i think I'm fully independent for the first time in my life and yet here i sit, on my first independent person vacation, fully paid by me, my own ecologic beach room, accidentally hearing my hotel neighbors having really rough loud sex...
sooo I uploaded this picture saying "my date cancelled on me", cause they did and I can laugh at myself...
and someone DM'd me asking if I wasn't embarrassed that I got cancelled on 😂 as though it's not a normal thing that happens occasionally
I trimmed my cats' nails and every time I do that I'm so grateful that they're at least well trained enough that they don't lash out at me.
they complain, poe's even taken up growling now, but they never try to hurt me.
such a good boooooi
@rumguzlingbigot
@hollowearthterf
@_binshi_
nah, it's true
as an audhd girly at least, they won't all want smthg from u, but most of them will and u'll be left scrambling for yrs trying to figure out a way to tell them apart without exposing urself to their abuse until u figure out u can't know & trust is rlly a decision
@rumguzlingbigot
@hollowearthterf
@_binshi_
i've always been clear, it still took many guy friends yrs to accept that they're really only getting my friendship.
it's entitlement, they just expect you to change your mind if they stick around long enough, when you don't some of them get angry.
they're just not safe for ND w