Somebody is aging like FINE WINE 🍷😍
Happy 40th birthday, MY LOVE
@DavidOyedepoJnr
I AM GRATEFUL FOR THE GIFT OF YOU!
THANK YOU LORD, FOR THIS MAN OF HONOR 🫡
#pdo
@40
15 years later!
Woah 🫨
Marriage has been so so GOOD to me!
Man of honor PDO
@DavidOyedepoJnr
I salute you
🫡 😘
Thank You, Abba Father. To YOU ALONE be ALL THE GLORY!
This girl is grateful 🙏🏽
Beloved friends, wish us well!
#theoyedepojnrs
#15yearslater
This MAN OF HONOR
@DavidOyedepoJnr
is FORTY today and I REFUSE to keep calm!
PDO, You are LIGHT!
is released upon you in Jesus’ name, Amen!
For keeping him alive and well, full of strength to see this new phase of his life, Abba Father we say THANK YOU!
Congratulations to our dearest bro
@theisaacoyedepo
and sis
@ayomitideisaacoyedepo
This is indeed the LORD’s doing and it is oh so MARVELOUS in our sight!
Run and never be weary; walk and never faint in Jesus’ name, amen!
We’re rooting for you ❤️
Happy 65th birthday sweet mama in love
@officialfaithoyedepo
😍🥳
As you live long and strong, your impact will keep increasing! And as long as you live, I’ll keep giving you kisses 😘
I love you DEEPLY!
Because you haven’t seen the victory, you think it’s not in view but I want to let you know that the sun will shine again. I don’t know what news you have heard but I have BETTER news for you: things will turn in your favour. Be strengthened in Jesus’ name, amen!
#kemioyedepo
Happy Friday from my workout buddy and I 😍💪🏾
I encourage you dear hubby and wife, to engage in as many activities together as much as you can. Find what works for you and ENJOY your marriage to the FULLEST! Wishing you God’s best!
#kemioyedepo
#crisisproofyourfamily
Happy birthday dear momma in love ❤️
I CELEBRATE you!
I am SUPER BLESSED to have you in my life.
Keep enjoying the GOODNESS of the Lord in the land of the LIVING. Congratulations 🎊
Hello August!!!!
July was so so good; thank You, Abba Father!
This new month will be far better in Jesus’ name, amen! Cheers to a month daily LOADED with the BLESSINGS OF THE LORD for us all! Wishing you God’s BEST!
#august2023
#happynewmonth
Speak your faith!
If you believe the Word, let it come out of your mouth. Not in a mechanical manner BUT because it is a part of you! Even when you hear or see things contrary to your expectations, keep speaking your faith and God WILL confirm it!
#thatsall
#kemioyedepo
HELLO DECEMBER!
Laughter from the belly; the type that shows ALL of my teeth!
That’s what I expect to do the MOST this final month and no DEVIL will stop me!
Thank You ABBA FATHER in advance for making this happen for us all! Happy new month, folks!
#december2023
When the hair is REALLY hairing😆
Always remember - A peaceful heart leads to a healthy body; jealousy is like cancer in the bones - Proverbs 14:30 Guard your heart!
#health
#peace
#kemioyedepo
Yesterday was filled with SO MUCH LOVE for this MAN OF HONOR PDO
@DavidOyedepoJnr
in whom we’re well pleased!
Abba Father, we remain grateful!!
Thank you all so much!
God bless and reward you abundantly!
#pdo
@40
How you communicate will either strengthen or weaken your relationship. It’ll either promote deeper intimacy or strain your marriage.
Avoid heated discussions and set communication boundaries.
Healthy communication skills = healthy relationships!
#crisisproofyourfamily
I salute you and I celebrate you, dear woman.
Don’t wish for someone else’s life, make your own life count for something!
Happy International Women’s Day!
To every man making sure the girls/women around you FLOURISH, THANK YOU!
#IWD2023
#embraceequity
#kemioyedepo
This scripture struck a chord!
“People ruin their lives by their own foolishness and then are angry at the LORD” - Proverbs 19:3
Such a STRONG WORD 👆🏾I had to tell my children to bind this around their hearts and let it guide their steps! Lord, help us!
