@mogheess_
They think they’re knights in shining armors when they are actually spreading misinformation about the Dīn that could actually harm Muslims in the West
It just hit me again that I’m literally watching my dad die at a comparatively fast pace. Please make du‘ā for his hidāyah & shifā, he really needs it.
He might not have much time left on this dunyā but I’d at least like his eternity to be peaceful.
The second chemo therapy didn’t work. There are only 2 options left & they are risky but the doctors can’t do more. Make du‘ā for his hidāyah & his shifā إن شاء الله… If he’s meant to leave this world soon, I at least pray he leaves as a Muslim.
بارك الله فيكم
It just hit me again that I’m literally watching my dad die at a comparatively fast pace. Please make du‘ā for his hidāyah & shifā, he really needs it.
He might not have much time left on this dunyā but I’d at least like his eternity to be peaceful.
Shameless, disgusting slander of our Mother Sayyidah Khadījah رضي الله عنها. She had nothing to do with kufr ideologies. Neither did any of the Ummahāt al-Mu’minīn, the wives of the Ṣaḥābah nor the Ṣaḥābiyāt.
Repent & delete this atrocious lie.
“We were the most humiliated people on earth & Allāh gave us honor through Islām. If we ever seek honor through anything else, Allāh will humiliate us again.”
– ‘Umar ibn al-Khaṭṭāb رضي الله عنه
Reminder that boycotting is forever & you should always check which brands are on the boycott list when shopping.
You can use the “Boycott” app (left) &/or the website for that.
Some of you guys humiliate your brothers & sisters publicly as if it’s funny but forget that Allāh سبحانه وتعالى will humiliate you on the Day of Judgement for that.
Once you accept that men & women are not the same, that we have different abilities & characteristics, you’re going to have a better relationship with the opposite gender (maḥārim & spouse of course). We complete each other, hence why a spouse is considered “half your Dīn”.
“You are what you eat” also applies to your mental health. So stop feeding your mind with self-loathing, doubts & insults. Stop always assuming the worst, complaining all the time & pitying yourself.
Let’s not forget that Rasūlullāh ﷺ also married a cousin of his, namely Zaynab bint Jaḥsh رضي الله عنها. It’s not ḥarām & therefore not wrong, so be careful what you say.
I might have like 15 problems at once but I still got over a million blessings. Never forget how much Allāh has given you just because of a few trials.
I want you guys to understand that this kid is not Salafi since Salafism is extremely rare in Türkiye, among Kurds there too. This is the belief of a Turkish sect, the Kaplancıs, who actually hate Salafis & claim to be Māturīdī.
The only person who will truly love you the way you are is your spouse.
Your parents love you because you’re their child. Your siblings love you because you’re their family. But your spouse chooses to love you. In this life & the next.
People who post reminders are not automatically ultra righteous, pious Muslims. Our posts are merely supposed to remind ourselves & our brothers & sisters. Like everyone else, we just hope Allāh rewards us for our efforts.
The wives of Rasūlullāh ﷺ obeyed their husband, put their God-given duties first & stayed within the boundaries of Sharī‘ah at ALL times. Feminism promotes the exact opposite. But the problem is, these people know nothing about feminism nor the Islāmic role of a woman.
I know Allāh سُبْحَانَهُ وَتَعَالَى loves me. I know there are other people who love & appreciate me. It’s romantic love that I, like most people, am looking for. Telling me I’m loved won’t cheer me up, I want to find my soulmate.
Reminder that Bassem Youssef is a Sisi supporter, Jackson Hinkle denies the Uyghur g€nocide & all Hollywood celebrities are Satanists. Stop giving them platforms.
Always have ḥusn aẓ-ẓann, i.e. assume the best, when it comes to your brothers & sisters in Dīn. This is what Rasūlullāh ﷺ taught us. Think good of a person until it’s 100% proven they’re guilty. Then pray for their improvement, for Allāh ﷻ could test you with the same sin.
“You will continue to suffer if you have an emotional reaction to everything that is said to you. True power is sitting back & observing everything with logic. If words control you, that means everyone else can control you. Breathe & allow things to pass.”
– Bruce Lee
Don’t forget that it’s obligatory for every sane, adult Muslim to acquire basic knowledge of the Dīn, if possible. It is an individual duty upon us & anyone who deliberately ignores their duties will be punished for it in the ākhirah.
وَلَا تَكُونُوا۟ كَٱلَّذِینَ نَسُوا۟ ٱللَّهَ فَأَنسَىٰهُمْ أَنفُسَهُمْ أُو۟لَـٰۤىِٕكَ هُمُ ٱلْفَـٰسِقُونَ
And do not be like those who forgot Allah, so He made them forget themselves. It is they who are ˹truly˺ rebellious. [59:19]
I find publicly expressing your wish for a comeback of concubinage extremely inappropriate actually. There’s nothing wrong with the concept itself, however, we’re aware why many men have this wish & no one wants to know how strong your desires are. Keep that to yourself.
