More reading books, more painting, more gym, more cooking, more praying, more writing, more rest, more kindness, more self love, more tuning into self.
My best advice for young women is to have a lifelong love affair with yourself.
Becoming your own muse makes you magnetic. Seduce yourself with high standards. Set goals. Stay true to your values.
Hereβs your reminder to take the extra time and do your full routine. Makeup, skincare, haircare, whatever it is. Do all the steps and take care of you today. It really makes a difference.
Luxury isnβt just about expensive or designer things. Itβs also about having more time for yourself in the mornings, indulging in self care, drinking more water, stretching your body, eating more fresh fruits, spending time with loved ones, etc.
Out of all the books on the planet Earth your favourite is the one in the perspective of a 40 year old pedophile messing with a 12 yr old? Please tell me she hasnβt actually read the book and only likes the so called βaestheticβ
You only become magnetic when you become your own muse. It is the key to luring in your ideal clients, coworkers, lovers, spouses, close friends, and everyone else who has the honour of being in your presence.
Every woman you admire who is 20 years older than you had to sit on the floor of her bathroom and sob numerous times in order to get where she is. These things must occur, and they will be helpful to you someday.
INVEST IN YOURSELF. Become the person youβve always dreamed of, refocus your time and energy on the things that you really want, fill your mind with positive beautiful thoughts and watch those thoughts flourish into your reality. Change your thoughts to change your reality.
Dating starts with yourself. Spend time with yourself, do things alone, treat yourself well.
If you make a habit out of treating yourself to nice meals, spa trips, vacations and shopping sprees, youβd never accept anything less from a person youβre dating.
For years I used to hide that fact that Iβm actually a very materialistic person, but now I couldnβt care less.
I love expensive things, I love luxury and I love designer things.
No one could ever make me feel bad for always wanting the best thing out there.
Iβve noticed that setting small daily goals is just as important as setting big picture goals.
Your dream life is built upon lots of baby steps, not just the big leaps. Celebrate the small wins to keep yourself motivated throughout your journey.
If youβre scrolling through your feed and you follow a group of women who doesnβt share any of your features whatsoever, OF COURSE youβre going to feel insecure about yourself!
The only safety is in moneyβ¦ Money is a womanβs only power in this world. Make it your solace and your dream and one day wealth, real lasting wealth will make you free.
Taking a walk because it feels good. Going to bed on time because it feels good. Waking up earlier because it feels good. Doing a workout because it feels good. Cooking myself a nice meal because it feels good. Sometimes joy is work but itβs always worth it.
Iβll always want to exude natural elegance. I want to be the type of woman that the older she gets the more beautiful she becomes. Just from the way she carries herself the whole room falls at her feet.
Everything I want, I want for a reason. It is meant to be mine. It is already mine. There is no guilt in wanting the things that are meant for me. I am deserving of everything and more.
Iβm a strong believer in girls seeing and going on dates with multiple men until they find the one and start actually dating exclusively with them. I said what I said.
Start taking more photos of anything and everything.
Something on the street that caught your eye, your bedroom vanity, hands on the tube, sunsets, an object that stood out, a house you find beautiful, a picture of the road from inside of the car.
Social media has genuinely warped our perception of creativity and hobbies.
Stop doing things to post them. Just write. Just journal. Just sketch. Just read. Just annotate. Just sing. Just crochet.
People rarely discuss the fact that it's possible to experience highly powerful emotions that stem from a collection of occurrences rather than a single, minor event.
4. Your life partner is an important decision not only for your life but also financially.Β
Donβt rush into marriage. Donβt rush into buying a house together. Donβt rush. Divorce is painful and expensive.
+ Being with someone whose financial values align with yours is crucial.
I pray to be better organised, focused, motivated, intelligent, wealthy, and healthy in 2023. Do more of the things that make me feel good inside. Alchemize all unfavourable feelings and experiences and have faith that they will work to my ultimate benefit.
I live for older girls who take care of you and give you advice on weird things without judging because theyβve experienced it and are just so warm.
My goal in life is to be that for other girls one day