Elle, She/Her | Transfeminist | Bi |
Allergic to anyone using AFAB/AMAB to describe themselves | Blocking instantly if you annoy me, idc | Insta ts_olympia
There's no trans liberation as long as there's a single trans woman stuck in a men prison. C!s people calling us male and finding new woke way to misgender us every week are actively participating into that cycle of sexual crime against humanity perpetuaded against our sisters π§΅
Transsexual sounds cooler, scares c!s people and is fun to say. Also it represents way more the relationship between my body and my gender than transgender. I'm not only transing my gender, I'm also transing my sex by taking hormones.
@clockyGoddess
Absolutely real. It does change your sex, like that's the point. To better align your sex with your gender. But we have to coddle c!s liberal "allies" who keep saying "you can't change your sex" and the few non transitionner who feel targeted when people WANT hrt
These types of socialisation arguments specifically make me so irritationably annoyed. Pushing that is actively erasing our childhood experiences and traumas. Almost no trans women have traditional male socialisation, but that would require actually talking to trans women to know
Elizabeth, NIST Standard Catgirl π΅πΈπ³οΈβππ³οΈββ§οΈ
@An_Aria_Blooms
Those AGAB essentialist can't avoid being misogynistic in the end. Obviously they mean afab as in women and amab as in men, just drapping that into "woke" language to appear progressive. And yet in the same breath they say that "afabs" are smol bean and won't use long words or
, whether they realise it or not.
You gotta realise that even if that was true, all that "male stuff", I would still advocate to erase it from our language. You don't have to connect trans women to men. We know why you're doing it and why you insist on doing it again and again.
@GayOliveGarden
You opened by third eye or something with that holy shit. Just make up a new one which will never have the power to make your heart jump when you hear it, that's amazing
@benjanun_s
@JoyMoone
AGAB terminology and it's popularisation was a disaster for the trans community. Literally giving tools to oppress trans women to people who already hate us
It would still be morally wrong, because not everything happen in a vacuum
So, really, the fact that it's also factually untrue is just the cherry on the top.
Those crimes are not a secret, mainstream medias like freaking cnn cover them from time to time. C!s people just
violent men's sex toy and paraded as rewards for good behaviour.
This is obviously fail that account that, in many cases, being a trans poc existing in public is already considered a crime by Amerikkka. The vast vast majority of your sisters didn't do anything to warrant being
put in those situation, but the prison system relies on coerced sexual labor and who better to give it than women you barely think of as human being?
You're not my ally if you're not radically opposed to putting trans women into men's prison, no exception. If I don't hear you
talking about it, as a cis person, I'll assume you're enabling it.
I don't care about your arguments "but if someone lies, they could get to women prison, could deceive blablabla", this is not happening and even if it did, none of it justifies V-coding. No compromise, period.
I'm actively changing how my body looks and function so that it better conforms to the idea I have of my gender. And that's pretty fucking cool that we're able to hack our biology like that and I want to be able to refer to it.
@Emmmmmaaaaaaa__
You could stop reading at 20F / 35M and it would already be obvious where the problem is but the rest makes it even more clear how most older men who date young women are just trying to groom them into their perfect sex toy.
I would still be in the closet if it wasn't for hormones. I would never have tried to be trans without being able to change my body, because that's what is making my dysphoria better. Not just changing names, pronouns and clothing.
Who's surprised? Most transphobic men are like that. The transphobia often come from a weird self hatred for being attracted to us. Very weird but very very very common.
@An_Aria_Blooms
@mazeppa_waltzes
It feels immensely more bio essentialist too. Because you can change your genitals, so you can espace those sets of beliefs a some point if you want. But you can't change your AGAB, ever. Everything is reduced to that primary essence, ignoring every other factors.
that... that is what being transgender is? you can never fully change your sex. stop fuckin straw manning
no, sex is not the same as gender, sex is physical, gender is a social construct. I say this as a gender fluid person, i will never be female, but i'm still a woman
@StarGazerMAYA
@Sinister_Sophia
I'm not doing the "pronouns in bio" shit. As you can see, I only mentionned "he/him" pronouns.
This is because I'm a misandrist, so I'm not really surprised when men have shit take, because I expect nothing but the worst from there. Hope that helps!
They/them communist LARPer who's c!s passing and don't experience even 1% of what a trans woman does on a daily basis is complaining some of them want to leave the country...
You're not entitled to the lives of my sisters to fuel your revolution kink roleplay.