I grabbed the ball from my son to show my kids how it’s done hehe
I don’t know about you but THIS is how I’ll be scoring all kinds of points by GRACE this year 🙌🏾
Wishing you all a BLESSED & PRODUCTIVE year ahead!
Note: To all Bball 🏀 advisers; relax this is just for fun 👀
The way immoral behavior is being made to look normal in this day and age, even among Christians is ALARMING. The enemy is really pulling out all the stops particularly with children. Parents, we MUST become more alert. 1 Peter 5:8 becomes more real by the day. Lord, help us!
If you don’t know how to communicate your feelings well, it’s important to LEARN. Don’t carry on with toxic communication styles (verbal and nonverbal) that hinder peace and harmony in your relationships. To continue that way is not only unwise, it’s also selfish AND immature!
Reckless words pierce like a sword but the tongue of the wise brings healing (Proverbs 12:18). Whatever we say should always provoke healing, hope, and even inspire the hearer. If our words promote strife, discouragement, bitterness and anything like it, we have NOT spoken well!
If marriage is on your radar, deliberately prepare yourself to be an asset in the life of your spouse.
Asset - A useful or valuable thing or person.
Don't just hope and pray for an amazing spouse; prepare to also be one. You are what you attract!
#kemioyedepo
Keep your marriage filled with lots of love which includes daily acts of kindness. A marriage where both people are generous with their love, affection, attention and everything in between is a very healthy one!
One of the best things to do for your children is provide a loving and nurturing atmosphere within your home. Where they see proofs of love and respect between their parents, and towards them as children, it leaves an imprint of positive behaviors that they also express to others
Happy Monday!!!
I trust you’re all doing excellent!!
Praying these last few days of May are loaded with joy unspeakable and and abundance of God’s blessings!
#kemioyedepo
#bookrecommendations
for singles 😃
I met my life partner 😍 about 21 years ago, chose him 19 years ago and we got married about 15 years ago.
#oneofmybestdecisionsinlife
…but this book still MATTERS to me! Get your hands on it if you can, you’ll be BLESSED!
Check in on your spouse regularly; don’t assume they’re okay. Find out what’s going on in their world, then support or make things better for them. If you’re not deliberate about this, before you know it, you both would have drifted apart by the pressures of life!
How you communicate will either strengthen or weaken your marriage. Avoid heated discussions and set communication boundaries. Keep communication void of aggression, harassment or disrespect of any kind! When communication is valued by both people, intimacy deepens!
#kemioyedepo
Carrot + apples + ginger = 😋😋
A beautiful and healthy combination that can be made right at home and enjoyed by the whole fam!
Blend the raw fruits together in a juicer… use a cheesecloth, Put in the fridge and drink up with or without a meal!
#kemioyedepo
#madeathomewith
❤️
Invest your time, energy and resources into a relationship that is adding value to you (as you also do the same). Stop forcing relationships that make no sense; you’ll regret it!
When you’re walking in the fear of the Lord, there are some things you would just NEVER do. Whatever you do, will be fine in the fear of the Lord!
#dontbefoolish
Be kind to people! Don’t be so quick to give your opinion on something OR someone you know NOTHING about. Even if you do know, sometimes silence is the best approach!
Money plays a crucial role in the building and maintaining of a successful family.
Don’t avoid conversations about it. You both need to discuss AND agree on how to manage your resources so you can achieve your financial goals and prevent financial strain as your home expands!
Please pray deeply about the person you want to marry. And when the Holy Spirit reveals something you, DO NOT IGNORE! Be sensitive to whatever concerns you and do not forge ahead until you have peace like a river. The only One who knows what is to come is the Spirit of God!
Don’t seek positions; seek to be impactful, to be valueadding, to be an asset wherever you are. The impact you have on people holds a lot more value than any position or title you will ever hold.
#kemioyedepo
#happyfriday
Don’t be carried away by just doing what makes you happy! Doing what makes us happy can sometimes lead to regrets in the future. Be sensitive and use wisdom to guide your affairs; it is the principal thing AND it is profitable to direct!
Don't be unrealistic about your expectations for marriage. You will never meet an already made/perfect person. You have to give each other room to grow/change for the better. Even in marriage, the growing, the learning, the unlearning continues.
