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#AllBlackLivesMatter
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You weren't "gifted" or "special" you were just well behaved and compliant and that's why you feel burnt out and under accomplished in life because you've been raised with delusions of grandeur. You're trying to create careers that were well beyond your actual capabilities.
Mind you:
1. He cheated with his BM’s SISTER
2. She does not know this man
But she’s wanting to contact him to tell him how to skirt his responsibilities.
This is why pick me’s are dangerous.
@AsToldbyTerry
She told on herself in that last comment. “If I had this much self confidence..” homegirl is insecure af and wishes she could show off and look this good but cause she can’t she has to hate on other people. A shame, truly.
@NobodyAskedYou7
I get so tired of them trying to turn everything into some kind of trauma response. There were plenty of smart kids with behavioral problems so idk what this even means
@JeromePVA
As a person who has an amazing and honest core group of friends who I know will drop everything for me if I need them (and have) this is dumb as hell. My friends are not equipped with the tools to help me realize, evaluate, and heal from traumas that I’ve experienced. Nor am I
@ZondraHughes
I need somebody to explain to me very slowly what people hope to gain when they make fake skits like this? Is it really just for likes? I genuinely do not understand.
I read the comments first because I really wanted to understand the why. Basically he’s tired of having to chip in and pay for things in addition to what he pays in cs so he wants to use his daughter as a conduit to pocket watch his bm. You know, loser shit.
I’m gon push it further, features with women from the south only. Latto, Flo Milli, Monaleo, Trina, Mia X, and La Chat. And call it “The Southern Belles”
@bcuzuluvbri
Most times it’s not even covering a week of daycare. They really feel like a man should be able to opt out of providing for their child and it’s crazy to me
@keatingssixth
I’m also stuck on the fact that she thinks moving to a different city within the same country makes her an immigrant. Baby you just moved.
@DPMCanty
It was a literal peck that lasted for maybe 15 seconds and it was halfway through the movie. I’m so tired of everybody acting like they didn’t also kiss in the original, like shut up 😒
@BigTimeAllStar
Look how fast dude in the white shirt moved when he realized she was about to push his friend in the pool. Dropped his cup and everything. But crickets while his friend is literally dragging this woman across the pavement. Trash.
@d_la_reina
What a very weird thing to say. What was her family supposed to do? Lock her in the closet if they went on vacation? She’s supposed to be in the dark peaking through the blinds until in comes a man to take her to Miami?
@JeromePVA
equipped to do the same thing for them. Do we talk about our feelings? Of course we do, but it is not the same level. And it’s honestly selfish to think that your friends are supposed to provide that sort of emotional labor for you. I want my friendships to be my happy place, not
@jiggyjayy2
And no shade but whyyyyyyy is she sitting here in her bonnet? It better be be cause she told him after the video they were gonna go in the backyard and box. At least let me look outwardly good so y’all can ignore the fact I’m a mental and emotional clown.
@Kyla_Lacey
I need to understand the science behind being a man and pretending to be a woman pandering misogynistic ideals for the approval of other men. What do you gain?
@Flashy_Words
To everyone concerned about “something happening to my child” gender neutral means you can go in there too. And it makes it easier for fathers out with their young daughters, mothers out with their young sons, etc. Stop using fake concern to say that you’re uncomfortable.
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@KillerCarcass
@IvyKungu
Exactly this. Like how hard is it to just do something nice for a person you say you care about? Out of all the people on Earth you chose them to be with, but you can’t make them feel special for one day?
@getinformed23
@notcapnamerica
She didn’t answer the phone at 9pm. If you listen to her she says she had already been talking to her for over half an hour and it was *now* 9pm. And also when you have your own business it’s not uncommon to get calls at irregular hours.
@TheConsciousLee
I tried this at Trader Joe’s maybe two years ago. I was in an aisle and a yt woman came up with her cart and instead of saying excuse me, she stood there like she expected me to move. I pretended not to see her and didn’t move. After a few seconds of just standing there she
@NuuYawkerr
I don’t understand why they make her seem so gargantuan. She’s 6’1. Yes it’s tall but these camera angles got her out here looking like she’s Yao Ming.
@diorsdelight1
@Dreadful4Tymes
Trans women literally lead the charge on fighting for the rights of the entire community. To suddenly try to exclude them is wildly disrespectful.
@herbsmokes
See this why I be quiet before commenting, idk who he is and I was kinda understanding where he was coming from but now I’m like no wonder she’s eating in her room. If this is how he tweets about daughters I can only imagine how he actually treats his real life one. Big yikes.
I think y’all think this woman is telling her children verbatim “you’re annoying” and she most likely is not. She most likely is just correcting their behavior and getting them to understand time and place and to be mindful of such. There’s literally nothing wrong with that.
