As far as I can remember I have always been a sub. Older with experience, looking to serve those who truly enjoy being Dommes from looks to dominating slaves.
I will never contact a Domme without a tribute. It's just basic sub's etiquette. Some has high initial to my taste so I skip and move on. I would never negotiate or bargain. Her loss? Maybe. But it's Her world. I'm just a guest to serve. Always be respectful.
Findom Finsub
Went deep for a Domme once. 10K in 5 months, daily sends, mostly silent, asked for very little. But one day She compared me with a DM screenshot to another sub claiming it can be done even better or something. All the submission was gone instantly. Never forgive Her. Waste. 😐
@GodLudovica
I respect You Princess and Your daily grinding trying to make it here, but I don't believe You bought multi properties in less than 3 years doing this. It's not realistic and it ruins fantasies.
At the highest level of Findom the Domme controls the sub's finances. It came after building deep trust, and complete obedience and consistency until he earned that level of Findom with Her.
Do You think he cares about money at this point? He only cares about keeping Her happy.
I've been trying online Findom on and off for 6 years now. Many of my posts are just sharing experiences from submissive POV. I enjoy being one especially in a D/s dynamic. These are not bait posts. I will never approach a Domme without a send. Everyone has a story. ❤️
Findom
@RestingBratFace
@SendToVi
Thank you for exposing her. It's necessary.
You should consider studying law. You're doing an excellent work building your case. ❤️
Most young Dommes don't look for LT subs but LT wallets. They don't seek dynamic just an on demand ATM.
On the other hand, most subs hoping for some dynamic when they send.
The twitter paradox.
Findom Finsub
@thenabastet
If lowly may
Read and educate Yourself about domination psychology, D/s dynamics and the sub's mind. Virtual world is so different than IRL as it's all mental. There are so many good books written by Pros and free stuff on the internet.
It's rather you're a sub or not.
A 'sub' will approach with a send, polite, respectful. A Domme will sense that in a second, even baby subs have the sub's genuine respect toward a Domme.
The other type are time wasters in all shapes or forms.
It's 1 or 2. Simple.
Findom
A friendly reminder.
Trust is everything at the beginning. Subs are people too. And whatever sub shares in the DM space stays there, otherwise you're the same as "all the other Dommes", you claimed to be different from.
No words.
#Findom
#Finsub
Sent this morning to an online Domme I served 4 years ago for Her Bday. The fact that the dynmaic ended on good terms doesn't mean She's not my Goddess anymore. Mutual respect stays. I'll be there if She ever need something. It's a natural thing.
Findom Femdom
Sending to a young genuine dominant Lady is a natural act. When I feel it, during the first chat, Domme doesn't need to say a word. It's an uncontrollable reaction. Submit.
#Findom
#Finsub
I am sure there are a lot of good Dommes here with subs. I am curious how many of those subs sent to you the daily tribute today?
Sending daily, even small amount, is the bread and butter of Findom if my opinion count in anyway.
Findom
The odds for a good sub to find the right Domme to serve are not high on twitter. And he needs to send anywhere from $100 - $400 to get initial feeling. Therefore, approaching Dommes with high initial makes less sense. I will send far more if the potential is real.
Findom
A Findom relationship is much more than 'Sends'. It's about the sub serving his Goddess and fulfil all of Her demands to the last detail without hesitation. That's the real 'Kink'.
#Findom
#Finsub
Every sub has at least one core trigger while some have more, me included. The trick is that subs sent You for a reason. He wants You push one of them at times, probably when earned it. If You figure it out and play along, You will have him for long time. Powerful.
Findom
If You really having $25K consistent months "with no effort" as You keep mentioning every 4 hours then what's my $200 send will even do to 'impress' Your wealth? 🙂
I will save my hard working money to actual Dommes who put the effort. Makes more sense to me.
Findom
Dommes that posts about "stealing" subs in any capacity, I doubt they met true loyalty.
You can't steal real subs. They will 'die' before leaving their Domme. Bond.
Findom Femdom
@losersimp1
I've seen worse. No offense.
$1500 in 6 weeks and got blocked as I begged to see her for a min after she didn't make a reply back for over 2 weeks to daily sending.
Many "claimed" Findommes don't understand the basic premise of this dynamic. Age can be a factor.
Almost everyone I served and sent to claimed to be "smart" as a Domme. But not many had the dominant wisdom that needed to create a real D/s dynamic.
Being smart is a claim. Having wisdom is reality.
I seek reality when I serve and send.
Findom Finsub
Remember, you are only good as your last send.
I sent thousands to Findommes last year. The minute I stopped sending, they were gone!
It's not personal. It's Findom reality.
Cherish each moment of sending. Enjoy the present.
#Findom
#Finsub
Submit to your superior. Give Her your complete devotion. Always be respectful. Strive to never disappoint her. She truly deserves it all. Sacrifice!
#Findom
#Finsub
#femalesupremacy
ATM is boring and getting exhausted very quickly. Some interaction is a must to have fun. Otherwise, it's like sending to a mummy. Right?
Findom Finsub
I came from an era where Dommes rarely shared personal stuff, especially BF status. For me it's taking out the Domme's aura and ruining the fantasy and fun. She might be a good Domme but I don't think I can serve anyone who shares too much of real life in public.