@CaelanConrad
Retributive justice is so disgusting. Everyone just forget that "an eye for an eye" ends with the whole world blind. It's so gross to rejoice for someone to be sexually assaulted. Unsurprisingly, it's mostly men being happy about it...
@Faerynnistired
Men loooove centering themselves and acting like finding their behaviour creepy is a character flaw. Men stay men, whether cis or trans.
@everchangiing
@JoyMoone
Saying "you don't love your gf" is not "boundaries". You don't have to use therapy speak you know?
You didn't say "I don't like that and don't want it", you said "if you do that you don't love your gf". It's two different things.
@microwave_user
Just got the first consultation for, hopefully, a surgery at the start of 2026. Honestly it's kinda scary because what you're saying is pretty much what everyone I know who did it have been saying, but also I'm so determined to do it now like damn
I know people love shitting on trans kids so it's not surprising those type of argument erasing the possibility of trans identity in childhood. Even if you weren't conscious of being trans, it affected you. I didn't know, but apparently everyone else knew and I'm not
@espair_d40526
@BennieDotGay
Bro your whole account is dedicated to being a reply guy to trans women. You think about trans dick more than all of us combined.
Just be honest with yourself at that point.
Can we like, stop doing that kind of stuff? I don't care what any trans woman does, I don't care about how horrible you think they are, stop trying to exile and isolate them. You're way more deserving of that ridiculous punishment when you try to do that actually. It's crazy.
Make sure to mark these two as red and block them. These two self hating trans girls have been hating on trans men, enbies, lesbians, and anyone who uses neopronouns. π¬π¬π¬ Sad to see a few people I follow mistakenly follow them and somehow they've managed to get marked green.
@bloomfilters
I mean yeah, none of those t/rfs are actually lesbians or know any lesbians. They're just using them as tokens. Butch women are the ones constantly getting transvestigated by those weirdos.
@judgementshae
True!! My bf is openly bi and is the most respectful man I've ever slept with and dated. He did SW for men and is always trying to one up me on misandry. He flicks me very hard every time I say I'm not a woman, he's perfect, a c!shet woman would not deserve him ever.
People who complain about being blocked by the people they're arguing with is hilarious to me. Like this just shows how terminally online you are when blocking is such a great sin.
Nah bitch, all of this isn't real. I wanna scroll in peace, if you're annoying you're blocked.
@An_Aria_Blooms
reference politics. Like come on, wtf is that misogyny stuff. Men use big word because smart and talk politics because patriarch but women talk smol bean word and use "!!!" because emotional and don't talk politics because they stay in the kitchen!
God I hate "afab/amab" so much
This is such an absolutely bonkers take. You can only say that if you are yourself so privileged that you never came across trans women irl (or just don't go outside, which is probably the case here). I don't think I know one trans woman irl who's an actual bourgeoise...
@Sinister_Sophia
@BernieSanders
No you don't get it, state sanctioned violence against specific groups is cool and chill but violence against individuals who promote said state sanctioned violence is bad because it's better when people just die without defending themselves.
@ratlimit
I'm French and I can confirm. There's a whole ritual each year to choose the musky woman from hundreds of candidates and it's a very prestigious cultural role.
We're not talking enough about how pervasive it is that when trans women complain about transmisogyny in the queer community it gets called "discourse"
This is just rhetoric to make it sound like "hysterical women complaining about nothin" and not women calling out legit problems
Especially because in 99% of cases, it's not based on a real trans woman, it's just what's in their head. The problem is that it informs us of how they see trans women and in turn they influence each other with those representation
There's nothing wrong with being a trans woman with facial hair. It's even pretty rad that you don't feel dysphoria by keeping them, like damn you go girl. It doesn't make you less of a woman, it even exposes you even more if you present fem.
@ratlimit
God all the "welcome to womanhood" stuff is so bad. It's level 0 feminism. It's going "yeah it is what it is" at stuff that you should make you angry and infuriated. What do these people answer when it's their c!s women friend telling them that? "Sorry it will happen again?"
Hi everyone! I've launched a gofundme to help cover an important expense for me. I get into the details in the post but basically it's a relatively small amount of money which would help cover all my therapy for the last 3 months where I have 0 income.
Me when I don't understand intersectionality and also don't understand how systems of oppression work (I never go outside and spend my time online so I think that individual violence is the oppressive force itself and not a symptom of an existing system of oppression working)
HRT should be considered as just another type of body mod, even for c!s people. The only reason it isn't is because people are ignorant and society is based on a rigid bio essentialist binary created to reinforce power dynamics between genders.
