✨ Friendly psa ✨
I will NOT interact with you if you refuse to age verify. This applies to both dommes AND subs!
Age verification is SO important & it’s SO easy to do! If you can’t take a few minutes out of your day to prove you’re NOT a minor, then I want NOTHING to do w you
I will no longer be associated with Findom Grove. I can not in good faith continue to let people join that server because of me, knowing the things that I now know and the way that I have been treated. This is NOT the safe, consenting, welcoming community we all thought it was.
This is not your average apology post.
As many of you are aware, I was a mod for the discord server Findom Grove. I stepped down from that staff position on Thursday following xenophobic remarks made by the server owner and her irl male dom admin/server controller. /1
If you’re a paypig and haven’t sent to your goddess today, leave Findom.
On international women’s day??
Goodbye.
You don’t deserve me 🙄
I deserve to be paid for simply existing 💞
I’m noticing a lot of dommes participating in follow trains and not having age verification linked on their page.
I want to follow all of you beautiful ladies but I will not until you have AV 🤍
Findom
Good morning findom. Wishlist Wednesday, right? So my throne will be getting extra love today, right?
Findom paypig cashcow whalesub humanATM finsub puppy
🥳 it’s officially my birthday! 🥳
There’s no excuses not to send today of all days 👏🏻
Lurkers, silent senders, if you’ve been waiting for a right time to send, this is it.
Happy birthday to me 😌🎂
Findom paypig
I love adding things to my Throne & making it look so pretty. I even have cute collections now where everything is easy for your simple mind to find.
Go look, & while you're there don't forget to get me something nice! After all subbies, your only purpose is to be my wallet ❤️🔥
I spy lurkers 👀
If you’re shy, just put your user in the notes of your send. I’ll come message you!
If you wanna be a silent sender, I love it.
But I better be getting a throne or Cashapp notification in the next 20 minutes 👏🏻
Findom paypig cashcow whalesub
Does it turn you on knowing that all your hard earned money is coming straight to me? 😅
Because let me tell you, nothing turns me on more than when I see new notifications from throne and Cashapp 🥵
Come on simps, send to mommy 😘
On a side note, to all my new followers- thank you for being here. I’m sorry it’s under such shitty circumstances, but I’m happy to meet you all 🖤
Subs- you should’ve already been sending for the bullshit I’ve been dealing with.
I left the server on FRIDAY. I intentionally left my ticket open before leaving so that ALL of staff could see what happened to me. Specifically the OWNER. Instead of anyone reaching out to me, you know what they did? They bullied me behind closed doors & laughed me off as a joke
@emeraldjonesx
Thank you Emerald for being the staff member we needed, for listening to how we felt and for wanting to make a change. For doing everything in your power to make sure our voices were heard. I love you from the bottom of my heart for everything that you have gone through for this.
I’ve been so exhausted lately and have had no energy to interact with anything Findom. But I’m working on being active again.
Anyway, just ordered dinner for lover and I. I want it reimbursed. It’s payday eve after all. No excuses silly little finsubs💋
Now if you’ve made it this far, you’ve seen that I’ve opened a ticket, expressed my feelings, and was then basically ganged up on in my ticket. At this point, I’m uncomfortable. I’ve made it very clear that I am not discrediting anyone’s feelings.
But wait! There's more.
Now Lordess Sin (who has changed her name to Eileen) has entered the chat, unprovoked, to weigh in on this one server member.
We're at FOUR DIFFERENT STAFF AGAINST ONE SERVER MEMBER IF YOU'RE COUNTING AT HOME.
But hold on.. instead of addressing the
Yo these “sugar daddies” really be out here with their “you just have to pay $25 to access the funds” BAHAHAH come onnnn, you’re not fooling anyone. Yall can’t even be bothered to send my $30 tribute & I’m supposed to believe you have money as a “sugar daddy” 🤣🤣
Findom paypig
Since yall think this is really about bingo, how about this one..
if lordess sin “planned & organized this event”, why did SHE not go over the ‘rules of sending a ss to announce bingo’ before the game started?
Huh. Interesting. Their lies are all unraveling 🤷🏻♀️
Uh oh! Look out, irl male dom/admin Reaper has entered the chat and taken over. Where does server owner Goddess Vivi go? Who knows.
irl male dom/admin Reaper proceeds to take over the ticket and kick out anyone not an admin.