It's dangerous to allow assumptions to rule in your relationship. One definition is “accepting something without proofs.” Never assume anything, discuss everything. Assumptions lead to frustrations and strife! Seek clarity, be respectful and move based on facts, not emotions!
Don’t maintain a relationship with anyone who causes you to lose your focus. If your focus on God, your academics, your various pursuits in life that you had a passion for, suddenly begin to lose value to you, it’s time to loose that lady or gentleman and let them go.
If you’re in a relationship heading towards marriage, you’re entitled to ask questions to determine if that person is the right fit for your future. Don’t let anyone silence you or make you feel like you’re probing too much. You must make this critical decision based on facts!
Fresh Ugu/pumpkin leaf salad 🥗
So yum 😋
Ugu/pumpkin leaf.
Bell peppers
Carrots
Apples
Almonds (optional)
Olive oil dressing
Try it out, if you can. Very simple and way to create!
#kemioyedepo
#madeathomewith
❤️
#mrsoyedepojnrskitchen
👩🍳
Invest your time as a single person into productive things that propel your walk with God, your vision, your hobbies, your finances and everything in between.
Stop waiting (putting your life on hold) to be married. Get in motion, the one ordained for you will meet along the way.
The end of one thing is the beginning of another. Ending SARS is one thing; what comes next? As we take action, and intercede for divine intervention and
#wisdom
to tear down and rebuild, may what comes next be the solution to what moves us forward as a
#nation
. Lasting change...
If you desire certain traits in your husband or wife, examine yourself; do you express such traits? It’s wrong to desire a humble husband while you’re the opposite. If you’re a troublesome husband, I’m not sure why you think you deserve a peaceful wife! 🤷🏽♀️
#crisisproofyourfamily
It’s important to be interested in what matters to your children and adds value to their lives.
- Learn about it.
- Encourage it.
- Talk about it.
- Invest in it as much as you can. Such actions make them feel loved/valued AND adds a lot of strength to your relationship!
Don’t be insensitive to the feelings of your spouse otherwise you’ll create a gap between the both of you. You may not necessarily see eye to eye on an issue but always remember that there is a RIGHT WAY to handle difficult conversations without promoting strife and division!
Be sure to work on yourself to reflect the traits you want in a spouse. It’s not enough to seek a man/woman who is respectful, patient, humble, etc while you’re the opposite. In fact, it’s quite unfair! A good relationship requires two good people willing to take responsibility!
Be an approachable parent! Your child should take joy in expressing their opinions/emotions to you without the fear of receiving harsh or insensitive responses. If they can’t speak to you freely, they’ll search for someone else to fill that void. Be wise!
#crisisproofyourfamily
How we raise our children will determine their quality of life, who they become and the value they add. As parents, we must be deliberate about taking this responsibility seriously!
ADULTERY is deadly and costly! Run from ANY opportunity to engage in it. The one who commits adultery has no sense and destroys himself. He will be wounded and disgraced. His shame will never be erased - read Pro 6/7. Please FEAR God and HONOR your spouse!
#crisisproofyourfamily
If that relationship clearly isn’t working, it shouldn’t get to marriage. Don't see trouble ahead and keep going. A wise person foresees danger and takes cover but the simple go on and suffer for it (Prov. 22:3, 27:12). This applies, even in marriage.
#crisisproofyourfamily
You can have differences without being disrespectful/condescending. If you’d like your spouse to see things from your point of view, there’s a RIGHT way to make it happen. Once you begin to raise your voice or speak rudely, the essence of effective communication will be lost!
Be a supportive spouse. To support means to hold up, to reinforce, to assist. Give them a listening ear, be a shoulder to lean on, express words of affirmation, be concerned about their wellbeing, etc. This will not only boost their confidence, it’ll strengthen your relationship!
Marriage is good but don’t go into it without your spirit alert and your senses in tact! It’s a big step that shouldn’t be taken lightly. Learn from the mistakes/right choices of others, accept responsibility, & trust God for a fulfilling experience!
#crisisproofyourfamily
If you don’t nurture a good relationship with your child, they won’t freely talk/listen to you once they’re past the age of being controlled by you. While they need your leadership/guidance, they also need a relationship with you. Ensure there’s a balance!
