Hi :3 I'm Tabby! A chatty, neurodivergent, queer variety streamer with a fun, kind, chaotic community and an inclusive space where we can be ourselves & geek out together💜I’m also an artist with a small business💖
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💜Twitch
Stop judging streamers who eat on stream! Can we normalize things like self care, breaks, & food for streamers? Some of us do this full time & streams can run long. Some streamers are comfy eating on stream & some aren’t. Both are valid 💜
As a survivor of SA…no, r*pe threats are NOT just “banter” or “normal trash talk” The amount of disgusting men in the comment sections Ive seen today is absolutely vile. Also no, women are not “invading men’s spaces” As if we can’t be gamers too. Give me a fuckin break 😒
If you use the “R” slur (r****d) I will unfollow & cut you off without a second thought. As someone who is autistic with many neurodivergent friends, that word is extremely hurtful. Its especially gross coming from a grown adult’s mouth who should know better…
She said yes!💍💞When we originally got married she wasn’t out yet & was masc presenting so we decided to get remarried so she could be a bride too when she’s farther in her transition but I felt she also deserved an engagement ring & surprise proposal. I love her so much🥹💜🏳️🌈🏳️⚧️
Recently my partner came out to me as a transgender woman. Yes we are staying together. Lucky for me she’s lesbian & Im pan so love & attraction are genderless to me. I fell in love with her as a person & her gender does not effect that for me. We are still very much in love…🧵
You can be a sex positive streamer while still having boundaries & being respected! Do we occasionally talk about 18+ topics, hentai, & use adult humor? Yes. Do I tolerate creepy/disrespectful comments about myself or others or just let everything fly? Absolutely not!
If you’re LGBTQIA+ but you’re a “LGB only” person I have no respect for you. You’re just as bad as the bigots that send us hate & want to take our rights away. Transphobes & gatekeepers are hurting our community. BIPOC & trans people paved the way for the rights we have now btw
I’m honestly just so fucking tired of content creators putting on a fake persona. Is it really that hard to be genuine? Some of us are truly trying to create a positive, fun, caring space on our platforms & being ourselves.Stop ruining the term safe space & ally for everyone else
Before you call something someone enjoys like gaming or collecting “childish” consider that some of us as adults are healing our inner child by enjoying things we never got to, were shamed for, or never got to properly enjoy due to childhood trauma. 👏 Let us live our best life👏
To streamers who are resentful about other streamers they don’t see in their stream chat, consider there are streamers like me with depression & social anxiety that don’t always have the spoons to chat but we’re still enjoying your content, sometimes your streamer friends are….
Why do people use lines like “Have fun with your cats” as an insult towards women who choose to not have children? Yes, I WILL have fun with my cats… & my disposable income, time for hobbies, & traveling with my wife 😆 Why care so much what someone does with their body/life?🤨
Tired of seeing all these men commenting on posts about respecting women deciding to be aggressive misogynists, disrespecting & gaslighting women while claiming to be “alpha males” No, you’re not an alpha, just a beta with a big mouth & your insecurities are showing 😒
On a positive note, look how cute & happy my wife is💖 We’ve been shopping, doing our makeup together, she’s starting treatment soon, & she’s been letting out everything she’s held back all these years. Her energy is so light now & it makes my heart happy 🥹
I know growth can be slower for a variety streamer but I want to build a community based on genuine connections where they aren’t just there for a category they’re there to spend time with me & each other. I love our conversations, making art, & experiencing new games w/ people💜
This may be a hot take but streamers posting that we aren’t therapists with no context is a red flag for me. They often either lack empathy & probably consider someone talking about a bad day “trauma dumping” or they are just echo chambering the current buzz word…🧵(1/2)
I finally came out to my parents which I did through text because I knew I’d stumble my words in a call. I cried as typed the message and felt nauseous when I hit send. It shouldn’t be this way…🧵
To anyone that criticizes streamers on their gameplay or missing “obvious things”You clearly dont consider all the factors that go into streaming a game.Its not just simple gameplay…🧵(1/3)
I’m canceling stream tonight for the reasons below. I’m honestly not ok right now and stressed to tears. I’ll do my best to stream tomorrow night but I just dont have the energy for tonight😔
Happy Trans Day of Visibility🏳️⚧️ I always advocated for Trans rights but having a trans wife has made me even more passionate & has taught me so much. Her bravery being her true self inspires me every day🥹 Here’s to celebrating her and others being their authentic selves 🩵🩷🤍
This will be my first holiday after coming out to family & being rejected & I wanted remind anyone LGBTQIA+ that if you have an unsupportive family your worth is not defined by what they say or how they treat you. Remember to check on your friends this holiday weekend❤️🏳️🌈
🌈Happy Pride Month!🏳️🌈
LOVE IS LOVE! Your sexuality, pronouns, gender identity are valid! To my fellow LGBTQIA+ reading this, Im glad you’re still here. You are strong, brave, & worthy of love & happiness. To those with hate for us, I truly hope you change your heart someday.