@coreyvintage
@KeithHollandd
@kingz_mufasaa
He’s answered it. Multiples times. These adults are literally labeling and identifying these kids as something that they may very well not be and everybody is cool with it, but Zaya is openly expressing how she identifies and she’s “too young.” Why aren’t these kids too young?
@jiggyjayy2
Cause they think if they do that it’ll attract the man they really wanna go home with. But they fail to realize that he’s gonna want to go home with both of them. So now they’re either at home mad or eating pussy with tears in their eyes cause they didn’t think it through.
@HolaCarmitooo
Right! I didn’t know flat tires, traffic, car accidents, oversleeping, family issues, and sometimes just needing a few extra minutes to get your mind right is only supposed to happen to married people with children.
@itslinzzzz
And some of them just look like scribble. He could literally get the best artists in the world but some of them look like they were done in a garage and I’ll be eternally confused by it
@angryblkhoemo
Somebody once quoted a pic of Candace Owens and her hair and said “when you’ve been deeply conditioned but won’t deep condition” and nothing has ever been more true.
@diorsdelight1
@Dreadful4Tymes
Being trans but not understanding why trans women and men are an integral part of the community and to try to exclude them is a slap in the face? Yikes.
@talleyberrybaby
I would have filled that silence with the sound of thunderous slaps for him and the person who asked. It’s my birthday, I don’t wanna hear anything negative about myself. Say it tomorrow.
@foreverimbetter
And I bet they said some shit like “In such a dark world, she’ll always be our little piece of brightness” and thought it was the most profound thing ever. Roast the whole family.
@AITA_online
I knew she was gonna be TA when she said she noticed he takes him everywhere he goes, which is literally what you do when you have children. Otherwise it’s called neglect. She doesn’t like this little boy, she tolerates him and she’s been able to hide it up until now. Hopefully
@jiggyjayy2
I’m rewatching it now on peacock..it was so good. Something about a doctor diagnosing rare diseases while being high on Vicodin makes for great television
@T_dot_Lee_PhD
Bruh has a picture of his whole body as his avi. They have his face, approximate age, height and weight. He’s basically giving them all they need at this point 🤷🏽♀️
@BLiyc
@jiggyjayy2
Respectfully, yes it does. A single mother is a woman who is raising a child without any assistance from the child’s other parent. Your mother was not a single mother, she was a mother who happened to be single. She co-parented with your father. There’s a huge difference.
@Puff_Iya
Exactly, because if she didn’t the video would have been this caption and she would have been skipping into her divorce attorney’s office. She’s happy, and even if she’s not she’s letting us know she ain’t leaving.
@shaTIRED
I..wow. It’s ok to admit you went out on a date and you realized y’all weren’t compatible, but to record it and make them think it’s something cute is just sinister
@simsimmaaz
What got me is she was speaking on a common issue. We see married people complain all the time about a lack of sex, which sometimes stem from a lack of pleasure or needs not being met. Jada was telling them how to avoid that but they missed the whole point for a headline.
@thecindynoir
Questioning things. I was taught not to question authority, my mother, or God. If it don’t make sense I’m gon ask questions. “Because I said so” never sat right with me.
Buying your child a car they stopped making damn near 20 years ago is a TERRIBLE decision. If something does happen the parts are going to be hard to find or expensive. And Buicks have never had a reputation of being reliable so that’s not even true.
@_CharlesPreston
Wow. Also I noticed today is the author’s birthday. What a fitting present that you found this today and now get to show it to a whole new audience 🙌🏾
@SixBrownChicks
A6. Let me make sure I’m understanding correctly. You’re upset that a father, is being a father? To a toddler who now only has one surviving parent? Here’s my advice. It’s Wednesday, go stand on the curb and wait for your trash men to come by and collect you.
@tinykee__
You know how long these babies had to practice this to do it so seamlessly?!?! The dedication, the concentration, the trust. They need to be in somebody’s gym ASAP!
@SixBrownChicks
A2. How is your faith in God gone? God didn’t use the stun gun. He gave us free will to choose. You chose to break up with your girlfriend and bring another woman to church. She chose to stun you. They chose to mind their business. You need to choose a new church. Amen.
@SixBrownChicks
So she played second (possibly third or more) fiddle for almost a decade, and when his wife left him (cause if he wanted to leave he would have) he proposed with a ring from a Cracker Jack box that doesn’t fit and she’s showing it and those ugly ass press ons off? Proudly?? BYE!