#crisisproofyourfamily
The weaknesses/flaws of your husband or wife shouldn’t be despised or exposed by you. Every human, no matter their status, has areas that need improvement. You’re to be their helper not their critic, so HELP them. That’s the hallmark of an honorable spouse.
#crisisproofyourfamily
You can make your home an exciting place to be by making yourself an exciting, positive and joyful person to be around. Stop ruining the joy and peace in you home, and learn to loosen up so your loved ones can REALLY enjoy being around you!
#crisisproofyourfamily
One who finds it hard to accept their wrongdoings or apologize, is proud! Check yourself and seek God’s help, then begin to wear humility like a cloth if you have such traits. Pride destroys destinies and it destroys relationships. Don’t treat it lightly!
#crisisproofyourfamily
Ladies, ensure the gentleman you choose to marry, is one whose judgement you trust and whose leadership ability, you’re confident in. There’ll be instances when he’ll need to make some decisions for your family and you'd have to give him room to do so.
#crisisproofyourfamily
Nourish your children with family devotions! Don’t leave them to themselves. Make time on a schedule to gather together to study God’s word, and feed their spirits. With the Word bound around their hearts, It will keep them safe on their way, and their feet will not stumble.
I see an overflow of joy and rejoicing in your house this month.
Begin to rejoice and be expectant because in spite of all that has happened, this year will end very well for us all.
THANK YOU ABBA FATHER!
If there’s anything you need to know about a potential spouse, FIND OUT! Don’t go into marriage with assumptions. Anything dear to your heart should be discussed. A man or woman who has nothing to hide will have no problem being open and honest, even when they have made mistakes.
If the person you intend to marry doesn’t recognize your worth, don’t marry them! No excuses. If they hit you, mock you, berate you, devalue you, that’s not a sign of love.
It’s a sign of danger! Ignoring such traits is a recipe for DISASTER in marriage!
#crisisproofyourfamily
Ecc 4:9-12 shows the power in two people working together. They have better results and achieve greater heights. When one falls, the other is there to pick them up; when one is cold, the other is there to warm them up. Make this a reality in your marriage!
#kemioyedepo
Ladies, get in here!!
The VAW (Value Adding Woman) Mentorship program starts this Thursday & I’m excited to connect with so many of you across the globe that have already registered for this!
Registration ends TODAY; emails go out TOMORROW!
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So, my dear brothers and sisters, be strong and immovable. Always work enthusiastically for the Lord, for you know that nothing you do for the Lord is ever useless - 1 Cor. 15:58!
As long as you’re doing it for His glory, not for self, keep doing it. God cannot forsake His own!
Don’t marry someone who can’t be real with you, particularly when you need to be corrected. Many are silent because their spouses take it so personal when they’re corrected. Marriage requires maturity, and maturity requires having a teachable spirit even when it is uncomfortable
Be ready to compromise in your relationship! This is willingly giving up some personal desires or agreeing to something less than desired. Compromising is one way to respect each other’s wishes; it promotes a healthy and happy relationship. A lack of it will lead to division!
When communicating with your child(ren), let your words always edify and build them up. Don’t make harsh or reckless words normal in your home, no matter the circumstance. It can be damaging so please speak LIFE always.
#crisisproofyourfamily
Marriage is too long of a journey to enter into carelessly. Have all the facts before saying “I do.” Don't allow your emotions/pressure to overshadow good judgment. Don't assume anything. Be sensitive, and if anything causes unrest in your spirit, address it until YOU have peace!
A stubborn attitude is destructive in a relationship. Give it no place! Stubbornness is having a dogged determination not to change one's attitude or position on a matter, in spite of good reasons to do so. This keeps a marriage from being at it’s best.
Parents, please stop labeling your children with foul names. Enough of calling them “stupid” dull” “a problem” “a fool” or any other word you may have used to describe them. Speak life only! A godly parent should only use godly words; what you call your child is what they become!
If your words tend to be hurtful or insensitive, you need to review how you speak and make a change before it's too late. Don’t use foul or abusive language. Let everything you say be good and helpful, so that your words will be an encouragement to those who hear them. Eph 4:29
The Word of God transforms. If you have an anger problem, search the Word for the help you need and declare it over yourself. No excuses! If you just let the Word work in you, when you find yourself in situations where you normally lose your cool, you’ll remain calm. Prov. 29:11!