Last night a lurker said something for the first time in chat to redeem permanent pumpkin, a 50k channel point redemption where I write your name on the Pumpkin Patch pumpkin. They thanked me for being a safe cozy space for them & went back to lurking. That meant so much🥹
💜Lurker Appreciation Post💜
I had a first time chatter say hi & become chatty after being a shy lurker for over a year🥹As a socially anxious bean,it makes my heart happy people feel comfortable lurking in streams with no pressure to chat & also when they finally feel ready to💜
If your reaction to women sharing their struggles/experiences this month is “but men struggle too” Please stop & self reflect. Men trying to silence women’s voices is part of the problem. Also this should go without saying but trans women are women & also deserve to be celebrated
Never hesitate to make a decision to protect your community. No matter if they’re a mod, long time viewer, prominent community member, or friend (in this case it was all of the above) I will not hesitate to remove someone that makes my space unsafe. I’m feeling shocked and hurt😔
“Why do they need a whole month, why cant they just be gay & exist” But LGBTQIA+ have been asking that for decades. Why can’t we just exist? That’s why Pride is important, to bring awareness that we can’t just exist without hatred & having to fight for our right to simply exist🏳️🌈
If your reaction to a post about showing empathy & kindness to viewers while establishing boundaries is to get defensive & argue, maybe its time to self reflect & try to be a better person. Strange behavior to harass someone talking about the importance of caring for others
(2/2) Misuse of terms like trauma dumping & parasocial can do a lot of harm. Its fine to establish boundaries & we indeed aren’t therapists but showing empathy is still important. Talking about negative emotions is healthy. I can’t stand toxic positivity, it hurts people.
Being LGBTQIA+ is not a mental health issue but you know what is? Being obsessed with what’s in someone’s pants or who they want to be intimate with or love. We are just trying to exist, mind your business🏳️🌈
(4) don’t say anything at all & quietly see yourself out. I love my wife more than anything & she will always be the most important person in my life.🏳️⚧️💞
(3/3) channel point redemptions are happening, Im entertaining people, theres is SO MUCH multitasking that goes into streaming its not just playing a game 🫠
Opened my Twitch dms to this. Streamers/content creators please don’t do this. I’m no expert but this is not how you grow. Its off putting to pressure someone to follow back. If I like your content I’ll follow you. Empty follows do nothing for you.
(2) This is something she has struggled with since childhood but due to life & family circumstances she felt unable to come out & had given up but this past year the weight of it became unbearable & she opened up to me. I’m so glad she did & I’m extremely proud of her for being
✨Wifey Co-Stream!🏳️🌈👯♀️
Opening the new Pokemon set then my wife is joining me for time attacks and challenges together in Shadow of the Colossus!💜
🖤twitchtv/TabathaSabbatha🦇
(3) brave & deciding she needed to be her true self. I will he here to constantly remind her of how loved, supported, & valid she is. I don’t expect everyone in our lives to understand but I do expect everyone to be respectful & kind. If you can’t do that then…
(2/3) If I wasn’t streaming the game I would have zero issues playing it because I can concentrate but people don’t think about the fact that I’m talking to chat, reading walls of text and responding, alerts are going off, raids are happening…
Cuddled up with my wife to watch a new octopus documentary & she let me excitedly info dump about octopuses to my autistic little heart’s content💜 She’s the first person in my life to never make me feel bad/weird & happily listens when I info dump about my special interests🥹
Why do people(predominantly men) feel the need to sexualize streamers that are female,fem presenting & VTubers? Is it that hard to treat us with respect? I stream to make friends, have fun with my community & help others feel accepted & cared about, not to be grossly disrespected
busy but still want to support so we leave a lurk & besides all those reasons your support of another streamer should not depend on whether or not they’re in your streams as much as you’re in theirs. Support is not conditional. Watch the streamers you like & want to succeed
The holidays haven’t been easy especially after my wife and I came out to our families but so many of you have made it a little better. Thank you for being my chosen family this year. You have no idea what it has meant to me 🥺