Findom finsub
@sfDomme
Right, right but when 1400 were slaughtered on October 7th mostly civilians, you were quiet.
230 kidnapped to Gaza you were quiet.
You have no clue of what's happening there but it's cool to say Free Palestine these days with understanding what it's even mean.
Many subs, especially the older ones, just need someone superior to talk to from time to time. Busy life, traveling, it's an escape. They will send good for chemistry. If You don't try to connect with Your subs then You will never know that.
Findom
Why some Dommes always assume in posts that subs are totally losers and that She's their 'salvation'?
Wouldn't it be far more powerful if the sub was a successful gentleman, but he chose to grovel at Her feet in complete submission?
I think so too.
Findom Finsub
Good Dommes don't ask. They take. It's a powerful skill.
As a sub, resistance is futile. When She demands at that moment you have to send.
Findom Finsub
A loyal obedient sub never asks, but only sends, silently preferred.
This gives the Domme free time to strategies how to mold him better to be Her perfect sub.
Everything has a reason.
#Findom
#Finsub
It's take time and hard work to own a sub. But once this point is reached he can't escape.
The more She ignores him the more he wants to serve Her. And the more She sees him as Her lowly subject the more he wants to be Her slave.
The ultimate goal. 🛐
Findom Finsub
Young aspiring "dommes" on twitter are so clueless at times it's beyond appalling. If you a bit effort to learn and understand the meaning of being an online Domme, You would have made tons of money from real subs. But, you chose the wrong path. Sad.
Findom Finsub
Sent recently to a Domme who looked interesting in content. $40 initial. Saying hello, short note, trying to look sincere. Few hours later, clip shows up, in Her pajama, eating something sticky, looking like a homeless, telling me to send $100.
The hell...Bye. 😳
Findom Finsub
When You enjoy being a Domme it shows. You understand Your role and want to connect and get to know the person behind the sub who wants to send You money. There's zero fun to send to robots who say double it all day. Boring. It's natural to send when connecting.
Findom
I never understood Findom 'menus. $20 for photo, $30 for clip, etc. There's no price for submission, loyalty or obedience. For me Domme's content is to enhance this connection, built if further, deepens it. D/s dynamic is a 2-way flow. I believe menus are wrong approach.
Findom
The best apology is a send almost always in silent. And it's not for being sorry but thanking the Domme. The sub is silently telling Her "thank You for the privilege of letting me stay in Your world". It would devastate him if She didn't. Don't fu*k up.
Findom Finsub
Stick with the Dommes with less followers. They don't look for fame but long term service, consistency and loyalty. When You send Her the big send, it feels far more powerful. A true submission.
#Findom
It's doesn't matter how old you are, your income, or status life.
Always drop to your knees, SEND and make it meaningful.
Beg for Her attention.
Beg to worship Her.
Beg to prove yourself to Her.
Accept your fate, submit & sacrifice
#Findom
#Finsub
I doubt Findom is saying send all day. Nope.
It's about connecting with the sub, understand why he approached to begin with, and using his weaknesses to stay.
The money is merely a reflection of how good You are as a Domme doing this process.
Findom
After doing it for bunch of years as a curious authentic sub, I can say the following. Number of followers means nothing. Best Dommes I served focus on quality while zooming in on consistent loyalty. They barely brag, it's all direct. I'm naturally drawn their power.
Findom
The most dangerous Dommes to obedient Finsubs are the quiet ones, few followers, discrete, selective. She lures the sub in with calculated charm, study him, no money pressure. It's a trap. The comfort turns into life long financial slavery. Domme is always step ahead.
#Findom
@bebycakes
Chemistry. Mutual interests with related things.
Many times, I just send though randomly to Dommes who nailed a certain look that triggers or content.
The addiction in Findom is not about the sends.
It's actually about reaching the ultimate state of mind of being so helpless that you can't stop. That's the real addiction.
If a Domme can trigger a sub to reach that every time, it's game over.
#Findom
#Finsub
When You connect with a sub and trying to really understand why he sent You the initial and some sends later then You basically did Your job as a Domme. He sends for that notion. His Domme gets him. Most chances he will lie in traffic for You after that.
Findom
I serve one Domme at a time.
It's more alluring when all the sends going to one Goddess only.
But more important, my mind is only on focus on Her. And, I can reach climax to Her content only. Relapsing gets a new powerful meaning.
#Findom
#Finsub
Start with a send, briefly introduce yourself, be polite, respectful, try to sound intelligent, maybe hint Why you can add value to Her life. It's easy to be a good sub really. Some Dommes might not see it? Fine. But at least you tried. I'm sure the majority will.
Findom Femdom
I took a long break from Findom due to work travel and personal issues. But the voices inside are calling me back. You can't escape who you are. The need to submit to a real online Domme is getting stronger by the day.
Findom Femdom
Send to those who try. The ones that put the effort and grinding it every day trying to learn and evolve. You can see it in their timeline slowly getting better and more powerful. I believe that is the reason we are here as subs, to fund their journey in being better Dommes.
Good subs don't sleep much. They wakeup middle of night thinking how to surprise their Domme in the morning.
Serving a Domme is a real job. And it's the best one ever.
Findom
If You don't strive to have real D/s dynamics with Your subs then You are doomed to be served by short term bottom feeders till end of eternity.
Findom Finsub