and anti-gay. Ask any gay or trans person in Sri Lanka how many times they've had it thrown at them like a stone.
@guildredemund
@mcclure111
@madu_games
And it means Lotus in Hindi and is used as an epithet of goddesses in Hinduism, I believe.
There's no need to be derisive about ethnic names just because you find the PoC in question objectionable, thanks.