**Update** My mother’s response was she will always love me *but* she is heartbroken & can never be ok with my “lifestyle” & that she’ll always see me as her daughter & my wife as her “son” which felt disrespectful & deliberate but I suppose it could have been worse? 😕
I finally came out to my parents which I did through text because I knew I’d stumble my words in a call. I cried as typed the message and felt nauseous when I hit send. It shouldn’t be this way…🧵
My wife is a big part of my streams. Shes an active mod, makes some of the funniest jokes in chat, & helps me with techy stuff. She’s a beautiful person with a beautiful heart & I love to show her off! If that deters people its people that come around for the wrong reasons anyway
I know that if I never mentioned that I had a husband on stream, I’d probably have a bigger following. But Drew is an important part of my life and I don’t like to hide or fake who I am and what I value for views. I’ve held this from Day 1 and it will not waver
How you make others feel about themselves says a lot about you. Lift people up, don’t tear them down. Kindness costs you nothing, but can be worth so much to someone💜
DBZ meant so much to me. Goku showed you can be kind & empathetic to others even if they aren’t so kind themselves, Vegeta that you can learn to care for others & grow as a person in spite of knowing only pain & anger. Bulma that you can be a strong intelligent woman. RIP Akira😢
Streamers, what would you do if you sent someone who had 10 viewers in their channel a raid of 90 and they reacted with “oh hey whats up” No thanks, no shoutout, didn’t even ask what you streamed or how was stream…I don’t expect a crazy reaction but damn that was off putting 😒
We had a great chat in stream last night about growing up autistic & not getting the care we needed from the schools &/or parents, being told to “try harder”, & being bullied. Something a chatter said really resonated with me “You’ve grown to be the adult you needed as a child”🥹
🌈Happy Pride!💖💛💙 Every pride is a reason for me to celebrate not having to hide who I am anymore. I had a lot of trauma & struggles growing up in a religious environment that took years to break free from & I’m proud to celebrate being Pansexual! 🏳️🌈✨
#pridemonth
#happypride
People want so much from us as content creators sometimes without considering what may be going on outside of streams or that some of us deal with depression, anxiety, etc…Nor do they consider all the time, work, & energy that we put in. Be kind, be patient. We are human too💜
My husband said he wants us to visit the funko pop store in Hollywood to get custom pops of ourselves so he can put one of me on his work desk & I had to try not to cry🥹
(4) I’m afraid of the heartache it might bring but I love & appreciate my chosen family who has been there for my wife & I. To those of you in our lives giving us your friendship, love, & support know you mean the world to me🥺
Well, I got follow botted tonight by over 1000 bots throughout my stream after being followed by someone called bestbots4you which I recommend banning. They redeemed a ‘say hello’ channel point redemption before the second attack and harassed me with follows throughout stream…
Supporting a streamer should never be conditional. Whether you’re a viewer who subs/donates or another streamer showing up/raiding. While support doesn’t go unappreciated, it doesn’t mean we owe you. Support people because you genuinely like them and enjoy their content💜
Funny how the people baselessly accusing the LGBTQIA+ community of bringing harm to children are usually the ones you actually need to worry about. The projection is loud ☕️
My wife hit me in the feels today when she saw my creator Twitch recap and told me how happy it makes her seeing all my hard work pay off and that she’s proud of me 🥹
Mothers Day can be a difficult & complicated day for myself & so many others in the LGBTQIA+ who have been rejected, estranged from, or mistreated by our mothers which is why chosen family is so important. Sending love to others that may also be hurting today🌈🩷
I had way too many mutuals with this page. I want to make it clear that if you follow pages dedicated to homophobia, transphobia, racism, misogyny, or POS like andr3wtate, n1ckmerc, jkr0wling, I want nothing to do with you🗑️
Wifey co stream! Im unboxing the new Pokémon set then my wife is joining me for lego rose crafting and playing a silly game called A Difficult Game About Climbing ✨
💜twitchtv/TabathaSabbatha🦇