@Witch_Sabrina_
@roospooscreate
@OliviaToke
@TheTrillAC
Responsible parenting is allowing your child the ability to develop healthy boundaries and having conversations about the realities of the world and what’s in it, not acting like an overseer. Everybody deserves a level of privacy, child or not.
@SixBrownChicks
A3. It’s embarrassing but it’s not a lie, you have 3 kids and you send her $10 a month for each child? You must think she can feed and clothe them for .11 cents a day like those old informercials. She can’t. And a girlfriend is a luxury you can’t afford right now.
@keepit_1
@DontWorryBoutB
Mentioning her physical appearance or her level of intelligence is embarrassing and wasn’t needed. Why couldn’t he just says that he loves her and misses being with her but knows their relationship is strong because they have chosen every day to commit to each other?
@JiorJette
@queenveej
And he still didn’t even prove anything. Someone liking a profile doesn’t equate to actual desirability in the real world. If he wanted to prove BM love BW with their natural hair all he had to do was call her beautiful and go on about his day.
@d_la_reina
This. I hate the “those are luxuries” people because like damn, you don’t want no luxury in your life? Also how did we get to the space where going to the movies or taking your kids to the zoo is a luxury? These are basic experiences everyone should be able to enjoy.
@SixBrownChicks
A1. No.
Nothing makes me happier than men suggesting open marriages and then being upset when their wives are doing it better than them. The fact that she agreed and already has a boyfriend lets me know she was just as bored with you. You asked for this bed, so go lay in it.
@IssaRae
Agreed! If the nigga ain’t willing to go put on a leather vest and sing in the middle of the desert like Jodeci did in “Cry For You” then it’s not meant to be. Risk death and dehydration so I know it’s real.
@DPMCanty
@empressmaze
@JeromePVA
Right! And if they’re going through things the same time I am now what? Two depressed people cannot counsel each other.
@TheBaddestMitch
But when Roe was on the chopping block it was “women are more than our uterus” and “women aren’t baby making factories” but now that’s the defining factor of your womanhood?
@SixBrownChicks
A4. Call your card company and dispute that charge. Then break up with him. Because this is gonna be the first in a cycle of many. First your paying his mama’s way, next thing it’s his way, his homeboy’s way, and sometimes his cousin’s way. Free yourself and your wallet.
@Virtuous_Queen_
What kills me is they’ll say this underneath the twerk video or quote the video. So you watched the video all the way through and then decided to be tired of seeing it? Ok sir
@SixBrownChicks
A6. I’m sure your sons don’t like you either, probably because you’ve projected your bitterness about their fathers onto them their entire lives and now want to ship them off and split them up for a man you’ve had 60 days. That man doesn’t love you, he wants you to take care of
@jiggyjayy2
That was my first thought. My second was it sounded like he just wanted multiple people to sleep with and do the household chores, cause it doesn’t sound like he’s helping at all with any of that.
@d_la_reina
Because they ain’t never been nowhere and think she shouldn’t have been either. Then don’t understand why the girls think they’re boring, what is there to talk about with you? You ain’t been nowhere or done anything and expect people to find that appealing?
@SixBrownChicks
A6. No.
If you wanted to know your grandkids you should have wanted to know your son. You forfeited your right to be called dad, so you also forfeited your right to be called paw paw. Watch him from the sidelines and takes notes on what it means to be a real man and father.
@SixBrownChicks
A6. So in order to “stick it to them” you’re willing to sacrifice your dignity and your paycheck to pay for your husband’s outside baby? They probably weren’t rooting for you all because they know you could do better, so why don’t you? Leave that man and keep your money.
@_naadiiyaa_
@jiggyjayy2
Like, why do I need to be by your side while you’re letting the world know you cheated on me? The way I would have been upstairs packing my bags, the only time they would have seen me was when I wheeled my suitcase down the stairs and out the door.
@crissles
At all. When has a WW ever extended grace and a platform when a Black woman needed redemption? Hell, Jada had to sit at her own table when she had to explain herself. I’m over the idea that Black women have to extend compassion to the same people who ignore us on a daily basis
My girl said she tired of us not doing anything on weekends, so I planned a whole weekend of activities starting with rock climbing at 6 am on Saturday followed by golf, tennis, ice skating, blacksmithing, paint & sip, axe throwing, shooting range, & fishing. She says “Ewww no.”
@SixBrownChicks
A1. Jesus Devontae Christ. My heart aches for you. I’m sure it was hard to lose your friend, but I can’t imagine how you feel finding this out. Now that you know she has a parent it’s his job to be a father. Step away, and seek counseling to get you through. Good luck ❤️
@JiorJette
The Meg discourse, all the trad wife content on the clock app. The aunties might be bad, but millennials and Gen Z are eagerly stepping up to fill their shoes