Wrote about memory, settler-colonial memoricide, and why you need to resist the state's attempts to remember for you. Wrote about the olive trees of Palestine and about memories of the post-9/11 years. Mostly what I wrote here was a plea.
Mom, can you come pick me up? The entire country is rehashing the cultural discourses of the late 1980s/early 1990s as if we're having satanic panic and feminist sex wars for the first time & I wanna go home and eat Golden Grahams
I literally just saw a twitter interaction where someone was like "you can't say dyke, you're bi" & she rightfully replied "lol have you ever BEEN to a dyke march?" & the person said "we don't have those where I live, also I'm 16 and need my parents' permission to go anywhere"
βLive from Londonβ¦ Itβs Saturday Nightβ?
A U.K. adaptation of NBCβs iconic late-night sketch show
#SNL
is in early development at the Comcast-backed pay-TV operator Sky.
a show that's like Succession, only its about a middle class family who runs a Chrysler dealership in like an Indianapolis suburb. Just deep familial abuse & powerplays for no real stakes whatsoever, by people who aren't insulated from the residents whose labor they exploit
so much bonkers queer discourse could be avoided if we all allowed for a pluralistic conception of queer embodiments & practiced solidarity across queernesses instead of trying to achieve a discursive monoculture
This is a story of how Center City landlords & for-profit healthcare tag-teamed to close down another space. The owner's gofundme for uterine cancer expenses is linked to in the article.
literally any white house press reporter could ask the press secretary about this any day, but that would require them to actually care & consider the lives of the people who have republican state legislatures putting their full weight down on them rn
called my dad b/c its his birthday & had to break it to him that becoming a public school teacher in Missouri is not wise for a trans woman to do at this historical juncture
"trans twitter," aka a million people with unmet needs of having their pain recognized by each other, crammed into a single trenchcoat of bad discursive incentives
"MY NEW BOOK
Everyone with a Y chromosome suddenly, mysteriously disappears. In the months that follow, the world gets better: safer, kinder, more egalitarian. But the book is about women who can't let go of the men they've lost, and devote their lives to getting them back"
@rkatz00
I feel really bad for all these late-Gen Z teens who have come into their sexualities amidst a deeply unliberating & ahistoric conception of queerness
I never know how to feel about these posts, you know? The general point that medical transition isn't the only way to "be trans" is one I certainly agree with, but seeing almost 30k likes while bills are being passed in U.S. states to cut off & deny HRT, surgeries, etc...hmmmm
the NYT dropped an anti-sex work op-ed from Catherine MacKinnon AND a glowing review of Helen Joyce's transphobic conspiracy book by Jesse Singal? They are really outdoing themselves with the sex wars moral panic stuff lately
gentle reminder that if you are setting the U.S. flag ablaze today with direct heat then you are not barbecuing the flag, you are grilling it. Barbecuing the flag requires offset heat maintained at low temperatures for many hours.
of course we're in mass scale collective denial about post-viral covid. we're in mass scale collective denial about everything: anthropogenic climate collapse, systemic anti-Blackness, a queer cultural genocide, the normalization of mass shootings, authoritarian police, etc etc
I retweet this not to imply that every trans person should have this attitude, but to share that I have this attitude. I will not dishonor myself or dishonor the truth that I forged myself from.
I think a lot of us white trans people haven't sat long enough (if at all) with the concept that Black trans masculine folks have had their lives severely impacted by systemic misogynoir & degendering both before and after transition. Please try & consider the complexity of that.
Some people seem to think that I took this line out of context to make it seem like Harris is anti-abortion. She's clearly pro-abortion.
But the spiritual bioessentialism speaks to why she's against other forms of body autonomy (particularly her crusade against sex workers)
the question of "is there actually such a thing as a trans child or a gay child?" is so unimportant compared to the question of "why are we violently disciplining children against certain ways of relating?"