When giving women naṣīḥah, the tone of voice & choice of words should generally be a little softer, yes. But if she still feels offended by it, that doesn’t necessarily mean your naṣīḥah is too harsh or wrong, you most likely just hit a nerve.
If we would all collectively mute & ignore people who say nonsense on here, instead of obsessively & compulsively responding to everything on the timeline & thereby giving them more attention, i.e. doing exactly what they want, we as an Ummah would be more advanced.
The Prophet ﷺ said:
“None of you should wish for death because of a calamity befalling him; but if he has to wish for death, he should say: ‘O Allāh! Keep me alive as long as life is better for me & let me die if death is better for me.’”
[Ṣaḥīḥ al-Bukhārī 5671]
Beautify yourself on Jumu‘ah according to the Sunnah:
- perform ghusl
- use a miswak
- clip your nails
- wear fresh, white clothes
- apply misk
- smile :)
Du‘ā for rizq
اللَّهُمَّ إِنِّي أَسْأَلُكَ عِلْمًا نَافِعًا وَرِزْقًا طَيِّبًا وَعَمَلاً مُتَقَبَّلاً
O Allāh, I ask You for beneficial knowledge, goodly provision & acceptable deeds
[Sunan Ibn Mājah 925]
The Kaplancı movement was founded in Germany by a Turkish man & behaves like any group with the saved-sect-syndrome. Anyone who votes is a kāfir/mushrik, anyone who runs for elections is a kāfir/ṭāghūt, anyone who doesn’t takfīr them is a kāfir/mushrik. We’re all kuffār to them.
Du‘ā for when you are feeling depressed
اللَّهُمَّ أَحْيِنِي مَا كَانَتِ الْحَيَاةُ خَيْرًا لِي وَتَوَفَّنِي إِذَا كَانَتِ الْوَفَاةُ خَيْرًا لِي
O Allāh, let me live as long as life is better for me & take my life if death is better for me
[Ṣaḥīḥ al-Bukhārī 6351]
The Prophet ﷺ said:
“If you were to commit sin until your sins reach the heaven, then you were to repent, your repentance would be accepted.”
[Sunan Ibn Mājah 4248]
Rather thank Allāh for everything, acknowledge your strengths & work on your weaknesses. Have ḥusn aẓ-ẓann with others & yourself, be kind, ignore negativity & watch how your mental health improves.
Allāh’s Messenger ﷺ said:
“Marry, for whoever commits zinā (adultery), Allāh removes the light of īmān from his heart. If He wishes to return it, He does so.”
[recorded by Imām Abū Ja‘far aṭ-Ṭabarī on the authority of ‘Abdullāh ibn ‘Abbās]
“The stronger believer is better & more beloved to Allāh than the weak believer, although both are good. Strive to seek that which will benefit you & do not feel helpless. If something overwhelms you, then say:
قَدَّرَ اللهُ وَما شاءَ فَعَل
Du‘ā for your heart
يَا مُقَلِّبَ الْقُلُوبِ ثَبِّتْ قَلْبِي عَلَى دِينِكَ
O Changer of the hearts, make my heart firm upon Your religion
[Jāmi‘ at-Tirmidhī 2140]
“You say you love the rain
but open your umbrella when it rains.
You say you love the sun
but run to the shadow when the sun comes out.
You say you love the wind
but close your window when it’s windy.
This is why I’m scared; because you say you love me as well.”
– Turkish quote
“Why does Allāh always take away the things/people I love?”
Because when you love the creation more than the Creator, it will ruin your life. He protects your heart, so you learn to only love the One who gave you life.
یَـٰۤأَیُّهَا ٱلَّذِینَ ءَامَنُوا۟ ٱسْتَعِینُوا۟ بِٱلصَّبْرِ وَٱلصَّلَوٰةِۚ إِنَّ ٱللَّهَ مَعَ ٱلصَّـٰبِرِینَ
O you who have believed, seek help through patience and prayer. Indeed, Allāh is with the patient. [2:153]
I’m not afraid of being wrong. I can admit that I’ve misjudged a situation. Normalize changing your opinion, especially when you’re given more information on the situation.
“I have not seen a certainty that resembles doubt than people’s certainty of death, & then they do not prepare for it.”
– ‘Umar ibn ‘Abd al-‘Azīz رحمه الله
Since I have yet to see anyone elaborate on what “Du‘ā can change Qadr” actually means, I’m going to do that & clear up some confusions إن شاء الله.
Spoiler alert: This phrase is not (entirely) true.
Kun faya kun, Just when you think it’s over, Allah sends a miracle. Don't give up on your dua, Trust Allah. Dua can change Qadr. Believe your Du'a will be answered, Remember if Allah guided you to make a Dua it's because He wants to answer it.
Not everyone should give advice because not everyone’s able to give good advice… Doesn’t matter if you’re 25 or 50, married or unmarried, a business (wo)man or unemployed. If the advisor isn’t smart, the advice won’t be either.