(If you're keeping track, that's now 3 different staff
Updated both my wishtender & throne. Now they both look very pretty, just like me 😌
Go test them out with some pretty sends tonight ✨
Findom paypig finsub
Reaper was constantly coming into DOMME ONY CHANNELS where nudes/lewds have been shared.
THIS WAS A DIRECT VIOLATION OF OUR PRIVACY, OUR CONSENT AND OUR SAFETY!!!!
1 Hi everyone, I want to firstly apologize for not making this statement sooner.
For those that are unaware, there has been events and behavior that’s occurred in my server that has publicly come to light.
I started Findom Grove because I wanted to build a community within BDSM
Before I left the server, my last message in my ticket was this
1) I genuinely hope that for the sake of this servers continued growth, that you all can take a step back and realize that there are problems in this server that needs to be addressed.
Been at the beach today, enjoying my birthday with my sister! And we’re going out with my family tonight to get tacos and margaritas 🌮🍹😋 If you haven’t contributed to my birthday fund yet, what are you waiting for? You should be celebrating me today 🥳
Findom paypig
Thank you to all of you who took time out of your day to wish me a happy birthday! And to the moots who went out of their way to send me a little something, just know I LOVE YOU! You guys are literal angels and the sweetest people I’ve ever met 🫶🏼
Subs, do better 🙄
Findom
Happy payday pups 🥰
Time to send what you put aside for me. Nothing would make you happier. You live to serve me 😌
Findom paypig cashcow humanATM whalesub finsub puppy
I want a finsub who is
✨ devoted to pleasing me ✨
Send for whatever I want,
whenever I want.
And in return,
you just might get rewarded 😌
(Emphasis on the might 😉)
We have about 2 weeks until it’s my birthday 🥳 have you contributed to my birthday fund yet simps? If you haven’t, you’re slacking and you need to get on top of it 👏🏻
The standards that they held us to compared to the standards that they hold themselves to, are blatantly obvious. They have only ever cared about saving face.
Not the “sugar daddies” trying to say “if you’re not a bot..”
sir let me stop you right there, if you actually looked on my profile and got the idea that I’m a bot… idfk what to tell you cause ain’t no damn way 🤣🤣🤣
Are you bored? Want something to do?
Here’s a fun game 🤭
Go on my profile, click the link in my bio, pick one of my payment methods and hit send. It is my birthday month after all 🎉
If you claim to be a retweet sub, then you better be retweeting my posts before you hop in my DM’s.
When you show up to a job interview, you have your resume with experience listed. This is no different.
How dare you hop into my DM’s without having done what you claim you do?
I love cleaning out my message requests.
Didn't get a response? Hm, I wonder why.
Oh, wait!
Is it because you approached without sending tribute?
Next time, get it right ❤️🔥
Findom paypig finsub
1) A lot of people are wondering what’s the point of this. Why didn’t we just leave and forget about it.
Here’s why.
I genuinely enjoyed the server. I loved the people I met there & the friends I made. I wanted to support all of them & get to know them.
There are so many people who have privately reached out who have also experienced these things, but had no one to talk to about it. Who were dismissed and left to feel like they were wrong for how they felt. This is not just about ME. This is about ALL OF US. The whole community.
@peachess92_
@paymisstea
@FindomGrove
This is negating from how everyone one else felt, they was and are within there right to be upset. The 2 others Bee and Honey also stood up for others when they themselves were being subjected to nasty behaviour if I remember correctly. They just want support and to be heard.
Paid water & electric bills this morning and something about it coming out of my own bank account just doesn’t sit right with me 🥴
So, here’s 2 reimbursement opportunities for you simps.
Water: $67
Electric: $178
We all know what’s yours is mine anyway, so just send it 😌
Going out for drinks tonight w the girlies 💕
Which means I expect it to be fully funded by you beta simps 👏🏻
And since you got paid today you should send extra just cause 😌
This is not an apology. This doesn’t even begin to address any of the issues that happened. THIS WAS NEVER ABOUT BINGO.
OUR CONSENT WAS VIOLATED WHEN WE WERE FAILED TO BE INFORMED ABOUT A MALE DOM ACTIVELY RUNNING THIS SERVER UNDER THE GUISE OF BEING A SUB.
1 Hi everyone, I want to firstly apologize for not making this statement sooner.
For those that are unaware, there has been events and behavior that’s occurred in my server that has publicly come to light.
I started Findom Grove because I wanted to build a community within BDSM