A show that takes its depiction of U.S. petite bourgeoisie culture as seriously as the real members of that culture say they do. & in doing so shows them, reveals to them, how fucking pathetic they are.
an underdiscussed aspect of the Grants Pass ruling is that 28% of lgbtq youth (& nearly 40% of trans youth) in the U.S. experience homelessness. The criminalization of homelessness is part of the project to ensure that abused youth & wives can't escape abusive families & husbands
"'Women' have been given the responsibility to perpetuate the human species. Our bodies were created to do that..." -- Kamala Harris, totally a feminist
also, when I came out to my [big Aerosmith fan] mom as nonbinary, this example is what helped her to understand me & gender under a spectrum framework. Anyway, here's me at like 15 years old, my mom, & steven tyler
sometimes i still sit in amazement thinking about four seasons total landscaping. probably the most genuinely hilarious thing in the modern history of american politics
I'm not QTing this to dunk. I'm QTing it because I want to express that tweets like this are insulting. Its offensive. In the plainest senses of those words. Trans women have been putting their bodies & resources on the line fighting for abortion rights from the start.
LGBTQ+ Rights will be next. Gay/bi men and Trans women, will we stand with cis women and trans men during this fight for their body autonomy or will you stand on the sidelines?
Their fight should be our fight. Do not tolerate injustice.
A bottle episode that's just the prick patriarch dealership owner man, in the seats of the high school gym listening to his nephew's clarinet recital but he'd really rather be anywhere else but he has to be here, shot in real time.
thought-provoking speculative fiction about certain kinds of people suddenly disappearing hits different when those same ki ds people are being actively disappeared by the state in real life. how do novelists not realize this.
in which JK Rowling responds to a child's drawing with an accidental copy/paste about a piece of terf lore from 2017 & also deliberately misgenders a trans woman (Wolf).
Rowling is deep fried in transphobia & the oil has gone rancid
@cyreejarelle
@rkatz00
I'm talking about this w/ my butch right now & they are drawing comparisons to music fandom, & how identity functions under neoliberalism is a consumerist dynamic. & how sexualities & genders are being fought over like fandom spats
The Sopranos was this, but only if you are good at watching tv. If Buddy Garrity from Friday Night Lights was played three notches more seriously is more the type. A booster for High School football as major hobby kind of punk bitch.
In light of having to block dozens of accounts today (from a network of people who circulate screenshots of [mostly] butch trans women to say nasty things about them), I thought of this poem from the classic zine Gendertrash From Hell
I am fatigued by Takes. Even good analyses are draining the moisture from my skin, like a reverse hyluaronic acid. Please do more quotidian microblogging, I beg of you. Selfies, albums, what you cooked, animals, non-topical jokes. Please.
"nonbinary people don't owe you androgyny," while certainly true, is also funny b/c as an androgynous person I'm not trying to give you anything. I'm trying to take from you! I'm a gender antagonist!
I know its tiresome to hear "its all one big fight" all the time, but its one big fight. The political & financial incentives of policing will always throw a wrench into equity and justice in even nationalized healthcare. Abolishing prisons & police is part of fixing healthcare!
defend the internet archive! information belongs to the people! authors complaining about their profits misunderstand that its not readers denying them their labor's value, its the publishing industry. Publishing is NOT a "cream rises to the top" meritocracy, its extractive.
when you build a career out of incorrectly interpreting studies in order to defend conversion therapy but you suddenly have to save face when people see you for the cartoon villian you are
i'm not gonna chastise rn but centering the word woman as synonymous with capacity to give birth is a foundational pillar of the forced birther worldview. Its difficult but I think women need to try & not further marginalize our (C)AFAB siblings in our expressions of pain today
there's no such thing as an "official lgbt wiki," & even if there were it wouldn't be the one hosted by a for-profit company literally called FANDOM, INC. Please just go on a date with another lesbian. Flirt with someone on a discord or whatever.