@mahoganyiswood
@checkria
I mean this just goes to show that you don't interact with trans women, ever Especially trans women like her, who are tttt brainwormed and/or very dysphoric.
My girlfriend saying that she's a man when she feels dysphoric is not an expression of being nb, she just feels like shit
I'm honestly starting to agree with the people who say that people don't want to see us transition because they want to still be able to differentiate us from cis women to fetishize us as a kind of "soft men", "safe masculine", "comfort masculinity" type beats.
transitioning is more non-conformist than not transitioning.
you baby queers are being stupid. not transitioning is literally the most conservative and regressive position you can take.
There's also nothing inherently wrong with drawing trans women with facial hair, especially when a real trans woman is used a model.
But there is a problem when TME people keep ONLY creating and drawing that kind of representation.
@benjanun_s
This is one of the most disgusting thing I've ever read. Idk how she managed to be even more vomit inducing than GCs but she did it for sure... π€’
@Sinister_Sophia
Yeah kinda sad about this take from Jess, it's pretty bad when you know that trans men will easily be as rancid as c!s men. Having suffered doesn't mean they will magically be better than c!s men, they need to work to keep it. Just read the work of trans men like Tal Medesta and
Another proof that we call trans women "AGP" for normal things that c!s women also do all the time.
"AGP" is just pseudoscience used to bring down every happy trans women, because being trans should be an experience of suffering or something stupid like that.
In early transition days I hung out with some really boring people. I told one of them I love the way lingerie looks on me and that it makes me feel so pretty. They told me that I shouldnβt feel that way because it was agp or something. Thatβs when I realized she wasnβt a friend.
Trans women are not "feminine AMABs". We're women. Femboys are men, they're the "feminine AMABs". I don't feel targeted when people insult femboys, because I'm a woman.
You're using AGAB language as a way to call trans women men but in a woke way. You're a transmisogynist π
@nocturnallisms
@ahhbodybang
trans women are feminine AMABs, just as femboys are. therefore by insulting femboys, she's also insulting trans women. that's transmisogyny
Real, and any type of transfem. You can think of yourself as the least passing girl idc as long as you live as trans. You can't pretend to talk about how being trans is when you don't live as trans.
And it's okay to not want to, just don't talk over those who actually live it.
Michael Ann DeVito, PhD (she/her) π³οΈβπ π³οΈββ§οΈ
When it comes to theorizing on transfem topics, I would argue that lived experience as a transfem in the world is a pretty crucial analytical tool. A required one, even.
@OatMilkZombie
Yeah it's not like it's a secret or anything. You can Google it and easily find only that medical organisation are actively wondering why it happens, have some hypothesis on it and call for more research on the subject. People are just transmisogynists.
@Sinister_Sophia
I don't get why trans men don't want to be recognised as men.
I mean, they want to be seen and perceived as men but we must also not think of them as men outside that? It's crazy.
Trans men are men, that's all
@An_Aria_Blooms
Thank you, I thought I was going crazy when I saw that post yesterday. Like in what world do allies give us a lot of vocal support? Does that guy think c!ssies saying "trans women are women" is support and allyship??
If I had a nickel for every girl I met that I mesh really well with that also turns out to be a misandrist, I'd have at least a dollar which isn't a lot but it's weird it's happened so many times.
Oh no, someone who believe misandry is a problem thinks I'm an idiot, what shall I do?
Some queers get all their politics from twitter and tumblr and we can tell.
@JoyMoone
Exactly. And we're the first one to receive comments about "not putting enough efforts into being a woman" by the same people who say that we're reinforcing gender stereotypes. A more masculine trans woman will get mocked, but we can't be feminine either? We can never win.
Why do c!s she/they always have the most horrid takes, peppered with "ASAB" essentialist language to make it sound woke when it's just the same old transmisogyny?
Like, why do they even think their opinion matter? Can't they just shut the fuck up?
@benjanun_s
Okay I get what you're saying but is there anything wrong with getting off that kind of sex slavery CNC stuff? It's pretty close to petplay without the pet aspect. I do see what you mean tho, we often have those talks with friends about how cis men really into domming are weird
Being a trans women is fluctuating between "People should pay to even get a glance of my body" and "tttt is right I'm a gigahon and I should 41% right now".
@shipsposting
Everyone in that thread defending this weirdo and spamming "that person" "they" like come on, y'all are way too transparent about this shit