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the reason why the new lana del rey album is so good is, & I mean this totally complimentary, that it sounds like Fiona Apple drank a glass of dumb bitch juice
one of the few prominent trans women in american letters is the incoming president of PEN America, and in the screenshots she's invoking trans people to pinkwash genocide ("we need--as we say among my peope--to reject the binary").
I reject transness being invoked in this way.
People need to be naming CeCe Telfer as part of this discussion on olympic testosterone policy today. Her ineligibility is *just as* disgraceful & ideological as the ineligibilities of Christine Mboma & Beatrice Masilingi that we learned about today.
HB 1570 was just passed through both chambers in the Arkansas legislature, banning trans youth from accessing health care and health insurance coverage that we deserve and need.
Our rights and lives are under attack.
Governor Hutchinson must veto this bill.
I had to look up that "A Trans Man Reads Detransition, Baby" thread y'all are subtweeting about & wow y'all weren't kidding about how sexist that thread is.
this current wave of people making psuedo-dialectical attempts to say nonbinary people aren't who they describe themselves to be is very grating. identity is barely a prefiguring of anything, let alone a praxis, and one does not need to be doing either to describe themselves
I don't really think anyone will be convinced by me or convinced in general by me saying this, but I feel like given my solid follower count I feel the need to say: you can refuse these orders and laws, & moreover you must.
NEW from
@eklib
: A 16-year trans boy tried to kill himself after investigations of families ordered. He was admitted to psych facility. When staff learned he was undergoing hormone therapy, they turned his family in for child abuse
#txlege
#tx2022
Last month me & Laura became each other's wives. On our own terms, making marriage only & exactly what we want it to be.
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If you feel pressure to "alter" your body in ways you don't want to have your transness validated, I support you & I'll cuss out anyone disrespecting you. But let's not lose sight of the fact that such social pressures are tiny compared to the pressure to NOT medically transition
Its so disheartening to see notional democracies become more fascist by the day over parents' stubborn, cruel refusal to see children & youths as individual people who have knowledge about themselves & their desires & their social ecosystems that merit listening to
literally how do "transfeminine bodies show that womanhood has value that transcends subordination & degredation"? I don't understand...how do our bodies alone show this? & even if we consider our whole personhoods, our lives are full of subordination & degredation. idgi
despite our varying strong, valid feelings on terminology, it IS useful for trans ppl to think about the political drawbacks of largely abandoning a radical expansion of "sex." Our enemies are winning, legislating us into material precarity using the "sex, not gender" falsehood
feels like every single concept that we oversimpilfy & popularize for the sake of mainstream political understanding ("gender identity;" "privilege;" "born this way;" etc) comes back to eat us alive as sites of reaction
I don't think that I care for a framework that suggests transsexuality is something to be advanced beyond! A framework that would thus render the state making medical transition illegal as a *progressive* measure
I was like "dad, the christofascists got my book pulled from like four area school districts. What do you think they'll do if I were a teacher in the actual building?"
@EmberOfTheNorth
Sure, I'll translate: "Other queers being cringe doesn't actually reflect on your own queerness. Everyone should stop trying to tell other queers that they are doing queerness wrong."
The landlord was charging Toasted Walnut $11,000 a month in rent, & was unwilling to negotiate that even though the building was fully paid off, & even though it's a pandemic, & even though the owner has cancer.
Rush Limbaugh was arguably the single-most effective & charismatic amplifier of proto-fascist ideology in the last few decades of American life. It kicks ass that he's dead. Fuck that guy forever; what a blight upon the world he was.
Its always a mild surprise when somebody in poetry world doesn't know that Adrienne Rich counseled Janice Raymond for The Transsexual Empire, yes, but its a more hurtful surprise when someone hasn't even heard of The Transsexual Empire.
For the hundreds (?!?) of you who don't know me liking my op, the context is funnier if you know that I've been teaching at the college level for the past 11 years